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Teen boy avoids jail after rape of girl, 12

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Imnobody4 · 06/04/2024 17:04

A TEENAGE boy has been handed a youth rehabilitation order after raping a 12-year-old girl who has since died in Kidlington.

Addressing the boy, Judge Lamb said: “I’m not sure it’s right to say that you were selfish but you were not kind and you need to understand that women and girls need to be treated with respect…respect and care.”

https://www.thisisoxfordshire.co.uk/news/24234880.teen-boy-avoids-jail-rape-girl-12-kidlington/?ref=twtrec

What sort of idiotic language is this. Rape isn't a very kind thing to do.

Teen avoids jail after rape of 12-year-old who later died

An Oxfordshire boy has been handed a youth rehabilitation order after raping a 12-year-old girl who has since died in Kidlington.

https://www.thisisoxfordshire.co.uk/news/24234880.teen-boy-avoids-jail-rape-girl-12-kidlington?ref=twtrec

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marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 06/04/2024 17:34

User1979289 · 06/04/2024 17:07

Rape has been decriminalised by stealth.

True

soupfiend · 06/04/2024 17:28

The judge sounds like he is using terminology aimed at someone with a much younger/lower cognitive abilities. Why is that?

Not kind. What a nonsense statement.

Its taken 3 years to come to trial and sentencing, is that due the victims fragility or his?

Perhaps she would be alive if she was able to see justice quicker.

IwantToRetire · 06/04/2024 17:26

Well this just shows that Judge's are no more competent to hear rape trials that juries.

Worth doing this?

You can ask for someone’s Crown Court sentence to be reviewed if you think it’s too low.The Attorney General’s Office can review very low sentences given by the Crown Court in England and Wales if they’re asked to.

Only certain types of case can be reviewed, such as:

  • murder
  • manslaughter
  • rape
  • robbery
  • some child sex crimes and child cruelty
  • some serious fraud
  • some serious drug crimes
  • some terror-related offences
  • some crimes committed because of the victim’s race or religion
  • stalking that caused the victim severe distress or to fear violence
  • harassment that caused the victim to fear violence
  • controlling and coercive behaviour

Anyone can ask for a sentence to be reviewed - you do not have to be involved in the case.

Only one person needs to ask for a sentence to be reviewed.

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

Ask for a Crown Court sentence to be reviewed

How to complain to the Attorney General's Office if you think someone's sentence is too low - and what happens if the Court of Appeal get involved

https://www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

ArabellaScott · 06/04/2024 17:25

'You can ask for someone’s Crown Court sentence to be reviewed if you think it’s too low.
The Attorney General’s Office can review very low sentences given by the Crown Court in England and Wales if they’re asked to.
Only certain types of case can be reviewed, such as:

  • murder
  • manslaughter
  • rape
  • robbery
  • some child sex crimes and child cruelty
  • some serious fraud
  • some serious drug crimes
  • some terror-related offences
  • some crimes committed because of the victim’s race or religion
  • stalking that caused the victim severe distress or to fear violence
  • harassment that caused the victim to fear violence
  • controlling and coercive behaviour
Anyone can ask for a sentence to be reviewed - you do not have to be involved in the case. Only one person needs to ask for a sentence to be reviewed.'
margoration · 06/04/2024 17:24

How can the judge say the boy "wasn't selfish"? Baffling.

Ecstaticmotion · 06/04/2024 17:21

So he was 13 and she was 12. Appalling and the judge’s remarks are not ok, but what good would locking him up do? He obviously needs intervention and help if he’d do this aged 13; prison with a load of offenders isn’t that.

ArabellaScott · 06/04/2024 17:14

This from the victim's father:

'He wrote: “She was a bubbly girl and the heart of the household.
“She was selfless and was always doing things for other people. She would always put others before herself.

“What [he] did to her changed her life. I tried to speak to her about what happened but she struggled to open up.
“She wanted to put it all behind her…but I knew what happened to her was eating her up inside.

“She started to push very close friends away. I can’t begin to imagine what she was going through.
“She started listening to emotional music and watching shows about suicide. She began to self-harm three months after the incident.
“No amount of words could quantify the amount of pain we’ve felt from her death.
“The verdict has given [her] a voice. Life isn’t the same without her, the house feels empty and quiet.”

My god. RIP, I'm so terribly sorry. Flowers

Mummame2222 · 06/04/2024 17:14

What the fuck is this? I can’t say you were selfish? What the fuck?

DoYouSmokePaul · 06/04/2024 17:11

This is one of the worst things I’ve ever heard. What the fuck. This reminds me of the film Promising Young Woman. Absolutely horrendous.

fourelementary · 06/04/2024 17:09

No words.
its awful but I honestly don’t know what kind of justice locking a young lad up after he did this age 13… it does sound like he has been trying to change since then and I guess the real consequence that would hurt most is true remorse as this will be lifelong…

But it’s awful and tragic. So sad.

User1979289 · 06/04/2024 17:07

Rape has been decriminalised by stealth.

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