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Woman's hour 2nd April 2024 JKR's 'hate' thread

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WarriorN · 02/04/2024 10:08

First item is the Hate bill and JK's tweets - they did invite her on but haven't heard back yet

For women Scotland will be on too.

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Giggorata · 02/04/2024 15:36

What rights has JKR suggested should be removed from these men?

nutmeg7 · 02/04/2024 15:33

DadJoke · 02/04/2024 12:26

You are simply proving my point. She is saying we shouldn't let "people like this" into our spaces. Does she mean "people like this" or all transgender people? She means the latter, but is implying they are like the former. Some people with protected characteristics are bad people. In the 80s, anti-gay propaganda listed them and suggested children weren't sage around "all the gays" not just the bad ones.

Far right parties in the UK post crimes committed by asylum seekers, then tar all asylum seekers with the same brush. This technique is as old a bigotry itself.

She means “male people like this”. She has listed male people who are dangerous/bad/have taken jobs that are for women, and used them as examples to illustrate why all male people should be kept out of women’s spaces/sports/jobs and awards reserved for women as this is damaging to women’s safety, dignity, and interests.

However, the only men who routinely assume that they are entitled to access women’s spaces, sports and jobs are trans women, and so this is where the problem lies - the insistence that biological women must join in with the immersive fiction of these men that they are somehow really women, even if that puts us in danger, ruins our privacy and dignity, trashes our sporting chances and destroys our representation in places such as the UN.

FrancescaContini · 02/04/2024 15:24

@DadJoke TW ARE men.

And the R4 Katie chap: trying on your sister’s knickers aged four is not what makes anyone female.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 02/04/2024 15:20

DadJoke · 02/04/2024 14:37

@DisappearingGirl we all know that gender critical people think trans women are men, and that they wish to be free to say that. In the same way, many churches preach in their churches that gay sex is always a sin. They can do so, and whether it's hate speech depends on context.

There are exceptions to free speech laws, but the list of things you've suggested will not get you arrested under hate crime laws, though there are circumstances where you will legitimately lose your job if you insist on misgendering colleagues or clients. It's about context.

Rowling saying "trans women are men, arrest me!" was absolutely predictable, and just eye-rolling. I know she things all trans women are men. This is not news. No one will be arrested for saying things like this.

And she wasn't posting lists of non-trans men, she was posting lists of trans women.

This is aside from the gender critical arguments people are making here trying to defend her. I don't agree with them, but that wasn't my point.

What I objected to was her using the exact same tactics that all bigots use, which is implying that we should remove rights from a protected class because of the behaviour of individuals from that protected class. She did not need those arguments to make her point - the only purpose was to disparage transgender people. It's indefensible, but she can do literally no wrong in the eyes of her gender critical fans.

It would take much work to provide a list of women who had murdered babies, sexually abused children or other women, and used that to attack women as a whole. In fact, this is what MRA Reddit does all the time. It would be entirely wrong.

I agree with everyone on here who, instead of speculating about my character, or engaging where they don't want to, stop piling on these threads and just ignore me. I know it's hard to hear conflicting views, but your point about an echo chamber is well made.

We know that gender critical feminists think trans women are men. We also know what gender critical feminists think a man is, and what they think a woman is.

We know that you and others think trans women are women. What we don't know is that you think a woman is and what you think a man is.

borntobequiet · 02/04/2024 15:19

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/04/2024 14:48

That's all right then. 🙄

Frankly - it's worse. Wearing his sister's knickers, then sneaking them back into her bedroom so she didn't know - eeeeew! 😬

I don’t think Jonny Dymond was really expecting that, but he coped rather well. He is quite TWAW though, as I recall.

ResisterRex · 02/04/2024 15:18

Weird to keep bringing race into it, given what is on the record about some of those have said on this in JKR's thread. All it does is focus attention back on the words used by the men she's highlighting.

If you can't see the whole thread as you're not on Twitter (and they only let you see one post now), then it's all in the one post here. The Telegraph seems to have put on quite the spread:

x.com/carolinefff/status/1775086385642295386?s=46&t=WHoOZ_3Kv5G6-FyQuvE0LQ

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/04/2024 15:18

BackToLurk · 02/04/2024 15:13

Correctly identifying someone’s sex isn’t hatred HTH

Unless, of course, the word "man" is an obscenity and a slur.

FrancescaContini · 02/04/2024 15:17

Is anyone else bored to tears with the blunt tool approach of the word “hate” (it should be “hatred”) to cover: difference of opinion/disagreement/mildly different stance/offend/abuse/argue/discuss and anything else on the spectrum of agreeing and disagreeing? It’s not “hatred” to have a difference of opinion. It’s not “hatred” to state a biological fact that some people choose to ignore because it makes their argument illogical.

