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SummerFeverVenice · 09/05/2024 16:47

Gagagardener · 09/05/2024 15:15

@SummerFeverVenice So it is appropriate for me to feel I shdn't be seeing this. Interesting thought: do we treat her/their desire for privacy rather as we do copyright? I.e. Once you've died, you lose control.

Yes, I would say it is appropriate to feel it is private and not meant to be gawked at in public. I like your copywrite, privacy rights until death idea.

Gagagardener · 09/05/2024 15:15

@SummerFeverVenice So it is appropriate for me to feel I shdn't be seeing this. Interesting thought: do we treat her/their desire for privacy rather as we do copyright? I.e. Once you've died, you lose control.

SummerFeverVenice · 09/05/2024 11:03

@Gagagardener
Thank you. Yes, it was a private painting she had agreed to do for her lover and with her identity protected. The two men (lover and artist) did take the secret to their graves and beyond.

Gagagardener · 08/05/2024 23:17

@SummerFeverVenice Your explanation of the painting is very interesting. But it was private, for a particular man to look at, painted at a time when attitudes to all sorts of things were different. (Including luxuriant pubic hair!)

Dineasair · 08/05/2024 22:20

nutmeg7 · 08/05/2024 19:56

You’re not reading the answers, I don’t know why.

There is a difference between using a pet name for your genitalia, and using the wrong scientific name. Words carry meaning in materially real sense, if you use the wrong scientific term, your meaning is not successfully communicated to the audience. Using a pet name isn’t a problem and is not what the thread is about.

The art in question doesn’t use any terms, correct or otherwise, it is a painting.

The point of contention was how it was described by the article.

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Dineasair · 08/05/2024 21:56

AstonCanKissMyArse · 08/05/2024 17:17

The discussion is about the Guardian's choice of words when reporting on the art.

Not the art itself (or what any individual woman chooses to name her vulva).

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theDudesmummy · 08/05/2024 20:19

Or just search L'Origine du monde in Wikipedia, it's right there in all it's glory!

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Therolledeyes · 08/05/2024 20:16

Lollypop701 · 08/05/2024 20:14

I don’t have an opinion other that I can’t find a bloody image of the actual painting without someone’s head, red writing or another woman with her legs open at the fore front of the image….i would like to see a good image of the painting after the lovely explanation of why there’s no face

Google search term The Origin of the World painting, click image tab, second and third images have no impediment.

Lollypop701 · 08/05/2024 20:14

I don’t have an opinion other that I can’t find a bloody image of the actual painting without someone’s head, red writing or another woman with her legs open at the fore front of the image….i would like to see a good image of the painting after the lovely explanation of why there’s no face

nutmeg7 · 08/05/2024 19:56

Maddy70 · 08/05/2024 15:21

Talking down to other women because you think you are evervso superior and dont like what they say and have different opinions is the opposite of feminism.
I actually do call my own bodyparts the correct terms but if i want to call it a foof I jolly well will without another woman judging me and other women
Why should art use the correct terms? Art should provoke. Thats generally the purpose

You’re not reading the answers, I don’t know why.

There is a difference between using a pet name for your genitalia, and using the wrong scientific name. Words carry meaning in materially real sense, if you use the wrong scientific term, your meaning is not successfully communicated to the audience. Using a pet name isn’t a problem and is not what the thread is about.

The art in question doesn’t use any terms, correct or otherwise, it is a painting.

The point of contention was how it was described by the article.

Therolledeyes · 08/05/2024 18:25

I understand there were numerous complaints regarding the inaccurate terminology (one of which was mine) hence the correction.

User1979289 · 08/05/2024 18:14

I emailed and complained - I do it all the time 😂I am sure they have a little file on me.

duc748 · 08/05/2024 18:12

I doubt more than one man in ten could say what a cervix is with any accuracy.

Dineasair · 08/05/2024 18:08

Maddy70 · 08/05/2024 15:21

Talking down to other women because you think you are evervso superior and dont like what they say and have different opinions is the opposite of feminism.
I actually do call my own bodyparts the correct terms but if i want to call it a foof I jolly well will without another woman judging me and other women
Why should art use the correct terms? Art should provoke. Thats generally the purpose

Ffs, do you lot never tire of playing the victim card?

