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Did Keir Starmer just say

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Helpuschoose · 18/06/2024 09:31

To Nick Ferrari on LBC that transwomen with a GRC will not be allowed in female single-sex spaces? It sounded like it. Is this a clear move or does it still leave wriggle-room? I’m not sure.

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dunBle · 26/06/2024 03:36

ScrollingLeaves · 25/06/2024 22:09

Same here.

It's not stupid, just insufficiently cynical.

Datun · 26/06/2024 03:04

Lots of people feel uncomfortable in hospital, for a variety of reasons. They don't demand that other patients be deployed as their protection.

The idea that we can't say no to these entitled men is difficult to shift.

TicklishLemur · 26/06/2024 01:24

@Sloejelly sorry can I check, are you replying to me in those comments?

Sloejelly · 25/06/2024 23:13

A trans patient may feel uncomfortable being placed on the ward of their sex, a patient in clinical need may die if placed on a ward.

Sloejelly · 25/06/2024 23:11

Hospital wards are allocated by sex and specialism. Males placed anywhere other than on male wards of the appropriate specialism are being placed at increase risk of inappropriate treatment. Ditto females. It is impossible to change sex; males ranges and physiology remain male ranges and physiology. Don’t be fooled by heavily filtered internet pictures of men who identify as women; in real life they look like men. There is absolutely no excuse for them for be destroying the privacy, dignity and safety of women. Nor is there any reason for them to take side wards from those with clinical need for them.

TicklishLemur · 25/06/2024 22:54

SerafinasGoose · 18/06/2024 10:24

Who wouldn't prefer their own side room to a cramped ward with 6-8 beds? On what other basis would those needing (or merely wanting) single rooms deserve priority?

Seems to me that it's heads the Gender Ideologues win, tails they win.

I must be honest that I have empathy for some trans-identified people in regards to this situation. I can see how a person who has taken cross sex hormones and had surgery could be put in a difficult situation by placement on a ward with others of their sex. Particularly for trans-identified females as the effects of testosterone are so potent. I think it could also be an alarming experience for other women, who will not know that the other patient is actually female. I have seen some users proffer the solution that staff simply tell the other patients. However, I don’t believe that is workable due to their right to confidentiality regarding medical matters, which ‘gender reassignment’ is classed as.

Not all trans-identified people are gender ideologues or TRAs. I think it a little unfair to treat attempts to protect both their dignity and that of women and men as providing preferential treatment. No one should have to ‘lose’ in this situation, barring the abusers who will accept no less than the right to violate female single sex spaces. I do agree with others that side rooms are scarce and needed for other things so a proper solution is required. But I wouldn’t be opposed to separate provision for trans-identified people who no longer resemble their sex. Or the provision of additional side rooms on sexed wards such as gynaecology, where transmen may require treatment.

EasternStandard · 25/06/2024 22:31

ifIwerenotanandroid · 25/06/2024 22:19

@EasternStandard
It’s the whole “fully costed” bollocks they’ve repeated over and over until the IFS said hang on

What's happened?

Labour have been trumpeting fully costed with a straight face and IFS said manifesto is a conspiracy of silence over tax rises and spending cuts

Basically the numbers don’t add up

The amount of times I saw fully costed posted here plus that biological sex statement constantly

Anyone questioning either shouted down. Both lawyerly lies

Farcical. Maybe it’s Starmer’s pale stale male ability to lie

ifIwerenotanandroid · 25/06/2024 22:19

@EasternStandard
It’s the whole “fully costed” bollocks they’ve repeated over and over until the IFS said hang on

What's happened?

EasternStandard · 25/06/2024 22:09

DrNickedMaCorpus · 25/06/2024 22:03

We have really got to stop being coy about this, there's 8 days. And no, there's no epiphany coming, just a hope of conning you long enough.

Yeah. They've been fucking lying. Outright blatant lying.

It’s not just this

It’s the whole “fully costed” bollocks they’ve repeated over and over until the IFS said hang on

And the gang stuff is likely another one

It’s weird how compelling they are when lying. Something to do with their manner

ScrollingLeaves · 25/06/2024 22:09

theilltemperedclavecinist · 25/06/2024 19:19

I fell for it, when they said they would protect single-sex spaces for biological women. I feel so stupid. 😪

Same here.

