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100 organisations ask Labour to abandon Tory revised guidelines on RSHE

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IwantToRetire · 12/07/2024 00:56

The Conservative government launched a consultation in May on planned updates to guidance first issued in 2019, following a review of the reforms.

It proposed age limits on “sensitive” topics, ordered schools not to teach about “gender identity” and to share materials with parents.

Ministers were accused at the time of stirring up “culture war” issues in the run-up to the election.

The consultation closes today.

To coincide with its closure, more than 100 organisations including the ASCL and NAHT leaders’ unions, the PSHE Association, Sex Education Forum, Barnardo’s, Refuge and Everyone’s Invited have issued a joint statement calling for a “fresh start” to the review.

“We are calling on the next government to discard the draft guidance and begin this process in due course, focusing on the needs of children and young people and supporting teachers to deliver a high-quality, inclusive curriculum.”

Lucy Emmerson, CEO of the Sex Education Forum, said age restrictions would be a “backward step making children more vulnerable to abuse and harm”.

PSHE association chief executive Jonathan Baggaley, warned he had “deep concerns about the development process and shortcomings of the draft guidance, particularly on critical aspects of children’s safeguarding, wellbeing and inclusion”.

And Lynn Perry, chief executive of Barnardo’s, said introducing age limits to RSHE topics “risks children missing out on crucial teaching about abuse and exploitation”.

Continues at https://schoolsweek.co.uk/labour-faces-pressure-to-ditch-tory-rshe-reforms/

Labour faces pressure to ditch Tory RSHE reforms

Dozens of groups warn draft RSHE guidance 'falls short of what is required to help keep children safe'

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/labour-faces-pressure-to-ditch-tory-rshe-reforms

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CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 21:06

Floisme · 13/07/2024 20:32

Apologies as I've not read every post but have I got this right?

These 100 organisations presumably had the same opportunity as everyone else to respond to the consultation?

Instead (or maybe in addition?) they chose to bypass the consultation process and appeal directly to the government to ignore it and thereby everyone else's responses?

Is this standard practice?

I kind of hope I've got the wrong end of the stick because it sounds so dodgy I think I'd rather be that idiot who posts without reading the thread properly.

No, I think they responded but used the day it closed (and the change in government) to send the letter.

If you read the letter it seems sensible.

1Gadfly · 13/07/2024 20:33

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 13/07/2024 00:42

Here's what Safe Schools alliance have to say about the School of Sexuality Education

https://safeschoolsallianceuk.net/2023/02/05/the-school-of-sexuality-education/

It's abhorrent.

So no, Cassie, I'm not talking about biology lessons. I'm talking about a group that claim to be RSE experts going into schools and forcing children to draw dick pics, which are a form of sexual harassment and abuse, sent to them with the explicit intent to abuse and harass.

If it didn't involve eroding children's boundaries it would be slightly hilarious, given they think they're experts on 'consent', that they don't consider that it's hard for children to leave a lesson when the adults in charge are telling them it's part of core curriculum. WTF the teachers involved were thinking I don't know. Everything this group does appears to be a shameful safeguarding failure.

There is no way on earth a child who was subject to abuse (from peers or adults) could speak up in that context. There will have been children in that class who'd never seen dick pics - now exposed to recreations of them. There will have been children in that class who desperately wanted to escape because their spidey senses were screaming NO (do they not even have a clue how easily teenagers are embarrassed?) but the adults were telling them it was ok so they felt they couldn't speak up.

I actually have an issue with strangers going into schools and delivering RSE in any context. It's not always an easy topic for children and it needs to be a teacher or TA who already has a relationship of trust with those children. I've been fortunate this has been the case for my children so far.

I don't think normalising the idea that it's fine for a complete stranger they've never met to just start talking to them about incredibly personal issues is that great an idea.

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You might be interested in this, Re 'developmentally appropriate guidelines.' p.359 of this paper 19415257.2021.pdf (cardiff.ac.uk) states:
"Following recommendations which draw upon the design of the Scottish curriculum (Donaldson 2015, p. 93), the Welsh Government recently overhauled its national curriculum and proposed significant reforms to Relationships and Sexuality Education. Following two reports from a purposefully established Sex and Relationships Expert Panel, chaired by EJ (Renold and McGeeney 2017a, 2017b), these recommendations unfolded into a proposal for mandatory RSE for all children in Wales aged 3–16. Key changes include the shift from ‘sex’ to the more expansive definition of ‘sexuality’ and the foregrounding of ‘developmentally appropriate’ (rather than ‘age appropriate’) learning around six thematic areas (‘Rights and equity, Relationships, Sex, gender and sexuality, Bodies and body image, Sexual health and well-being and Violence, safety and support’) and across the curriculum, from humanities and the expressive arts to science and technology. Crucially, ‘developmentally appropriate’ is defined in the most recent guidance, not in relation to age categories, as is more commonly observed in RSE curricula, but as practice that ‘will not assume, but attune to and build upon learners’ evolving knowledge and experience’ (Welsh Government 2020a, p. 40). Further, it states that learning should be underpinned by a collective whole-school approach and eight embedding principles (Rights and gender-equity based, Empowering, Creative, Co-produced, Holistic, Inclusive, Protective, and Preventative)."

