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thisishowitisyousee · 01/07/2024 18:40

BrianRobinson · 30/06/2024 14:03

OK, Hi again a bit more on the Frances Bonney saga. I've had a second reply from Frances, again warm, friendly, responding in fair detail, although essentially political, not really dealing with the many g-c points I raised. Although she doesn't (forgets to?) give me permission to post here, neither does she forbid me, so I take the silence as assent. I wont quote the whole thing, far too long, just a few quotes from her emails.

I did also give her the link to this thread, so she knows where to post if she wants to speak for herself and correct anything, or simply make a comment.

From the 2nd letter first, as it's more immediately relevant to the only bit of "evidence" we've seen.

QUOTE I do remember signing this letter, but didn't immediately make the connection because I hadn't really thought of it as a broad expression of my opinions.

I signed it because I had had some concerns at that time, specifically related to my NHS role, about the clarity of medical language used by the NHS, in particular on websites where automatic translation is used for communities without English as their first language.

(Since then I have seen good cooperation on language with Patient Partnership Groups where I work, which is reassuring.) END QUOTE

QUOTE I should be clear here that I am aligned with current Green Party Policy, and I fully support the platform I am standing on. I have voted Green for over 25 years, and have not always agreed entirely with the Green Party, for example on issues like NATO (the Party's position has now moved on that) so I understand how hard it is to find a representative that agrees with all one's views.

I also agree with you wholeheartedly that all contributions to political debate on any issue should be respectful.

Constituents have a right to know the values and policies candidates endorse, so they can make an informed decision when they vote. I appreciate the opportunity to clarify my position. END QUOTE

From her 1st email to me

QUOTE My position as a Green Party candidate in this election is to support and promote the policies that have been chosen by the members of my Party - as you may know, policy is decided by our members, not by our leadership.

[She quotes relevant bits of the GP manifesto, including 'Our commitment to human rights encompasses equalities, justice and civil liberties too ... Campaign to end violence against women and girls ... Campaign for the right of self-identification for trans and non-binary people ...' and gave the link to the Manifesto.]

QUOTE I am fully aligned with the policies of my party - we are a compassionate, inclusive party, and seek to create a country where everyone feels that they belong. [And she concluded:] In an ideal world, we could all move past differences on issues of sex and gender, prioritise the safety and wellbeing of everyone in our society, and focus on the existential threats of climate change and armed conflict. END QUOTE

As I said, she didn't really respond to my several specific points, including this one: 'And finally, I believe there indeed is an irreconcilable internal contradiction in the party's policy where it claims to 'tackle hate crime, misogyny ...' because so much, perhaps all, of the 'trans rights' movement, at least that part of it involving men, is fundamentally and indeed essentially misogynistic in its practice even if many of its theoretical advocates do not realise the fact.'

In my initial approach to her, I'd written:

'As I have often put it, there's only one way to become a woman and that's to have started life as a girl. And not as "assigned" at birth but simply observed, the way it's always been done. (The same of course, mutatis mutandis, for boys/men.)

'So-called trans women (more correctly trans-identifying men) should have the same rights, duties, obligations, as any other male-bodied people but importantly these entail precisely the same restrictions on behaviour that apply to all of them, not to trespass upon women's spaces and, with respect to younger female members of our species, not to destroy the aspirations to fair competition that many have in such fields as sports, athletics and the like through the exploitation of those lifelong anatomical and physiological attributes bestowed by early exposure to testosterone.'

She did not at all respond to what I suppose amounted to a challenge to her:

'But right now I'm most interested in what you yourself personally believe and would campaign for, or would be permitted by your party to campaign for, should you be elected to parliament. Would you campaign to uphold the facts of biology, to respect language and logic, to discourage (at least) the forced speech involved in pronoun deployment? Would you campaign to safeguard the freedom from legal prosecution of anyone who refuses to deny the evidence of their own eyes and ears, and simply cannot take part in some polite pretence that a man is (really, somehow) a woman? (A person might choose as a courtesy, out of not wishing to upset someone, to reify gender over sex and I could understand that, and indeed sometimes respect it, but only if it's a course freely chosen.)'

Apart from my feeling that Frances is indeed a very nice, caring, compassionate person who supports lots of things I support, my other main take-away is that she did at least take some trouble to reply, unlike her Labour counterparts, who have ignored questions on the facts of life. But in the end I fear she's been captured by the toxic gender ideology of our times.

