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Wtf Meghan Murphy

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CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 13:42

A feminist I used to really admire, deciding pussy grabbing, porn loving, convicted felon Trump and his misogynistic, fickle, anti abortion, running mate Vance are the best choice for American women.

https://x.com/MeghanEMurphy/status/1814817323754381763

Feminists/'feminist' men keep insisting to me that @JDVance1 is a misogynist who wants to 'take away women's rights' yet Trump/Vance are the only choice if we wish to restore women's sex-based rights in America (never mind the fact that Vance is anti-p*rn). I am not a fan of letting the government have any say over what women do with their bodies, but 'abortion rights' have for decades been used as a pawn in political games, and women keep letting themselves be played.

Voting Democrat solely because they'll let you have an abortion while they allow all the rest of our sex-based rights to be destroyed seems unwise to me. Women need to take their bodily autonomy into their own hands imo — this means we need to learn about and educate other women about their bodies and reproductive system, so we aren't relying on the government to dole out hormonal birth control (which is HORRIBLE for us) and dictate our reproductive choices. It's far from an ideal situation, but I resent being told I must vote for a party that can't even define the word 'woman' because they'll allow women to have abortions. That gives me the icks and should give you the icks as well.

I don't believe we should be handing over our power to governments, and the more we understand about our own bodies, the power of food/herbal medicine, the less we need to rely on the state or the medical establishment to allow us bodily autonomy and pretend to be invested in our health and wellbeing.

I do think we should fight against anyone/any laws that tell us what we may or may not do with our bodies, but the Democrats are not the party of body sovereignty either, so I'm not sure why women give them that credit.

I'm not sure what's going on with her but this is a huge shock. Very glad I'm not in the States right now.

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https://x.com/MeghanEMurphy/status/1814817323754381763

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Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 10:54

KielderWater · 23/07/2024 10:02

Just imagine calling yourself a feminist and putting in power someone who locks women up in communal cells with convicted serial rapists resulting in many of them being raped and the rest living in fear of it, who makes it illegal for girls to object to getting undressed in front of men, who destroys women’s sports, who pushes the idea that women are merely a selection of harmful stereotypes?

i don't disagree with you, those things also are against women. I just can't see how you can call yourself a feminist and advocate for a proven predator in power who believes restricting womens access to healthcare is ok.

neither side in US politics is feminist friendly. It's dog shit.

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 10:49

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 10:40

Well Cassie, I think it's because most people don't think it's ok to kill a child because the mum does not want it, or the household might not be ideal, or adoption might be in the cards.

Whether it's a late termination or infanticide immediately after birth, you are talking about an infant at the same stage, with the same capacities.

I wondered before, do you really not understand that if people are taught that it is morally ok to kill an infant at term, that many will believe it and it will happen - it's been quite common historically. Because it seemed like you believed that no one would ever do such a thing.

It seems that in fact you do understand that, you just think it's ok.

Yes I really think it won't happen. Because our biology is such that women won't be pregnant for 8.5 months then capriciously decide they can't be arsed. It's a complete straw man though because barely anywhere allows unrestricted abortion up until term. And there is a vested interest from anti-abortion campaigners to focus on the extremes to restrict all rules. This is not my first rodeo and I really cba debating it with a pro lifer.

Do you really believe the only reason humans behave in certain ways is because they have been taught its morally correct? Seems a bit at odds with GC feminism. As in that case, surely a woman is just what she's taught to be.

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TempestTost · 23/07/2024 10:43

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 08:38

Yes I understand why people don't like it. Equally though I think why do you want to subject a child to that kind of parenting and where will that end?

Anyway its kind of irrelevant, as MM basically said making abortion illegal was a price worth paying so as to avoid another democrat presidency. Which is batshit. But some of the recent posts about her have been quite illuminating.

She didn't say that at all.

What she said was that she was not going to have the threat of abortion legislation held over her to determine her vote.

You are assuming such legislation is likely if Trump gets in, and not if the Democrat candidate gets in. MM is saying that isn't the case, it is an empty threat in this election, used for years by both parties to try and force women's votes.

You need to learn to read more carefully, it's a common theme that you miss half of what a writer has said.

