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Islington North - who to vote for?

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Election2024 · 24/06/2024 17:48

I live in Islington North constituency and I’ve no idea who to vote for in this election.
My politics are left wing and I’m gender critical.
Our current MP is Corbyn, who is standing as an independent in this election. I don’t want to vote for him (and even more so after seeing him out on the campaign trail with Owen Jones 🙄).

I’m pissed off with Labour re self ID/Rosie Duffield treatment etc etc and don’t really want to vote for them either. Don’t want to vote for Greens and Lib Dems because of their batshit gender policies. Other candidates are Tory, Reform (no thanks), and an independent who I can’t find any information about. Sadly no other parties or even novelty candidates to choose from this election.

Normally I might consider spoiling my ballot paper… BUT, wondering if that’s risky this time? Whilst I’m angry with Labour, I would be pissed off if Corbyn got back in… Is it a risk? Should I hold my nose and vote for Labour?

interested to hear from other mumsnetters who are in a similar predicament. Who the hell do you vote for if you're left wing and gender critical?

(regular mumsnetter, have name changed because I’ve given my location).

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InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 25/06/2024 20:24

maltravers · 25/06/2024 20:12

I’m usually a Labour voter. Taking your points in the context of Labour’s stated policies and statements:

-GRC on day one with one “specialised” doctor’s sign off is self ID via the back door. Have you heard of the Webberleys?

-lawyerly insistence on “safe spaces” not “single sex spaces” indicates very strongly that these spaces will be open not by reference to sex, ie to TW and only relevant anyway where violence not dignity and privacy is concerned.
— of course - they want any vote they can get. But answering “trans bla blah bla” when anyone raises women’s rights is another strong indicator where their priorities lie (women, shut up, there’s an election on).

And asking to talk to women’s groups immediately before an election and after years of feigned deafness but so close that these conversations will actually take place after the election (if at all) is hardly convincing to the battle weary cynics amongst us.

I genuinely think you and others are being far too pessimistic. They would need to consult on any new proposed legislation, the same thing would happen as happened to the tories, it just wouldn't happen. Bringing self-ID in through the back door is just not going to be a priority for Starmer's new Gvmt, I really can't see it happening.

maltravers · 25/06/2024 20:12

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 25/06/2024 19:33

I continue to be perplexed at how the GC movement seems to be so passionately anti-Labour given they:

  1. Dropped plans to bring in Self-ID and have confirmed this position in their 2024 manifesto.
  2. Have reiterated their intent to protect single-sex exemptions.
  3. Have been making consistent overtures during the election campaign to reassure on the above points and that they are listening to women now.

Yes, it is true that their position is weaker than the conservatives but I fully believe that is partly due to them not having been the party in Government, and therefore they haven't been subjected to the persistent campaigning that women have been doing on this issue the past few years. They haven't been forced to reckon with the issue in policy making across Government in the same way the tories have. The Conservatives did not benignly choose to take our side on this issue. They were bloody well forced into it by the hard work of women over the last 6 plus years.

If you are generally pro-Labour apart from the gender issue, then it is really baffling to me why you would refuse to see the gains we've made within the Labour Party, and have a bit more faith in our ability to continue to keep the pressure up. The Labour Party are not pro self-ID like the Greens and Lib dems, their position has shifted. I get that people were angry at the bat-shit quotes that Labour MPs were coming out with in the past couple of years when asked 'what is a woman', and in well-meaning attempts to not be perceived as anti-trans, but surely we can look past those embarrassing gaffes and grip the current reality? the number of actual TRA MPs in Labour right now is extremely low.

I’m usually a Labour voter. Taking your points in the context of Labour’s stated policies and statements:

-GRC on day one with one “specialised” doctor’s sign off is self ID via the back door. Have you heard of the Webberleys?

-lawyerly insistence on “safe spaces” not “single sex spaces” indicates very strongly that these spaces will be open not by reference to sex, ie to TW and only relevant anyway where violence not dignity and privacy is concerned.
— of course - they want any vote they can get. But answering “trans bla blah bla” when anyone raises women’s rights is another strong indicator where their priorities lie (women, shut up, there’s an election on).

And asking to talk to women’s groups immediately before an election and after years of feigned deafness but so close that these conversations will actually take place after the election (if at all) is hardly convincing to the battle weary cynics amongst us.

UtilitarianNameChange · 25/06/2024 19:40

The thing it, when someone goes wanging on about TW being W and then reverse ferrets or swings back and forth or sits on the fence, it makes you wonder what other nonsensical beliefs they secretly hold.

It makes you question absolutely everything.

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 25/06/2024 19:33

I continue to be perplexed at how the GC movement seems to be so passionately anti-Labour given they:

  1. Dropped plans to bring in Self-ID and have confirmed this position in their 2024 manifesto.
  2. Have reiterated their intent to protect single-sex exemptions.
  3. Have been making consistent overtures during the election campaign to reassure on the above points and that they are listening to women now.

