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Trigger Warning: Horrified by what happened to Lara Logan in Egypt *title edited by MNHQ*

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slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 09:18

This happened in 2011, but I have only just seen a video about it. It has utterly horrified me. Lara Logan was reporting on protests in Egypt, when the camera broke. Her colleague, who spoke the local language realised very quickly that she was in trouble, as he heard the crowds of men starting to talk about attacking Lara. He desperately tried to get her away from the mob, but she was dragged in to the crowd, and up to 200 men ripped all her clothes off, and then raped her and beat her with flagpoles. They then tried to rip her arms and legs off, and tried to rip her scalp off. She was eventually rescued, almost dead, by a crown of women and soldiers. These were muslim men.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGep7a71U/

I find it terrifying, that a group of men would all want to be so violent towards a woman, and not one thought that what they were doing, was wrong/should be stopped.

These are men who insist that women are covered at all times, who insist in no sex before marriage, and it makes me wonder whether they have deprived themselves of being around women, and then when they see one, they just lose all control. As far as I know, nothing like this has happened in the West, where women and sex are (for want of a better phrase) freely available.

Apparently, a high percentage of Egyptian men freely admit that they have sexually assaulted women, which seems at odds with men insisting that women are covered and not allowed sexual freedom.

The whole thing is just awful. That poor lady.

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Knitgoodwoman · 30/06/2024 18:49

Horrific, I wasn’t aware of this.

mumofblu · 30/06/2024 18:48

@Hoppinggreen wait till shes older and goes to a chip shop , curry house , taxi and gets invited to drink in the back of the shop or asked for a bj instead of paying fare and oh yeah do you want to be my girlfriend I'll treat you nice ( while not telling my wife who's at home with the children )

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 18:41

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 18:34

Strangely Wetherspoons is one of the safest places I go. I’d have no problem asking staff for help, using their toilets etc. I use them a lot in places where I wouldn’t risk a standard bar/pub.

My 12 year old has never been told she has "nice tits" by a man standing outside a mosque

Teentaxidriver · 30/06/2024 18:40

Floatingvoternolandinsight · 30/06/2024 10:18

@slidingdoorsmoments . Edited as responding to wrong poster. In 2011 men raped Lara, not Islam. A cynical person might feel this is an interestingly timed post. Are you planning to vote Reform?

Edited

Wow. I have read some crazy stuff on MN but you are taking top prize. Desperate no?

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 18:34

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 18:24

I would feel much safer walking past a Mosque on a Friday afternoon than my local Weatherspoons

Strangely Wetherspoons is one of the safest places I go. I’d have no problem asking staff for help, using their toilets etc. I use them a lot in places where I wouldn’t risk a standard bar/pub.

ShieldsStation · 30/06/2024 18:33

I would feel much safer walking past a Mosque on a Friday afternoon than my local Weatherspoons

I can believe that but personally I worked next to a mosque in Glasgow(Pollokshields)for the best part of a decade and the sexual harassment and intimidation that I experienced almost every day from men coming and going from the mosque was disgusting. And yes I met many lovely friendly respectful Muslim men too(Mainly the shopkeepers) but I have never experienced harassment on that level since.

Ramblingnamechanger · 30/06/2024 18:31

4 women and two children killed on one day in Spain this week.

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 18:25

I’m very much a “just get on with it” person. I was attacked abroad. Not sexually. But I was struck and had a gun to my head. I got over it no problem. My ex also assaulted me twice. No ptsd from that. But I honestly don’t think I’d ever be able to get over this. It’s just SO extreme. I can’t stop thinking about this poor lady.

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Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 18:24

I would feel much safer walking past a Mosque on a Friday afternoon than my local Weatherspoons

FindThatThing · 30/06/2024 18:18

You will witness this double standard in day to day life, for example weddings in concervative villages. The men and women's section is separated. The men will always have a female dancer or two who have very little clothes on, all their wives are covered up.

Well, tbf, western world also has it double standards with this.
I.e men going to strip clubs, some even use prostitutes.
And specially the strippers are something women are supposed to be okey with.
And in western world many women objectify themselves and dress for the male gaze, meanwhile men are in comfortable clothes, most times only skin you see from men is face and hands.