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 10:40

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 08:38

Yes I understand why people don't like it. Equally though I think why do you want to subject a child to that kind of parenting and where will that end?

Anyway its kind of irrelevant, as MM basically said making abortion illegal was a price worth paying so as to avoid another democrat presidency. Which is batshit. But some of the recent posts about her have been quite illuminating.

Well Cassie, I think it's because most people don't think it's ok to kill a child because the mum does not want it, or the household might not be ideal, or adoption might be in the cards.

Whether it's a late termination or infanticide immediately after birth, you are talking about an infant at the same stage, with the same capacities.

I wondered before, do you really not understand that if people are taught that it is morally ok to kill an infant at term, that many will believe it and it will happen - it's been quite common historically. Because it seemed like you believed that no one would ever do such a thing.

It seems that in fact you do understand that, you just think it's ok.

BeachParty · 23/07/2024 10:13

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 18:51

Ill informed madness, they would take womens rights back to the Victorian era just because of ignorance.
Terrifying.

^^
Agree! From a "feminist board" it really doesn't seem like it on here more and more so.

BeachParty · 23/07/2024 10:09

@Alwaystired94
bold of you to sarcastically say ‘so feminist of you’ when i’m arguing against ‘feminists’ handing over women’s right to their body away

This
Absolutely topsy turvy upside down world on here with some.
It IS feminist to not want our reproductive rights and bodily autonomy taken away.
Yes, advocate taking away access to abortion which would affect people in abusive relationships, or just expect women to be able to "control" how many they have and just stop at two or whatever if they wanted as that's what Granny said they did in the 2Os said according to a pp.
Yes, because that sounds a completely foolproof plan 🙄😂
It's putting women back in the kitchen, tied to the house mentality. Keep them pregnant and they can't do anything about it
I remember a thread on here a while back where someone said "nobody's advocating for taking it away, though are they?
Yet here we are.
It's madness to say "we can give them away and then try and get them back after they've gone."
As if it'd happen like that.

KielderWater · 23/07/2024 10:02

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 14:48

just imagine calling yourself a feminist and not caring about abortion access or putting proven rapists into power

Just imagine calling yourself a feminist and putting in power someone who locks women up in communal cells with convicted serial rapists resulting in many of them being raped and the rest living in fear of it, who makes it illegal for girls to object to getting undressed in front of men, who destroys women’s sports, who pushes the idea that women are merely a selection of harmful stereotypes?

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/07/2024 09:52

Abortion up until birth is permissible in five U.S states. Abortion limits, in other states which permit abortion, vary from 6 weeks to 24 weeks - but more States permit abortion than do not.

Most of Europe has a time limit of 14 weeks. Britain and The Netherlands have the highest limit - at 24 weeks.

https://fullerproject.org/story/how-major-abortion-laws-compare-state-by-state-map/

How Major Abortion Laws Compare State by State: Map

Access to abortion in the U.S. depends on where you live. Increasingly, the South and Midwest are becoming complete abortion deserts.

https://fullerproject.org/story/how-major-abortion-laws-compare-state-by-state-map/

Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 09:15

Abhannmor · 23/07/2024 09:12

Herbal medicine . Ah yes. Full spectrum conspiracy syndrome. See Russell Brand et al

it's so annoying a viewpoint because it's hardly only themselves they are affecting with their views.
Russell Brand was always a wrongun - he was just better at hiding it (because society didn't care about the disgusting things he did). It's a shame as i still quote his 'don't tell the daily mail' skit :(

Abhannmor · 23/07/2024 09:12

Herbal medicine . Ah yes. Full spectrum conspiracy syndrome. See Russell Brand et al

Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 09:07

MessinaBloom · 23/07/2024 02:27

@Theretheretherethere

Some people taking selfies in Capitol is hardly an insurrection.

Dear me. Are you a bot?

if not they are ticking every MAGA cult box...

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 08:38

Yes I understand why people don't like it. Equally though I think why do you want to subject a child to that kind of parenting and where will that end?

Anyway its kind of irrelevant, as MM basically said making abortion illegal was a price worth paying so as to avoid another democrat presidency. Which is batshit. But some of the recent posts about her have been quite illuminating.

