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Trigger Warning: Horrified by what happened to Lara Logan in Egypt *title edited by MNHQ*

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slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 09:18

This happened in 2011, but I have only just seen a video about it. It has utterly horrified me. Lara Logan was reporting on protests in Egypt, when the camera broke. Her colleague, who spoke the local language realised very quickly that she was in trouble, as he heard the crowds of men starting to talk about attacking Lara. He desperately tried to get her away from the mob, but she was dragged in to the crowd, and up to 200 men ripped all her clothes off, and then raped her and beat her with flagpoles. They then tried to rip her arms and legs off, and tried to rip her scalp off. She was eventually rescued, almost dead, by a crown of women and soldiers. These were muslim men.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGep7a71U/

I find it terrifying, that a group of men would all want to be so violent towards a woman, and not one thought that what they were doing, was wrong/should be stopped.

These are men who insist that women are covered at all times, who insist in no sex before marriage, and it makes me wonder whether they have deprived themselves of being around women, and then when they see one, they just lose all control. As far as I know, nothing like this has happened in the West, where women and sex are (for want of a better phrase) freely available.

Apparently, a high percentage of Egyptian men freely admit that they have sexually assaulted women, which seems at odds with men insisting that women are covered and not allowed sexual freedom.

The whole thing is just awful. That poor lady.

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PonderingVAT · 30/06/2024 20:30

The older I get the more I see that it's just MEN - Lara Logan's case is particularly horrific and was by no means an isolated incident during that period in Egypt.

One of the reports that just made me realise how common it is that men view women in this way was this one: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12436097/Magaluf-gang-rape-Tourists-invited-free-sex-three-men-deliberately-plied-Brit-18-drink-attacked-hotel-said-strangers-corridor-join-in.html

The attackers were so confident that no one would stop them they asked strangers if they wanted to rape the victim. And they were right, other random men joined in.

Magaluf rape: Tourists 'invited to have "free sex" with Brit teen'

A total of eight men are accused of raping the 18-year-old British woman, according to Spanish police, who said the suspects did not know each other prior to the attack on August 14.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12436097/Magaluf-gang-rape-Tourists-invited-free-sex-three-men-deliberately-plied-Brit-18-drink-attacked-hotel-said-strangers-corridor-join-in.html

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 19:58

MMALT if they are given the opportunity, I think. Some cultures do a better job of holding it in check than others.
Some cultures seem to make it a feature rather than a bug.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:57

And she keeps making it about sex, attractiveness, clothes and the free West. Those might be the rapists' words but she latched onto them due to her own views.

I stand by my comment.

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 19:56

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:20

@Hoppinggreen but if you say it's a male issue and male violence that is the problem and you suddenly get NAMALT.Grin

If M stands for Muslims then absolutely.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:55

@KeirSpoutsTwaddle that's what she finds "weird" though , out of the whole horrific,criminal shitshow?

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:54

BATUK is currently under investigation by the Defense, Intelligence and Foreign Relations committee of Kenya’s National Assembly.
It has held public hearings in several areas where British troops train and heard a litany of complaints about abuse, exploitation, and sexual assaults from communities around them.
It intends to hear from BATUK officials and the British High Commissioner to Kenya at the end of its work later this month, according to a schedule shared with CNN.
One of the more contentious accusations against British soldiers involves the case of Agnes Wanjiru.
Wanjiru, a 21-year-old Kenyan woman, vanished in 2012 after entering a hotel with British soldiers, according to reports.

Her body was later found in a septic tank. Despite a Kenyan inquest ruling her death a murder and the reported identification of a suspect by fellow soldiers, the British soldier allegedly involved hasn’t faced charges.
This one is ongoing. All the claims (hundreds of them) are apparently lies.

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 19:53

deeahgwitch · 30/06/2024 19:52

I agree.

Me too.

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deeahgwitch · 30/06/2024 19:52

mach2 · 30/06/2024 10:16

There is a part of me that would punish this behaviour with such barbarity that most men would be too terrified to even look funny at a woman.

