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SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:48

So why not start a thread about the CSEW (which they themselves say aren't reliable) figures?!

No, the CSEW says only one set of figures - those ending Mar 22- are not official stats because they only cover six months. All the rest of the numbers for all the years from 1987-2021 are official stats and are reliable.

CSEW is always more reliable than police crime data.

EasternStandard · 23/07/2024 17:47

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:25

No, you don’t have that. I’m looking at the ONS and I am not seeing any epidemic of violence. The statistics show violent incidents have decreased from 4.5 million in 1995 to 1.5 million in 2022 (per latest ONS release)

So what is the basis of saying it is an emergency?

If it were 1994, then it would be an emergency, but today? With a trend line that is like a black diamond ski slope down ?

Edited

Haven’t rtft but wondering why this chart seems to go against reports

Will read and see what’s going on

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:45

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:41

So why not start a thread about the CSEW (which they themselves say aren't reliable) figures?!

The article is about the police and reported crimes.

So for instance there doesn't seem to be any indication of the difference in numbers between reported crimes of violence and the number that reach court and (particularly in relation to rape) the number of convictions.

This thread is about VAWG and how it is an “emergency” based on a Guardian article that uses mostly unexplained estimates with a few police data points to give the impression that VAWG is at an epidemic and increasing.

The CSEW official statistics are relevant to this because they don’t support the Guardian article at all. They are in direct opposition.

How can I agree with a journalist that such an epidemic and emergency exists when they haven’t presented any reliable data to support?

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 17:42

PeppercornMill · 23/07/2024 14:49

Obviously when stuff like this comes up people will look at all different factors.

Labour's response to this previously (when looking at Labour's Mayor or London) has been to run adverts asking men not to do stuff; the "Maaate" adverts, the "starring is a sexual offence" adverts, and not a lot actual measures put in place like more security at stations etc. It seems that the only men receptive to the messaging were the decent men who weren't/aren't sexual offenders, whilst the actual offenders just ignored the messaging.

My concern with doing lessons in schools, would be that the truant children who most likely would go on to be sexually aggressive won't actually be there to get the lessons and you do run the risk of resentment from others.

I think there's got to be a better way to through to those who will go on to offend.

I suppose as people have said it's a lack of role models, and I think it's more productive to give people examples of how to behave instead of how not to behave. Be positive, not negative.

It's not unusual for children to go through primary school without coming across any male teachers, and for boys from single parent families that's quite a miss.

Telling people stuff doesn't work. It doesn't change their reality. Chances are they won't believe it, but even if they do, it does nothing to create actual changes in the person listening. If a person knows something is a problem, and does it anyway, either they don't care, or something is preventing them doing the right thing (probably something internal.)

They need to have different experiences, see different examples, and have different beliefs systems to create change.

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:41

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:38

Well yes, the ONS repeatedly states the police crime data is not reliable for trend analysis because of changes in reporting, changes in how they count crimes and changes in laws.

The police crime data are not official statistics, as they only count reported crimes, the CSEW is more reliable and are official statistics because it is anonymous. It is well known many segments of society will not report crime to the police.

So why not start a thread about the CSEW (which they themselves say aren't reliable) figures?!

The article is about the police and reported crimes.

So for instance there doesn't seem to be any indication of the difference in numbers between reported crimes of violence and the number that reach court and (particularly in relation to rape) the number of convictions.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:38

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:33

Yes, but the report that these articles are talking about are the police figures.

Obviusly there is a different conversation to be had about why there is a difference between those report / recorded as a crime and those compiled on household surveys to provide an estimate.

Well yes, the ONS repeatedly states the police crime data is not reliable for trend analysis because of changes in reporting, changes in how they count crimes and changes in laws.

The police crime data are not official statistics, as they only count reported crimes, the CSEW is more reliable and are official statistics because it is anonymous. It is well known many segments of society will not report crime to the police.

"Violence against women a ‘national emergency’ in England and Wales"
"Violence against women a ‘national emergency’ in England and Wales"
TempestTost · 23/07/2024 17:36

Keepingcosy · 23/07/2024 12:18

And also dad's need to step up within their families. I 100% agree about with you re boys needing strong role models - I would argue a strong male role model.

