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Jess Phillips appointed a minister to focus on tackling violence against women and girls and domestic violence.

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IwantToRetire · 09/07/2024 23:48

Jess Phillips has been appointed to the Labour government as a minister, focusing on tackling violence against women and girls and domestic violence.

The Labour MP has been a vocal campaigner on the subject, and has become known for reading out a list of all the women killed by men in the UK every year on International Women's Day in parliament.

Ms Phillips had the role of shadow domestic violence and safeguarding minister from 2020 to 2023 under Sir Keir Starmer but resigned over the party's stance on the Middle East conflict in November.

She was one of 56 Labour MPs - including eight frontbenchers - to vote in favour of an SNP motion calling for an immediate ceasefire in the Middle East.

This defied the Labour whip, and so Ms Phillips had to step aside.

More ... https://news.sky.com/story/jess-phillips-made-minister-following-frontbench-resignation-over-middle-east-13175726

Jess Phillips made minister following frontbench resignation over Middle East

The Birmingham Yardley MP has been appointed to the Home Office team, working under Home Secretary Yvette Cooper. She previously held a shadow role for domestic violence and safeguarding but stood down last year.

https://news.sky.com/story/jess-phillips-made-minister-following-frontbench-resignation-over-middle-east-13175726

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Fidelius · 10/07/2024 08:12

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:42

I’m guessing you all came up through the feminism of the 80s, read a lot of Germaine Greer and refuse to believe the world has moved on without you

When I read responses like this it reminds me that “argument” in the pure definition of the word, is a reasoned exchange of dialogue with the aim of altering the opposing view.
This isn’t it. This is dismissive ageism and condescension.
The “world” has very much moved on since trans activism’s weasel words became accepted as “being kind”.
Examine the arguments and then look at reality. The argument is simple - sex matters in the everyday world where women have a right to the following:
single sex rape and DV shelters
single sex sport
same sex relationships
single sex short lists and initiatives

Persuade me why the above aren’t justifiable from an ethical and moral point of view. Preferably using a reasoned argument and not reaching for dismissive “not with us, therefore against us”

GreenUp · 10/07/2024 08:10

Neolara · 10/07/2024 08:03

I love Jess Phillips and her podcast (Electoral Dysfunction) is a lot of fun and very informative, but in a different way to The Rest is Politics. Much more personal.

Thanks for recommending that podcast - I hadn't heard of it before. I'm always looking for new politics podcasts.

Neolara · 10/07/2024 08:03

I love Jess Phillips and her podcast (Electoral Dysfunction) is a lot of fun and very informative, but in a different way to The Rest is Politics. Much more personal.

Hepwo · 10/07/2024 08:02

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 01:42

😂 yeah I’m angry that your ridiculous narrative has taken over mumsnet and that no subject can be talked about without first saying ‘well X doesn’t know what a woman is’.

I’m angry that you’re hijacking feminism and women’s rights by punching down to another more marginalised community.

I’m angry that you’re using exactly the same rhetoric that was used against gay rights 50 years ago.

And I’m definitely angry that you all seem to be too ignorant and in trenched to recognise all of this.

Hey - that Stalin. Mostly bad ey? But at least he knew what a woman was.

You were alive in the 70s? You seem pretty nasty about older women so I'm surprised you were around in the 70s to discuss gay rights.

If you recall there was never any requests from gay men to take part in women's sports and use women's hospital wards.

Gay men did cross dress and pretend to be women though due to homophobia then and this is the origin of trans rights now as we know, gay men so ashamed of it they pretend they are women and wanting to be married as women.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 10/07/2024 07:51

I think Labour are going to find out that the issue they say never comes up on the doorstep is about to burst out of their red boxes

Hepwo · 10/07/2024 07:50

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:55

Yep. You’re right. So what about infertile women. What about women who have had a hysterectomy. Are they still women? Do they still experience discrimination based on still looking like they could get pregnant. What about trans women who look like they could also get pregnant? Trans women who can be raped. What about very masculine presenting women? Are they still women? Even if they don’t look like women?

Its nuanced. The whole thing. But you all reduce it down to how female presenting you are.

That's not nuance, it's just stupidity.
You think we are insane but you rely on this tired old whataboutary.

Childish rubbish. I thought you wanted to talk about politics and you roll out this garbage.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/07/2024 07:49

Why are they excellent points when TW are men?

feminism is about women, not supporting men who perform gender stereotypes the very gender stereotypes feminists want to get away from

society - women need to look pretty, have long hair and wear make up, dresses and heals
TW - I’m a woman because I wear heals, dresses and have long hair

GC feminists - women can dress however they want, only thing that makes someone a women is being born an adult human female

KateDelRick · 10/07/2024 07:46

Jess Phillips will do a good job. Let's just see what is put in place.

KateDelRick · 10/07/2024 07:43

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:29

The phrase is just so utterly cliche at this point. According to your description, Putin ‘knows what a woman is’. Hitler ‘knew what a woman was’. The fucking Taliban ‘know what a woman is’. Have you not noticed that those who subscribe to your narrow definition are also the ones most likely to rape and degrade women, keep them barefoot and pregnant and earning less? I’ll take feminism that recognises trans women and also looks closely at domestic violence, childcare prices and parental leave.

Excellent points 👌

FrancescaContini · 10/07/2024 07:43

The word “angry” used four times in one post. Woah.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/07/2024 07:42

FrancescaContini · 10/07/2024 07:41

“You’re all utterly insane” - from a clearly very angry poster

possibly even “frothing” 😉

FrancescaContini · 10/07/2024 07:42

Laughing at “ignorant”

CurlewKate · 10/07/2024 07:42

@Hiphopopotamonster "I’m guessing you all came up through the feminism of the 80s, read a lot of Germaine Greer and refuse to believe the world has moved on without you"

I am perfectly prepared to accept that the world has moved on without me. What really pisses me off is young women trying to destroy the ladder they climbed up to get to where they are today.