What if?: becoming response-able with the making and mattering of a new relationships and sexuality education curriculum

https://orca.cardiff.ac.uk/id/eprint/145878/7/19415257.2021.pdf

Floisme · 13/07/2024 20:32

Apologies as I've not read every post but have I got this right?

These 100 organisations presumably had the same opportunity as everyone else to respond to the consultation?

Instead (or maybe in addition?) they chose to bypass the consultation process and appeal directly to the government to ignore it and thereby everyone else's responses?

Is this standard practice?

I kind of hope I've got the wrong end of the stick because it sounds so dodgy I think I'd rather be that idiot who posts without reading the thread properly.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/07/2024 19:37

If we are derailing @FinalCeleryScheme, your user name makes me smile every time I see it 😊

FinalCeleryScheme · 13/07/2024 19:28

Isn’t section 28 a bit of a distraction for this conversation?

Yes, it’s completely irrelevant. (And my experience at school when it was in force is that it had no effect whatsoever: we were actually, and correctly, taught about how wrong it was.)

The only current issue is whether any instruction about the acceptability or plausibility of trans ideology should be put in front of children. To which the answer is obviously ’no’. Because it’s a load of bullshit.

EasternStandard · 13/07/2024 19:22

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/07/2024 19:20

Crossed with @PepeParapluie.

Both posts are very good, I agree with you

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/07/2024 19:20

Crossed with @PepeParapluie.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/07/2024 19:19

MotherFeministWoman · 13/07/2024 19:00

My experience of school under section28 was horrendous, as was the experience of many other people I know.

My experience as a lesbian teacher during Section 28 was that it was unpleasant and that it successfully ispired a range of gay and lesbian protest groups to successfully challenge it. There were 6 gay / lesbian teachers in my secondary school. Some students. Nobody was openly "out" as teachers kept their private lives private but many of us were spotted by young gay students - especially the 2 camp men. And me by amongst others the 6th former who was behind the bar in a gay club I walked into and greeted me with "Hello Miss"!

It was a nasty bit of legislation that's long gone but it's currently being appropriated to try to persuade people that discussing age appropriate SRE for children is somehow regressive, pearl clutching and wrong. So I'm wary of its regular appearance on threads like this.

PepeParapluie · 13/07/2024 19:18

Isn’t section 28 a bit of a distraction for this conversation?

The Cass report has highlighted the need for a cautious approach to gender questioning children. The schools guidance is in line with that cautious approach, and includes taking a cautious approach to teaching it by not teaching gender identity ideology as fact.

This is to prevent harm to children, because exposing them to a difficult to comprehend idea about changing gender, which could lead to distress for children and perhaps even ultimately irreversible medicalisation is clearly not in their best interests.

When we have a report showing the ultimate risk and lack of benefit of social and medical transition in children, surely it makes sense to use that evidence to formulate safeguarding plans? Equating that to a moral panic or to section 28 seems like an attempt to discredit genuine, evidence based concerns to me.

EasternStandard · 13/07/2024 19:09

It may be better for LGB which is good. That doesn’t mean propagating male toxicity or reinforcing gender stereotypes through gender ideology.

Or the falsehoods due to the GRA and gender ideology generally.

Adults who push for the above are not helping children

CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 19:08

IwantToRetire · 13/07/2024 18:44

Honestly what happens to threads I am on quite late at night, when there seem to be reasonable and on topic posts, but when I have time to get back to them maybe 12 hours later and they have been hijacked.

Talk about déjà vu - not just the baiting but the responding to baiting.

Just for once it would be nice to have a discussion about the issue not some silly school boy point scoring.

To recap as I see it.

Thanks to various campaign groups, worried parents and newspaper reports it became clear that some, if not all schools were using RSHE
to promote theories and beliefs that were those of an individual or campaigning group.

One of these is the contested "belief" that you can change sex being taught as a fact in lessons meant to help children understand about their bodies, and their right to say who can and cant have any contact with their bodies.