I've seen this myself, as in, the lack of strong male role model, a number of times, leaving wayward boys to their own devices. Just lacking crucial guidance.

Many dads leave it all to mums because it suits them - they can't be arsed or are socialised into thinking it's the mother's role to do all the parenting.

This is true, but it does require both parents to be committed. Mums are also implicated in relationship problems.

The problem there is, it's really hard to have a solid parenting relationship with someone when your romantic relationship broke down. They aren't usually totally independent things. It takes a lot of self-restraint. And when things are bad, it does tend to mean the fathers back off, not just because of their own comfort but because it starts to affect the kids.

Tbh I think the main solution to this is not to have kids with someone you don't think you can have a solid relationship with long term. Which for a lot of people means, don't have sex with people you couldn't see yourself parenting with.

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:36

The report found child sexual abuse and exploitation has surged by more than 400 per cent between 2013 and 2022.

I dont know which is more depressing that it has really increased that much, or whether it indicates that more young people are prepared to report abuse.

Sad

The chart below actually belongs with my post above about the increase is sexual violence. But again this may reflect a greater willingness to report that an increase in attacks.

"Violence against women a ‘national emergency’ in England and Wales"
Signalbox · 23/07/2024 17:34

The immigration thing is interesting and there’s a discussion over on Twitter atm where those raising the possibility that immigration from countries where women are not treated as human might contribute to higher violence against women are being called racist because “it’s male violence that is the issue and not race”.

What I genuinely don’t understand (and perhaps someone can help me out) is if mvawg is considered to be a social issue that can be improved via education / reduction of access to porn / and generally changing male attitudes towards women then surely those men who have come from countries where attitudes towards women are far far worse than here (Afganistan / Iran etc.) are more likely to treat women less well than someone who was born and raised here or someone who comes from another country where women are treated relatively well. Otherwise aren’t we just saying that male violence is endemic everywhere and there’s nothing to be done about it?

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:33

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:15

if you look at the actualy figures, domestic violence has decreased in the last year of so.

the latest CSEW says no change in domestic violence since 2020.
”The number of victims of stranger violence fell by 43% compared with the Crime Survey for England and Wales (CSEW) year ending March 2020, while there was no change in the number of victims of acquaintance and domestic violence.”

The big and unpleasant fact is the increase in sexual violence….

ONS says no significant change in sexual assault either. See image

Yes, but the report that these articles are talking about are the police figures.

Obviusly there is a different conversation to be had about why there is a difference between those report / recorded as a crime and those compiled on household surveys to provide an estimate.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:25

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 17:22

Oh gosh, have we got an "NAMALT" going on?

VAWG is a huge problem. Please don't try to minimise it.

No, you don’t have that. I’m looking at the ONS and I am not seeing any epidemic of violence. The statistics show violent incidents have decreased from 4.5 million in 1995 to 1.5 million in 2022 (per latest ONS release)

So what is the basis of saying it is an emergency?

If it were 1994, then it would be an emergency, but today? With a trend line that is like a black diamond ski slope down ?

"Violence against women a ‘national emergency’ in England and Wales"
CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 17:22

Oh gosh, have we got an "NAMALT" going on?

VAWG is a huge problem. Please don't try to minimise it.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:18

Omlettes · 23/07/2024 17:11

According to you its not the internet and not immigration so
could it be, I dont know, bear with me now...MEN?
www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/jun/04/met-chief-says-millions-of-men-are-danger-to-women-and-girls-in-england-and-wales

If your “it” refers to the prevalence of violence, then yes it mostly male violence, but everything I am seeing on ONS official stats and not mysterious Guardian estimates says that violence overall has significantly decreased by two thirds since 1995. So hooray MEN for being less violent.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:15

if you look at the actualy figures, domestic violence has decreased in the last year of so.

the latest CSEW says no change in domestic violence since 2020.
”The number of victims of stranger violence fell by 43% compared with the Crime Survey for England and Wales (CSEW) year ending March 2020, while there was no change in the number of victims of acquaintance and domestic violence.”

