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Trigger Warning: Horrified by what happened to Lara Logan in Egypt *title edited by MNHQ*

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slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 09:18

This happened in 2011, but I have only just seen a video about it. It has utterly horrified me. Lara Logan was reporting on protests in Egypt, when the camera broke. Her colleague, who spoke the local language realised very quickly that she was in trouble, as he heard the crowds of men starting to talk about attacking Lara. He desperately tried to get her away from the mob, but she was dragged in to the crowd, and up to 200 men ripped all her clothes off, and then raped her and beat her with flagpoles. They then tried to rip her arms and legs off, and tried to rip her scalp off. She was eventually rescued, almost dead, by a crown of women and soldiers. These were muslim men.

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I find it terrifying, that a group of men would all want to be so violent towards a woman, and not one thought that what they were doing, was wrong/should be stopped.

These are men who insist that women are covered at all times, who insist in no sex before marriage, and it makes me wonder whether they have deprived themselves of being around women, and then when they see one, they just lose all control. As far as I know, nothing like this has happened in the West, where women and sex are (for want of a better phrase) freely available.

Apparently, a high percentage of Egyptian men freely admit that they have sexually assaulted women, which seems at odds with men insisting that women are covered and not allowed sexual freedom.

The whole thing is just awful. That poor lady.

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coldcallerbaiter · 30/06/2024 15:42

I knew about this incident at the time, it was reported on the news, it was shocking. I never forgot it. As an aside Lara looked to be wearing a full t shirt and combat type trousers.

As a young woman in Paris years ago, the North African men gave me creeps, they would grin at you as they approached you, it was that fucking grin that was my cue to exit fast, it was constant. I was nearly raped a couple of times. So when I saw the Lara headline I knew exactly what the dynamic was, they did not like a young attractive female having the authority of being a reporter. Her job in their minds is to be freely available because she is a western woman. They cannot get their heads around western womens roles, it all has to revolve around covered/submissive and/or what the men want from them.

biscuitandcake · 30/06/2024 15:16

See also, what (mostly Canadian) "peacekeepers" did in the Balkans following the war there. There was a horrifying film about it (Whistleblower) but that actually underplayed the reality out of necessity. And actually quite a large number of other UN based scandals. The worst thing about those - its not just some evil men doing something evil. Its an absolutely massive number of people who know something terrible is going on, literally see the most horrific things with their own eyes and have the power to stop it but choose not to. Its how those mass rapes can happen because you will have a swirling mass of literally hundreds of men. Some of them are just pulling of clothes, some are committing the rape, some are just part of the mob and will whine later they didn't do anything (except physically block rescuers with their bodies).

viques · 30/06/2024 14:55

Combattingthemoaners · 30/06/2024 14:32

it makes me wonder whether they have deprived themselves of being around women, and then when they see one, they just lose all control.

This isn’t why they rape and hurt women. This is giving them an excuse. It is because they do not see women as equal human beings. They are there to be controlled and abused in a patriarchal society.

This, it’s exactly the same mindset that marries young barely pubescent girls to very old men, not only in some Muslim countries but in white radical Bible bashing sects in the US, like some Mormon branches or more extreme Christian minority religions. They really do not see women as human beings with feelings, opinions and rights.

Calliecarpa · 30/06/2024 14:54

GailBlancheViola · 30/06/2024 14:35

A ‘milder’ but still horrible version took place in Koln on New Years Eve 2025/16, and in several other German cities. I cancelled my Guardian subscription when they were the last British newspaper to admit that it had occurred (and then minimised the impact).

They didn't just minimise it they went into full on victim blame mode, the women were dressed as western women are on a night out, free to be able to go out at night and most egregiously of all had mobile phones. The men doing the attacking just couldn't help themselves due to that. It was the most appalling piece of misogyny and victim blaming.

I complained to the Guardian about that revolting Gaby Hinsliff article that you're referencing, in which she talked about the 'lucky young women' who owned 'expensive smartphones'. Absolutely revolting and horrendous. The Guardian never responded, of course.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 30/06/2024 14:36

This thread has made me want to bundle my daughters up and keep them safe with me forever. It’s beyond atrocious that women are have to live in fear of men.

GailBlancheViola · 30/06/2024 14:35

A ‘milder’ but still horrible version took place in Koln on New Years Eve 2025/16, and in several other German cities. I cancelled my Guardian subscription when they were the last British newspaper to admit that it had occurred (and then minimised the impact).

They didn't just minimise it they went into full on victim blame mode, the women were dressed as western women are on a night out, free to be able to go out at night and most egregiously of all had mobile phones. The men doing the attacking just couldn't help themselves due to that. It was the most appalling piece of misogyny and victim blaming.

Combattingthemoaners · 30/06/2024 14:32

it makes me wonder whether they have deprived themselves of being around women, and then when they see one, they just lose all control.

This isn’t why they rape and hurt women. This is giving them an excuse. It is because they do not see women as equal human beings. They are there to be controlled and abused in a patriarchal society.

SiobhanSharpe · 30/06/2024 14:26

A former colleague of mine, an Egyptian woman and journalist, was attacked in Tahrir square when she was covering the unrest, and sexually assaulted, possibly raped (i don't think she wants to confirm either way). She was also arrested by the police, jailed and sexually assaulted there too.
It's males or men, it's always them and it's just them.

WearyAuldWumman · 30/06/2024 14:03

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Grooming gangs happen wherever males think they can get off with it, and will target anyone vulnerable.

