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Wtf Meghan Murphy

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CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 13:42

A feminist I used to really admire, deciding pussy grabbing, porn loving, convicted felon Trump and his misogynistic, fickle, anti abortion, running mate Vance are the best choice for American women.

https://x.com/MeghanEMurphy/status/1814817323754381763

Feminists/'feminist' men keep insisting to me that @JDVance1 is a misogynist who wants to 'take away women's rights' yet Trump/Vance are the only choice if we wish to restore women's sex-based rights in America (never mind the fact that Vance is anti-p*rn). I am not a fan of letting the government have any say over what women do with their bodies, but 'abortion rights' have for decades been used as a pawn in political games, and women keep letting themselves be played.

Voting Democrat solely because they'll let you have an abortion while they allow all the rest of our sex-based rights to be destroyed seems unwise to me. Women need to take their bodily autonomy into their own hands imo — this means we need to learn about and educate other women about their bodies and reproductive system, so we aren't relying on the government to dole out hormonal birth control (which is HORRIBLE for us) and dictate our reproductive choices. It's far from an ideal situation, but I resent being told I must vote for a party that can't even define the word 'woman' because they'll allow women to have abortions. That gives me the icks and should give you the icks as well.

I don't believe we should be handing over our power to governments, and the more we understand about our own bodies, the power of food/herbal medicine, the less we need to rely on the state or the medical establishment to allow us bodily autonomy and pretend to be invested in our health and wellbeing.

I do think we should fight against anyone/any laws that tell us what we may or may not do with our bodies, but the Democrats are not the party of body sovereignty either, so I'm not sure why women give them that credit.

I'm not sure what's going on with her but this is a huge shock. Very glad I'm not in the States right now.

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https://x.com/MeghanEMurphy/status/1814817323754381763

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AudHvamm · 23/07/2024 16:46

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 16:32

Yes agreed. I just don't think the consequences are so dire that all other feminism is secondary in response.

Things like VAWG, abortion and reproductive healthcare, poverty, FGM, isolation of women and second class citizen status in many countries are all more important to me.

Well that's lovely you know what is important to you. And other women have different priorities and perspectives.

I also wonder what you get out of these threads, you insist you're right and don't seem very interested in exploring or debating (rather than arguing against) other viewpoints. Do you want to educate others out of their wrongthink perhaps?

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 16:32

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 15:29

There is a real issue around removing sex-based language, which results in erasure of women. That erasure could/likely will have an impact on health care during pregnancy. I believe there has been one instance - US? - or a stillbirth because the labouring mother presented as a man and had male as her sex on her notes. That is dangerous. Lot's of medicine relies on knowing the sex (not the gender ID) of a patient. Words have consequences.

Yes agreed. I just don't think the consequences are so dire that all other feminism is secondary in response.

Things like VAWG, abortion and reproductive healthcare, poverty, FGM, isolation of women and second class citizen status in many countries are all more important to me.

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cupcaske123 · 23/07/2024 15:38

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 15:29

There is a real issue around removing sex-based language, which results in erasure of women. That erasure could/likely will have an impact on health care during pregnancy. I believe there has been one instance - US? - or a stillbirth because the labouring mother presented as a man and had male as her sex on her notes. That is dangerous. Lot's of medicine relies on knowing the sex (not the gender ID) of a patient. Words have consequences.

If that's the case I'm thinking of it's a bit more complicated. The transman actually told the staff that he was trans when he arrived although his medical records said he was a man.

He'd done a home pregnancy test which was positive and had wet himself, a nurse ordered a pregnancy test but there was no urgency and he later gave birth to a still born baby.

Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 15:32

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 15:29

There is a real issue around removing sex-based language, which results in erasure of women. That erasure could/likely will have an impact on health care during pregnancy. I believe there has been one instance - US? - or a stillbirth because the labouring mother presented as a man and had male as her sex on her notes. That is dangerous. Lot's of medicine relies on knowing the sex (not the gender ID) of a patient. Words have consequences.

I mean surely a simple "I'm pregnant" there would have helped clear up that particular issue?

Sounds like the medical staff were spectacularly bad at their jobs

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 15:29

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 14:38

It's a problem of making it very black and white.
I think the UK laws are about right. If I was forced to either make abortion illegal, or fully legal up to term, I think the latter is less damaging to women than the former.