The big and unpleasant fact is the increase in sexual violence….

ONS says no significant change in sexual assault either. See image

"Violence against women a ‘national emergency’ in England and Wales"
itwasalittlelikethis · 23/07/2024 17:15

In my personal experience this is very true.

Omlettes · 23/07/2024 17:12

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 17:09

On that note, I also wonder about steroids. Having a gym body seems to be the fashion now so I wonder if more men are using them.

YES
Its been an issue for decades, how can you have missed 'Roid rage"?

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Omlettes · 23/07/2024 17:11

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:08

Agree, it can’t be immigrants as violent crime has dropped significantly from its peak in 1995 to today while immigration has increased significantly since 1995.

According to you its not the internet and not immigration so
could it be, I dont know, bear with me now...MEN?
www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/jun/04/met-chief-says-millions-of-men-are-danger-to-women-and-girls-in-england-and-wales

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CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 17:09

On that note, I also wonder about steroids. Having a gym body seems to be the fashion now so I wonder if more men are using them.

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 17:09

Cocaine is awful and seems to have got quite affordable.
Maybe there needs to be a grown up conversation about how to tackle it. It appears we have effective decriminalisation at the moment which is the worst of both worlds IMO.

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:08

Not sure if it is in the Guardian report but if you look at the actualy figures, domestic violence has decreased in the last year of so. (I first became aware of this when Women's Aid etc., no longer said 2 women a week were victims of domestic violence.)

The big and unpleasant fact is the increase in sexual violence and the level of violence in teenage boys.

And no it has nothing to do with boys growing up with single mothers.

It is about the culture of the boys as groups or gangs.

Whether this is learnt behaviour from pornography, or Andrew Tate or whatever eg Donal Trump's language and some rap, this is what influences boys.

And I doubt even if there is the so called "male figure" to provide a better role model, we know this is just an empty statement, because just like the increase in knife crime amongst increasingly young boys, they only listen to each other.

When you think that Scotland (not exactly a role model to refer to!)) actually has a law that says young men up to the age of 25 aren't mature enough to know that committing a sex crime is wrong, then we need to be looking a a society where safeguards are put in place because of that threat to women and girls.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:08

RethinkingLife · 23/07/2024 16:56

"immigrants who think women and girls are nothing"

Do you have any surveys or statistics that describe what the relative proportions are for people who espouse that attitude for "immigrants" vs the comparator population of people who live in the UK?

Agree, it can’t be immigrants as violent crime has dropped significantly from its peak in 1995 to today while immigration has increased significantly since 1995.

Omlettes · 23/07/2024 17:07

RethinkingLife · 23/07/2024 09:57

Adding in this:

Pilots find high levels of drug use in domestic abuse offenders
Drug testing highlights cocaine as exacerbating factor in domestic abuse incidents
A number of police forces have been drug testing individuals arrested for domestic abuse offences as part of a pilot to establish perpetrator profiles and offender rehabilitation opportunities to protect victims.
Anecdotally, the use of cocaine and alcohol have been highlighted as exacerbating factors in domestic abuse offences, and the results from pilots in seven police forces have demonstrated significant evidence to support this. In one area, nearly 85 per cent (127/150) of domestic abuse offenders arrested and drug tested, were positive for cocaine and/or opiates and overall across the pilot forces, 59 per cent of those tested were positive for cocaine and/or opiates.
Mark Lay is the National Police Chiefs’ Council Drugs Coordinator Lead. He said:
“Violent behaviours are clinically associated with cocaine use so while the results of the pilots are not particularly surprising, the high percentage of offenders testing positive was more than we had anticipated.
“We know there are many reasons behind domestic abuse offending, and drug use, while not a causal factor, can make it more extreme or frequent. These pilots help us to develop a more detailed picture of perpetrators to safeguard victims and potential victims, while making sure we signpost offenders to the most appropriate treatment programmes.
“The results also show how shockingly widespread the use of cocaine is in many communities which could indicate the need for legislative change in regards to mandatory drug testing on arrest for a much wider array of offences.”
Assistant Commissioner Louisa Rolfe is National Police Chiefs’ Council Lead for Domestic Abuse. She said:
“It wouldn’t be right to say that drug use turns anyone into an abuser, but we do know it can make existing offenders behave in a more extreme and aggressive manner.
“This evidence around the links between drug use and domestic abuse offending can help us to better manage perpetrators and protect victims, building on our work around perpetrator profiles. It also enables us to identify opportunities for drug treatment services in perpetrator programmes which could help prevent reoffending.”
Farah Nazeer is Chief Executive of Women’s Aid. She said:
“Domestic abuse is driven by the perpetrator’s desire for power and control, as well as by the inequality between men and women, and it is important to remember that drugs, including cocaine, do not cause domestic abuse.
“However, as demonstrated by this study, there is a link between domestic abuse and drug use, which can make pre-existing violence and abuse more severe. This study highlights that we need to understand how other forms of harm, such as drugs, interlink with domestic abuse - and how this can help improve protection and support for survivors.”

