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Telegraph: Teaching union opposes schools having to tell parents if child changes gender

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ResisterRex · 06/04/2024 08:39

Read it and weep:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/04/05/union-against-schools-telling-parents-child-changes-gender/

"A teaching union will campaign against government plans to force schools to tell parents if their child changes gender.
Members of the National Education Unionn_ (NEU) agreed on Friday to oppose what teachers described as the “compulsory ‘outing’” of pupils to parents.
Teachers at the union’s annual conference in Bournemouthh also said they would campaign against a ban on any aspect of “social transitioningg” in schools, which could include allowing children to change their pronounss_ or use lavatories or changing facilities of the opposite sex.
The motion, approved by the majority of delegates at the conference, was drawn up in response to draft government guidancee_ on gender-questioning children.
The long-awaited advice states that schoolss_ in England should not accept all requests for social transitioning and should involve parents in any decision that is made.
Speaking in favour of the campaign against the guidance, Kathryn Barton, an NEU member, said she knew of a seven-year-old who had transitioned during the summer holiday and said that “not a single pupil” had a problem with it.

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Midge Lowe, a teacher from Doncaster, said the Government’s draft guidance was “regressive trash” and said teachers must campaign for it to be withdrawn.
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No delegates at the conference spoke against the motion, which also stated that “schools, colleges and external providers should not change or remove LGBT++_ inclusive policies or curriculum content as ‘knee-jerk’ response to political rhetoric”."

The same union voted to affiliate with Just Like Us

https://x.com/safeschoolsuk/status/1776511307564335381?s=46&t=WHoOZZ_3Kv5G6-FyQuvE0LQ

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Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 07/04/2024 09:02

Oh and also all the pressure about attendance. If my DD was in a school without single sex toilets I would NOT make her go to school during her period. If the school can break the law and fail to safeguard my child, I'd think, I'm bloody well going to follow suit in order to safeguard my child.

Development charities know that single sex, female only toilets are a prerequisite for girls to access education and yet somehow in this country we're too stupid to realise this still applies to girls in the UK too.

I bet there is lower attendance in schools where there are only mixed sex (even if by stealth) toilets. Funny how no-one's done this analysis, it should be easy.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 07/04/2024 08:59

SinnerBoy · 07/04/2024 08:41

ResisterRex · Yesterday 21:30

An analysis of more than 600 school equality and trans policies reveals that up to three-quarters misrepresent laws protecting sex and gender, with some implementing rules that allow boys to use girls’ lavatories and changing rooms if they say they are a girl.

As we know, from countless posts with links to the law on this, having children over the age of 8 share toilet and changing facilities is illegal.

To be clear, these schools are being allowed to break the law.

And being encouraged by the NEU to break the law.

It's very serious. How are parents supposed to trust teachers when this anti-safeguarding, law breaking rubbish is what their unions are promoting?

And the DfE is worrying about the tsunami of families choosing to homeschool. Not very bright or good at joining dots are they?

WarriorN · 07/04/2024 08:57

The more concerning interpretation is that this person knows damn well that children will feel the power dynamic and stay quiet for that reason.

Yes. safeguarding training explores how children can be easily coerced and targeted. Manipulated.

It's sinister when you really consider the wider implications, and what we know about some individuals linked to WPATH etc.,

WarriorN · 07/04/2024 08:55

It's horrific.

The teaching union is supposed to be a on top of its game.

It's wilfully leading teachers into situations where they could be charged with major safeguarding violations and potentially sued by parents.

They are not the government and they are not clinically trained.

Trans activists have found loopholes where they can target the most vulnerable in society with their ideology and coercion.

ResisterRex · 07/04/2024 08:50

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2024 08:09

Kathryn Barton, an NEU member, said she knew of a seven-year-old who had transitioned during the summer holiday and said that “not a single pupil” had a problem with it.