Yes, it is true that their position is weaker than the conservatives but I fully believe that is partly due to them not having been the party in Government, and therefore they haven't been subjected to the persistent campaigning that women have been doing on this issue the past few years. They haven't been forced to reckon with the issue in policy making across Government in the same way the tories have. The Conservatives did not benignly choose to take our side on this issue. They were bloody well forced into it by the hard work of women over the last 6 plus years.

If you are generally pro-Labour apart from the gender issue, then it is really baffling to me why you would refuse to see the gains we've made within the Labour Party, and have a bit more faith in our ability to continue to keep the pressure up. The Labour Party are not pro self-ID like the Greens and Lib dems, their position has shifted. I get that people were angry at the bat-shit quotes that Labour MPs were coming out with in the past couple of years when asked 'what is a woman', and in well-meaning attempts to not be perceived as anti-trans, but surely we can look past those embarrassing gaffes and grip the current reality? the number of actual TRA MPs in Labour right now is extremely low.

IslingtonNorthtoo · 25/06/2024 19:10

I'm very left wing also, but have always recognised that being electable is more important in the long run. Now though, my vote doesn't appear to matter so I may as well stick to my left wing principles.

(and yes, of course I wish Labour were GC, but my overriding desire is to get the Tories out of power).

maltravers · 25/06/2024 17:44

Thanks @CorbynSchmorbyn . As it happens I do have a PoW candidate standing in my “seat”. The gender critical stuff I take for granted but I don’t know anything else about her - a website with info about candidates’ basic histories would be helpful (eg I’m in my forties, work in the NHS, usually vote Lib Dem until this, believe in a, b and c ) type info. I can’t be the only one searching and not finding it…

MarkWithaC · 25/06/2024 17:37

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 17:29

Agree with both of you.

My politics are generally more left wing than the average Brit and in a perfect world I’d like a party in power to reflect that… but I’m also a realist - the British public are not going to vote for that!
I’m not fond of Blair, but I can respect that he made Labour electable. Surely it’s better to compromise and have some good policies put in place than let the Tories in and have nothing you want? I don’t understand why some other lefties don’t see this… “6th form politics” is a cliche, but it’s true, these people haven’t grown up.

And that takes me back to my anger about many Corbynistas - if the Tories get in they are not badly affected, they’ve usually got decent jobs, housing and good family circumstances… they will get by with a few years of Tory rule. It’s the less fortunate people who will struggle whilst they sit there all smug about their ‘pure’ politics.

I realise now that I have to vote Labour, even if the gender issues piss me off. Thank you everyone for your contributions to this thread, it’s been helpful.

Exactly. The hardcore Corbynistas I know are all highly educated, in well-paying work, have lots of cultural and social capital and are, compared to many people, pretty privileged. I don't have a problem per se with people being left-wing and financially comfortable (I hold my hands up, I'm not on the breadline), but people who can afford to vote for Corbyn, or for someone else to 'teach Labour a lesson' and still get by under the Tories, albeit with a bit of belt-tightening, are in the minority, and I think Corbyn-lovers and Starmer-haters can forget that.

maltravers · 25/06/2024 17:35

You need to occupy the central ground to get elected (which means fending off the momentum minded on the far left of Labour and the Reform minded on the far right of the Tory party). It’s not rocket science and it’s not student politics. Starmer clearly gets this. What a pity he is ready to throw women to the wolves to buy off his left wing.

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 17:29

MarkWithaC · 25/06/2024 16:52

Couldn't agree more. Someone asked me, when it looked like Diane Abbott would be running as an indie, who I was voting for. Well, more accurately, they suggested that I vote for her and 'teach Labour a lesson'. There's no way she'd win as an indie, and the Tories always come second here, so there's no way on earth I'd do that and risk a chinless wonder getting in. I've no desire to teach Labour a lessonHmmhmm].
This person is a dyed-in-the-wool Jeremy-was-wronged type, who refers to him by his first name as if they're best mates, thinks Tony Blair is a 'liar' and right-wing and still isn't over Iraq.
I've no time for that. I don't mind Starmer because he's a pragmatist and a centrist, and that's how you keep the Tories out.

Agree with both of you.

My politics are generally more left wing than the average Brit and in a perfect world I’d like a party in power to reflect that… but I’m also a realist - the British public are not going to vote for that!
I’m not fond of Blair, but I can respect that he made Labour electable. Surely it’s better to compromise and have some good policies put in place than let the Tories in and have nothing you want? I don’t understand why some other lefties don’t see this… “6th form politics” is a cliche, but it’s true, these people haven’t grown up.

