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I have no words...

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OldTinHat · 06/04/2024 17:17

...I've seen it all now!

I wonder if I'll receive a letter offering me a prostate exam??

I have no words...
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OceanicBoundlessness · 07/04/2024 11:09

Women first and people with seems the least bad option clunky as it is.

WagnersFourthSymphony · 07/04/2024 10:48

@terffert

peevitude

brilliant!

terffert · 07/04/2024 10:30

I think this is a logical solution if you are a writer of such a leaflet, and you know that the leaflet will be read by gender critical people and gender ideologists, and your above-all-else concern is that everyone who needs a smear test should be addressed and told to get one. Two different interpretations:

GC: women and people with a cervix: only "women" is necessary, and is sufficient; "people with a cervix" is redundant (and perhaps offensive, because women aren't body parts, and we don't need reminding that if our cervix has been removed e.g. as part of major surgery, we no longer need to have it smeared)

GI: only "people with a cervix" is necessary, and is sufficient; "women" is redundant (and perhaps offensive, because there are some "women" in their terminology who have to remember they don't need a smear test, and may encounter embarrassment if they fail on this)

By contrast, if they went for "women" only, some GIs who need smears would feel excluded and out of peevitude might not attend (you might feel, and I might agree, that that's their lookout, but the NHS would still pay to treat their advanced cervical cancer); if they went for "people with a cervix" only, some GCs would feel peeved, probably not enough to not attend on the biased assumption that we're reasonable people who know where our interests lie, but more seriously, some people who aren't sure what a cervix is would be excluded.

I don't envy whoever worded this leaflet their job, but I think they did ok.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 07/04/2024 10:15

TinkerTiger · 06/04/2024 17:21

Have you got a prostate?

This letter includes 'women' so I can't get worked up about it

It’s still pandering. This is a medical issue - based on bodies. Human bodies.

aberamagold · 07/04/2024 08:46

The word ‘woman’ includes everyone who might need a smear test.
People are free to believe what they like, but the NHS should not be using language that legitimises their harmful nonsense.

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2024 08:38

'biological women' would suffice.

nothingcomestonothing · 06/04/2024 22:40

nepeta · 06/04/2024 19:02

It's better to use "women and people with cervix" than just "people with cervix", but it still mashes two quite different definitions of what 'woman' is together, and that is not logical.

Either 'woman' is a biological sex (and age) category OR it is a feeling which some people with cervix don't share. By mixing those together we have no idea which it is.

The 'nonbinary' concept explains that very clearly. If we now have women, men, and nonbinary people, and given that the nonbinary people are also male or female, the other two words (women and men) can't be referring to sex but to something else. We are never told what that something else might be, but the only verifiable thing (not invisible to outsiders) would be stating a belief in an abstract gender identity based on femininity, masculinity, both or neither AND for those who don't pick nonbinary, and being comfortable with the sexist two-dimensional stereotypical sex roles for men and women.

This is not feminism.

Yeah this. The only people who need a smear, are women. As soon as you term it 'women and people with a cervix' you have changed 'woman' from a descriptor of an adult human female, to one of a person who self describes at a woman (as you've also listed people with a cervix who don't self describe as a woman).

I know a lot of women are ok with additive language like this, as at least it now says women, instead of cervix havers or birthing bodies or any of that offensive crap. But that's such a low bar. I do not have 'woman' as an identity, I have it as a biological fact about me, and I didn't consent for that to be changed on literature from the National Health Service about a medical test only adult human females need. Not being totally erased isn't good enough, I want reality based language back in healthcare.

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 06/04/2024 22:34

I just checked on the hse guidlines Ireland and it says 'young people with a cervix' or 'people with a cervix'...Woman not even mentioned at all. Are we living in an alternative reality or what.

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 06/04/2024 22:28

I agree with Paperwalkandtalk who are all the people with a cervix if not women. The world is gone mad now, same with chest feeding instead of breast feeding.

UtopiaPlanitia · 06/04/2024 19:37

OP I find it concerning when ideology makes its way into medical treatment (e.g. countries restricting abortion or contraception access for religious reasons rather than medical reasons or refusing to research and treat HIV because of homophobia) so I can understand why you would find this nonsensical.