Another is that some parents felt many children were being taught age inappropriate material.

As well as many parents feeling that were not only not consulted about what was being taught but actively excluded.

The then Education minister issued guidelines to try and standardise what was taught (there were threads at the time) and also set up a consultation that allow not just interest groups but individuals to respond to proposals to make the guidelines permenant.

Then on the day the consultation closed a group of organisations, some of whom seemed to have no relevance to the consultation, wrote to the new Minister (but strangely kept very quiet about it to the public as a whole) saying the consultation was not adequate and should be scrapped and made statements about trans ideology.

So the immediate issue is whether Labour will think this self selecting group of organisations has more statues than those who took part in the consultation and / or are better informed about how a consultation should be conducted.

Shouldn't mumsnetters also get together and claim to represent thousands of actual parents and say can we have the results of the consultation?

This is about something that is happening know, and being dragged down a keyboard cul-de-sac by party political sloganeering could well mean that the situation will be changed whilst FWR is bogged down in whatabouterry.

Over and above the content and who is allowed to teach it, the biggest issue seems to be parents not being included adequately, but also a political failure by the political class that knows their is a social issue and think palming it off to schools will some how sort it out.

It's a discussion board. People can discuss things Confused

I agree with the signatories of the letter. I think another consultation probably is a good idea; if it happens parents and orgs will get a chance to feed in then.

CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 19:06

MotherFeministWoman · 13/07/2024 19:00

My experience of school under section28 was horrendous, as was the experience of many other people I know.

Thank you. Most of the gay people I know my age say the same. I didn't know any out gay people when I was at secondary school in the 90s, I think be because it was not as accepting then as it is now.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 13/07/2024 19:06

Well said Retire. I'd also add in the lack of due diligence from the last government and civil servants (all very well documented and evidenced) that resulted in some of the most unsuitable individuals and organisations in the world being given access to schools and shamefully children via SRE.

The DfE issue countless consultations - most? policy changes quite rightly goes out to consultation so I'm not sure how much mileage there is in challenging this one? I think the main issue is that the game is up for trans activism.

Parents have the confidence to speak out. We're refusing to be shamed out of our concerns by the bad faith actors. This isn't going to stop. For every derail (oh no Section 28 - here's a google) parents and responsible adults know that too much SRE has been provided that fails to centre children. That children shouldn't be confronted with porn and unhinged transactivism in schools. And yes - it's not all schools but it's far too many.

Partnership with parents as established in the Children Act way back in 1989, schools to maintain political neutrality (as dictated by law) and safeguarding children to be central for every adult and organisation working with children.
They're legal and reasonable expectations (unless you're a transactivist)

MotherFeministWoman · 13/07/2024 19:00

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/07/2024 18:34

Give it up Cassie. Many of us know what school was like with S28 and what you're saying does not reflect the reality of school at the time. Yes. Even with your googling. This was not my experience at what was so lovingly called a "bog standard comprehensive".

My experience of school under section28 was horrendous, as was the experience of many other people I know.

IwantToRetire · 13/07/2024 18:48

Shouldn't mumsnetters also get together and claim to represent thousands of actual parents and say can we have the results of the consultation?

I am not familiar with other forums on mumsnet, but is there one where without getting into a pointless part political slagging match the question could be asked:

Was everyone aware of the consultation
Did they take part
Are they aware that 100 groups have got together to say the whole process and guideliens should be scrapped

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IwantToRetire · 13/07/2024 18:44

Honestly what happens to threads I am on quite late at night, when there seem to be reasonable and on topic posts, but when I have time to get back to them maybe 12 hours later and they have been hijacked.

Talk about déjà vu - not just the baiting but the responding to baiting.

Just for once it would be nice to have a discussion about the issue not some silly school boy point scoring.

To recap as I see it.

Thanks to various campaign groups, worried parents and newspaper reports it became clear that some, if not all schools were using RSHE
to promote theories and beliefs that were those of an individual or campaigning group.

One of these is the contested "belief" that you can change sex being taught as a fact in lessons meant to help children understand about their bodies, and their right to say who can and cant have any contact with their bodies.

Another is that some parents felt many children were being taught age inappropriate material.

As well as many parents feeling that were not only not consulted about what was being taught but actively excluded.

The then Education minister issued guidelines to try and standardise what was taught (there were threads at the time) and also set up a consultation that allow not just interest groups but individuals to respond to proposals to make the guidelines permenant.

Then on the day the consultation closed a group of organisations, some of whom seemed to have no relevance to the consultation, wrote to the new Minister (but strangely kept very quiet about it to the public as a whole) saying the consultation was not adequate and should be scrapped and made statements about trans ideology.