I cannot get my head around supposed feminists arguing that definitions of "woman" are more important than safe, legal reproductive healthcare. This idea that without a sex based definition of woman, womens rights cease to exist is a logically fallacy. Women will still get pregnant when its harmful or dangerous for them or the baby, they will still need safe medical care in those circumstances , regardless of semantics around gender.

There is a real issue around removing sex-based language, which results in erasure of women. That erasure could/likely will have an impact on health care during pregnancy. I believe there has been one instance - US? - or a stillbirth because the labouring mother presented as a man and had male as her sex on her notes. That is dangerous. Lot's of medicine relies on knowing the sex (not the gender ID) of a patient. Words have consequences.

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 15:26

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 11:15

We currently live in a society where late abortions are seen, mainly, as quite tragic, and also as having moral implications. Which is why the vast majority of places in Europe and the UK restrict them.

Do you not think that might have a lot to do with why they aren't particularly common?

That's not the position the activists mentioned earlier, who want to completely open up abortion at all stages, are taking.

If it is a moral issue, then there is good reason for both social norms and the law to address it. Just being uncommon doesn't mean that we don't address it if it is serious.

If it's not a moral issue, than expect people to act as if it's not a moral issue.

You are trying to have it both ways here.

I feel late term abortion is not seen as a moral issue (unless it ends in infanticide, which is a criminal issue) but a medical one. No-one chooses to start labour early and bring a baby not quite ready into the world unless there is an emergency, either with the baby or the mother, e.g. life-saving surgery, cancer treatment, etc. And that would not be a late term abortion, but induction of labour to save lives.

Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 15:23

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 11:15

We currently live in a society where late abortions are seen, mainly, as quite tragic, and also as having moral implications. Which is why the vast majority of places in Europe and the UK restrict them.

Do you not think that might have a lot to do with why they aren't particularly common?

That's not the position the activists mentioned earlier, who want to completely open up abortion at all stages, are taking.

If it is a moral issue, then there is good reason for both social norms and the law to address it. Just being uncommon doesn't mean that we don't address it if it is serious.

If it's not a moral issue, than expect people to act as if it's not a moral issue.

You are trying to have it both ways here.

Because it's extremely unlikely to get 8.5 months into a pregnancy and just think "oh i don't want this now". It's a non-issue.

If the options are abortions across the board or no abortions, i'll choose abortions across the board.

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 15:11

Theretheretherethere · 22/07/2024 22:35

Some people taking selfies in Capitol is hardly an insurrection.

I doubt the US would cope with a real insurrection. For one thing they wouldn't recognise what it was.

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 14:38

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/07/2024 14:30

I've always been in favour of a woman's right to acccess abortion. I have had two terminations myself; one at age 15, and one when already a single parent, age 23. Most women and girls access abortion in the first trimester. I think Europe has it about right with its limits ( in exceptional circumstances a pregnancy can be terminated outwith those limits).

There is somethingly profoundly disturbing about full term abortion, though..........and it is an incredibly provocative law. Also what is very provacative, and to my mind, ironically, very anti woman...and that is seeing crowds of people shouting " What do we want? Abortion. When do we want it - now" and waving banners saying " My body, my choice" As if abortion is something to be celebrated, rather than the often very painful and difficult choice when in very difficult circumstances, that it most often is.

This kind of feminism - that which seeks its goal in the eradication of the facts of female biology, the denial of female biology; of the worthiness and value of motherhood; which perceives pregnancy and childbirth to be the worst things that can happen to a woman - the source of all suffering and oppression - is not the sort of feminism I've ever related to.

My feminism is rooted in the facts of the female body, and in the reality of the female experience; which sees dignity and power in that experience, not in the eradication and denial of it.

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It's a problem of making it very black and white.
I think the UK laws are about right. If I was forced to either make abortion illegal, or fully legal up to term, I think the latter is less damaging to women than the former.

I cannot get my head around supposed feminists arguing that definitions of "woman" are more important than safe, legal reproductive healthcare. This idea that without a sex based definition of woman, womens rights cease to exist is a logically fallacy. Women will still get pregnant when its harmful or dangerous for them or the baby, they will still need safe medical care in those circumstances , regardless of semantics around gender.

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Shortshriftandlethal · 23/07/2024 14:30

I've always been in favour of a woman's right to acccess abortion. I have had two terminations myself; one at age 15, and one when already a single parent, age 23. Most women and girls access abortion in the first trimester. I think Europe has it about right with its limits ( in exceptional circumstances a pregnancy can be terminated outwith those limits).

