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FFS disability is now on the pride flag

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sashh · 16/07/2024 08:58

I'm livid. I'm disabled and I do not want to be represented on the LGBTQ+ flag.

Also this quote: Dayna Halliwell (she/her), Content and Engagement Manager at Evenbreak, led the collaboration and organised the Pride visit. She said: “It was very moving and amazing to see the reaction of disabled people in the audience. You could see the joy on their faces of being represented in the parade.”

https://blog.evenbreak.co.uk/2024/07/02/new-disability-inclusive-pride-flag-unveiled-at-london-pride/

New Disability-Inclusive Pride Flag unveiled at London Pride

Image description: Evenbreak team members in pink t-shirts carry the new Disability-Inclusive Pride Flag in the London Pride Parade alongside Valentino Vechietti, dressed in white. Photo credit: Ma…

https://blog.evenbreak.co.uk/2024/07/02/new-disability-inclusive-pride-flag-unveiled-at-london-pride

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PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 20:32

TempestTost · 17/07/2024 17:31

The problem is the ongoing claim that there is a representative "LGBT community".

Because what you are actually talking about is just a group of people who have a certain political viewpoint. And - this is the important part - represent it as the viewpoint of the community.

It's the same in many other groups, there are certain people who set themselves up as representing a community and then use that claim for access to political influence.

Like any community, of course there are disparate voices within it.

That doesn’t render the community non-existent or null and void. There are multiple views and voices within the Jewish community - that doesn’t mean there isn’t a Jewish community.

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 20:29

Devonbabs · 17/07/2024 18:11

So what you’re saying is, is the only way LGB people aren’t going to be bigoted is to have them on a flag? If they’re not on the flag they aren’t worthy of being included. Suddenly the widespread misogyny from certain quarters makes sense! We’re not on the bloody flag!

No - you literally just made that up and it’s not even closely resembling what I’ve said.

Devonbabs · 17/07/2024 18:12

elgreco · 17/07/2024 17:03

Can anyone explain why the original rainbow flag excluded people of colour and the disabled?
Was it deliberately exclusionary? Have all the flags up till now been horrific bigoted?
And why have the disabled queers only been included now?

Those are excellent questions

Devonbabs · 17/07/2024 18:11

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 17:08

No. That is precisely the point I've made - the original flag does and should encompass the whole LGBT+ community.

I think trying to represent all groups within that is probably not helpful - both because aesthetically it's unlikely to be pleasing, but also because it brings the (incorrect) implication that a group not explicitly represented is therefore excluded.

BUT I absolutely understand the view from certain groups within the community who have been historically marginalised that there is value in both symbolic as well as tangible inclusion. And I have certainly noticed a lot more discussion of racial inclusion within the community in the last few years, so it may well be that the changes to the flag have had some tangible impact.

So what you’re saying is, is the only way LGB people aren’t going to be bigoted is to have them on a flag? If they’re not on the flag they aren’t worthy of being included. Suddenly the widespread misogyny from certain quarters makes sense! We’re not on the bloody flag!

TempestTost · 17/07/2024 17:31

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:23

Who said they get no say.

LGB people who do not want to be part of an LGBT+ community can do their own thing. They can have whatever say they like.

But they don't get to insist that people like me throw trans people under the bus or demand that the majority of LGB people who support trans people only form the communities that they approve of.

The problem is the ongoing claim that there is a representative "LGBT community".

Because what you are actually talking about is just a group of people who have a certain political viewpoint. And - this is the important part - represent it as the viewpoint of the community.

It's the same in many other groups, there are certain people who set themselves up as representing a community and then use that claim for access to political influence.

TempestTost · 17/07/2024 17:28

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PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 17:08

elgreco · 17/07/2024 17:03

Can anyone explain why the original rainbow flag excluded people of colour and the disabled?
Was it deliberately exclusionary? Have all the flags up till now been horrific bigoted?
And why have the disabled queers only been included now?

No. That is precisely the point I've made - the original flag does and should encompass the whole LGBT+ community.

I think trying to represent all groups within that is probably not helpful - both because aesthetically it's unlikely to be pleasing, but also because it brings the (incorrect) implication that a group not explicitly represented is therefore excluded.

BUT I absolutely understand the view from certain groups within the community who have been historically marginalised that there is value in both symbolic as well as tangible inclusion. And I have certainly noticed a lot more discussion of racial inclusion within the community in the last few years, so it may well be that the changes to the flag have had some tangible impact.

elgreco · 17/07/2024 17:03

Can anyone explain why the original rainbow flag excluded people of colour and the disabled?
Was it deliberately exclusionary? Have all the flags up till now been horrific bigoted?
And why have the disabled queers only been included now?

MaidOfAle · 17/07/2024 17:01

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:57

By all means - let me know your top five things the LGB Alliance has achieved for LGB people that is not related to gender or trans people.