So the immediate issue is whether Labour will think this self selecting group of organisations has more statues than those who took part in the consultation and / or are better informed about how a consultation should be conducted.

Shouldn't mumsnetters also get together and claim to represent thousands of actual parents and say can we have the results of the consultation?

This is about something that is happening know, and being dragged down a keyboard cul-de-sac by party political sloganeering could well mean that the situation will be changed whilst FWR is bogged down in whatabouterry.

Over and above the content and who is allowed to teach it, the biggest issue seems to be parents not being included adequately, but also a political failure by the political class that knows their is a social issue and think palming it off to schools will some how sort it out.

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ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/07/2024 18:34

Give it up Cassie. Many of us know what school was like with S28 and what you're saying does not reflect the reality of school at the time. Yes. Even with your googling. This was not my experience at what was so lovingly called a "bog standard comprehensive".

CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 18:15

PeppercornMill · 13/07/2024 17:41

I was at school under Tony Blair's Labour and we had 3rd parties come in to do certain aspects of sex education. The outsourcing of it is not a Tory thing, it was happening before.

The main difference between then and now is how sex has become politicised. Yes Section 28 was in operation, but it didn't ban the teaching of homosexuality, and we learnt about it.

Now sex has been politicised and there are a lot of vested groups coming in to not just teach facts, but teach theories as fact too. Stonewall are one of the signatories.

Everyone remembers "Stranger Danger", it didn't need to go into explicit detail, so discussions around porn can do the same too. Children don't need to be told about the content, and clearly there are some people doing that.

This is section 28:

Prohibition on promoting homosexuality by teaching or by publishing material.

The following section shall be inserted after section 2 of the Local Government Act 1986 (prohibition of political publicity)—
“2A Prohibition on promoting homosexuality by teaching or by publishing material.

(1) A local authority shall not—

(a) intentionally promote homosexuality or publish material with the intention of promoting homosexuality;

(b) promote the teaching in any maintained school of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretended family relationship.

(2) Nothing in subsection (1) above shall be taken to prohibit the doing of anything for the purpose of treating or preventing the spread of disease."

Introduced by the Conservatives in 1988. Repealed by Labour in 2003 after a previous unsuccessful attempt where the Tories in the Lords blocked it.

https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings/cdp-2023-0213/

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/homeaffairs/page/0,11026,875944,00.html

Section 28 timeline | Special Reports | guardian.co.uk Politics

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/homeaffairs/page/0,11026,875944,00.html

CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 18:10

PeppercornMill · 13/07/2024 17:41

I was at school under Tony Blair's Labour and we had 3rd parties come in to do certain aspects of sex education. The outsourcing of it is not a Tory thing, it was happening before.

The main difference between then and now is how sex has become politicised. Yes Section 28 was in operation, but it didn't ban the teaching of homosexuality, and we learnt about it.

Now sex has been politicised and there are a lot of vested groups coming in to not just teach facts, but teach theories as fact too. Stonewall are one of the signatories.

Everyone remembers "Stranger Danger", it didn't need to go into explicit detail, so discussions around porn can do the same too. Children don't need to be told about the content, and clearly there are some people doing that.

Section 28 was under the previous administration (Conservatives) and most certainly did affect what was taught at school. If you were at school under Blair, you'll be too young to remember it. I do and I can see the difference between LGB children's experiences today vs. when I was in secondary school (during s. 28)

CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 18:07

PeppercornMill · 13/07/2024 17:41

I was at school under Tony Blair's Labour and we had 3rd parties come in to do certain aspects of sex education. The outsourcing of it is not a Tory thing, it was happening before.

The main difference between then and now is how sex has become politicised. Yes Section 28 was in operation, but it didn't ban the teaching of homosexuality, and we learnt about it.

Now sex has been politicised and there are a lot of vested groups coming in to not just teach facts, but teach theories as fact too. Stonewall are one of the signatories.

Everyone remembers "Stranger Danger", it didn't need to go into explicit detail, so discussions around porn can do the same too. Children don't need to be told about the content, and clearly there are some people doing that.

The "big society" and getting rid of LEAs was most certainly a conservative movement.

https://www.gov.uk/government/speeches/big-society-speech

We’ve got to get rid of the centralised bureaucracy that wastes money and undermines morale.

And in its place we’ve got give professionals much more freedom, and open up public services to new providers like charities, social enterprises and private companies so we get more innovation, diversity and responsiveness to public need.