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GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/07/2024 08:31

To be fair, some late term terminations are genuinely for non medical reasons (in the States certainly, and probably here). The usual background is a chaotic lifestyle and unstable relationships (woman gets pregnant with a guy who is a dead loss and sometimes they are together and sometimes they are not, she then forms a relationship with a new guy who doesn't want her unborn baby etc. etc.). In some cases, a woman is obese and has PCOS and does not realise she is pregnant until very late in the pregnancy. Not saying this should be banned, necessarily, but I get why there is discomfort about abortion at these late stages.

(The information on the above type of abortion is from the Guttmacher Institute, which is the data wing of Planned Parenthood, by the way. I was also quite surprised when I read through the documentation.)

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 08:04

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 06:28

It's the pro-choice groups that see it as an all or nothing thing. I've known people who were fairly moderate who wanted to get involved with some activism and found very quickly their views weren't acceptable.

It's not actually only in the US. Canada is the same,and frankly if you scratch the surface at FWR you will find quite a few activists are hard line on this, there should in their minds be zero restrictions on abortion. The fact that a 30 week fetus is a baby makes no difference to them, as far as they are concerned it's an irrelevance. Their ideology is clear, it's not a "person" in the law so has no meaningful legal or moral status. The mother can do what she likes for any reason, at any time, be it abortions as performance art or at end of term.

See, I read all this as ideology before humans.
There are barely any late terminations, most are TFMR.
What you suggest is forcing a woman to give birth to a child she doesn't want, and forcing the child to be given up for adoption or raised by a mum who doesn't want it. Both harmful to the child as well as the mother. That's if the child is healthy.
If its TFMR you are forcing the child to live what's likely to be a short, painful life full of medical procedures. For your ideology.

Bollocks to that. The whole argument is underpinned by misogynistic bullshit that capricious women will spend 8.5months pregnant before deciding they can't be arsed and then doctors will just merrily kill a healthy term foetus at their say so. It is a ridiculous argument and can only be spouted by someone who either has not engaged their brain or has never been pregnant.

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CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 07:54

AlisonDonut · 23/07/2024 02:32

It is quite the conundrum. Two utterly vile men versus sterilising kids.

God bless AMERICA. What a fucking decision.

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Omlettes · 23/07/2024 07:29

honestyISkind · 23/07/2024 04:05

Oh and she's been living in Mexico for a while now I think. And is super giggly friendly with a creepy sexist male podcaster but I can't recall his name sorry.

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Benjamin Boyce, James Lindsay?

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 06:37

PaterPower · 23/07/2024 06:04

Ruth Bader Ginsburg had the opportunity, in 2013, to retire with a Democrat president in office and thereby keep a more neutral balance to the Supreme Court.

Arguably her (selfish, at 81 and already in ill health) decision to stay in office (and who does that remind you of?) was ‘the’ major contributor to RvW being overturned, only two years after her death gave Trump the opportunity to fix the court for the following 15-20 years.

Clinton didn’t do much for women in office, although I suppose you have to give him credit for knowing his biology. And as PPs have stated upthread, Obama could have protected abortion rights, had he seen it as a priority. But Democrats at a Federal level have taken women’s votes for granted for years, just as they’ve taken black and Hispanic votes as read, and have done less and less to show they deserve their ‘blind’ support.

And heaven help us in mitigating the fallout from that. Four years of an isolationist leaning, far right US administration is going to hurt all of us.

The funny thing about complaints that the court is "stuffed" with conservatives, is that it was stuffed with liberals in order to get RvW through in the first place. It was never a strong judgement legally, it was a political judgement, and that was never hidden. It was considered a-ok by Democrats. It should be no surprise Republicans don't have a problem with doing the same thing.

RBG never thought it was a good legal decision, and I would say her concerns about it as likely to stoke division were quite justified.

cupcaske123 · 23/07/2024 06:34

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/07/2024 04:16

Most women who voted for Reform or the Conservatives will have voted for other reasons - immigration, NIMBYism, anger about net zero. The gender thing was probably a reason for some women, but it's odd to assume that just because someone is a woman their politics must be primarily motivated by gender politics.

I had conversations with women who voted only on this issue, they were single issue voters ie were not considering other aspects when voting.