  1. Setting up a helpline for LGB youth.
  2. Filed amicus curiae brief supporting Fedotova & Others v. Russia.
  3. Campaigning for pensions equality, finally resulting in regulatory change to force pension providers to treat same-sex married couples like opposite-sex married couples in late 2023.
  4. Written to the Minister of State for Development and Africa to demand that Ugandan LGB and trans refugees have their asylum claims fast tracked after Uganda increased State persecution of LGB and trans people.
  5. Supporting the campaign to have British Newspaper Archive digitise the entire publication history of Gay News.

They're a young charity who spent the first couple of years of their existence fighting to prevent other charities from shutting them down, so it's not surprising that they've not done huge amounts yet.

MaidOfAle · 17/07/2024 16:42

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:34

You say 'not allowed'.

Who precisely is preventing you from doing so? Your objection seems to be more that people disagree with you, since there is absolutely no barrier to you either making your feelings known to those charities or setting up your own organisations that match your own beliefs.

That is a long way from 'not allowed'.

But of course your BLM example is massively flawed - what you're describing is organisations or movements giving consideration to parts of the movement that might need particular inclusion, support or consideration. It is perfectly legitimate for black trans people to work within the BLM movement to try to ensure that the specific concerns of black trans people are heard and reflected in the movement. That's not forced teaming - black trans people are part of the black community, and they are part of the trans community. There is no forced teaming involved.

To be an example of 'forced teaming', it would have to involve, for example, white trans people insisting that the BLM movement should advocate for them. Which is not what has happened.

Similarly, autism charities choosing a particular approach to supporting trans autistic people isn't forced teaming. Because the people they are supporting are already 'on the team' so to speak.

To be an example of forced teaming, it would have to involve autism charities being compelled to provide support to neurotypical trans people.

Who precisely is preventing you from doing so?

The people who issue rape threats, death threats, and would try to get me fired from my job.

WickedSerious · 17/07/2024 16:02

Sloejelly · 17/07/2024 14:53

Sorry, replied to the wrong person during that bit of playground tit-for-tat.

No worries.

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 16:00

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I suspect you don't know what sealioning is then.

To give you a hint - it involves repeatedly asking questions or making requests, feigning some sort of confusion or fence-sitting, to troll someone, by a poster who already has a firm but secret position on the issue they are pretending to be seeking clarifications on.

I make no secret of my views on attempts to split the LGBT+ community, nor my support for trans people. What's more, I've asked very few questions of posters here (not least because the answers can always just be copied and pasted from any number of threads on here).

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:57

SidewaysOtter · 17/07/2024 15:52

LGB Alliance are, of course, motivated by their campaign against trans people.

If you genuinely think that then there’s really no point trying to debate anything with you.

By all means - let me know your top five things the LGB Alliance has achieved for LGB people that is not related to gender or trans people.

CocoapuffPuff · 17/07/2024 15:56

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PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:55

CocoapuffPuff · 17/07/2024 15:50

Did you miss the charity commission investigation? Did that pass you by? That there was a legal attempt to strip them of charitable status? Did you miss that? Were you asleep? The fact that it was "allowed" after a legal battle doesn't mean the attempt to make it "not allowed" didn't happen. It just failed.

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Charitable status isn't some sort of human right. It is a status granted based on specific legal criteria which some people - myself included - think the Charity Commission misapplied in this case.

That is the entire point of judicial review - to challenge public bodies if there is a concern that they have misapplied the law.

None of that determined whether LGB Alliance was allowed to exist or not. It was solely about whether they ought to have charitable status. I rather suspect that if the standing hurdle had been cleared, a court would have some sympathy that granting charitable status based on a mission that bears almost no resemblance to what the organisation does in practice is grounds to consider the decision-making by the Charity Commission flawed.

SidewaysOtter · 17/07/2024 15:52

LGB Alliance are, of course, motivated by their campaign against trans people.

If you genuinely think that then there’s really no point trying to debate anything with you.

CocoapuffPuff · 17/07/2024 15:50

Did you miss the charity commission investigation? Did that pass you by? That there was a legal attempt to strip them of charitable status? Did you miss that? Were you asleep? The fact that it was "allowed" after a legal battle doesn't mean the attempt to make it "not allowed" didn't happen. It just failed.

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:49

SidewaysOtter · 17/07/2024 15:38

LGB people who do not want to be part of an LGBT+ community can do their own thing. They can have whatever say they like.

Yes, because when the LGB Alliance broke away to form a “LGB only” organisation, they absolutely weren’t denounced as a transphobic hate group because they excluded the TQ+, were they? And there absolutely wasn’t a sustained campaign to strip them of their charitable status?

Hmm

Do you think the right to exist is the same as the right to be free from criticism?

LGB Alliance are, of course, motivated by their campaign against trans people. It's why they never have anything to say about LGB rights that aren't focused on trans people or gender.

Pointing that out doesn't prevent LGB Alliance from existing for those who object to being part of an LGBT+ community. The problem they have, of course, is that only a tiny minority of lesbian, gay and bi people actually want to break up that community.

Also, judicially reviewing charitable status when LGB Alliance do not do what their mission on which their status was secured says they do is entirely legitimate.

