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Non binary changing rooms???

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Gcn · 04/05/2024 09:17

Name changed as outing. Yesterday a member of staff told me that "they" are unhappy using either the male or female changing rooms in work, because as non binary they don't feel safe in either. They've been using the (ladies) loo to get changed in but aren't happy and think we should provide non binary changing rooms.

I think that's madness. So they aren't happy getting changed with just men or just women, but would be happy to share a changing room with both???

Work is all about the kindness, and supporting staff - so I've been told by manager to find a solution.. Great

What would you do?

OP posts:
Changingplace · 04/05/2024 09:20

swashbucklecheer · 04/05/2024 09:19

Change the male ones to non-binary. See what happens then.

Sounds like a good plan :)

AtrociousCircumstance · 04/05/2024 09:20

swashbucklecheer · 04/05/2024 09:19

Change the male ones to non-binary. See what happens then.

⭐️ This!

theDudesmummy · 04/05/2024 09:20

Depends whether they are male or female. Non-binary doesn't exist.

AtrociousCircumstance · 04/05/2024 09:20

Since when has work been all about kindness? What absolute shit. What are you supposed to do - magic a third space for narcissists with your special wand?

I would go above your manager for advice about this.

Changingplace · 04/05/2024 09:19

The whole concept of being ‘safe’ in this situation is ridiculous, I mean what do they actually think is going to happen, in work?

swashbucklecheer · 04/05/2024 09:19

Change the male ones to non-binary. See what happens then.

Rightsraptor · 04/05/2024 09:18

I'd hand them their P45 for being a PITA.

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