It’s all misogyny, just different way.

XChrome · 30/06/2024 18:09

SonicTheHodgeheg · 30/06/2024 13:13

Did you see those studies conducted with men in the West about whether or not they’d commit a sexual assault against a woman or child if they were guaranteed not to get caught? The majority said that they would.

This is about men as a group rather than religion or sex. They would carry out all kinds of depraved acts like this if they could get away with it.

Exactly. Yes, those surveys are terrifying. The truth is terrifying. They want us to live in fear of it, which means we do not and never will have freedom. It's terrorism.

Jerusalemaa · 30/06/2024 17:59

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 17:36

I mean, why?? I just cannot get my head around it.

It’s making me think of rape in war. Seemingly normal men who go off to war and then rape women. Wtf?

Sexist, double standard society. Men want a virgin young girl who will be submissive, but a man doen't need to be a virgin, religious rules only apply to oppress women. The men will always find a loophole to do whatever they desire. But at the same time they use sex workers, harass any woman they see outside. I have personally witnessed a group of girls all wearing burka being groped, no one would say anything to the men. It's like something expected. The men themselves use the excuse of "she deserves it if she is dressed that way" but they are silent when asked why women in burka receive the same treatment.

You will witness this double standard in day to day life, for example weddings in concervative villages. The men and women's section is separated. The men will always have a female dancer or two who have very little clothes on, all their wives are covered up.

Didsomeonesaydogs · 30/06/2024 17:58

The more I read, the more I realise the default seems to be that men actually hate women.

victoriapauncefootjones · 30/06/2024 17:56

ActivePeony · 30/06/2024 12:32

I find the way that you are posting lacks any thought or compassion and so will leave this thread.

I think what you are missing is that the OP is fucking furious.

But yes, prob best to leave the thread if you would rather chastise women for being angry about male violence.

EdithStourton · 30/06/2024 17:38

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/06/2024 16:31

I complained to the Guardian about that revolting Gaby Hinsliff article that you're referencing, in which she talked about the 'lucky young women' who owned 'expensive smartphones'. Absolutely revolting and horrendous. The Guardian never responded, of course.

Me too. They also lied blatantly about the number of victims in a report and only corrected themselves after lots of complaints, in the BTL comments where it wouldn't be seen by most readers. I was already fed up with them over their coverage of trans issues and this was the final straw for me.

The Graun was already on my shit list, and it has stayed there.

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 17:36

Jerusalemaa · 30/06/2024 17:14

Egyptian men are not deprived of women or sex. Their wedding entertainers/dancers are barely wearing any clothes and their media isn't restricted like the middle east. Egypt is also a sex tourist for many of the Arab world just like Morocco. It's not Yemen or Saudi were women are hidden away from the public. Egypt is known for having a huge problem with sexual assault and harassment of women regardless of how she is dressed, she could be covered from head to toe and she'll still get harassed, many documantaries are made where the women express how hard it is to leave the house and even young boys have learned that behaviour and will follow a woman in public. Many women have resorted to carrying some type of a weapon to hit men with when they are groped in public. Extreme porn hasn't helped, the developing world is seeing more gang rapes of women and little girls but also brutally attacking them after and in some cases dismembering them.

I mean, why?? I just cannot get my head around it.

It’s making me think of rape in war. Seemingly normal men who go off to war and then rape women. Wtf?

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Jerusalemaa · 30/06/2024 17:14

Egyptian men are not deprived of women or sex. Their wedding entertainers/dancers are barely wearing any clothes and their media isn't restricted like the middle east. Egypt is also a sex tourist for many of the Arab world just like Morocco. It's not Yemen or Saudi were women are hidden away from the public. Egypt is known for having a huge problem with sexual assault and harassment of women regardless of how she is dressed, she could be covered from head to toe and she'll still get harassed, many documantaries are made where the women express how hard it is to leave the house and even young boys have learned that behaviour and will follow a woman in public. Many women have resorted to carrying some type of a weapon to hit men with when they are groped in public. Extreme porn hasn't helped, the developing world is seeing more gang rapes of women and little girls but also brutally attacking them after and in some cases dismembering them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/06/2024 16:31

I complained to the Guardian about that revolting Gaby Hinsliff article that you're referencing, in which she talked about the 'lucky young women' who owned 'expensive smartphones'. Absolutely revolting and horrendous. The Guardian never responded, of course.

