Help me present evidence to my son

one big one you have ignored is in the article I copied to you

you just can’t handle the truth

Ok, there is fear and anger now on all sides but it need not be. A lot is engendered by anti trans ideologues not backing with actual evidence or very small statistical evidence.

I would hate to be in the ladies with men even cd TVs but trans women are women with or without a chemically castrated willy or with orchectomy. Most can’t get erections and don’t want them. Most are waiting 6-10 years for gender identity healthcare and have to live in the role for at least two years to be believed so how can they use the men’s loo where they will be attacked?

Ok, there is fear and anger now on all sides but it need not be. A lot is engendered by anti trans ideologues not backing with actual evidence or very small statistical evidence.

I would hate to be in the ladies with men even cd TVs but trans women are women with or without a chemically castrated willy or with orchectomy. Most can’t get erections and don’t want them. Most are waiting 6-10 years for gender identity healthcare and have to live in the role for at least two years to be believed so how can they use the men’s loo where they will be attacked?

Ok, there is fear and anger now on all sides but it need not be. A lot is engendered by anti trans ideologues not backing with actual evidence or very small statistical evidence.

I would hate to be in the ladies with men even cd TVs but trans women are women with or without a chemically castrated willy or with orchectomy. Most can’t get erections and don’t want them. Most are waiting 6-10 years for gender identity healthcare and have to live in the role for at least two years to be believed so how can they use the men’s loo where they will be attacked?

i think i might be a bit more comfortable with this because i'm based in brighton most of the time, but its not unusual to have toilets marked "urinals", "toilet"(single cubicles), "womens"
that doesn't tend to cause upset because the men tend to use the urinals (and any TW/non-binary if they have a penis) and if women are concerned about TW using the women's then they also have the option of the single cubicles or if they dont have an issue then you can queue up in the women's with everyone. I dunno, it works in Brighton, ive never known anyone be annoyed by it. Lots of LGBTQ clubs also just have toilets for everyone, pretty easy in a club where there's an attendant present all night.

Same as some gyms have 3 changing rooms for men, women and anyone (the "anyone" is also single cubicles off a corridor)

i think it can be done quite sensitively if there's some thought put in?

Absolutely. It's to do with protecting the rights, privacy, dignity and safety of women and girls. That includes the women and girls who do not feel empowered or knowledgeable to speak out on this subject, and the women and girls who perhaps can't articulate why, but they know it's not right.

So you think I should waste my own time combing through JK Rowling's Twitter feed looking for tweets which might explain why you think she is transphobic, rather than you actually linking to the tweets you think are transphobic and explaining why you think they are transphobic?

Why is your time more valuable than mine?

If you are going to make a serious allegation about someone and claim that the evidence is on the internet for all to see, you need to show us that evidence or pipe down.

So you think I should waste my own time combing through JK Rowling's Twitter feed looking for tweets which might explain why you think she is transphobic, rather than you actually linking to the tweets you think are transphobic and explaining why you think they are transphobic?

Why is your time more valuable than mine?

If you are going to make a serious allegation about someone and claim that the evidence is on the internet for all to see, you need to show us that evidence or pipe down.

I’m sorry you think that it is acceptable to spread hate and fear. It’s nothing to do with toilets.

Hang on a second, I asked you to explain why her tweet about the Algerian boxer was transphobic and you've linked me to some Sky News piece about India Willoughby which predates yesterday's fight by almost five months.

Are you confused?

Please explain, in your own words, why you think her tweet about the Algerian boxer is transphobic.

waffle? I’m not sure. I avoid X but the direct quote is there you just will never stop arguing about your heroine when the real point is that the issues are not being sensibly discussed

you are a waste of time I don’t have

Fear into MEN everywhere that'll be.

It would be helpful if you could link to her actual tweets, rather than a load of waffle about what India Willoughby has said about her tweets without any context, such as the original video.

Can you do that, or are you blocked by JK Rowling on Twitter?

Get someone responsible to read this article to you

https://news.sky.com/story/jk-rowling-trans-newsreader-india-willoughby-calls-comments-by-harry-potter-author-grotesque-transphobia-13087709

Ive answered this elsewhere but every time she calls trans women misogynistic or male fantasists that instilled misery and fear in trans women everywhere

https://news.sky.com/story/jk-rowling-trans-newsreader-india-willoughby-calls-comments-by-harry-potter-author-grotesque-transphobia-13087709

you ain’t looking hard enough and you’ll still argue after reading this

OK, so for ease of reference, this is the tweet you're objecting to, is it?

Why is it transphobic?

Explain it like I'm five.

I certainly have not seen you post any of her allegedly transphobic tweets in this thread.

The reason you haven't done so is because you can't. If you could, you would.

https://variety.com/2024/tv/news/jk-rowling-imane-khelif-olympics-boxer-gender-controversy-angela-carini-1236092812/amp/

it’s her favourite word for anything gender variant

When has she called trans women, as a category, misogynistic? Link, please.

Or has she accused individuals of being misogynistic? In which case, please link to an example so we can assess the circumstances in which she said it.

It's not transphobic to call someone out for being misogynistic if they are being misogynistic. Even if that person happens to identify as trans.

What is a lie? Why add that and cross it off.

Have you or have you not seen all her tweets and comments saying trans women are misogynistic and male fantasists and misgendering them and that trans women are not women and do you deny her sponsorship of legal action to destroy trans rights??? There a dozens go look if you are really interested.