FrancescaContini · 10/07/2024 07:41

“You’re all utterly insane” - from a clearly very angry poster

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:38

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 01:42

😂 yeah I’m angry that your ridiculous narrative has taken over mumsnet and that no subject can be talked about without first saying ‘well X doesn’t know what a woman is’.

I’m angry that you’re hijacking feminism and women’s rights by punching down to another more marginalised community.

I’m angry that you’re using exactly the same rhetoric that was used against gay rights 50 years ago.

And I’m definitely angry that you all seem to be too ignorant and in trenched to recognise all of this.

Hey - that Stalin. Mostly bad ey? But at least he knew what a woman was.

If you cannot think clearly or differentiate adequately you are never going to be able to discuss why your statement about gay rights simply isn't true.
You have to be able to clearly identify the different elements of something if you want to effectively analyse it.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:35

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 01:42

😂 yeah I’m angry that your ridiculous narrative has taken over mumsnet and that no subject can be talked about without first saying ‘well X doesn’t know what a woman is’.

I’m angry that you’re hijacking feminism and women’s rights by punching down to another more marginalised community.

I’m angry that you’re using exactly the same rhetoric that was used against gay rights 50 years ago.

And I’m definitely angry that you all seem to be too ignorant and in trenched to recognise all of this.

Hey - that Stalin. Mostly bad ey? But at least he knew what a woman was.

There is one sub forum on the entire board in which those who want to discuss the issue of women's sex based rights and protections and the conflict with trans ideology can do so.

WickedSerious · 10/07/2024 07:30

MistyGreenAndBlue · 10/07/2024 01:54

Blimey. You don't often get an almost full house of TRA bingo in just one post.
Impressive. 😂

No 'genitals' though.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:30

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:55

Yep. You’re right. So what about infertile women. What about women who have had a hysterectomy. Are they still women? Do they still experience discrimination based on still looking like they could get pregnant. What about trans women who look like they could also get pregnant? Trans women who can be raped. What about very masculine presenting women? Are they still women? Even if they don’t look like women?

Its nuanced. The whole thing. But you all reduce it down to how female presenting you are.

Women are adult human females - regardless of how they dress and whether or not they can get pregnant. Transwomen are male by definition, regardless of how they dress or present.

Gay men remain male even when dressed up and performing drag. Lesbians are still women even if they have short hair and a sleeve of tatoos.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:28

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:52

Nope. I came on because Jess Phillips is an excellent appointment and I wanted to talk about that. But the echo chamber of the GC crowd around here makes me want to scream. You’re all utterly insane. And wrong. And it’s incredibly frustrating at the moment not to be able to jump on a politics thread without your cliche shite being trotted out.

Simply being aggressive doesn't achieve anything, and it adds nothing to the discussion either. You won't scare people away by using words like "fuck" and "shite".

People have their posts deleted by Mumsnet for far less.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:24

Humtum · 10/07/2024 00:48

100%

I'd challenge anyone on their views of being 'disappointed' by her abilities.

The amount pettifog created when someone supports women + trans rights. 🥱

'Trans' refers to people who for whatever reason feel the need or desire to present as the opposite sex. Women are adult human females.Clear definitions are required if you want to protect the rights and dignity of each group. 'Trans' rights are not women's rights.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/07/2024 07:23

JohnnyRememberMe · 10/07/2024 07:22

Infertile women, like me, are women. Transwomen are not. It is deeply offensive when you conflate the two separate groups.

What you call a narrow definition of woman encompasses over 3bn human beings of the female sex.

Penis people are men, no matter how they identify.

Hear hear!

im infertile because my female biology has malfunctioned not became I’m a fucking man!!

JohnnyRememberMe · 10/07/2024 07:22

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:55

Yep. You’re right. So what about infertile women. What about women who have had a hysterectomy. Are they still women? Do they still experience discrimination based on still looking like they could get pregnant. What about trans women who look like they could also get pregnant? Trans women who can be raped. What about very masculine presenting women? Are they still women? Even if they don’t look like women?

Its nuanced. The whole thing. But you all reduce it down to how female presenting you are.

Infertile women, like me, are women. Transwomen are not. It is deeply offensive when you conflate the two separate groups.

What you call a narrow definition of woman encompasses over 3bn human beings of the female sex.

Penis people are men, no matter how they identify.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:20

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:42

I’m guessing you all came up through the feminism of the 80s, read a lot of Germaine Greer and refuse to believe the world has moved on without you

In what ways has the world " moved on" if there is still a perceived need to have a minister especially appointed to deal with violence towards women and girls?

The basic facts of biology and physicality have not gone anywhere, and you cannot protect women and girls unless you accept that they require some dedicated spaces in certain types of circumstance which recognises these things; and which accords women and girls some basic dignity in the process.

This is fundamental stuff.

Zita60 · 10/07/2024 07:18

Soontobe60 · 10/07/2024 06:24

Really? VAWG should only focus on females. If there is a concern regarding violence against transwomen, then their specific situation needs to be dealt with in a specific manner. Or are you implying that VATW is exactly the same as VAWG? Including males who identify as women in the same category as females does neither demographic any good.

Exactly this. Violence against transwomen needs to be dealt with, but violence against women and girls is a separate issue.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/07/2024 07:15

Hiphopopotamonster · 10/07/2024 00:38

It’s not ironic at all. Check who’s in your camp. Those who hold to a very narrow view of what a woman is, tend to also be those who subscribe to a very narrow definition of what a woman can do.

A woman is an adult human female. That's it. It is really not any more complicated than that.