And that takes me back to my anger about many Corbynistas - if the Tories get in they are not badly affected, they’ve usually got decent jobs, housing and good family circumstances… they will get by with a few years of Tory rule. It’s the less fortunate people who will struggle whilst they sit there all smug about their ‘pure’ politics.

I realise now that I have to vote Labour, even if the gender issues piss me off. Thank you everyone for your contributions to this thread, it’s been helpful.

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MarkWithaC · 25/06/2024 16:52

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/06/2024 16:16

My impression is that many extreme left-wingers really would rather not be in power at all than be in power but have to compromise on their principles. That's why they hate Tony Blair so much - he knew that Labour could only win if they could somehow persuade the floating voters and the centre-left people to vote Labour rather than Tory. He won three elections on the trot and actually managed to make some changes on the back of it.

Corbyn made Labour unelectable. When you think how much damage the Tories had done with austerity and Brexit, the last election should have been a shoo in for Labour. His supporters can bleat on as much as they like about the huge number of votes he got. He didn't get them in the constituencies where it counted and consequently Labour lost. This is what matters, not the popular vote. A more intelligent and tactically minded leader would have seen that.

The Tories want power at any cost so have no issues whatsoever doing what it takes to get elected.

Couldn't agree more. Someone asked me, when it looked like Diane Abbott would be running as an indie, who I was voting for. Well, more accurately, they suggested that I vote for her and 'teach Labour a lesson'. There's no way she'd win as an indie, and the Tories always come second here, so there's no way on earth I'd do that and risk a chinless wonder getting in. I've no desire to teach Labour a lessonHmmhmm].
This person is a dyed-in-the-wool Jeremy-was-wronged type, who refers to him by his first name as if they're best mates, thinks Tony Blair is a 'liar' and right-wing and still isn't over Iraq.
I've no time for that. I don't mind Starmer because he's a pragmatist and a centrist, and that's how you keep the Tories out.

CorbynSchmorbyn · 25/06/2024 16:24

Hi @maltravers , you asked about Party of Women - as far as I can tell it is all being done on a shoestring (and possibly the back of a fag packet). I could upload a copy of Lesley's flyer but all it basically says is the basic position of saying No woman has a penis, No man has a vagina, Non binary is nonsense and transing kids is abuse - calls for repeal of the GRA and getting the ideology of out schools, preserving women's sex based rights..

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/06/2024 16:16

My impression is that many extreme left-wingers really would rather not be in power at all than be in power but have to compromise on their principles. That's why they hate Tony Blair so much - he knew that Labour could only win if they could somehow persuade the floating voters and the centre-left people to vote Labour rather than Tory. He won three elections on the trot and actually managed to make some changes on the back of it.

Corbyn made Labour unelectable. When you think how much damage the Tories had done with austerity and Brexit, the last election should have been a shoo in for Labour. His supporters can bleat on as much as they like about the huge number of votes he got. He didn't get them in the constituencies where it counted and consequently Labour lost. This is what matters, not the popular vote. A more intelligent and tactically minded leader would have seen that.

The Tories want power at any cost so have no issues whatsoever doing what it takes to get elected.

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 12:53

IslingtonNorthtoo · 25/06/2024 11:53

How has he gone too far in your opinion? (apart from the sex/gender debate, on which you'd (I'd) vote for neither candidate)?

serious question - what is wrong with being really left wing? And if you don't believe that he is anti-semitic why not vote for him? He's a real socialist right? Which is more than Starmer is?

Oh, I don’t have an issue with him being left, in the traditional sense, it’s the other stuff…. Hamas being his “friends”, IRA in the past (I was always a bit uncomfortable about this). Not addressing anti semitism. His belief that TWAW. He was hopeless re Brexit. His vanity - not stepping aside when he should have, causing the Labour Party to become unelectable in 2019. I think he’s arrogant and was a divisive and poor leader.

Professor Peppy earlier in the thread said that he seems to “typify a certain type of left-wing man: ideological purity and optics above all else.”
I would agree with that. It’s the OJ/Novara media crowd - I’m not sure this type really want to be in power?they’d rather shout from opposition with their ‘luxury beliefs’. And that never helps ordinary working class people.

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CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 12:48

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 25/06/2024 10:59

I hear you, but do you really think Labour will improve anything because I have 0 hope they will, if anything I think they're so incompetent it'll get worse.

With the Tories they're quite happy for the poor and middle classes to get poorer and everything start to fall apart until the point it impacts on their cash flow, at which point they'll step in to stop the rot.

With Labour I think they're so wedded to ludicrous ideology (on many issues) that they'll be happy for there to be immense damage for the "cause". I also think they're allergic to reality so will find the practical realities of trying to improve things very hard to do.

My probably vain hope is for more votes for independents and more independent MPs.

And looking to emigrate in a few years.