Receiving letters like this also leaves me wondering what else the NHS does to appease ideologies which reduces my confidence in a medical system that can so easily be persuaded to lie about fundamental aspects of mammalian life on earth.

SickofSoup · 06/04/2024 19:36

PaperWalkAndTalk · 06/04/2024 19:19

Yes, I know that, but if you play by the NHS rules with their mishmash of terms then it doesn't make sense, after all who are these other people with a cervix if they're not women?

I get you - I assumed trans men!

GardenCherisher · 06/04/2024 19:35

I suppose the $64,000 question is, have any GPs/nurses etc found themselves explaining to a bewildered transwoman patient that a) the genital surgery didn't magic a cervix out of nowhere but b) patient does need to think about prostate cancer screening. ?

Perhaps a little awkward, but is it better or worse than explaining to a transman that if any penises had been in the body region formerly known as their vagina, then yes, cervical screening should still very much be considered. Though hopefully the HPV vaccination has cut down on cervical cancer risk a lot for the younger generation.

Justme56 · 06/04/2024 19:24

It seems like a lot of TRA’s seem to be confused about what sex people are so I guess the ‘people with a cervix’ is for them.

PaperWalkAndTalk · 06/04/2024 19:19

SickofSoup · 06/04/2024 17:54

Trans women are male, regardless of how they feel or identify, and so do not have a cervix.

Yes, I know that, but if you play by the NHS rules with their mishmash of terms then it doesn't make sense, after all who are these other people with a cervix if they're not women?

ManchesterBeatrice · 06/04/2024 19:07

Not going the way you expected OP 😂

Twoshoesnewshoes · 06/04/2024 19:06

I think it’s okay. At least it says women first!

nepeta · 06/04/2024 19:02

It's better to use "women and people with cervix" than just "people with cervix", but it still mashes two quite different definitions of what 'woman' is together, and that is not logical.

Either 'woman' is a biological sex (and age) category OR it is a feeling which some people with cervix don't share. By mixing those together we have no idea which it is.

The 'nonbinary' concept explains that very clearly. If we now have women, men, and nonbinary people, and given that the nonbinary people are also male or female, the other two words (women and men) can't be referring to sex but to something else. We are never told what that something else might be, but the only verifiable thing (not invisible to outsiders) would be stating a belief in an abstract gender identity based on femininity, masculinity, both or neither AND for those who don't pick nonbinary, and being comfortable with the sexist two-dimensional stereotypical sex roles for men and women.

This is not feminism.

DuesToTheDirt · 06/04/2024 18:06

At least it says "women", unlike the Scottish radio adverts which were aimed squarely at "people with a cervix" and avoided the word "women" altogether!

CheckeredAliceBand · 06/04/2024 17:58

It's fine. If woman wasn't there it would be dreadful - but it is so it's all good. If a trans woman rocks up for a smear they won't get very far. But I doubt they'd be sent this letter.
If trans men and nb people feel better being described that way it's no skin off my nose.

ManchesterBeatrice · 06/04/2024 17:56

Meh, this is fine, inclusive of trans men but women first.

SickofSoup · 06/04/2024 17:54

PaperWalkAndTalk · 06/04/2024 17:33

So does this include all women (trans women are women) and people with a cervix too?

Trans women are male, regardless of how they feel or identify, and so do not have a cervix.

mfbx5sf3 · 06/04/2024 17:53

It’s clearly also targetted towards transmen- so biological females who identify as men thus also have a cervix. Really no need to get in a tiring and predictable mumsnet flap about it.

SickofSoup · 06/04/2024 17:52

BunnyOnTheOnion · 06/04/2024 17:30

I don't have any issue with this, it clearly says 'women' which >99% of the people using the service will feel describes them and 'the people with a cervix ' is inclusive for anyone else who doesn't want to define themselves as a woman (but has a cervix). I'd much rather this than for us all be to called 'cervix havers' or similar!

I agree.

Igmum · 06/04/2024 17:51

I'm with @Brainworm. It says women - I'm so happy! - and has and to appease the gender woo contingent. Sorted.

IcakethereforeIam · 06/04/2024 17:49

I think MN might yet be keeping us to a higher standard than Police Scotland would 🤔

A post calling that person from Edinburgh Rape Crisis 'he' was deleted for misgendering recently. Unless the rules have changed in the last day or so 🤞