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Vote for local Tory candidate or spoil vote?

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popsicles2342 · 27/06/2024 09:48

Please can you explain how it works. Looks like the only decent candidate in my area is a Tory. Happens that she's a woman who understands sex-based rights. Labour didn't bother replying and Lib-dem spouted nonsense saying he understood the issue about single sex spaces but also that sex is not binary!

If I vote for the Tory candidate and she wins, will that 1. effectively keep her in (sounds good to me) 2. but also help keep Tories in power (not what I want)

Assuming Labour win, then won't it be ok to at least have a few Tory candidates that fight for sex-based rights? Or does it not work like that? I don't really understand how it all works!

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GoodbyeCaroline · 27/06/2024 14:16

I understand where you're coming from op. My Tory candidate says TWAW as far as I know which rules her out anyway. I'm thinking of voting LD with the hope they won't get a significant number of seats as I don't trust them. What a ridiculous situation. I never thought it would be hard to find a candidate who recognised women as female. 😥

cupcaske123 · 27/06/2024 14:14

ScrollingLeaves · 27/06/2024 13:24

None?
You are wrong.

How so?

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/06/2024 14:11

@scrollingleaves, Penny Mordaunt is not the only TRA in the Tory Party. They're riddled with them. Some of us remember which government brought this shitshow on our heads.

https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2017/oct/18/theresa-may-plans-to-let-people-change-gender-without-medical-checks

cupcaske123 · 27/06/2024 14:07

SmudgeHughes · 27/06/2024 14:04

@cupcaske123 May was extremely dangerous on gender issues and even elevated Ruth Hunt, the former head of Stonewall and under whom that organisation began to focus almost exclusively on trans, to the House of Lords in her leaving honours.

May was a bloody liability but did some good work on DV.

SmudgeHughes · 27/06/2024 14:04

@cupcaske123 May was extremely dangerous on gender issues and even elevated Ruth Hunt, the former head of Stonewall and under whom that organisation began to focus almost exclusively on trans, to the House of Lords in her leaving honours.

ScrollingLeaves · 27/06/2024 13:59

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/06/2024 11:11

One of the problems with voting Tory is you don't know what kind of Tory Party you're going to get. Only that you're definitely not going to get Sunak at the helm.

Their next leader could be one of their many TRAs who got us into this position.😬

By their many TRAs

Do you mean Penny Mordaunt? Who else were you thinking of as a TRA PM?

NB You do know it was Labour who introduced the GRA? And the Equality Act with its confusions?

Boris who broke the TWAW taboo saying biology matters. Con who paused the Ban Conversion Therapy Act; commissioned the Cass Report; considered but stopped Self -ID; stopped Scotland’s self -ID; began to look into clarifying the Equality Act; worked on drafting guidance for schools to protect t children from being taught they may be in the wrong body/ gender identity.

Barleycat · 27/06/2024 13:45

How anyone who gives a shit about anyone in this country could consider voting tory is beyond me. I'm GC but it's one issue , the destruction of the public sector and the environment and workers protection are just a few issues that are way more important. The trans craze will fizzle out. Just suck it up and vote for anyone who will sink those tory cunts once and for all.

GerbilsAllTheWayDown · 27/06/2024 13:42

Namechange35375 · 27/06/2024 11:28

But surely they barely notice/care that the paper is spoiled and there's no recording of the reasons anyway?

See thread on spoiling ballots. They do get noticed and recorded.

DoIhavegreeneyes · 27/06/2024 13:40

Round here it is likely to be between the LibDems and Labour. The Labour Candidate is a bit of a ranter. LibDem and Tory are new to the area. Both good at dealing with facts and both have good history with local campaigns.
Voting Tory is now a protest vote. That will be me.

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/06/2024 13:29

There is zero chance of Sunak remaining. The D-Day debacle was the final nail in the coffin and he'd be out only for the fact they couldn't replace him before the GE.

Cycleorrun · 27/06/2024 13:24

popsicles2342 · 27/06/2024 11:20

I don't understand, if the Tories win, does it really mean Sunak is out? Why would he be out if he wins?

Equally, is there any chance Starmer will go if Labour win? (is there hope?)

Edited

If the result is much better than expected for the Tories then Sunak might be left in place. If not there's a good chance of Kemi Badenoch becoming leader.
Nothing is certain, but if Starmer gets in with a huge majority I'm as sure as I can be that women's rights are going to be trampled all over. No one gets rid of a winning leader in the short term.

ScrollingLeaves · 27/06/2024 13:24

cupcaske123 · 27/06/2024 12:54

There's currently little to no GC in the Commons. Why do you think that will change?

None?
You are wrong.

cupcaske123 · 27/06/2024 12:54

notsofantastic · 27/06/2024 12:53

If you have a good local MP, I would be inclined to vote for them personally, whatever their party. I also fear a huge labour majority and would like there to be plenty of GC representation in the HofC. That's a good enough reason in itself to vote tory if your local candidate shares your views. I wish we had more PFW and SDP candidates as this would be another way to make your voice heard.

There's currently little to no GC in the Commons. Why do you think that will change?

notsofantastic · 27/06/2024 12:53

If you have a good local MP, I would be inclined to vote for them personally, whatever their party. I also fear a huge labour majority and would like there to be plenty of GC representation in the HofC. That's a good enough reason in itself to vote tory if your local candidate shares your views. I wish we had more PFW and SDP candidates as this would be another way to make your voice heard.

ScrollingLeaves · 27/06/2024 12:45

From what you say, you like her and it is just possible that she could win
in your area. If she did win, she would represent your area in Parliament even if Labour is in power ( which seems certain).

