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Anyone free for a Women's Equality Party hustings in Basingstoke (Hampshire)

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NimbleScroller · 02/04/2024 18:30

I am very concerned at the continuing erosion of women's rights, we are victim to an ideology that is happy to twist the truth and bully and belittle people. Here in Basingstoke, we have a very active Women's Equality Party that infuriatingly pushes that very same agenda and has been openly critical of those of a progressive nature who hold a Gender Critical position. Their candidate was asked to sign the Green Party's Declaration for Women's Sex Based Rights and they were openly hostile to the requester.

They are holding a hustings event on the 6th April and it would be amazing if we could push their candidate on their commitment to real equality for women and ensuring that women are not erased from society in pursuit of an ideological stance. Unfortunately sensible voices are drowned out by those who shout the loudest.

Sign up page is on eventbrite and questions can be emailed in.

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/local-election-hustings-2024-hatch-warren-beggarwood-ward-tickets-845095793267

Anyone free for a Women's Equality Party hustings in Basingstoke (Hampshire)
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SaffronSpice · 06/04/2024 19:13

lovehatelovehate · 06/04/2024 16:48

Do you have evidence of this? As far as I remember, trans people in the UK are far less likely to be victims of murder than the general population (From https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-how-many-trans-people-murdered-uk).

There is also a significantly higher proportion of trans-identifying males in prison who are sex offenders than the general male population (from https://committees.parliament.uk/writtenevidence/18973/pdf/). Presumably some of them would have been placed in female prisons as well.

You personally not caring about the issue does not mean it’s not a very real one for many women. Single sex spaces are simply not yours to give away.

That report predates the census statistics too, which show males who identify as trans (transwomen) are several times more likely to be sex offenders than other males.

Anyone free for a Women's Equality Party hustings in Basingstoke (Hampshire)
GrumpyPanda · 06/04/2024 17:13

it doesn’t affect equal pay

Alice Sullivan is excellent on this on Twitter today:

https://twitter.com/ProfAliceS/status/1501475643099422724

Anyone free for a Women's Equality Party hustings in Basingstoke (Hampshire)
lovehatelovehate · 06/04/2024 16:48

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 10:50

I personally know a number of trans individuals and not one of them has been violent towards another person. They are far more likely to experience violence than to commit it but their protection and safety is utterly irrelevant.

Do you have evidence of this? As far as I remember, trans people in the UK are far less likely to be victims of murder than the general population (From https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-how-many-trans-people-murdered-uk).

There is also a significantly higher proportion of trans-identifying males in prison who are sex offenders than the general male population (from https://committees.parliament.uk/writtenevidence/18973/pdf/). Presumably some of them would have been placed in female prisons as well.

You personally not caring about the issue does not mean it’s not a very real one for many women. Single sex spaces are simply not yours to give away.

FactCheck: how many trans people are murdered in the UK?

Let’s take a look at the statistics.

https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-how-many-trans-people-murdered-uk

SaffronSpice · 06/04/2024 16:31

it doesn’t affect equal pay

Let’s just think about this. Male heavy company (IT) with only 5% women employees, and high number of men who identify as trans (10%). Men paid more than women. Women go to court for equal pay. Company says ‘you are paid the same’ because men who identify as trans are recorded as women distorting the statistics. Women lose equal pay claim.

DdraigGoch · 06/04/2024 16:09

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 10:50

I personally know a number of trans individuals and not one of them has been violent towards another person. They are far more likely to experience violence than to commit it but their protection and safety is utterly irrelevant.

I know lots of men who aren't violent but they still shouldn't go into the women's changing room.

Women are not human shields. If there is a risk of violence in the male facilities (I've never seen any evidence that there is) then the solution is a third space.

teawamutu · 06/04/2024 13:35

KellieJaysLapdog · 06/04/2024 13:26

Well bless yours too.

I wish I had the luxury of being so naive.

Given the phrasing and lack of engagement with any substantive points, I'm not sure about the naivety.

