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Spectator article on author feeling horny after watching a lecture by a female academic at Cambridge University and then hiring a prostitute

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PlumDog · 18/04/2024 13:03

See below (it's vile):
https://twitter.com/itaintwhywhywhy/status/1780888612780835302

"Lloyd Evans started writing for the The Spectator in 1998 and later became its poetry editor and theatre critic. In 2005 he co-authored a play, ‘Who’s The Daddy?’ based on sexual shenanigans at the Spectator."

https://twitter.com/itaintwhywhywhy/status/1780888612780835302

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Hartley99 · 18/04/2024 20:46

flyingbuttress43 · 18/04/2024 18:06

Clearly chastity belts were invented for the wrong sex.

Just think how many celebrities have been caught with prostitutes, or photographed going into brothels - Hugh Grant, Eddie Murphy, Ralph Fiennes, etc. And also how many have admitted to using prostitutes in their memoirs - Russell Brand, Frank Skinner, Colin Farrell. Even Paul McCartney claimed to have had an orgy with prostitutes when he was in the Beatles. Men really do have their brains in their penises. Frankly, when you think how easy it now is to look up escorts, I wonder how many of the men in our lives have secretly visited one. I have a nasty feeling it’s more than we suspect.

It’s perhaps forgivable in a young man. A boy in his teens or early twenties is callous and stupid and driven half insane by his hormones. But an older man should know better. An educated, middle-aged man like this guy should know that he’s funding an ugly and depressing trade. People make out that “it’s just a job,” but they wouldn’t want it for their daughters. That is no way for a human being to live their life.

VampireWeekday · 18/04/2024 20:24

This made my fucking blood boil. I am raging. It's not just a perv piece on this academic, it's trying to put every woman in her place. Her place, of course, is the bedroom.

Almahart · 18/04/2024 19:37

Same, I love Hadley Freeman and Daniel Finkelstein and ignore Rod Liddle and India Knight.

I quite enjoy the Spectator, but it is a bit of a warning as you were saying re my enemy's enemy being my friend and that a whole swathe of people who know what a woman is want to fuck them/keep them in the kitchen.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2024 19:27

This is a horrible piece of journalism.

I wouldn't call it a piece of journalism.
I also think it can be a mistake to tar a whole organisation with the same brush ... I don't read the spectator often, but there's probably other contributors who are still worth reading. I mean, I'm not going to give up on the Times with Janice Turner and many other good commentators and investigative journalists just because I can't stand Melanie Philips and disagree with some of its other opinion columnists.

Almahart · 18/04/2024 19:23

This is unbelievably grim re the Spectator's Taki
https://x.com/helenlewis/status/1770394637494067514

https://x.com/helenlewis/status/1770394637494067514

DworkinWasRight · 18/04/2024 19:19

PotteringPondering · 18/04/2024 17:00

This reflects very badly on the Spectator.

It has been getting a reputation for sensible, women-friendly articles on sex/gender and identity politics more generally.

But this? Object lesson in how you can trash a reputation that took years to build in one fell swoop.

Fraser Nelson (editor): WTF were you thinking to allow this?

Agree. I’ve been subscribing to the Spectator for a couple of years because it was one of the first to publish feminist critiques of gender ideology. This is a horrible piece of journalism.

therealcookiemonster · 18/04/2024 19:15

this is one of the reasons why I wear hijab

ps I realise that men will still perv and also its their responsibility. but while men like this exist in society I choose to protect myself from their sordid gaze even though I think it's wrong that I have to. also would still wear it even if all men were angels because of the spiritual elements of wearing hijab .

RayonSunrise · 18/04/2024 18:56

Completely agree, Errol.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2024 18:36

RayonSunrise · 18/04/2024 17:07

Unfortunately, the rise of the gender critical article in conservative publications is likely as much driven by the-enemy-of-my-enemy-is-my-friend as it is genuine internet in women's rights.

My takeaway from all this is that whether you're right or left leaning, if you're a woman you can't take your eye off the ball for at all.

Some 'conservative publications' aren't 'gender critical' all. more like 'sex is real, gender roles tied to sex are a Good Thing'.

Spectator article on author feeling horny after watching a lecture by a female academic at Cambridge University and then hiring a prostitute
Almahart · 18/04/2024 18:21

Well, at least he knows what a woman is @ all the dullards and shills that spout that Tory line.

flyingbuttress43 · 18/04/2024 18:06

Clearly chastity belts were invented for the wrong sex.