My wife, a free agent and thankfully her own person, has voted for Frances. But there's no-one I can vote for this time and really mean it. And although I've voted tactically (against) in the past, I can't even do that now.

All best
Brian

I don't think it's a bad response in that she's not nailed her colours to either mast. I'd vote for her

BrianRobinson · 30/06/2024 14:03

OK, Hi again a bit more on the Frances Bonney saga. I've had a second reply from Frances, again warm, friendly, responding in fair detail, although essentially political, not really dealing with the many g-c points I raised. Although she doesn't (forgets to?) give me permission to post here, neither does she forbid me, so I take the silence as assent. I wont quote the whole thing, far too long, just a few quotes from her emails.

I did also give her the link to this thread, so she knows where to post if she wants to speak for herself and correct anything, or simply make a comment.

From the 2nd letter first, as it's more immediately relevant to the only bit of "evidence" we've seen.

QUOTE I do remember signing this letter, but didn't immediately make the connection because I hadn't really thought of it as a broad expression of my opinions.

I signed it because I had had some concerns at that time, specifically related to my NHS role, about the clarity of medical language used by the NHS, in particular on websites where automatic translation is used for communities without English as their first language.

(Since then I have seen good cooperation on language with Patient Partnership Groups where I work, which is reassuring.) END QUOTE

QUOTE I should be clear here that I am aligned with current Green Party Policy, and I fully support the platform I am standing on. I have voted Green for over 25 years, and have not always agreed entirely with the Green Party, for example on issues like NATO (the Party's position has now moved on that) so I understand how hard it is to find a representative that agrees with all one's views.

I also agree with you wholeheartedly that all contributions to political debate on any issue should be respectful.

Constituents have a right to know the values and policies candidates endorse, so they can make an informed decision when they vote. I appreciate the opportunity to clarify my position. END QUOTE

From her 1st email to me

QUOTE My position as a Green Party candidate in this election is to support and promote the policies that have been chosen by the members of my Party - as you may know, policy is decided by our members, not by our leadership.

[She quotes relevant bits of the GP manifesto, including 'Our commitment to human rights encompasses equalities, justice and civil liberties too ... Campaign to end violence against women and girls ... Campaign for the right of self-identification for trans and non-binary people ...' and gave the link to the Manifesto.]

QUOTE I am fully aligned with the policies of my party - we are a compassionate, inclusive party, and seek to create a country where everyone feels that they belong. [And she concluded:] In an ideal world, we could all move past differences on issues of sex and gender, prioritise the safety and wellbeing of everyone in our society, and focus on the existential threats of climate change and armed conflict. END QUOTE

As I said, she didn't really respond to my several specific points, including this one: 'And finally, I believe there indeed is an irreconcilable internal contradiction in the party's policy where it claims to 'tackle hate crime, misogyny ...' because so much, perhaps all, of the 'trans rights' movement, at least that part of it involving men, is fundamentally and indeed essentially misogynistic in its practice even if many of its theoretical advocates do not realise the fact.'

In my initial approach to her, I'd written:

'As I have often put it, there's only one way to become a woman and that's to have started life as a girl. And not as "assigned" at birth but simply observed, the way it's always been done. (The same of course, mutatis mutandis, for boys/men.)

'So-called trans women (more correctly trans-identifying men) should have the same rights, duties, obligations, as any other male-bodied people but importantly these entail precisely the same restrictions on behaviour that apply to all of them, not to trespass upon women's spaces and, with respect to younger female members of our species, not to destroy the aspirations to fair competition that many have in such fields as sports, athletics and the like through the exploitation of those lifelong anatomical and physiological attributes bestowed by early exposure to testosterone.'

She did not at all respond to what I suppose amounted to a challenge to her:

'But right now I'm most interested in what you yourself personally believe and would campaign for, or would be permitted by your party to campaign for, should you be elected to parliament. Would you campaign to uphold the facts of biology, to respect language and logic, to discourage (at least) the forced speech involved in pronoun deployment? Would you campaign to safeguard the freedom from legal prosecution of anyone who refuses to deny the evidence of their own eyes and ears, and simply cannot take part in some polite pretence that a man is (really, somehow) a woman? (A person might choose as a courtesy, out of not wishing to upset someone, to reify gender over sex and I could understand that, and indeed sometimes respect it, but only if it's a course freely chosen.)'