Yes I do. The current bunch on Conservatives are a lying, law breaking bunch who appear mainly concerned with lining their own pockets. No other government in my lifetime have been so blatantly corrupt. Its really sad we now think they are all the same and that's what we deserve.
I'm not thinking Labour will improve things overnight but at least they aren't lying law breakers. That's good enough for me right now.

urbanbuddha · 25/06/2024 12:44

This made me smile - an effect which has been sadly missing from this campaign. (from getvoting.org)

Islington North - who to vote for?
IslingtonNorthtoo · 25/06/2024 11:53

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 10:52

I understand your thinking. I don’t like candidates being parachuted in. I am often fond of the ‘difficult’ politicians, the rabble rousers who ask the awkward questions… but Corbyn has gone too far for me.

How has he gone too far in your opinion? (apart from the sex/gender debate, on which you'd (I'd) vote for neither candidate)?

serious question - what is wrong with being really left wing? And if you don't believe that he is anti-semitic why not vote for him? He's a real socialist right? Which is more than Starmer is?

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 25/06/2024 10:59

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 10:42

In all seriousness I wish I could choose to vote on principles but this election is way too important for that as I really think another 5 years of the Tories will destroy the country. Sad

I hear you, but do you really think Labour will improve anything because I have 0 hope they will, if anything I think they're so incompetent it'll get worse.

With the Tories they're quite happy for the poor and middle classes to get poorer and everything start to fall apart until the point it impacts on their cash flow, at which point they'll step in to stop the rot.

With Labour I think they're so wedded to ludicrous ideology (on many issues) that they'll be happy for there to be immense damage for the "cause". I also think they're allergic to reality so will find the practical realities of trying to improve things very hard to do.

My probably vain hope is for more votes for independents and more independent MPs.

And looking to emigrate in a few years.

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 10:52

urbanbuddha · 24/06/2024 20:54

This is going to be controversial but if I was in Islington North I’d vote for Corbyn. He’s a very good constituency MP. And more than that he’d take Sir Keir Starmer and the Labour Party to task when it needs doing (and sometimes when it doesn’t need doing). The Labour Party is a bit detached from its voters and it needs someone who’ll interfere with the steamroller effect in whatever way. It should be a broad church. I really dislike the way the chosen are being parachuted into seats without regard to what the local party thinks. So I’d send a reminder that people power does actually count.

I understand your thinking. I don’t like candidates being parachuted in. I am often fond of the ‘difficult’ politicians, the rabble rousers who ask the awkward questions… but Corbyn has gone too far for me.

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Redshoeblueshoe · 25/06/2024 10:51

When we had the vote for Police Commissioner in Manchester so many people ruined their ballots papers it was on the local news. After that it was no longer up for a vote.

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 10:42

In all seriousness I wish I could choose to vote on principles but this election is way too important for that as I really think another 5 years of the Tories will destroy the country. Sad

UtilitarianNameChange · 25/06/2024 10:38

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 10:34

Yeah I think people are a bit narcissistic about spoilt ballots! I think people are too busy counting to give it more than a cursory glance....

in a close election all spoilt ballots are scrutinised by agents for the candidates.

it’s often one of the most fun aspects of count night!

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 10:37

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 10:34

Yeah I think people are a bit narcissistic about spoilt ballots! I think people are too busy counting to give it more than a cursory glance....

Yes, I doubt anyone read #labourlosingwomen when I scrawled it on my ballot paper before… but it made me feel better to have a little rant! 😆

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CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 10:34

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 10:27

Thank you everyone for your replies. Lots to think about!

I will use my vote. Not voting at all (as a pp suggested) is something I can’t do.

Spoiling my ballot as a protest does appeal but how much notice does anyone really take? And it feels less ‘responsible’ in a seat where every vote might count.

I think I will hold my nose and vote Labour, purely in the hope of ousting Corbyn. It doesn’t make me feel great - I so wish I was voting FOR someone in a positive way.

Yeah I think people are a bit narcissistic about spoilt ballots! I think people are too busy counting to give it more than a cursory glance....

Election2024 · 25/06/2024 10:28

JennyForeigner · 25/06/2024 09:37

There is nowhere in the country I would rather vote Labour than your seat, purely against the horrible misogynistic old dinosaurs of the Labour left and their stubborn stupid old totem.

And because Owen Jones doesn't want you to. Don't you really really want to mug off Owen Jones?

I loathe Owen Jones - if my vote for Labour helps to piss him off, I’ll take that!

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Election2024 · 25/06/2024 10:27

Thank you everyone for your replies. Lots to think about!

I will use my vote. Not voting at all (as a pp suggested) is something I can’t do.

Spoiling my ballot as a protest does appeal but how much notice does anyone really take? And it feels less ‘responsible’ in a seat where every vote might count.

I think I will hold my nose and vote Labour, purely in the hope of ousting Corbyn. It doesn’t make me feel great - I so wish I was voting FOR someone in a positive way.

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