There is somethingly profoundly disturbing about full term abortion, though..........and it is an incredibly provocative law. Also what is very provacative, and to my mind, ironically, very anti woman...and that is seeing crowds of people shouting " What do we want? Abortion. When do we want it - now" and waving banners saying " My body, my choice" As if abortion is something to be celebrated, rather than the often very painful and difficult choice when in very difficult circumstances, that it most often is.

This kind of feminism - that which seeks its goal in the eradication of the facts of female biology, the denial of female biology; of the worthiness and value of motherhood; which perceives pregnancy and childbirth to be the worst things that can happen to a woman - the source of all suffering and oppression - is not the sort of feminism I've ever related to.

My feminism is rooted in the facts of the female body, and in the reality of the female experience; which sees dignity and power in that experience, not in the eradication and denial of it.

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 14:24

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 23/07/2024 14:13

My apologies, it was intended as clear feedback to you and as a recent example for others to demonstrate that you don't appear to think about how your arguments come across. To be clear and avoid another confusion, your arguments come across as poorly drafted and lacking in supporting evidence. And they are undermined by links that do not back up what you are saying. That does not result in a threat. It is unusual for an adult to decide in their own mind that they are a threat, then to write that down like it is a good thing, and post it with glee.

It is also unusual for an adult to boast about dismissing diverging viewpoints as being "in one ear, out the other". It comes across as you having zero intention of reflection, and totally lacking any ability to reflect on yourself and critically evaluate whether or not you've engaged and persuaded others. And that is the point of MN: to listen, to persuade and be persuaded, to read new materials and different views or approaches to various topics of discussion. That is why posters such as LangCleg and Barracker were so well regarded and why many of us learned such a lot from them.

It's unclear what you get out of posting here. Perhaps you would be better off in a closed WA or FB group, where people who offer different views or challenge you with evidenced arguments can be removed at will.

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ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 23/07/2024 14:13

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 22:38

I take it as a compliment you store this up and use it to misrepresent me whenever you can. I'm obviously some form of threat.
Whereas the absolute nonsense you and Alison post over multiple threads is in one ear,out the other with me. It's just a disagreement.

My apologies, it was intended as clear feedback to you and as a recent example for others to demonstrate that you don't appear to think about how your arguments come across. To be clear and avoid another confusion, your arguments come across as poorly drafted and lacking in supporting evidence. And they are undermined by links that do not back up what you are saying. That does not result in a threat. It is unusual for an adult to decide in their own mind that they are a threat, then to write that down like it is a good thing, and post it with glee.

It is also unusual for an adult to boast about dismissing diverging viewpoints as being "in one ear, out the other". It comes across as you having zero intention of reflection, and totally lacking any ability to reflect on yourself and critically evaluate whether or not you've engaged and persuaded others. And that is the point of MN: to listen, to persuade and be persuaded, to read new materials and different views or approaches to various topics of discussion. That is why posters such as LangCleg and Barracker were so well regarded and why many of us learned such a lot from them.

It's unclear what you get out of posting here. Perhaps you would be better off in a closed WA or FB group, where people who offer different views or challenge you with evidenced arguments can be removed at will.

LilyBartsHatShop · 23/07/2024 13:53

KielderWater · 23/07/2024 12:29

Are the Republicans ‘small state’? Do they prefer the American Government being limited in its interference in States (and the States in people’s lives). I mean in political practice rather theory?

I feel a bit presumptuous answering because I don't really know what I'm talking about, I just sometimes listen in on people who are over-invested interested in U.S. politics.
As you say, in theory the Republicans are very small goverment. In practice they can't help invading third world countries which necessetates taxes and big government insitutions - defence related, but still big government in effect.
Trump lived up to the small government, swamp draining ideal by not being bellicose. (Formatting edit!!)

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 13:06

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 11:07

You are a slippery fish, I can't decide if it's unorganized thinking or you are purposefully trying to obscure what you are saying.

For example - saying both that it will never happen because people know it's bad, but it is ok if it does - and implying "because she can't be arsed" is the reason something like this would happen, and pretending that there aren't all kinds of other reasons that choices like that could be made, and on that basis accusing people of saying that women can't be arsed to care for their kids. (Although possibly some posters might have seen situations like that...)

Possibly you are uneducated enough that you don't realize that historically, infanticide was very common. In fact it's still common today in much of the world. And there are absolutely places where late term abortions happen because of pressures from society. If you think social norms don't have an effect on what people think and do, I don't know what to say really. I don't know why you'd think that jas anything to do with being GC.

