Spouse says men can use Ladies to change baby nappy?

So they remove these babies from nurseries so that they can get access to women's toilets?

They must be busy procreating every couple of years to have a baby on tap.

Tell you what share some media articles where it says.

Man takes baby into ladies loo for nappy change and rapes woman

Also they will target single mothers to gain access to children, it is a known method of accessing children. Our they will work or volunteer in nurseries etc.

Where does this happen? I thought everywhere had to provide a disabled toilet and IME most of the time that’s where the baby changing is. I don’t think I have ever seen anywhere where the was baby changing in the women’s toilets and none in the disabled toilets.

Where did John Lockhart get the four month old girl he raped from?

Stepkids, their own kids, relative's kids...

They are usually quite capable of procreation.

It would serve the venue right for not providing a changing table if there had been a poonami all over the felt.

Where do they hire these babies from?

Contemporaneous newspaper cutting https://dks.library.kent.edu/?a=d&d=sks20050615-01.2.6&e=-------en-20--1--txt-txIN-------

I spent an entire adult working life working with survivors of sexual assault. Some women were abusers, but the vast majority were men, the majority of the survivors were female. The lengths that some of these men will go to, to offend, will surprise some, however the planning and anticipation is often part of what gets these men off. I'm sure some would relish taking a baby girl into the ladies to change her nappy, so many boundaries to breach, all in one go!

I promise we had a changing mat and didn't make a mess. I know replacing the felt is very expensive.

I have both a son and husband and they'd get an earful if I found out they'd been in a female toilet to change a baby rather than using their nouse to come up with a better alternative.

I nipped into their snooker room and changed him on the table there

As a snooker fan, and knowing how precious snooker venues are about tables, I approve of this direct action.

It actually happened. He was on LiveJournal as "ohbutyouwillpet" and I had a LiveJournal at the time and I remember it being all over LJ.

"If someone finds it's only in the women's when they're out, then no wonder they have to use that."

No, they don't have to use that. If, for some unknown reason, the only baby change was in the men's toilets, I wouldn't use it. Then I'd complain to the management of the facility about the lack of a separate baby change.

Most places these days have got a separate baby change that's not in either toilet, or in addition to one in the women's. I would imagine that places that still have them only in the women's loos either haven't got the space or money to add another one that's available to men, or they are particularly old-fashioned/unthinking.

In the last few years I've been to two places which were challenging re baby changing.

First RSPB no changing facilities in the ladies bar the floor which was absolutely swimming in something.

Second a nice restaurant no changing facilities at all so I nipped into their snooker room and changed him on the table there

I agree with this always keep an ear open which is why I use one earbud low volume.

My 18yr old thinks I'm daft for telling him not to immerse himself in his headphones when he comes home on the train in the early hours of the morning - some people perceive risk differently whether that be by socialisation or experience.

Better to learn by other peoples' mistakes than your own, better still to have the opportunity to learn from that mistake.

This.
Dad's take their baby out too, they need baby changing facilities available to them too
If someone finds it's only in the women's when they're out,then no wonder they have to use that.
Not seen that though, they're usually separate and unisex.

Reported me for what? I've done nothing wrong on this thread.

As for "bored A-level student", I've been here since 2018.

Over 95% of sexual offending is perpetrated by men. Male sexual assault of women has the risk of leaving the victim pregnant. It's not all men, but it's almost always men. Given that pregnancy is a life-changing consequence for female victims, it makes sense to separate men and women in places where women are undressing, sleeping, or otherwise vulnerable.

Good men understand this and respect female-only spaces.

He can put a blanket on the floor like everyone else.

Why is not living my life in fear of all men make me 'hand Maiden'
I would rather that than be scared of every possible risk.
I hate the trite 'be kind' label, but if I'm going to be kind I'm not going to discriminate against half the population just because they happen to be male. What an awful way to live .

New York post ROFL