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:46

CocoapuffPuff · 17/07/2024 15:43

Like not welcoming tw into female shelters is "literal violence" and not giving kids pbs will lead to multiple suicides, as per Jolyon Maugham? That kind of nonsense? Like you claiming that us criticising ugly flags etc is asking you to throw other people under the bus? That kind of nonsense?

But it's not just criticising the aesthetics of the flag. If it were, I may well be on here agreeing.

What this thread is about has almost nothing to do with aesthetics.

But good deflection from your debunked claim that the LGB Alliance aren't allowed to exist.

SidewaysOtter · 17/07/2024 15:43

Oh, and lesbians who’ve wanted to restrict their dating circles to biological women only absolutely have not been likened to “sexual racists” either.

What about the woman who wanted to have a “biological woman only” dating event? It was shut down by TRAs as I remember.

You can try and dress up the opposition to these efforts by LGB people to have their own spaces etc as “criticism” all you like but the bile and hatred heaped down on anyone who steps out of line goes far beyond “criticism” and straight into out and out efforts to oppress.

CocoapuffPuff · 17/07/2024 15:43

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:36

When you say they weren't allowed, that's nonsense though isn't it?

They were - and are - allowed.

You seem to conflate the fact that a group is criticised as meaning they are not allowed to exist.

Like not welcoming tw into female shelters is "literal violence" and not giving kids pbs will lead to multiple suicides, as per Jolyon Maugham? That kind of nonsense? Like you claiming that us criticising ugly flags etc is asking you to throw other people under the bus? That kind of nonsense?

SidewaysOtter · 17/07/2024 15:38

LGB people who do not want to be part of an LGBT+ community can do their own thing. They can have whatever say they like.

Yes, because when the LGB Alliance broke away to form a “LGB only” organisation, they absolutely weren’t denounced as a transphobic hate group because they excluded the TQ+, were they? And there absolutely wasn’t a sustained campaign to strip them of their charitable status?

Hmm
PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:36

CocoapuffPuff · 17/07/2024 15:31

This is off topic a little but in relation to the LGB buggering off and forming their own group. They did. LGB Alliance.

That's apparently a "hate group" according to the TQ+ segment of the alphabet, presumably because they did exactly what PlanetJanet advocates.

Wasn't allowed according to TQ. Exclusionary. Hateful. Blah blah blah. Charities regulator involved and everything.

I think they won the right to their own space but hey, they were taken to court first.

Is that the "bus" you're referencing?

When you say they weren't allowed, that's nonsense though isn't it?

They were - and are - allowed.

You seem to conflate the fact that a group is criticised as meaning they are not allowed to exist.

PlanetJanette · 17/07/2024 15:34

MaidOfAle · 17/07/2024 15:10

Like every other forced teaming there's ever been. Like the appropriation by white genderists of "Black Lives Matter" into "Black Trans Lives Matter" as if the non-trans Black people who make up the majority of victims of racialised police brutality don't matter to genderists. Forced teaming, "these people are like you so you should work with them for liberation", is then followed by "these people are more oppressed than you and you should subordinate your own concerns to support theirs".

But, I'll talk about something personal to me: autism charities are all captured by genderism. I want to fill in a survey run by such a charity to help other autistic people, I'm asked for my "gender identity" not my sex, even though my sex is why I was targeted for sexual assault and my sex is why I was subjected to female socialisation as a child and my sex is why my autism wasn't diagnosed until adulthood. Their survey data is useless because so many autistic people experience gender discomfort of some sort that the number of males choosing "woman" will distort the data about autistic women.

Forced teaming means never being allowed to say "hang on, this other group's interests and our interests are actually in conflict here". Forced teaming means not being allowed to say "hang on, just why are so many autistic girls being referred to gender clinics?" Forced teaming means autistic people being called on to denounce Cass, and autism charities actually doing so, because "transphobia" even though the puberty blockers ban will protect a disproportionately high number of autistic girls from medical abuse.

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You say 'not allowed'.

Who precisely is preventing you from doing so? Your objection seems to be more that people disagree with you, since there is absolutely no barrier to you either making your feelings known to those charities or setting up your own organisations that match your own beliefs.

That is a long way from 'not allowed'.

But of course your BLM example is massively flawed - what you're describing is organisations or movements giving consideration to parts of the movement that might need particular inclusion, support or consideration. It is perfectly legitimate for black trans people to work within the BLM movement to try to ensure that the specific concerns of black trans people are heard and reflected in the movement. That's not forced teaming - black trans people are part of the black community, and they are part of the trans community. There is no forced teaming involved.

To be an example of 'forced teaming', it would have to involve, for example, white trans people insisting that the BLM movement should advocate for them. Which is not what has happened.

Similarly, autism charities choosing a particular approach to supporting trans autistic people isn't forced teaming. Because the people they are supporting are already 'on the team' so to speak.

To be an example of forced teaming, it would have to involve autism charities being compelled to provide support to neurotypical trans people.

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