I agree.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 19:51

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:47

On the day of the massacre, Abeer's father Qassim was enjoying time with his family, while his sons were at school.[13] In broad daylight, the four U.S. soldiers walked to the house, not wearing their uniforms, but wearing army-issue long underwear reportedly to look like "ninjasjas--"[9] and separated 14-year-old Abeer and her family into two different rooms. Spielman was responsible for grabbing Abeer's 6-year-old sister, who was outside the house with her father, and bringing her inside the house.[14] Green then broke Abeer's mother's arms (likely resulting from a struggle that began when she heard her daughter being raped in the other room) and murdered her parents and younger sister, while two other soldiers, Cortez and Barker, raped Abeer.[15] Barker wrote that Cortez pushed Abeer to the floor, lifted her dress, and tore off her underwear while she struggled. According to Cortez, Abeer "kept squirming and trying to keep her legs closed and saying stuff in Arabicc," as he and Barker took turns holding her down and raping her.[16]*
Cortez testified that Abeer heard the gunshots in the room in which her parents and little sister were being held, causing her to scream and cry even more. Green then emerged from the room saying, "I just killed them, all are dead."[17] Green, who later said the crime was "awesome,"[18]then raped Abeer, afterwards shooting her in the head multiple times. After the massacre, Barker poured petrol on Abeer and the soldiers set fire to the lower part of the girl's body. Barker testified that the soldiers gave Spielman their bloodied clothes to burn and that he threw the AK-477 used to murder the family into a canal. They left to "celebrate" their crimes with a meal of chicken wings.[19]

But western men don't do that. faux eyed innocence

Disgusting and criminal. And prosecuted, by the sound of it.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 19:49

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 18:41

My 12 year old has never been told she has "nice tits" by a man standing outside a mosque

I don’t think 12yr olds are safe outside a mosque or a Wetherspoons, sadly.

I personally rate Spoons as one of the safer pubs to go alone. That’s all I was saying.

Men are the issue, not men of particular races. There are cultures and countries where women are routinely oppressed. Institutional, legal repression.

It’s unreasonable to ignore that, and men from those cultures will inevitably carry those attitudes with them wherever they go.

That doesn’t make them better or worse than abusive men anywhere.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:47

On the day of the massacre, Abeer's father Qassim was enjoying time with his family, while his sons were at school.[13] In broad daylight, the four U.S. soldiers walked to the house, not wearing their uniforms, but wearing army-issue long underwear reportedly to look like "ninjasjas--"[9] and separated 14-year-old Abeer and her family into two different rooms. Spielman was responsible for grabbing Abeer's 6-year-old sister, who was outside the house with her father, and bringing her inside the house.[14] Green then broke Abeer's mother's arms (likely resulting from a struggle that began when she heard her daughter being raped in the other room) and murdered her parents and younger sister, while two other soldiers, Cortez and Barker, raped Abeer.[15] Barker wrote that Cortez pushed Abeer to the floor, lifted her dress, and tore off her underwear while she struggled. According to Cortez, Abeer "kept squirming and trying to keep her legs closed and saying stuff in Arabicc," as he and Barker took turns holding her down and raping her.[16]*
Cortez testified that Abeer heard the gunshots in the room in which her parents and little sister were being held, causing her to scream and cry even more. Green then emerged from the room saying, "I just killed them, all are dead."[17] Green, who later said the crime was "awesome,"[18]then raped Abeer, afterwards shooting her in the head multiple times. After the massacre, Barker poured petrol on Abeer and the soldiers set fire to the lower part of the girl's body. Barker testified that the soldiers gave Spielman their bloodied clothes to burn and that he threw the AK-477 used to murder the family into a canal. They left to "celebrate" their crimes with a meal of chicken wings.[19]

But western men don't do that. faux eyed innocence

slidingdoorsmoments · 30/06/2024 19:46

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:03

How weird as well, that they would prefer to have sex together with an unattractive woman, more than they would want sex on their own with a "hot" woman.

What is wrong with you?

What do you mean? This isn’t my view, it is the view of those Spanish rapists. Have you even read the article?

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KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 30/06/2024 19:45

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:03

How weird as well, that they would prefer to have sex together with an unattractive woman, more than they would want sex on their own with a "hot" woman.

What is wrong with you?

The OP is quoting the men. They are not her opinions or words.

IsadoraBathrobe · 30/06/2024 19:43

NAMALT but TMMALT (too many men are like that). Just horrific.

coldcallerbaiter · 30/06/2024 19:38

Have you seen the murders and assaults in Mexico City documentaries. It happens everywhere but some places or people just are worse. Sometimes it is the circumstances or situation, like soldiers in a war.

Life2Short4Nonsense · 30/06/2024 19:36

I echo what other posters have already said. Men from every country, every culture, every ethnicity and nearly all ages can (and many will) do this. Raping and murdering women happens all over the world, everyday.