The Rt Hon Lord Cameron

Big Society Speech

Transcript of a speech by the Prime Minister on the Big Society, 19 July 2010.

https://www.gov.uk/government/speeches/big-society-speech

PeppercornMill · 13/07/2024 17:41

CassieMaddox · 13/07/2024 16:42

I think a lot of this seems from the previous Government ideology of "the big society" - get rid of centralised LEAs who oversaw standards and let schools find their own sources from charities/third sector. Leading to dubious quality materials in some cases.

I'm hoping the different ideological approach of Labour will result in more centralised standards and control. For me that would be a more effective way to control what's being taught, than blanket banning certain topics at certain ages but continuing to insist schools source the teaching themselves.

The sourcing is the root of the problem, not the guidelines.

I was at school under Tony Blair's Labour and we had 3rd parties come in to do certain aspects of sex education. The outsourcing of it is not a Tory thing, it was happening before.

The main difference between then and now is how sex has become politicised. Yes Section 28 was in operation, but it didn't ban the teaching of homosexuality, and we learnt about it.

Now sex has been politicised and there are a lot of vested groups coming in to not just teach facts, but teach theories as fact too. Stonewall are one of the signatories.

Everyone remembers "Stranger Danger", it didn't need to go into explicit detail, so discussions around porn can do the same too. Children don't need to be told about the content, and clearly there are some people doing that.

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 13/07/2024 17:11

Partnership with and feedback from parents, not organisations or charities, is critical if there is central guidance about what is taught. This is about what they're teaching OUR children - all these organisations are LESS important than parents. Definitely we need to cut out the dodgy outside agencies (I suspect this is why some of these charities are against the draft guidance as it's drying up an income stream), but even if it's the LA doing it, there needs to be partnership with parents. I'm afraid I find the attitude of some LA staff contrary to safeguarding guidance as far as that goes. There is sometimes a 'we know best' attitude when they clearly don't, not about individual children.

I don't know when some people in charities, organisations and local authorities decided parents were the enemy and they knew better, but having this attitude is not in children's best interests and does not follow safeguarding best practice.

Fortunately in my experience most teachers don't think like this - probably because they're on the front line and do actually speak to parents!

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 13/07/2024 17:10

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 13/07/2024 17:02

Parents will know better what's age appropriate for their child than the school staff, they will know their children better. This point from a PP is so important SRE needs to be taught in schools in full partnership with parents

It's not just about what is taught - because that will rightly vary according to schools and different groups of children - but about HOW it is taught. It is already written into safeguarding law and statutory guidance that sharing information is critical to safeguarding. Sharing all RSE resources is part of this. If a child is getting mixed messages or conflicting messages from home and school that is not in the child's best interest.

Instead of following safeguarding law, we've seen schools use outside resources and trying to hide what they're doing from parents - on the gender issue and on RSE. This is NEVER in children's best interests except in situations where social services should already be involved as a matter of urgency and these cases are very few.

I think the way in which adults with dubious agendas have been enabled to try and keep secrets from parents is one of the biggest parts of the scandal because it's ALREADY against safeguarding law and good practice so all schools doing this should be marked down by Ofsted / have interventions. But somehow these very determined adults seem to have got away with it for a decade or more and have convinced other useful idiot adults this is a good idea. Though I think even the useful idiots know it's never in a child's best interests which is why they're so cagey and have to resort to 'pearl clutching' as an argument.

Star

And we know the lobbyists got to Ofsted of course.

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 13/07/2024 17:02

Parents will know better what's age appropriate for their child than the school staff, they will know their children better. This point from a PP is so important SRE needs to be taught in schools in full partnership with parents

It's not just about what is taught - because that will rightly vary according to schools and different groups of children - but about HOW it is taught. It is already written into safeguarding law and statutory guidance that sharing information is critical to safeguarding. Sharing all RSE resources is part of this. If a child is getting mixed messages or conflicting messages from home and school that is not in the child's best interest.

Instead of following safeguarding law, we've seen schools use outside resources and trying to hide what they're doing from parents - on the gender issue and on RSE. This is NEVER in children's best interests except in situations where social services should already be involved as a matter of urgency and these cases are very few.

I think the way in which adults with dubious agendas have been enabled to try and keep secrets from parents is one of the biggest parts of the scandal because it's ALREADY against safeguarding law and good practice so all schools doing this should be marked down by Ofsted / have interventions. But somehow these very determined adults seem to have got away with it for a decade or more and have convinced other useful idiot adults this is a good idea. Though I think even the useful idiots know it's never in a child's best interests which is why they're so cagey and have to resort to 'pearl clutching' as an argument.