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Is calling 'people' 'folk' part of gender ideology rewriting language norms or is it separate?

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Gofastboatsmojito · 08/07/2024 13:26

I've noticed this a lot in the last couple of years, it seems much more common in articles broadly on board with GI, pronouns, using the word Queer to describe anyone not achingly boring.

I've also noticed it coming out the mouths of my friends who are more TWAW inclined.

The word 'people' doesn't seem to have explicit links with biological realism or gender critical beliefs but it seems out of fashion in some circles.

Is this coincidence and more related to younger trendier language (!) or is it chosen for a reason?

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YouBelongWithMe · 08/07/2024 23:05

Secondary teacher in Scotland here. We are encouraged to use 'folks' instead of 'guys' or gendered terms like 'ladies and gentlemen'. I associate it with woke nonsense (perhaps wrongly) so I call my classes all sorts instead: 'you lucky little ducks', 'you bunch of horrors', 'you noisy lot', etc.

TheSmallAssassin · 08/07/2024 23:02

I went through a phase of regularly (politely!) pulling people up at work for using "guys", I work in a traditionally male dominated industry and found it really grating, especially if I was the only woman or if there were (miraculously) more women than men in the group being referred to. Folks is a good alternative, in my opinion, and is mostly used to avoid guys where I work.

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 23:00

Aspierational · 08/07/2024 22:55

Because they are doing men's dirty work for them out of self-hatred and an inferiority complex.

But that's not what the handmaids did. They generally weren't collaborators.

greencatbob · 08/07/2024 22:59

This is a term I've always used. I hope it isn't appropriated.

DinnaeFashYersel · 08/07/2024 22:56

I'm in Scotland and use 'folk' and 'folks' all the time.

Always have and nothing to do with gender.

Fizbosshoes · 08/07/2024 22:56

A minister from a church I used to go to used the word folk or folks all the time, I'm pretty sure it was part of his dialect rather than being trendy (it was 15+ years ago) He was Welsh if that makes a difference.

Within our own family me and DD refer to the males in the house as "menfolk" and she refers to me and DH as "parentfolk".

Aspierational · 08/07/2024 22:55

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 22:49

Men and their hand maidens policing everyone’s speech

Now on the subject of the use of words, this is one that often puzzles me. Why do people refer to female supporters of GI as "handmaidens"? From what I remember of the book, the handmaids were not willing participants in Gilead. They were slaves effectively. These female pronouners are more akin to Aunt Lydia than handmaids.

Because they are doing men's dirty work for them out of self-hatred and an inferiority complex.

Aspierational · 08/07/2024 22:53

Yes, it's definitely very commonly used in more "woke" circles (lived in Bristol for years). It makes me cringe, although folx is worse.

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 22:49

Men and their hand maidens policing everyone’s speech

Now on the subject of the use of words, this is one that often puzzles me. Why do people refer to female supporters of GI as "handmaidens"? From what I remember of the book, the handmaids were not willing participants in Gilead. They were slaves effectively. These female pronouners are more akin to Aunt Lydia than handmaids.

Heylo · 08/07/2024 22:40

It’s not a coincidence. I’m a lesbian in my 30s and where I am in the company of so called queer people (like you say means basically anyone who wants to Identify into that label) they all use it.

infact I’ve been told off twice for using hey guys / girls.

men and their hand maidens policing everyone’s speech

BlackForestCake · 08/07/2024 22:24

Pieceofpurplesky · 08/07/2024 19:31

I say 'right folks' to my class when I want attention. It's better than guys

Isn't that what Michelle from ze Resistance says when she starts speaking English?

SydneyCarton · 08/07/2024 19:40

@GiveMeMySoddingCokeZero See also “eleventy-billion”. Pretty sure I identified a colleague as a MN-er when she used that in an email

Pieceofpurplesky · 08/07/2024 19:31

I say 'right folks' to my class when I want attention. It's better than guys

Purplecatshopaholic · 08/07/2024 19:31

I’m in Central Scotland - the word folk is common and always has been, no connotations intended at all

FuzzyPuffling · 08/07/2024 19:18

I'm.going to start calling everyone "chums".