I don't know if any of you have ever seen the film Liberated, but it shows that same attitude towards women over and over again:

coldcallerbaiter · 30/06/2024 19:35

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 19:07

She is almost 20 and although we live in a very multicultural area none of those things has happened, she has got some lovely Muslim friends though.
I also grew up in an area with a lot of Muslims and I managed to avoid all of those things too.
Its almost as if some people on this thread want to paint ALL Muslim men in the same way, which would be Islamaphobia

People always use not ALL as their counter argument. Of course it is not all, it is just prevalent.

it is like saying ALL the British guys on a beach are tattooed. It is not all, it’s just prevalent or at least there will be more than just a few.

XChrome · 30/06/2024 19:31

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 19:07

She is almost 20 and although we live in a very multicultural area none of those things has happened, she has got some lovely Muslim friends though.
I also grew up in an area with a lot of Muslims and I managed to avoid all of those things too.
Its almost as if some people on this thread want to paint ALL Muslim men in the same way, which would be Islamaphobia

I am literally an Islamophobe. I fear fundamentalist Islam. I am also a Christophobe. I fear fundamentalist Christianity. I fear deeply misogynistic, authoritarian religion in general. That is nothing to be ashamed of. Am I also, in general, afraid of men who follow such religions? You bet your ass I am.
Let's not do a #notallmuslimmen on each other. We know it isn't all men, all Muslim men, or whatever. It is, however, a fuck of a lot of them. Men are the same the world over, but religion is one of the things that give them an excuse to act on their hatred and power lust. All things which are designed to give them that license should be feared and loathed. All belief systems should be able to be critiqued without accusations of bigotry.

coldcallerbaiter · 30/06/2024 19:27

FindThatThing · 30/06/2024 18:18

You will witness this double standard in day to day life, for example weddings in concervative villages. The men and women's section is separated. The men will always have a female dancer or two who have very little clothes on, all their wives are covered up.

Well, tbf, western world also has it double standards with this.
I.e men going to strip clubs, some even use prostitutes.
And specially the strippers are something women are supposed to be okey with.
And in western world many women objectify themselves and dress for the male gaze, meanwhile men are in comfortable clothes, most times only skin you see from men is face and hands.

It’s all misogyny, just different way.

Actually I agree, both genders should dress modestly by their country standards. Of course stay cool in summer but not everything has to be on display. I understand that we should be able to choose what we wear, but in reality, I do not like seeing women too minusculy dressed, it is not a feminist issue for me.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:20

@Hoppinggreen but if you say it's a male issue and male violence that is the problem and you suddenly get NAMALT.Grin

Floatingvoternolandinsight · 30/06/2024 19:17

Teentaxidriver · 30/06/2024 18:40

Wow. I have read some crazy stuff on MN but you are taking top prize. Desperate no?

ODFOD and close the door on your way out.

Hoppinggreen · 30/06/2024 19:07

mumofblu · 30/06/2024 18:48

@Hoppinggreen wait till shes older and goes to a chip shop , curry house , taxi and gets invited to drink in the back of the shop or asked for a bj instead of paying fare and oh yeah do you want to be my girlfriend I'll treat you nice ( while not telling my wife who's at home with the children )

She is almost 20 and although we live in a very multicultural area none of those things has happened, she has got some lovely Muslim friends though.
I also grew up in an area with a lot of Muslims and I managed to avoid all of those things too.
Its almost as if some people on this thread want to paint ALL Muslim men in the same way, which would be Islamaphobia

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 30/06/2024 19:03

How weird as well, that they would prefer to have sex together with an unattractive woman, more than they would want sex on their own with a "hot" woman.

What is wrong with you?

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 30/06/2024 18:59

I went to Egypt in 2001, it was awful. The men just grab at you, my friend and I were pulled into shops in Cairo. In luxor we were held hostage by a group of men and I had to punch a kid in the face to escape. The staff in the hotel kept trying to get us to go to their parties.

Would never go back. Which is a shame as ancient Egyptian history is a passion of mine.

MarieDeGournay · 30/06/2024 18:54

mumofblu · 30/06/2024 18:48

@Hoppinggreen wait till shes older and goes to a chip shop , curry house , taxi and gets invited to drink in the back of the shop or asked for a bj instead of paying fare and oh yeah do you want to be my girlfriend I'll treat you nice ( while not telling my wife who's at home with the children )

Yes, unfortunately that's going to be the fate of far too many 12 year old girls, abused by men - like the local pillar of the community who abused me when I was 12.

The form of the abuse will vary, the ethnicity of the abuser will vary, the nationality of the abuser will vary, the location of the abuse - in the neighbour's house, in my case, or outside a mosque, inside a Catholic Church, behind Westminster Abbey... will vary, but the biological sex of the abuser will not.

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