It's interesting though, that for you anyone who doesn't support abortion to them is anti-abortion. It very much illustrates the point that the pp made about activists, which some were incredulous of. It is indeed a thing, even in the UK.

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For example - saying both that it will never happen because people know it's bad, but it is ok if it does -
I didn't say either of those things, that's probably the cause of your confusion.

Insult me all you like. I don't agree with you that without laws, women and doctors will terminate healthy term babies for no good reason. It's as simple as that.

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KielderWater · 23/07/2024 12:29

Are the Republicans ‘small state’? Do they prefer the American Government being limited in its interference in States (and the States in people’s lives). I mean in political practice rather theory?

LilyBartsHatShop · 23/07/2024 12:23

yes I think that's right, @KielderWater
A decades long Mexican stand off.

KielderWater · 23/07/2024 12:10

I am not a U.S. constitutional lawyer by any stretch, but my understanding is that any state legislation which restricted abortion was technically in conflict with Roe v. Wade but noone ever challenged them so they didn't go to the Supreme court to be struck down (which they would have been, if my understanding is correct).

presumably it wouldn’t have been struck down though as the Supreme Court ruled Roe v Wade was wrong. Perhaps why the states weren’t challenged - because of that risk.

LilyBartsHatShop · 23/07/2024 12:04

I am not a U.S. constitutional lawyer by any stretch, but my understanding is that any state legislation which restricted abortion was technically in conflict with Roe v. Wade but noone ever challenged them so they didn't go to the Supreme court to be struck down (which they would have been, if my understanding is correct).
Does anyone else think Murphy might be referring to herbal medicine abortifacents in the opening quote? I've read about them in feminist histories by never come across any women's lib group promoting them now.
Makes sense, from a libertarian feminist perspective.
Another nitpick, the GFC resulted in large part from the wild west deregulation done under Clinton. Certainly Bush jnr did nothing to stabilise the market but he didn't start the fire.

MessinaBloom · 23/07/2024 11:46

A termination at 8.5 months is a live birth. The baby is viable at that stage. You're discussing infanticide, not abortion, and I don't believe any doctor or clinic would do this for any reason other than medical. A baby born at that stage can be adopted if its parents cannot care for it.

AlisonDonut · 23/07/2024 11:16

I wasn't expecting it to be OK to terminate at 8 and a half months because the child might be subject to bad parenting.

It's this utter idiotic pandering to the left 'everyone must be free to do anything they want with their own bodies' that puts a fire under the right to put a stop to it. This is the cause of the polarisation, not a symptom.

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 11:15

Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 11:03

Only the extreme like to go on about "killing a child at 8.5months" . In reality, late terminations are not common. And those that do have them, will be done for health reasons and extreme circumstances.

Here are some useful facts to consider when it comes to the numbers, including this tidbit: The vast majority of abortions occur during the first trimester of a pregnancy. In 2021, 93% of abortions occurred during the first trimester – that is, at or before 13 weeks of gestation, according to the CDC. An additional 6% occurred between 14 and 20 weeks of pregnancy, and about 1% were performed at 21 weeks or more of gestation.

What the data says about abortion in the U.S. | Pew Research Center

But yes the pro-birth crowd love to go on about abortions at 8+ months because they know it's a shocking and emotive talking point. But they don't let facts get in the way do they?

We currently live in a society where late abortions are seen, mainly, as quite tragic, and also as having moral implications. Which is why the vast majority of places in Europe and the UK restrict them.

Do you not think that might have a lot to do with why they aren't particularly common?

That's not the position the activists mentioned earlier, who want to completely open up abortion at all stages, are taking.

If it is a moral issue, then there is good reason for both social norms and the law to address it. Just being uncommon doesn't mean that we don't address it if it is serious.

If it's not a moral issue, than expect people to act as if it's not a moral issue.

You are trying to have it both ways here.

Grammarnut · 23/07/2024 11:11

Omlettes · 22/07/2024 17:44

Sorry?
Bizarre thing to say, you dont know me in the slightest, nor do I run a podcast for you to judge eitherway.
"Reasonable Person'...
She is not that bright hence her unthought out and profoundly offensive position on abortion and Trump.

Some feminist.
Why on earth would women trade away their most fundamental rights, that impact every aspect of their lives especially when Trump is so incredibly unstable and changes position on the point of a pin.