ThewaytoAmarula · 08/07/2024 18:52

I'm from the south of England and have noticed this too among the more GI-supportive people I know. They also tend to say human, as in "Oh thank you, you lovely human!"

missshilling · 08/07/2024 18:46

Haveanaiceday · 08/07/2024 17:51

Having read the word folks so much in this thread I now have no idea how to pronounce the word.

Foak as in oak.

GiveMeMySoddingCokeZero · 08/07/2024 18:17

Marblessolveeverything · 08/07/2024 17:52

Seriously you need to stop overanalyzing language like this.

Folks is used for generations as is kiddos. I am sick and tired of people policing language. All you are doing is alienating people into sylos.

It's not "policing". It's observing. I expect if you analysed MN using corpus linguistics you'd find some distinctive language usage here, some of which may well colour the way some members speak in their non-MN lives too.

Grim, for example. I bet that would turn up at a far higher frequency on MN than in most English-language corpora, and I'd also wager that, on average, the way it gets used on MN skews heavily towards a particular subset of the ways the word "grim" can be used.

But noticing that, and pointing it out, isn't "policing" anybody, or alienating them into silos Hmm Identifying and commenting on distinctive ways that language gets used within a particular community, and more broadly by that community's members, is a perfectly valid thing to do and doesn't imply any criticism of anyone. Noticing that MNers use "grim" in a particular way, and quite frequently, is different to claiming that nobody used "grim" before MN existed, or saying that using "grim" is a sure sign of a MNer, or trying to tell people that they should/shouldn't use "grim" or that they should/shouldn't use it in a particular way (or trying to alienate MNers/non-MNers into a silo).

It's fine if you're not interested in language and communities, but there are people (like me) who find this stuff fascinating Grin

AlexandraLeaving · 08/07/2024 17:56

terryleather · 08/07/2024 13:31

I'm in my 50s and use folk all the time, always have.

I'm in Scotland and it's pretty common here - there's no connection with genderism in that respect although I know how much genderists love to use the term.

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Marblessolveeverything · 08/07/2024 17:52

DappledOliveGroves · 08/07/2024 16:53

I see a lot of use of "folk" when talking about the trans community. It also seems to be the done thing to refer to trans and non-binary "kiddos". Not children.

Seriously you need to stop overanalyzing language like this.

Folks is used for generations as is kiddos. I am sick and tired of people policing language. All you are doing is alienating people into sylos.

Haveanaiceday · 08/07/2024 17:51

Having read the word folks so much in this thread I now have no idea how to pronounce the word.

Slothtoes · 08/07/2024 17:44

The TRA usage of ‘folks’ or ‘folk’ though is intended to send specific gender identity dogma signals. People wanting to show they are supporting the party line in this also use ‘folx’. Where a random x substituted into ‘folks’ implies that boring norms are being messed with and suggests that inclusivity isn’t found in typical spelling (Hmm) see also ‘womxn’. (Is there an equivalent Mxn? Pxople? Sorry that should be Pxoplx?)

In these settings ‘folks’ is just a twee faux-cosy imported Americanism- for example in London as I have seen it used, which isn’t a place with a local history of using ‘folks’. It’s often preferred to saying non-binary ‘people’. I think it’s gone a bit out of fashion by now.

CaptainOliviaBenson · 08/07/2024 17:27

Tinysoxxx · 08/07/2024 17:22

So the pronunciation for folks and folx is the same? How do you know if people are saying folks or folx? Or is it only when it’s written down that you see the difference?

😬I didn't know you were asking for both words. I was talking about folks. I need to RTFT next time.

Tinysoxxx · 08/07/2024 17:22

CaptainOliviaBenson · 08/07/2024 17:19

blokes.

So the pronunciation for folks and folx is the same? How do you know if people are saying folks or folx? Or is it only when it’s written down that you see the difference?

LonginesPrime · 08/07/2024 17:22

I sometimes say "right folks, let's get dinner started" or whatever.

But when people say "trans folk" it just reminds me of Woodland Folk - that hippy version of the Scouts. Like they're out with guitars, making friendship bracelets in the forest.