Cauliflowery · 18/04/2024 17:20

AGlinnerOfHope · 18/04/2024 14:41

Related to this I was wondering this morning whether men’s sex drive is inherently entirely detached from the experience of their partner, and only some men choose to prioritise that.
I can’t imagine having sex with someone who wasn’t enjoying it, but many men ?most? seem perfectly happy as long as they get their end away.

I definitely think it's socialised. The message that women are subservient to men exists, both covertly and overtly, across all layers of society and culture.

But yeah, the thought of shagging someone who wasn't enjoying it is stomach turning, and rapey.

RayonSunrise · 18/04/2024 17:07

Unfortunately, the rise of the gender critical article in conservative publications is likely as much driven by the-enemy-of-my-enemy-is-my-friend as it is genuine internet in women's rights.

My takeaway from all this is that whether you're right or left leaning, if you're a woman you can't take your eye off the ball for at all.

PotteringPondering · 18/04/2024 17:00

This reflects very badly on the Spectator.

It has been getting a reputation for sensible, women-friendly articles on sex/gender and identity politics more generally.

But this? Object lesson in how you can trash a reputation that took years to build in one fell swoop.

Fraser Nelson (editor): WTF were you thinking to allow this?

HelloWorld68 · 18/04/2024 16:44

AIstolemylunch · 18/04/2024 15:23

I doubt it unfortunately. He'll brazen it out a la Boris Johnson down at the Club and make jokes for the next few years about poops, careful what I say, must get those hairy lesbians after me again hahaha. And of course, most of the blokes in charge will be secretly back slapping him and 'asking for a friend' where the brothel is.

Sadly you're very probably right.

MoleAtTheCounter · 18/04/2024 15:37

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2024 15:00

Of course it's possible the whole thing is a product of his imagination, given he got the college name wrong and seems to have invented a 'railway terminus' in Cambridge ... afaik it has 2 non terminal stations. Confused
Burk.

The slang term "berk" is a contraction of "Berkeley Hunt", which in turn refers to the C-word. Rhyming slang.

PreFabBroadBean · 18/04/2024 15:25

Vile. I feel the editor of The Spectator must hate him though.

AIstolemylunch · 18/04/2024 15:24

Mustn't

AIstolemylunch · 18/04/2024 15:23

I doubt it unfortunately. He'll brazen it out a la Boris Johnson down at the Club and make jokes for the next few years about poops, careful what I say, must get those hairy lesbians after me again hahaha. And of course, most of the blokes in charge will be secretly back slapping him and 'asking for a friend' where the brothel is.

HelloWorld68 · 18/04/2024 15:21

Well his "career" is over!!

Oh dear. What a shame. How sad!

MrsTerryPratchett · 18/04/2024 15:19

AIstolemylunch · 18/04/2024 14:26

I'm a regular on twitter and it's not often something gets to me but this pathetic man actually turned my stomach this morning. The fact that he didn't even consider the light this would show him in and thought it was perfectly fine to perve on a woman just doing her job and then also perfectly fine to go and hire a sex trafficked woman actually made me feel revolted. And that before the casual sexism and ageism and writing about it and naming both women without their permission!

What a sad sleaze that this is the only way he can get off, makes you realise how bad misogyny still is in our society.

I really can't get the words across to say how much this bloke I'd never heard of until today has made my skin crawl.

Quite. He's sexually harassing both of them with an audience. It's the posh wanker's version of shouting shit at women in the street while other men walk past oblivious.

Those same men 'don't see misogyny'. Urg.

AIstolemylunch · 18/04/2024 15:14

I suspect it is the sad made up sexual fantasy of an increasingly impotent sleaze, as I really dont think the people running the prostitutes of Cambridge would allow the to do freebies for men that had 'left their wallet at home". OTH, part of me does hope that he has given his bank account details to the Chinese triads.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2024 15:00

Of course it's possible the whole thing is a product of his imagination, given he got the college name wrong and seems to have invented a 'railway terminus' in Cambridge ... afaik it has 2 non terminal stations. Confused
Burk.

BoreOfWhabylon · 18/04/2024 14:56

The woman academic in question has commented.
Good for her.
x.com/lea_ypi/status/1780875319735411088

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2024 14:54

Urgh.
Well, any woman he tries to have a liaison with in future who has read that is likely to have an extreme case of the ick.

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