DrNickedMaCorpus · 25/06/2024 22:03

We have really got to stop being coy about this, there's 8 days. And no, there's no epiphany coming, just a hope of conning you long enough.

Yeah. They've been fucking lying. Outright blatant lying.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 25/06/2024 21:59

Awww me too @theilltemperedclavecinist

theilltemperedclavecinist · 25/06/2024 19:19

I fell for it, when they said they would protect single-sex spaces for biological women. I feel so stupid. 😪

RedToothBrush · 25/06/2024 17:39

Sloejelly · 25/06/2024 15:33

there's 8 days. And no, there's no epiphany coming, just a hope of conning you long enough

This

Not expecting an miraculous epiphany before the election! Whatever made you think I did!

IwantToRetire · 25/06/2024 17:32

I think the reality is Labour is still totally TWAW.

Thanks to relentless campaigning, and more lately JKR the media (who I dont think care either way) are now using the issue to challenge Labour.

So everything is about not alienation the trans community because that is Labour's priority.

Hence the wiffle waffle nonsense.

If they cared about women they could easily by now have put together a straight forward position. But the cant and wont, because prioritising women is not a priority for them.

(IMO Labour uses Safe Spaces rather than Single Sex, because in correctly referring the SSE by using the word sex, meants that they acknowledge sex is real, which they cant do because of TRAs Using the euphamisism Safe Spaces means that they recognise the law as currently written, but aren't openly saying sex is a real biological fact.)

ResisterRex · 25/06/2024 16:03

Sloejelly · 25/06/2024 15:33

there's 8 days. And no, there's no epiphany coming, just a hope of conning you long enough

This

It's this. Anything else is fanciful thinking, very sadly.

Sloejelly · 25/06/2024 15:33

there's 8 days. And no, there's no epiphany coming, just a hope of conning you long enough

This

UpThePankhurst · 25/06/2024 15:25

I have to say I do feel they are on the crisp of an epiphany moment on it. They think they can just be nice about it, but haven't really thought it through in full.

I really am now at the point of 'Labour, are you seriously this thick, or are you very shy about your male supremacism?'

Because let's stop beating about the bush, this is what it is. In fact, in truth. Male humans matter and female humans don't. Male humans should have more rights and privileges that females are not entitled to equality with. And female humans are resources for male humans and should not be allowed to withhold consent.

It's that straight forward.

Seriously. If they can try and lie and pretty-word their way around removing a woman's right to leave her marriage when a man unilaterally changes the contract and even the person she chose to marry? And call that removing 'spousal consent' because poor bloke? It's a natural extension to removing the marital rape prohibition. Which is also some uppity bloody woman wanting consent and equality of humanity while poor bloke with rights.

We have really got to stop being coy about this, there's 8 days. And no, there's no epiphany coming, just a hope of conning you long enough.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 25/06/2024 15:11

Something occurred to me about letting more people into women's toilets: we're going to need considerably bigger toilets blocks for women.

Women currently have to queue while men don't (see 'Invisible Women') & women need more toilet provision right now, just to give them equality of service. But we never seem to get it. Funny, that.

Now take some users out of the Gents & put them in the Ladies. Far fewer users will migrate from the Ladies to the Gents, I assume, though I know some already have. Result? Toilet provision skewed even more in favour of users of the Gents.

What are Labour's proposals for dealing with this inequality?

UtopiaPlanitia · 25/06/2024 14:57

lcakethereforeIam · 25/06/2024 08:38

She really didn't want to say it, did she? Labour will allow and encourage the erosion of single sex spaces. Long, drawn out process, my arse.

She seems to think all men who apply to GRCs have had genital surgery - how can she not know this isn’t the case?

RedToothBrush · 25/06/2024 13:34

I should stress that unacceptable behaviour it's just being a sex offender.

Having disrespect for others (women) and huge entitlement that ignores the concerns and dignity of others (women) also crosses a line.