Apart from my feeling that Frances is indeed a very nice, caring, compassionate person who supports lots of things I support, my other main take-away is that she did at least take some trouble to reply, unlike her Labour counterparts, who have ignored questions on the facts of life. But in the end I fear she's been captured by the toxic gender ideology of our times.

My wife, a free agent and thankfully her own person, has voted for Frances. But there's no-one I can vote for this time and really mean it. And although I've voted tactically (against) in the past, I can't even do that now.

All best
Brian

thisishowitisyousee · 30/06/2024 11:07

If she's not gender critical I'm voting Tory just to spite the lot of them

BrianRobinson · 28/06/2024 23:41

OK hi again. I've heard from Frances Bonney and replied. I have asked her for permission to quote here a summary of her position and my reply, and if I've not heard from by Mon noon, I'll take it as a Yes. But I think it perfectly fair to correct our initial impression that she's 'g-c'. She's clear she isn't. But more, I hope, on Monday! I can add that unfortunately i can't vote for her as she sounds nice, and genuine.

TheMarzipanDildo · 28/06/2024 10:40

I’d vote for her too OP

BrianRobinson · 28/06/2024 10:37

Thanks. If she doesn’t hurry with a reply I won’t be able to vote for her— or anyone. Do I mind? Sort of yes, but honestly not all that much. I’m in my late 80s, I’ll leave it to the youngsters 😀😍 All best for now — B.

Maddiescassox · 28/06/2024 07:58

My Labour MP is gender critical and in an ultra safe seat. They are the only GC candidate on offer. They are an absolute shit show in every other respect I don't know anyone who has ever thought differently about them. I have never voted for them before, because they'll win regardless, but this time around it's a hard choice. Never felt so unrepresented.

WarriorN · 28/06/2024 07:57

There are many more GC green candidates than we publicly know about.

letthegamesbeginagain · 28/06/2024 07:42

BrianRobinson · 27/06/2024 23:45

Hello, I hope it's OK to post here, I'm a man (retired NHS psychiatrist) and not a parent either but I've followed this thread with great interest because I have the same problem as many who've posted here. I too live in MK where if she's elected Frances Bonney would be my MP so I googled and found this very helpful discussion. Thank you. I have tonight emailed her (I hope it does actually reach her for there's only an address given for the constituency). I'm not at all sure she'll reply, apart from understandable reasons of being very busy right now!

After a preamble in which I stated my own gender-critical views, I got to this bit: 'My understanding is that the Green Party as a collective would not agree with me.

'But right now I'm most interested in what you yourself personally believe and would campaign for, or would be permitted by your party to campaign for, should you be elected to parliament. Would you campaign to uphold the facts of biology, to respect language and logic, to discourage (at least) the forced speech involved in pronoun deployment? Would you campaign to safeguard the freedom from legal prosecution of anyone who refuses to deny the evidence of their own eyes and ears, and simply cannot take part in some polite pretence that a man is (really, somehow) a woman? (A person might choose as a courtesy, out of not wishing to upset someone, to reify gender over sex and I could understand that, and indeed sometimes respect it, but only if it's a course freely chosen.) ...

I added that I'd always been a lifelong Labour voter but simply can't vote for them this time, however there were times in the past I voted Green and even was, albeit briefly, a party member.

If she does reply, I'll report it here, if that's OK.

All best
Brian

Hey this is awesome, please keep us posted!

I came home to one of Frances' flyers the other day so I must have missed her or whichever green supporting assistant delivered it (also, thankfully, missed the person who left the reform leaflet).

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UtopiaPlanitia · 28/06/2024 00:10

Brian I'd also be keen to hear about any response. Thanks for posting.

Katasaurus · 27/06/2024 23:58

Thank you, Brian. It will be interesting to see what response, if any, you get.

BrianRobinson · 27/06/2024 23:45

Hello, I hope it's OK to post here, I'm a man (retired NHS psychiatrist) and not a parent either but I've followed this thread with great interest because I have the same problem as many who've posted here. I too live in MK where if she's elected Frances Bonney would be my MP so I googled and found this very helpful discussion. Thank you. I have tonight emailed her (I hope it does actually reach her for there's only an address given for the constituency). I'm not at all sure she'll reply, apart from understandable reasons of being very busy right now!

After a preamble in which I stated my own gender-critical views, I got to this bit: 'My understanding is that the Green Party as a collective would not agree with me.