OnandOnforHoursandHours · 06/04/2024 13:29

In your view, LoveSandbanks, what is the difference between a man and a transwoman, and how does that difference affect women?

KellieJaysLapdog · 06/04/2024 13:26

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 13:21

Well bless your heart. Not what I said but clearly you’re gonna do you.

Well bless yours too.

I wish I had the luxury of being so naive.

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 13:21

OnandOnforHoursandHours · 06/04/2024 11:18

How is equality for women eroded by including men?

Well, have a think about it.

Well bless your heart. Not what I said but clearly you’re gonna do you.

EBearhug · 06/04/2024 11:25

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 10:50

I personally know a number of trans individuals and not one of them has been violent towards another person. They are far more likely to experience violence than to commit it but their protection and safety is utterly irrelevant.

Their safety and protection isn't irrelevant, but it shouldn't occur by risking anyone else's safety and protection.

Most people won't ever be violent to another person. Most cars won't ever be involved in a crash. Most people go up and down stairs without much thought. It doesn't mean we don't take any measures to protect against personal violence, nor put in places rules and engineering and test driving standards to reduce the chance of crashes, nor refuse to put up bannisters/guard rails on stairways, because most people manage without. We do try to put things in place that reduce the risks for all people, not just some of them, and we tend not to take measures that will increase risks for some while only making it safer for a few.

OnandOnforHoursandHours · 06/04/2024 11:18

How is equality for women eroded by including men?

Well, have a think about it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/04/2024 11:15

It's not just about safety. Most women don't want to share female spaces with any men at all, however lovely. It's a question of privacy, dignity and feeling safe and comfortable.

KellieJaysLapdog · 06/04/2024 11:10

WibblyWobblyWeeble · 06/04/2024 10:53

Did you actually type that out loud?

😃

KellieJaysLapdog · 06/04/2024 11:09

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 10:50

I personally know a number of trans individuals and not one of them has been violent towards another person. They are far more likely to experience violence than to commit it but their protection and safety is utterly irrelevant.

You can’t consent on behalf of other women.

My dad’s lovely too but I don’t think you should have to compete against him at sports, even though he’s slower now due to the medication he takes.

teawamutu · 06/04/2024 10:58

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 10:50

I personally know a number of trans individuals and not one of them has been violent towards another person. They are far more likely to experience violence than to commit it but their protection and safety is utterly irrelevant.

You understand that you are not everyone, yes?

The plural of anecdote is not data. Go and look up actual crime stats and offending rates and stop wasting everyone's time with the beee kiiiind guilt-trip crap. It's been done hundreds of times and it doesn't work any more.

WibblyWobblyWeeble · 06/04/2024 10:53

Did you actually type that out loud?

LoveSandbanks · 06/04/2024 10:50

DdraigGoch · 05/04/2024 17:24

Forcing women to share private spaces with transwomen very much increases the risk of violence against women. I'm sure that someone can link a compilation thread of incidents which have happened, if you'd like to (ahem) educate yourself.

I personally know a number of trans individuals and not one of them has been violent towards another person. They are far more likely to experience violence than to commit it but their protection and safety is utterly irrelevant.

DdraigGoch · 05/04/2024 17:24

LoveSandbanks · 04/04/2024 18:07

How is equality for women eroded by including trans women?

it doesn’t affect equal pay, ending violence against women, equal parental rights etc

i don’t see how any of their objectives can’t be met for all women?

there is a strong correlation between autism and gender identity issues so you’ve got an already vulnerable individual that you’d like to marginalise (and ridicule) even further. Nobody cares about suicide amongst trans individuals. It’s all about women’s safe spaces. How about we fight for EVERWHERE to be safe for EVERYONE or is that to big of an ask so we’ll make a tiny minority suffer.

Forcing women to share private spaces with transwomen very much increases the risk of violence against women. I'm sure that someone can link a compilation thread of incidents which have happened, if you'd like to (ahem) educate yourself.