Hi I'm Kathryn. I have no concept of seven year olds becoming older and it becoming an issue as kids hit puberty and become emotional mature enough to understand. I have no concept of what makes children feel unable what grown ups tell them. I have no concept of how a child socially transitioned at 7 might feel at 13 and whether they would be able to socially detransition given evidence that it was fairly normal to detransition. I have no concept of parents being homophobic, sexually abusive, children being autistic or just generally being sexist and this being a contributing factor to forcing transition due to a lack of ability to comprehend what transitioning actually means.

Hi I'm Kathryn and my brains fell out and I can't think beyond seven year olds just being nice.

The more concerning interpretation is that this person knows damn well that children will feel the power dynamic and stay quiet for that reason.

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borntobequiet · 07/04/2024 08:47

Part of the very issue here is the conflation of gender with sex

It’s an enormous part of the issue, and one reason why I always correct “gender” to “sex” if I possibly can.

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2024 08:45

AdamRyan · 07/04/2024 00:31

OK thanks. I read your post as saying schools were actually changing children's sex without parents knowledge and was a bit surprised Confused
Should have picked up on the sarcasm

Part of the very issue here is the conflation of gender with sex, thus leading to the idea that if you socially transition from one set of gender stereotypes to another you can change sex. Which is the level of understanding a seven year old has.

Gender is not sex and no one can change sex.

In trying to muddy the waters, seven year olds are deliberately mislead and it's only when they are old enough to understand

SinnerBoy · 07/04/2024 08:41

ResisterRex · Yesterday 21:30

An analysis of more than 600 school equality and trans policies reveals that up to three-quarters misrepresent laws protecting sex and gender, with some implementing rules that allow boys to use girls’ lavatories and changing rooms if they say they are a girl.

As we know, from countless posts with links to the law on this, having children over the age of 8 share toilet and changing facilities is illegal.

To be clear, these schools are being allowed to break the law.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 07/04/2024 08:29

AdamRyan · 07/04/2024 00:31

OK thanks. I read your post as saying schools were actually changing children's sex without parents knowledge and was a bit surprised Confused
Should have picked up on the sarcasm

You read that post correctly. Speakers at the NEU conference were* *very clear. They oppose the guidelines, calling them “compulsory outing". They insist that they can choose to keep secrets from parents, despite parents being the primary carers for a child, morally and legally responsible for safeguarding them.

Socially transitioning a child is pretending they've changed their sex.

We all know it's a fantasy but I suspect the 7 year old child that the speaker cited as having transitioned over a holiday will believe they've really changed sex. They're only 7 and have yet to develop the maturity, critical faculties and insight to challenge any lies that adults might tell them

A teacher's union is demanding the right to socially transition children, in secret from their parents, despite their complete lack of qualifications in sex change for children.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 07/04/2024 08:28

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2024 08:09

Kathryn Barton, an NEU member, said she knew of a seven-year-old who had transitioned during the summer holiday and said that “not a single pupil” had a problem with it.

Hi I'm Kathryn. I have no concept of seven year olds becoming older and it becoming an issue as kids hit puberty and become emotional mature enough to understand. I have no concept of what makes children feel unable what grown ups tell them. I have no concept of how a child socially transitioned at 7 might feel at 13 and whether they would be able to socially detransition given evidence that it was fairly normal to detransition. I have no concept of parents being homophobic, sexually abusive, children being autistic or just generally being sexist and this being a contributing factor to forcing transition due to a lack of ability to comprehend what transitioning actually means.

Hi I'm Kathryn and my brains fell out and I can't think beyond seven year olds just being nice.

I do wonder why Kathryn, with her woeful understanding of child development, thinks she's qualified to cheerlead such a serious medical intervention.

Let's hope Kathryn reads Cass..

And perhaps also some history. If you're thinking that children not speaking up means everything is fine / relying on children speaking up if there's something wrong then a) you're an idiot who doesn't understand the purpose of safeguarding frameworks and b)what are the adults FOR, exactly? Children mature enough to understand all the complex issues around social and medical transition and wider impacts on the entire school community surely could also just teach themselves? They might be better off if it's a choice between that and Kathryn.