'But right now I'm most interested in what you yourself personally believe and would campaign for, or would be permitted by your party to campaign for, should you be elected to parliament. Would you campaign to uphold the facts of biology, to respect language and logic, to discourage (at least) the forced speech involved in pronoun deployment? Would you campaign to safeguard the freedom from legal prosecution of anyone who refuses to deny the evidence of their own eyes and ears, and simply cannot take part in some polite pretence that a man is (really, somehow) a woman? (A person might choose as a courtesy, out of not wishing to upset someone, to reify gender over sex and I could understand that, and indeed sometimes respect it, but only if it's a course freely chosen.) ...

I added that I'd always been a lifelong Labour voter but simply can't vote for them this time, however there were times in the past I voted Green and even was, albeit briefly, a party member.

If she does reply, I'll report it here, if that's OK.

All best
Brian

BackToLurk · 14/06/2024 09:18

RandySavage · 13/06/2024 23:13

I have a similar dilemma, also in Milton Keynes (north).
I cannot vote tory, the lib Dems are ridiculous and sinister at the same time, and though know and quite like the Green candidate I won't be voting for the misogynist/homophobe party.
When I asked our Labour candidate "what is a woman" he instantly replied "adult human female", - so I think I'll be voting labour despite misgivings.

He hasn’t answered me. I’ve sent him the Sex Matters questions

Floisme · 14/06/2024 09:16

I'd contact her and ask her views (using the Sex Matters questions) before deciding but yes, in your shoes and if the only alternative was spoiling my vote, I think I'd probably do the same. Even if she were ultimately whipped into line (and that's assuming she was likely to win) it would still be one less MP who was either totally unscrupulous or batshit.

aerkfjherf · 14/06/2024 08:58

Many Green party candidates actually have a reasonably balanced view, to be fair - I have heard them advocate for fairness in women's sport, and so on

fromorbit · 14/06/2024 08:56

There is a massive civil war inside the Greens. Green Party Women the official group for women in the party is run by Gender Crits. So if you have a gender crit green candidate backing them is a solid option

Pallavi Devulapalli
Green Party Spokesperson for Health, Social Care & Public Health, Green MP candidate for SW Norfolk is another gender crit green

The election coming now is good news for the Greens as if it came later the court cases they are facing might bankrupt them.

x.com

https://x.com/doctorpallavi

ArabellaScott · 14/06/2024 08:40

There are some fantastic, and very deeply committed feminists in the Green Party. Unfortunately, as noted above, there have been sustained campaigns to boot them out.

For Greens, I tend to look for environmental policies and a history of environmental interests. There are some who are real Greens, and then the newer wave of 'social justice' people who are frankly an embarrasment.

RandySavage · 13/06/2024 23:13

I have a similar dilemma, also in Milton Keynes (north).
I cannot vote tory, the lib Dems are ridiculous and sinister at the same time, and though know and quite like the Green candidate I won't be voting for the misogynist/homophobe party.
When I asked our Labour candidate "what is a woman" he instantly replied "adult human female", - so I think I'll be voting labour despite misgivings.

PickAChew · 13/06/2024 23:10

I've been trying to find out more on my own candidates. It turns out my own green candidate is a an old fashioned ecology green and, like my local lib dem candidate, who is an excellent county councillor, doesn't seem to wade in to any of the gender woo. The national parties they represent are the problem, at the moment.

MikiSu · 13/06/2024 22:22

@letthegamesbeginagain they're all shit options I know. I live in the valleys, it's guaranteed to be a labour win no matter what tbh!

Rightsraptor · 13/06/2024 22:08

She's brave. I'm surprised she's not on a 'no fault suspension'. Sounds benign, doesn't it?

TulipsAndZombies · 13/06/2024 22:03

No she really didn’t, fair play to her!!

letthegamesbeginagain · 13/06/2024 22:02

TulipsAndZombies · 13/06/2024 21:54

I’d probably not draw too much attention to it to be honest in case they kick her out!

She's posted her full name and occupation on there. She didn't have to do that.

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letthegamesbeginagain · 13/06/2024 22:01

Valeriekat · 13/06/2024 21:56

The party manifesto is what the candidate has to follow.
Theirs is pretty rancid.

It's nowhere near as bad as Labours on this.

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letthegamesbeginagain · 13/06/2024 22:01

MikiSu · 13/06/2024 22:00

Yes but if/when she gets the whip her own views no longer matter, that's how politics works im afraid!

Green manifesto is only to campaign for self ID.

What's your suggestion?

Labour?

Conservative?

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