Me too. They also lied blatantly about the number of victims in a report and only corrected themselves after lots of complaints, in the BTL comments where it wouldn't be seen by most readers. I was already fed up with them over their coverage of trans issues and this was the final straw for me.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 16:31

The OP wasn’t even referring to the rape victim.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 16:30

ActivePeony · 30/06/2024 15:53

Yes I have already read this.

I will still take issue with the OP labelling a rape victim 'unattractive' for no reason whatsoever and wondering why her rapists would not want to be with a 'hot' girl instead.
Rape is not about attractiveness. It is about male power and brutality.

Edited

The OP did not do that.

She was quoting the men, the disgusting attitude is theirs, not hers.

Direct your ire at the right target.

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 16:28

ActivePeony · 30/06/2024 13:50

How weird as well, that they would prefer to have sex together with an unattractive woman, more than they would want sex on their own with a "hot" woman. What's that about?

Just to clarify - why do you assume that this traumatised rape victim is 'unattractive'? Why do you think that sexual assault is EVER about the way a woman looks? It is about power and humiliation not grades of attractiveness.

This shit is fucking terrible enough without speaking about victims in such a thoughtless way.

This was not said about the victim. It was a general discussion around the type of sex they prefer. At least read the article, before having a go at me. Sigh.

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oakleaffy · 30/06/2024 16:27

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 12:19

If you look at photo's of women in the 1970's in Muslim countries, they are wearing exactly the same clothes that we were wearing in the West. It must have been terrifying, to have been there in 1979, when they were all suddenly made to wear the hijab. Can you even imagine?

Afghanistan used to be on the Hippie trail.

Western Women used to feel relief when they had entered Afghanistan after the hell for women that was Pakistan.

The old travellers said Pakistan was a nightmare to pass as a woman, but Afghanistan was a relief.

There was a very interesting video on the Hippie trail where a young blonde girl had embraced the ''free love'' aspect of the 1960's and had fallen I'm love with a local tribesman in the Pakistan area and become one of his wives.
Someone from that era said she had been killed.

The blonde girl was very pretty {she was in the video}

Old comment from the video is ''Fabulous to see this.. very sad in places .Afghanistan may one day be ''safe'' to go to again, but probably not for many decades. Wonder what became of the pretty Blonde Dutch girl....? [won't do a ''spoiler'' for people reading the comments] The Belgian girl looked like a Pre-Raphaelite..tragically early death.

wido · 30/06/2024 16:07

Horrific

ActivePeony · 30/06/2024 15:53

Yes I have already read this.

I will still take issue with the OP labelling a rape victim 'unattractive' for no reason whatsoever and wondering why her rapists would not want to be with a 'hot' girl instead.
Rape is not about attractiveness. It is about male power and brutality.

TwoThousandAcresofBlueSkyThinking · 30/06/2024 15:52

ActivePeony · 30/06/2024 13:50

How weird as well, that they would prefer to have sex together with an unattractive woman, more than they would want sex on their own with a "hot" woman. What's that about?

Just to clarify - why do you assume that this traumatised rape victim is 'unattractive'? Why do you think that sexual assault is EVER about the way a woman looks? It is about power and humiliation not grades of attractiveness.

This shit is fucking terrible enough without speaking about victims in such a thoughtless way.

That was what was in the Guardian report linked to by exexpat today at 10:12.

"Long before the wolf pack trial began, it seemed most Spaniards had already reached their own verdicts. For months, they had pored over the men’s WhatsApp conversations – both text and audio – which had been leaked to the press and posted online. Many predated the Pamplona festival visit, and seemed to suggest a level of premeditation. “Mate seriously, if the five of us all fucked a fat girl together at San Fermin, it would be the best thing ever. I’d rather fuck a fat girl with all of you than a hot one by myself,” one of the men had said."

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