RedToothBrush · 07/04/2024 08:09

Kathryn Barton, an NEU member, said she knew of a seven-year-old who had transitioned during the summer holiday and said that “not a single pupil” had a problem with it.

Hi I'm Kathryn. I have no concept of seven year olds becoming older and it becoming an issue as kids hit puberty and become emotional mature enough to understand. I have no concept of what makes children feel unable what grown ups tell them. I have no concept of how a child socially transitioned at 7 might feel at 13 and whether they would be able to socially detransition given evidence that it was fairly normal to detransition. I have no concept of parents being homophobic, sexually abusive, children being autistic or just generally being sexist and this being a contributing factor to forcing transition due to a lack of ability to comprehend what transitioning actually means.

Hi I'm Kathryn and my brains fell out and I can't think beyond seven year olds just being nice.

WarriorN · 07/04/2024 08:00

ResisterRex · 07/04/2024 07:34

@WhereAreWeNow, I think members can take their TU to ET:

www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/57

I'd support this

WarriorN · 07/04/2024 07:37

Many switched to neu for the last strikes at our place

WarriorN · 07/04/2024 07:37

There's an art teacher union. I don't know if there's any other subject specific ones.

I'm in the neu but watching closely how they react to Cass.

I'd been reassured that the current leader is onside but severely doubting it now. Though has also been told it's extremely bad in there if you're GC. Unless they think the gov will come down so firmly in the light of Cass that that will end things?

I know of one teacher who's left over this.

ResisterRex · 07/04/2024 07:34

@WhereAreWeNow, I think members can take their TU to ET:

www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/57

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WhereAreWeNow · 07/04/2024 07:26

ResisterRex · 06/04/2024 17:36

It is possible for TU members to take their union to ET, yes. So if there were a group of members who felt they had a discrimination case (eg a GC group, for the purposes of this discussion), legal action is a hypothetical possibility.

No, I don’t think so. You can only take your employer to ET. Unions don't employ their members.

DanglingMod · 07/04/2024 07:11

Caaarrrl · 06/04/2024 11:26

I don't know. But I'm going to investigate. It's a shame that the actions of the NEU make people outside of the profession think that we are all behind this type of thing. No one I know in teaching believes in all this rubbish that the union is spouting. I think most teachers join a union for protection against malicious complaints and allegations, not for political reasons. I bet most of them don't even pay any attention to all of and are unaware of the union's total capture by TRAs.

Same here. No one I know in teaching believes this nonsense or is anti-safeguarding.

Then again, we are also all NASUWT at my school (or the school leaders' union), hence no strikes at all last year.

ResisterRex · 07/04/2024 07:08

Datun · 07/04/2024 04:06

Placemarking for the explosions on Wednesday.

Or even Tuesday?!

Why do schools let children choose pronouns at four, ask parents

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/ae71a27f-053c-44a8-bf26-712f6910d07a?shareToken=b9bd91d548b8d6d663f3c147b04c8d5d

"Parents will call for an independent inquiry into how schools have allowed children as young as four to choose their own names, pronouns and uniforms.

The final report by Dr Hilary Cass into a review of England’s gender identity services for children will be published on Tuesday. It was commissioned by the NHS to make recommendations on how to help young people who question their gender identity and followed concerns that there was a lack of evidence and medical consensus in the way some young children were being treated.

Cass has promised to consider “the important role of schools”. But families say schools also need to be the focus of a full investigation. They hope the final Cass report will confirm that socially transitioning a child — calling a child with gender dysphoria by the name and pronouns of their chosen sex and letting them choose what uniform to wear — is not a “neutral” intervention."

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ResisterRex · 07/04/2024 07:06

I definitely don't disagree with you @Dumbledoreslemonsherbets but I think action against a union would need to come from the government in the circumstances you're setting out. I can't see Keegan doing that, or doing it well.