AstonCanKissMyArse · 08/05/2024 17:17

The discussion is about the Guardian's choice of words when reporting on the art.

Not the art itself (or what any individual woman chooses to name her vulva).

AstonCanKissMyArse · 08/05/2024 17:15

Do feminists have to respond meekly when someone attacks them, in case they're then accused of 'talking down'?

As has been said on this thread several times, you do you.

Maddy70 · 08/05/2024 15:21

Dineasair · 08/05/2024 11:10

oh dear, my comment was about the fact that you seemed to be missing the point entirely and I suspected that was deliberate. There is a world of difference between giving your body parts a childish euphemism in private and naming body parts properly in things that matter, like art and medical literature for gods sake. A vulva is external and a vagina is internal and that’s significant and it’s something that everyone should know. I would suggest that people who can’t deal with the proper grown up names for women’s body parts give feminism a bad name.

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Talking down to other women because you think you are evervso superior and dont like what they say and have different opinions is the opposite of feminism.
I actually do call my own bodyparts the correct terms but if i want to call it a foof I jolly well will without another woman judging me and other women
Why should art use the correct terms? Art should provoke. Thats generally the purpose

SummerFeverVenice · 08/05/2024 14:31

EBearhug · 08/05/2024 02:13

This was back in the day when you couldn’t take a photo of your lover to look at and remember (or wank to), so you had to commission a painting of your mistress.

You certainly could by 1866, and plenty of Victorian men with money did have pornographic photographs. Courbet's colour is better though.

Oh sorry, my mistake I was thinking colour photos. It was more classy to commission a painting- no chance of copies leaking and no chance of finding any prints that DID reveal her identity.

SummerFeverVenice · 08/05/2024 14:24

theDudesmummy · 07/05/2024 11:54

Well I guess the penis and vagina are the two essentials for the actual act and so are what are referred to primarily, although they are not analogous organs. Although if people think vulvas are vaginas then that doesn't really stack up.

@SummerFeverVenice thanks so much for that explanation. I was feeling bad about loving the painting after seeing @Gagagardener 's post. I think I love it partly because of the nice full unabashed bush! (I showed to to DH and that's what he liked about it too).

You shouldn’t feel bad. @Gagagardener ’s post is from modern point of view fully grounded in a post #metoo world. The painting is a product of the times- it’s a private picture meant to be known about only by two lovers (the artist kept it secret who she was as they were required to do).

I love the painting too.

Dineasair · 08/05/2024 11:10

Maddy70 · 08/05/2024 08:15

Why? I can call my body parts whatever i like. Who are you to dictate to another woman how they should speak?. Women like you give feminists a bad name

oh dear, my comment was about the fact that you seemed to be missing the point entirely and I suspected that was deliberate. There is a world of difference between giving your body parts a childish euphemism in private and naming body parts properly in things that matter, like art and medical literature for gods sake. A vulva is external and a vagina is internal and that’s significant and it’s something that everyone should know. I would suggest that people who can’t deal with the proper grown up names for women’s body parts give feminism a bad name.

lordloveadog · 08/05/2024 10:23

@duc748 you’d think so, right? If you run that article through Google translate you can see the High Court did eventually decide just that. But a lower court thought it had found a technicality on which to let yet another sex offender off.

Maddy70 · 08/05/2024 08:15

Dineasair · 08/05/2024 01:39

Oh just stop. You appear to be deliberately obtuse, it looks silly, we’re not five.

Why? I can call my body parts whatever i like. Who are you to dictate to another woman how they should speak?. Women like you give feminists a bad name

EBearhug · 08/05/2024 02:13

This was back in the day when you couldn’t take a photo of your lover to look at and remember (or wank to), so you had to commission a painting of your mistress.

You certainly could by 1866, and plenty of Victorian men with money did have pornographic photographs. Courbet's colour is better though.

Dineasair · 08/05/2024 01:39

Maddy70 · 07/05/2024 14:15

Lots of words are incorrect. Why does it directly impact you what someone else calls their foof or whatever else they like to call it.

Oh just stop. You appear to be deliberately obtuse, it looks silly, we’re not five.

duc748 · 07/05/2024 22:11

Sorry to be vulgar, but surely all it needs is an examination, and "He put it in there"? Seems incredible that strict terminology was necessary.