When I was a girl - in the '60s - I was groomed by a group of teenage boys. I was 7. I got off lightly. My best friend (8) was actually raped several times, though I don't think she ever admitted to herself that she was raped.

This was Scotland. All the high school boys involved in this were pasty white.

Of course, we'd all been warned about strange men. No one warned us about our neighbours.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 13:55

I’ve read up a little and apparently someone shouted that she was an Israeli Jew, which caused the initial violence to explode.

So antisemitism as well.

ActivePeony · 30/06/2024 13:50

How weird as well, that they would prefer to have sex together with an unattractive woman, more than they would want sex on their own with a "hot" woman. What's that about?

Just to clarify - why do you assume that this traumatised rape victim is 'unattractive'? Why do you think that sexual assault is EVER about the way a woman looks? It is about power and humiliation not grades of attractiveness.

This shit is fucking terrible enough without speaking about victims in such a thoughtless way.

ARichtGoodDram · 30/06/2024 13:42

For a lot of men it’s all about power and their own status.

A man I vaguely know was sent to prison for beating a man who sexually assaulted his sister. Said man himself has raped at least two women that I know of.

His anger was that someone had attacked his sister. Like she was his possession.

When the story of that was being discussed in the staff room at the time at least two other people knew of a man who had raped or sexually assaulted someone, yet was furious at something happening to one of their women.

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 13:39

StaunchMomma · 30/06/2024 13:36

Think you might need to step away from the dog whistles, hun.

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Dog whistles?

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StaunchMomma · 30/06/2024 13:36

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Think you might need to step away from the dog whistles, hun.

Sunnyyy · 30/06/2024 13:35

I had similar experience in Morocco. Stuck in our hotel room as men would touch us in the street. I would never visit a Muslim country again.

StaunchMomma · 30/06/2024 13:34

Blackcats7 · 30/06/2024 10:05

I think for many people it is an inconvenient truth when men from non white / muslim countries rape and kill women so nobody wants to talk about it. The bbc is largely left wing men who are terrified of any taint of supposed racism being attached to their name should they report on such atrocities. Plus men will always protect and prioritise men over women.
The truth reported in a factual manner is not racist. Societies where women’s clothing and conduct are controlled are by their very nature places where women are seen as less than men. Rape is the punishment for daring to step out of line.
Misogyny is as old and as detestable as racism but standing up against it is far less popular and fashionable.

And yet we all know it happens.

We wouldn't know if that was true.

The race/religion can't really be an explaining factor when so many women are raped and killed in the UK every year by non-Muslim men.

This is about men, not Muslims.

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 13:31

TheaBrandt · 30/06/2024 13:27

Doesn’t surprise me in the least. Visited Cairo in my early twenties. Absolute misogynistic shit hole. Would never go back to Egypt. The level of verbal abuse from men was insane. We ended up confined to our hotel room. Couldn’t even use the pool as the male hotel staff abused us.

That's terrible, I hope you complained. It must be so weird for men to see women in bikini's or topless, when their own female population is covered from head to toe. Not that that excuses anything, but I'm not sure how young men are supposed to compartmentalise this. It must be a huge shock to the system.

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TheaBrandt · 30/06/2024 13:29

Also one word. Cologne. The left wing media didn’t report on those inconvenient attacks. When the Guardian finally did a columnist wrote that it was actually the women’s fault for having iPhones and western lives that may have made the men feel sad or some such shit. Not bought that rag since.

TheaBrandt · 30/06/2024 13:27

Doesn’t surprise me in the least. Visited Cairo in my early twenties. Absolute misogynistic shit hole. Would never go back to Egypt. The level of verbal abuse from men was insane. We ended up confined to our hotel room. Couldn’t even use the pool as the male hotel staff abused us.

LakeTiticaca · 30/06/2024 13:22

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Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 30/06/2024 13:18

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 12:41

Yes, it's me that's the problem, not the men we are talking about. Really?

What thoughtful or compassionate post have you contributed, because I can't see anything!

I’m baffled by that comment too. The women being victimised have all our thoughts and compassion. The male attackers gave no compassion and deserve none from us.
ActivePeony, what did you mean?

SonicTheHodgeheg · 30/06/2024 13:13

Did you see those studies conducted with men in the West about whether or not they’d commit a sexual assault against a woman or child if they were guaranteed not to get caught? The majority said that they would.

This is about men as a group rather than religion or sex. They would carry out all kinds of depraved acts like this if they could get away with it.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 30/06/2024 13:13

Blackcats7 · 30/06/2024 10:05

I think for many people it is an inconvenient truth when men from non white / muslim countries rape and kill women so nobody wants to talk about it. The bbc is largely left wing men who are terrified of any taint of supposed racism being attached to their name should they report on such atrocities. Plus men will always protect and prioritise men over women.
The truth reported in a factual manner is not racist. Societies where women’s clothing and conduct are controlled are by their very nature places where women are seen as less than men. Rape is the punishment for daring to step out of line.
Misogyny is as old and as detestable as racism but standing up against it is far less popular and fashionable.

Well said. Disgracefully true.

Floatingvoternolandinsight · 30/06/2024 12:59

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 11:39

No, I am not voting for Reform.

My reference to religion, is that religious people are supposed to be good and respectable aren't they? Which this flies in the face of.

I must have missed the references to Christianity... Not one mention of priests which is much closer to home. Again, the issue is men.