https://news.npcc.police.uk/releases/police-pilots-find-high-levels-of-drug-use-in-domestic-abuse-offenders

It absolutely amazes me that the influence of cocaine, its affect on behaviour and reaction is ignored in so many social ills currently.
It appears to be endemic.
There was resounding silence when coke was found in Parliment.
Where is the national conversationon its effects on peoples health judgement and behaviour, on its environmental impact
on the country it was grown in
and its distribution and ensuing corruption and murders.

And that the link between cocaine and aggression seems to have been memory holed since the 70s and 80s
And wth are all the supposedly educated middle classes doing snorting it in industrial scales.
Aping tv pretending they are Al Pacino or Bateman.

Its not weed or lsd were you contemplate your psychic navel, or smack where you knock yourself into a haze
Of all the drugs , cocaine was the one for hard physical labour at high altitude not dinner party chit chat.

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SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 17:02

LunaNorth · 23/07/2024 09:04

The unfettered internet has created a dystopia. Action needs to be taken, now.

It can’t be the internet as violent crime dropped from 4.5 million incidents in 1995 to 1.5 million incidents in 2022.

If the internet has any influence on violent crime, it would be a preventative one.

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 17:00

UpThePankhurst · 23/07/2024 16:14

There is a serious problem with children of primary age being violent at home towards parents and siblings, often dangerously so, and often starting at an early age. Parents often are at the end of their tether with this, and the behaviours are often not seen at school. Because of the lack of help or any purposeful addressing, the entitlement is set at an early age that the child is the controller of the household, and their behaviour very effectively corporally punishes any behaviours they dislike from parents or siblings. Often to the point where the household is controlled by walking on eggshells around the child.

That's going to transfer straight over to dating relationships as soon as the child is old enough. It's confirmed and set as unthinking habit and belief of self power over others: If you upset me I am entitled to threaten and hurt you until you do what I want.

Yes.
It is impossible to get any support for this too. Much of this in my opinion is related to the effects of austerity and lack of support from professionals for parents that are struggling.
And it's not as simple as saying the parents aren't doing it right. Dealing with violence from children is very hard.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 23/07/2024 16:57

The Guardian article mostly used very high estimates without saying how these estimates were calculated.

The stats it does use refer to police recorded incidents but the latest ONS CSEW states the recent increase in police recorded incidents are due to better reporting of violent crime, not an increase in crime.

“Recording improvements have driven rises in violent crime recorded by the police
In contrast to the long-term downward trend of Crime Survey for England and Wales (CSEW) violence, police recorded violent crime has increased between the year ending March 2013 and the year ending March 2022, with 2.1 million violent offences recorded in the latest year (Appendix tables, year ending June 2022). This was the highest in a 12-month period since the introduction of the National Crime Recording Standard (NCRS) in April 2002. These increases are thought to be driven largely by improvements in police recording practices. For more information on recording improvements and comparing police recorded violence and CSEW violence estimates, see section 10.”

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