NimbleScroller · 05/04/2024 17:02

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/04/2024 15:00

@NimbleScroller I created this thread a couple of years ago which collates all the MN webchats at the time the WEP was founded, and discussion about Jon Skeet etc. Someone on Twitter said he's something to do with "UN Women" as well - does anyone know anything about that or can verify?

The Big Lie - how the WEP was always about gender rather than sex www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4058470-the-big-lie-how-the-wep-was-always-about-gender-rather-than-sex

Thank you for sharing this, I'm gobsmacked sat reading some of that.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/04/2024 15:01

KellieJaysLapdog · 04/04/2024 17:43

The kid is a Reddit supermod who mods various trans and other LGBT subs, including (I shit you not!) r/actuallesbians

Wow.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/04/2024 15:00

@NimbleScroller I created this thread a couple of years ago which collates all the MN webchats at the time the WEP was founded, and discussion about Jon Skeet etc. Someone on Twitter said he's something to do with "UN Women" as well - does anyone know anything about that or can verify?

The Big Lie - how the WEP was always about gender rather than sex www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4058470-the-big-lie-how-the-wep-was-always-about-gender-rather-than-sex

teawamutu · 05/04/2024 09:27

LoveSandbanks · 04/04/2024 18:07

How is equality for women eroded by including trans women?

it doesn’t affect equal pay, ending violence against women, equal parental rights etc

i don’t see how any of their objectives can’t be met for all women?

there is a strong correlation between autism and gender identity issues so you’ve got an already vulnerable individual that you’d like to marginalise (and ridicule) even further. Nobody cares about suicide amongst trans individuals. It’s all about women’s safe spaces. How about we fight for EVERWHERE to be safe for EVERYONE or is that to big of an ask so we’ll make a tiny minority suffer.

Feminism: the only equal rights movement in history which is expected to prioritise the oppressors in their campaigning.

If you can't grasp that humans don't change sex, that women are oppressed on the basis of sex, and that they're entitled to say so, start with the Break It Down For Me thread on this board.

If you're (as is usually the case) strategically refusing to grasp it - the faux-naif thing doesn't work here.

wiffin · 04/04/2024 23:11

'it doesn’t affect equal pay, ending violence against women, equal parental rights etc'

How do you know it doesn't? A transwoman won't be discriminated against in the same way as they won't be taking maternity leave. They have been socialised as a male. And a transwoman at the top of the heap (cough Pip cough) can be held up as an example of equality. No more effort required.

Ending vawg. Have you seen the endless examples? At the extreme end when transwomen are imprisoned with women?

Equal parental rights. See transwidows and surrogacy.

Plus what others have said.

I don't disagree that transpeople can be extremely vulnerable. But they need support as transpeople. Not as something they are not.

DrJump · 04/04/2024 22:23

LoveSandbanks · 04/04/2024 18:07

How is equality for women eroded by including trans women?

it doesn’t affect equal pay, ending violence against women, equal parental rights etc

i don’t see how any of their objectives can’t be met for all women?

there is a strong correlation between autism and gender identity issues so you’ve got an already vulnerable individual that you’d like to marginalise (and ridicule) even further. Nobody cares about suicide amongst trans individuals. It’s all about women’s safe spaces. How about we fight for EVERWHERE to be safe for EVERYONE or is that to big of an ask so we’ll make a tiny minority suffer.

Because women are not men. In a million different ways. Women have never been men. The more we present the superficial trappings of social gender norms as sex based the worse it will be for women in the long run.

99victoria · 04/04/2024 21:43

I used to be a member of WEP. In fact, I was a regional Chair and I attended their conference about 4 years ago.
I gave up my membership shortly after Sophie Walker resigned. At the time they said she 'moved on' and 'wanted to spend more time with her family', but the self ID issue was already raising it's head and the party's stance on inclusion of and support for Transwomen was something I just couldn't get on board with.
It's very sad - I felt they could have been a great force for good if they'd really been keen to promote the interests of women