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 06:28

OldCrone · 23/07/2024 00:28

At the end of that Guardian article there's a list of states and their abortion rules. Most of the 'legal' states have some limit (around 24 weeks). 8 states have no legal limit.

It's the pro-choice groups that see it as an all or nothing thing. I've known people who were fairly moderate who wanted to get involved with some activism and found very quickly their views weren't acceptable.

It's not actually only in the US. Canada is the same,and frankly if you scratch the surface at FWR you will find quite a few activists are hard line on this, there should in their minds be zero restrictions on abortion. The fact that a 30 week fetus is a baby makes no difference to them, as far as they are concerned it's an irrelevance. Their ideology is clear, it's not a "person" in the law so has no meaningful legal or moral status. The mother can do what she likes for any reason, at any time, be it abortions as performance art or at end of term.

PaterPower · 23/07/2024 06:04

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 18:42

Under a supreme Court that trump/GOP stuffed full of anti-abortion judges.

It really is something to make put this was a Biden thing, just cos you hate "the left".

This was a trump thing. The man is horrific.

Ruth Bader Ginsburg had the opportunity, in 2013, to retire with a Democrat president in office and thereby keep a more neutral balance to the Supreme Court.

Arguably her (selfish, at 81 and already in ill health) decision to stay in office (and who does that remind you of?) was ‘the’ major contributor to RvW being overturned, only two years after her death gave Trump the opportunity to fix the court for the following 15-20 years.

Clinton didn’t do much for women in office, although I suppose you have to give him credit for knowing his biology. And as PPs have stated upthread, Obama could have protected abortion rights, had he seen it as a priority. But Democrats at a Federal level have taken women’s votes for granted for years, just as they’ve taken black and Hispanic votes as read, and have done less and less to show they deserve their ‘blind’ support.

And heaven help us in mitigating the fallout from that. Four years of an isolationist leaning, far right US administration is going to hurt all of us.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/07/2024 04:23

VotesForWomen · 22/07/2024 14:44

Condoms, decent education about tracking my cycle and my likely fertility window, (which would have likely led me to abstain from sex even with condoms during it) and decent access to morning after pills would have screwed me and my hormones up a lot less than the daily dose of synthetic oestrogen and/or progesterone for a couple of decades did.

I don't think she's advocating for the removal of contraceptive choices - I think she's advocating for better knowledge and education around things like hormonal contraceptives, and their likely short and long term effects on the body, and the choices that we have.

Condoms, decent education about tracking my cycle and my likely fertility window, (which would have likely led me to abstain from sex even with condoms during it) and decent access to morning after pills

Do you actually believe that MM and her friends are in favor of the morning after pill becoming easier to access?

GreenTeaLikesMe · 23/07/2024 04:16

cupcaske123 · 22/07/2024 14:13

But women voted for Farage for the same reasons. They wanted to get rid off trans ideology and protect women's sex based rights. Even though austerity cast many women into poverty and made them a lot worse off, many 'feminists' voted Tory over this single issue. I don't understand why you're shocked it's happening in the States.

Most women who voted for Reform or the Conservatives will have voted for other reasons - immigration, NIMBYism, anger about net zero. The gender thing was probably a reason for some women, but it's odd to assume that just because someone is a woman their politics must be primarily motivated by gender politics.

Catsmere · 23/07/2024 04:09

honestyISkind · 23/07/2024 03:55

She does seem anti prostitution though. Not a feminist though, but occasionally intersects with them

That’s good to hear.

honestyISkind · 23/07/2024 04:05

Oh and she's been living in Mexico for a while now I think. And is super giggly friendly with a creepy sexist male podcaster but I can't recall his name sorry.

honestyISkind · 23/07/2024 03:56

Oh, it was the right thread. Oops.
When I was a teen abortion cut off was 12 weeks, which is too restrictive. 20 weeks is fine 99.9 percent of the time and nearly all abortions are performed at 20 weeks pr less.

I do want there to be exceptions possible of course. Ultimately women are not a uterus on legs and their rights must always supercede the foetus.

But if you've spent time in nicu and seen a parent interact with a 30 week premie you'd be keen to avoid late term abortions when possible and there's simply nothing wrong with that, whatever political party you support.