Conversely

My area has only ever been labour, there is no chance of Conservatives winning , but even though the Conservatives have been in power all these years, I have had a Labour MP.

Namechange98242 · 27/06/2024 11:59

I would do as you're planning to do, OP.

Disclaimer - I would probably say I am centre-right and have mostly previously voted Tory.

However, I am as disillusioned as most of the country is with the current situation. To be fair, I think world events have been particularly challenging, and would have been for any party, but the blatant lies, incompetency and corruption have been inexcusable.

I don't know how much things will improve under Labour and I am worried about a huge Labour majority, so in my view, as many sensible Opposition MPs there are, the better.

I dislike Starmer immensely - he comes across as a flaky, arrogant, misogynist.

And I disagree that his stance on gender and women's rights is a single issue - surely his inability to clearly understand and apply critical thinking to the issue (or his deliberate obscuring of it) is reflective of his overall ability, integrity and intelligence?

I am in Rosie Duffield's constituency, but actually still unsure who to vote for. She will likely win and obviously I do want her in Government... and I know the individual votes don't count, but it feels like voting for Labour is giving KS my support.

I won't vote Tory as the candidate is very inexperienced and actually TWAW.

I may still vote for Rosie or I am considering the Social Democratic candidate, though they don't seem particularly engaged and I don't agree with their whole manifesto.

I think there are good candidates in all (or most!) parties across the board and think it's a shame that the current system doesn't allow for more cross-Party working. It's a shame we can't pick n mix 😅

SilverCatStripes · 27/06/2024 11:58

spoilertoToryfor2024 · 27/06/2024 11:11

No one - and I mean no one - would say this if a political party was planning to obliterate the meaning of race. Or remove the "indignity" that is non-disabled people not being protected as disabled people by handing them £5 pieces of paper.

We would rightly be horrified.

It's like women are a boring glob of white middle aged "Karens" who we can trample all over and they'll just have to accept it.

No. We are not a single glob and we won't accept it. We are different races and religions, different ages and have many or no children, we are married and we are divorced, we are nursery workers and we are SAHMs.

We are many different things but we are all female and we must be able to say we are, organise and have services and single sex spaces on the basis of our sex, and be able to keep men out. Yes, even those with their special papers.

Over my dead body will I lose these rights.

Agreed. And for these reasons I absolutely am voting Tory in this GE.

I grew up working class in a Northern industrial town, my parents and son are disabled, I work for the NHS , I am a pretty lefty liberal type- my natural political home should be Labour. Unfortunately they have made their disdain for women absolutely clear so they aren’t getting my vote.

spoilertoToryfor2024 · 27/06/2024 11:49

You still have a week, popsicles2342. Although I do understand the personal, internal tussle over this. It's really hard.

YouJustDoYou · 27/06/2024 11:48

We're the same, kind of, except our Reform candidate is very outspoken on sex-based rights, as well as issues like the NHS (he works in finance in our local hospital) and our illegal migrant problem in our town (since several hotels were taken over by Government bookings with the illegal male migrants, we've seen a surge in stabbings, rapes, sexual assaults, muggings, robbery....our Tory candidate is very much "hands are tied" but Reform seem to actually care. Our Labour and Green candidates have just been banging on about ending the war in Gaza, or the envirnment, but nothing at all mentioned about women's rights, the NHS, and the sorry state of our policing/illegal migrant difficulties.

popsicles2342 · 27/06/2024 11:47

Really appreciate all your comments! I don't watch politics that closely so your knowledge and opinions are really valuable.

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cupcaske123 · 27/06/2024 11:42

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 27/06/2024 11:40

I have wrestled with the issue of wether to vote tactically or vote with my heart and have finally decided my heart wins. For your information the Conservatives have about as much chance of remaining in power as there is of winning the lottery so I wouldn’t let that worry you.

People were very blasé about Brexit as I recall. Look what happened there.

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 27/06/2024 11:40

I have wrestled with the issue of wether to vote tactically or vote with my heart and have finally decided my heart wins. For your information the Conservatives have about as much chance of remaining in power as there is of winning the lottery so I wouldn’t let that worry you.

PurpleSparkledPixie · 27/06/2024 11:37

I agree with the others, Labour will probably get in. So if you have a candidate with a good track record of helping with local issues and seem like the best of all then vote for them whatever political party they are.

If you don't have a decent one, or they are new, then either spoil your ballot stating why, or vote conservative so there is a decent opposition party who can water down some of Labour's worse, and most harmful, policies. I'm in this category and will have to either spoil or conservative as they are all crap candidates. Seriously awful.

paasll · 27/06/2024 11:35

Labour are predicted a heavy majority. I think it’s fine to vote Tory to have them in opposition - nobody wants reform in opposition.

popsicles2342 · 27/06/2024 11:33

Ineedwinenow · 27/06/2024 11:21

I’m in the same boat OP, I personally know my Labour candidate and he has a history of DV ( once when he was in a relationship with my friend ) he’s now married and they are both “apparently” happy (although she never looks it) but I can’t forgive what he put my friend through and the personal (verbal) attacks he made to me.

I would never vote reform and my Lib Dem candidate is another awful human being so I’m voting conservative and even though a lot of people on MN appear to believe voting Tory is worse than murder I’m glad you’ve done a post on it, my Tory candidate is a great bloke who has done and continues to do a lot in the local area and he fiercely supports women’s rights, everyone in my tiny part of the UK is struggling who vote for with our candidates and a few people that I know want to vote for the “greater good” so are voting Labour but I genuinely can’t think of doing that knowing my candidates history and background and their views on women’s rights

Very eye opening.

Makes me think we should all just vote for the best local person irrespective of party.

But it also means we can't be lazy and have to do some research!

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