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Datun · 07/04/2024 04:06

Placemarking for the explosions on Wednesday.

duc748 · 07/04/2024 01:53

Of course you are right, @Dumbledoreslemonsherbets , it's madness.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 07/04/2024 01:12

THIS is when we need LangCleg back, she would have said all of this more coherently and understands the law better. But oh no, talking about safeguarding isn't NICE and THIS is the end result.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 07/04/2024 01:07

Why do we accept the TRA framing? We don't need EA 2010 here. It shoudn't be the primary law when it comes to children in schools. If safeguarding law / statutory guidance overrides GDPR - as clearly stated in KCSIE that it does - then it surely also has primacy over EA2010?

I'm sure there is discrimination against science realist teachers and parents (including those of faiths requiring single sex spaces to remain as expected under existing laws in schools) too but PLEASE can we address the serious safeguarding law breaches before we get to discrimination?.

Are there literally no lawyers who specialise in safeguarding law and existing statutory guidance? Is it all basically meaningless and totally pointless unless serious harm comes to a child (which is quite possibly actually happening here although everyone is working hard to not record any facts about that)?

What about adultification of children which is the cornerstone of gender ideology? This used to be seen as a red flag for safeguarding and potential abuse - again developmentally inappropriate expectations are said to potentially be emotional abuse as outlined in KCSIE - and this union and apparently schools, doctors and bloody everyone else except a few brave whistleblowers and parents are framing children as adults routinely. It's a safeguarding failure. If it's not, why can children decide what sex they want to be but can't drink, drive, get a job, get married or have sex? Because it's definitely just as serious as all these things and in some cases more serious. I'd rather my teenager decide to drive, which I'm fairly confident she could do right now safely with a bit of tuition, than go down the irreversable pathway of sex change before she's fully matured.

And why the ever living Tunnocks am I, a Mum on Mumsnet (albeit with some experience in education) seemingly one of only a few pointing these blazingly obvious facts out? Living in hope for some sense from Cass on Weds.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 07/04/2024 01:03

ResisterRex · 06/04/2024 17:36

It is possible for TU members to take their union to ET, yes. So if there were a group of members who felt they had a discrimination case (eg a GC group, for the purposes of this discussion), legal action is a hypothetical possibility.

This may well be right but....

Before we get to whether the teachers are discriminated against.

Surely any union suggesting / encouraging teachers to break safeguarding guidance and law could be legally challenged over that illegal, safeguarding breaching advice?

Their members are bound by law to uphold both KCSIE and Working Together to Safeguard children. Their advice is the opposite of doing this.

p. 14 of the STATUTORY safeguarding guidance (Working Together) applying to all organisations (including schools) who work with children lays out the principles for working with carers and parents which are ridden over roughshod by any recommendation that children are socially transitioned without speaking to / informing parents.

Bearing in mind that it is actually impossible for schools to keep this secret when they're also coercing hundreds of other children to use wrong -sex pronouns (thereby , under existing definitions in KCSIE, potentially emotionally abusing them - my interpretation would be this action would definitely constitute emotional abuse as outlined in KCSIE if they are primary school aged and debatably at secondary but almost certainly for children with SEND who are being coerced into using non standard English and wrong-sex pronouns).

And that's before we even get to the fact that toilets are supposed to be single sex over 8 under existing law so THAT law will be being broken by this guidance if it means children are put in mixed sex toilets (and again, without parental knowledge or consent breaches Working Together etc).

ChristinaXYZ · 07/04/2024 00:32

borntobequiet · 06/04/2024 11:14

Edapt is a sort of “non-union” union.

A family member, considering training to be a teacher and working as a cover supervisor for experience, got very good support and help when the school treated her badly. She’s staying with Edapt into her training and beyond. It doesn’t get involved in politics.

https://www.edapt.org.uk/?gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIrMyXuaythQMVkJpQBh1L6AD3EAAYASAAEgLZTfD_BwE

My other half switched Edapt for the last few years. I do not understand why any teacher is still in the NEU. The NASUWT is not quite as bad but there are alternatives - Edapt (though not a full trade union), Affinity (is a trades union and covers education) is non-political.