RedToothBrush · 25/06/2024 13:32

AdjustableSpaniel · 25/06/2024 13:13

It's a religious belief, and as unreasonable as any other religion in its demands on women.

Exactly.

The conflict between the desire to be nice and what reality is, is a really difficult want to wrap your head around.

I've been through the process of this. I get it inside out.

Ultimately it comes down to behaviour and what you would normally otherwise find unacceptable.

Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

But it frustrates me no end this narrative that GC don't care and hate. The opposite is true in the majority of cases. The difference is we can see that you can't just make excuses for someone based on identity or if you are related to them because there is a recipient of unacceptable behaviour.

AdjustableSpaniel · 25/06/2024 13:13

It's a religious belief, and as unreasonable as any other religion in its demands on women.

RedToothBrush · 25/06/2024 12:49

RoyalCorgi · 25/06/2024 12:32

They are absolutely tying themselves in knots because they can't grasp, apparently, that if you want to protect single-sex spaces you can't simultaneously make it easier to get a GRC, if you also believe that a GRC entitles you to enter the single-sex spaces of the opposite sex. They've had a long time to get their act together over this, but they haven't done it, either because they're too stupid or because they have decided it's not sufficiently important.

To quote from Victoria Smith on Twitter:

It's kind of funny to see Labour wading in, all mature, to solve "the culture wars". Feminists worked out years ago trans activists will not accept compromise of any kind. They also pointed out this was creating an open goal for the right.

It would have been a lot easier to manage this if you'd listened to feminists back when self ID was Tory policy and the UK was one of the only countries with a predominantly left-wing, pro-feminist and pro-LGB response to the problem.

But no, you thought we were stupid. Silly older women, clutching their pearls, making up problems that didn't exist. All that work, research, writing, speaking ignored because we can't possibly have anything important to say.

https://x.com/glosswitch/status/1805335079067034040

They haven't understood it's not a war about culture.

It's a battle between ideology belief and practical issues and reality.

Ideology can be exceptionally powerful yet fragile at the same time. It tends to collapse under the weight of its own bullshit.

RedToothBrush · 25/06/2024 12:47

RoyalCorgi · 25/06/2024 12:32

They are absolutely tying themselves in knots because they can't grasp, apparently, that if you want to protect single-sex spaces you can't simultaneously make it easier to get a GRC, if you also believe that a GRC entitles you to enter the single-sex spaces of the opposite sex. They've had a long time to get their act together over this, but they haven't done it, either because they're too stupid or because they have decided it's not sufficiently important.

To quote from Victoria Smith on Twitter:

It's kind of funny to see Labour wading in, all mature, to solve "the culture wars". Feminists worked out years ago trans activists will not accept compromise of any kind. They also pointed out this was creating an open goal for the right.

It would have been a lot easier to manage this if you'd listened to feminists back when self ID was Tory policy and the UK was one of the only countries with a predominantly left-wing, pro-feminist and pro-LGB response to the problem.

But no, you thought we were stupid. Silly older women, clutching their pearls, making up problems that didn't exist. All that work, research, writing, speaking ignored because we can't possibly have anything important to say.

https://x.com/glosswitch/status/1805335079067034040

I have to say I do feel they are on the crisp of an epiphany moment on it. They think they can just be nice about it, but haven't really thought it through in full.

Whether we can push them over that edge one by one remains to be seen.

They want to appear nice and the trouble is this conversation isn't about being nice to everyone. It's about what is legally coherent and what is legally practical and workable.

This is the exact issue with Brexit which has gradually hit the wall of reality.

That's the only thing that gives me some hope, combined with fallout in Canada likely to hit soon, legal rulings and other outside political changes influencing the landscape of this.

It's all about timing and priorities now.

If this is a shit show subject for Labour both publicly and internally they are likely to deprioritise. That buys time for fallout and research dropping (which I think we have a fair idea in terms of direction of travel).

We WANT to force this. Buy time. Buy as much as we can. It gives us the most chance of retaining the rights we should legally have now.

Fight starts 5th July. Not before imho.