If she thinks he wont fold like a pack of cards as soon as someone like Dylan Mulvaney sucks up to him, then she has not paid attention to his character in the slightest.
And remember Trump is vowing vengance, after losing his rape case do you think he will give a rats arse about women?

Far better to turn the Dems, and they will turn slowly but surely as legal cases continue to be won in the US.

Murphy is a Professor of Philosophy afaik, so intelligent. I believe she has thought about this carefully. Trans ideology, profoundly homophobic and misogynistic, is a threat to women the world over for it seeks to erase women, being a Men's Rights movement. That the Democrats espouse it is a problem for those who must choose between the VP, Kamala Harris, and Trump/Vance. Both sides are women-haters, though the Democrats hide it in a cloud of trans rights are human rights and TWAW and worry over abortion rights. Glad I do not have to make the choice - but then we have Starmer and his cohort of TRAs in the Labour Party.
In summary, abortion rights will be a pimple on a pig's bum if TRAs get their way, because all the rights women have fought for will disappear - they are sex-based and if sex is an illusion/colonial construct, there is no basis for enforcing those rights, nor any way to trace their abolition or their infringement.
Hold your nose and voter Trump, I think.

KielderWater · 23/07/2024 11:08

Roe V Wade was overturned under a democratic president and the VP now presumptive nominee. What did they do about it?

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 11:07

CassieMaddox · 23/07/2024 10:49

Yes I really think it won't happen. Because our biology is such that women won't be pregnant for 8.5 months then capriciously decide they can't be arsed. It's a complete straw man though because barely anywhere allows unrestricted abortion up until term. And there is a vested interest from anti-abortion campaigners to focus on the extremes to restrict all rules. This is not my first rodeo and I really cba debating it with a pro lifer.

Do you really believe the only reason humans behave in certain ways is because they have been taught its morally correct? Seems a bit at odds with GC feminism. As in that case, surely a woman is just what she's taught to be.

You are a slippery fish, I can't decide if it's unorganized thinking or you are purposefully trying to obscure what you are saying.

For example - saying both that it will never happen because people know it's bad, but it is ok if it does - and implying "because she can't be arsed" is the reason something like this would happen, and pretending that there aren't all kinds of other reasons that choices like that could be made, and on that basis accusing people of saying that women can't be arsed to care for their kids. (Although possibly some posters might have seen situations like that...)

Possibly you are uneducated enough that you don't realize that historically, infanticide was very common. In fact it's still common today in much of the world. And there are absolutely places where late term abortions happen because of pressures from society. If you think social norms don't have an effect on what people think and do, I don't know what to say really. I don't know why you'd think that jas anything to do with being GC.

It's interesting though, that for you anyone who doesn't support abortion to them is anti-abortion. It very much illustrates the point that the pp made about activists, which some were incredulous of. It is indeed a thing, even in the UK.

Alwaystired94 · 23/07/2024 11:03

TempestTost · 23/07/2024 10:40

Well Cassie, I think it's because most people don't think it's ok to kill a child because the mum does not want it, or the household might not be ideal, or adoption might be in the cards.

Whether it's a late termination or infanticide immediately after birth, you are talking about an infant at the same stage, with the same capacities.

I wondered before, do you really not understand that if people are taught that it is morally ok to kill an infant at term, that many will believe it and it will happen - it's been quite common historically. Because it seemed like you believed that no one would ever do such a thing.

It seems that in fact you do understand that, you just think it's ok.

Only the extreme like to go on about "killing a child at 8.5months" . In reality, late terminations are not common. And those that do have them, will be done for health reasons and extreme circumstances.

Here are some useful facts to consider when it comes to the numbers, including this tidbit: The vast majority of abortions occur during the first trimester of a pregnancy. In 2021, 93% of abortions occurred during the first trimester – that is, at or before 13 weeks of gestation, according to the CDC. An additional 6% occurred between 14 and 20 weeks of pregnancy, and about 1% were performed at 21 weeks or more of gestation.

What the data says about abortion in the U.S. | Pew Research Center

But yes the pro-birth crowd love to go on about abortions at 8+ months because they know it's a shocking and emotive talking point. But they don't let facts get in the way do they?

What the data says about abortion in the U.S.

The U.S. abortion rate has generally declined since the 1980s, but there have been slight upticks in the late 2010s and early 2020s.

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/03/25/what-the-data-says-about-abortion-in-the-us/#how-many-abortions-are-there-in-the-us-each-year