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/04/2024 15:17

duc748 · 02/04/2024 15:09

I used to have a book many years ago when I was about 10 - Boys Big Bumper Book of Things To Do (or something like that) and it had lots of advice on invisible writing, secret codes, surviving in the wild by catching squirrels and cooking them over a campfire etc.*

Perhaps not the same, but I remember when I was little, my parents bought me this. Despite the rather sad title, it's pretty good, and I loved it. Pleased to see it's still in print.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Nothing-Nobody-Alone-Yourself/dp/0982053959

Edited

It's good to know that books like that are still about.

lechiffre55 · 02/04/2024 15:16

I see the narcissistic supply dispensary has re-opened after the Easter break.

DisappearingGirl · 02/04/2024 15:16

DadJoke I can see we're not going to agree. And that's okay! Some of my well loved friends and colleagues would agree with you on this rather than me.

Tell you what, I won't report you for a hate incident if you don't report me 😉

lechiffre55 · 02/04/2024 15:15

Jonismorf · 02/04/2024 12:05

I have two questions about trans people that confuse me a little, the first is a serious question, the second - not so.
Why is it always "the body that's wrong" and never the brain?
What ever happened to the sage advice "listen to your body"?

Really good question. How is a medically healthy body "wrong" ?

Waitwhat23 · 02/04/2024 15:13

In terms of sports, this is the relevant piece of legislation from the EQA 2010 -

  1. This section allows separate sporting competitions to continue to be organised for men and women where physical strength, stamina or physique are major factors in determining success or failure, and in which one sex is generally at a disadvantage in comparison with the other. It also makes it lawful to restrict participation of transsexual people in such competitions if this is necessary to uphold fair or safe competition, but not otherwise.'

Please note that it relates not to 'how people with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment are treated' but in ensuring fair and safe competition where one sex is generally at a disadvantage in comparison to the other.

Madcats · 02/04/2024 15:13

The fact that it doesn't even dawn on "knickerman" that "borrowing" his sister' underwear (getting caught and having to return them, so "not a theft") isn't normal behaviour in any way shape or form is very telling.

I wonder whether some key personnel at R4 are on holiday at the moment; it really does feel as that way. Today, Womens' Hour, WATO.... I wonder who they've lined up for PM tonight?

They might even get round to mention the WPATH files this week at this rate.

BackToLurk · 02/04/2024 15:13

DadJoke · 02/04/2024 15:06

The right to be protected, like religious people, gay people and people of colour, from hate crimes. It's strange that it's only the protections against hatred for transgender people to which she is objecting.

Correctly identifying someone’s sex isn’t hatred HTH

duc748 · 02/04/2024 15:09

I used to have a book many years ago when I was about 10 - Boys Big Bumper Book of Things To Do (or something like that) and it had lots of advice on invisible writing, secret codes, surviving in the wild by catching squirrels and cooking them over a campfire etc.*

Perhaps not the same, but I remember when I was little, my parents bought me this. Despite the rather sad title, it's pretty good, and I loved it. Pleased to see it's still in print.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Nothing-Nobody-Alone-Yourself/dp/0982053959

FrancescaContini · 02/04/2024 15:09

borntobequiet · 02/04/2024 15:02

we all know that gender critical people think trans women are men, and that they wish to be free to say that. In the same way, many churches preach in their churches that gay sex is always a sin.

They’re not remotely the same. Transwomen are biologically and materially men. Sin is an abstract concept. Saying that a transwoman is a man is a fact. Saying that gay sex is a sin is an opinion based on an unsubstantiated belief.

So tiresome.

Agree. It’s not possible to compare the two because they are not the same things. Stating the fact that water boils at 100 degrees is not the same as asserting your opinion that the water used in your cup of coffee doesn’t feel hot enough to have boiled.

DadJoke · 02/04/2024 15:06

BackToLurk · 02/04/2024 14:49

"What I objected to was her ... implying that we should remove rights from a protected class because of the behaviour of individuals from that protected class."

File under 'things that didn't happen'

The right to be protected, like religious people, gay people and people of colour, from hate crimes. It's strange that it's only the protections against hatred for transgender people to which she is objecting.

murasaki · 02/04/2024 15:06

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/04/2024 15:02

Terven - Try envisaging what you think @DadJoke might look like.

Nowadays when I'm tempted to respond to him I call his "image" up in my mind's eye - it's not a flattering picture.

No way am I going to get involved, even online.

I'm getting Danielle Muscato vibes.

DadJoke · 02/04/2024 15:03

Icanttellyouanything · 02/04/2024 14:44

Please can you reply to my earlier post about sport. I would genuinely like your opinion on it.

This might not be the answer you are looking for, but I agree with the provisions in the EqA which allow sporting bodies to decide on how people with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment are treated. I might disagree with their approach in specific cases, but I think the law as it stands is reasonable.

FrancescaContini · 02/04/2024 15:02

WelcomeMarch · 02/04/2024 14:55

gender critical people think trans women are men

Well, yes. India Willoughby is a father. There's no ambiguity at all about Willoughby's sex.

Trans women ARE men. If they were women, they wouldn’t need to call themselves “trans women”.

borntobequiet · 02/04/2024 15:02

we all know that gender critical people think trans women are men, and that they wish to be free to say that. In the same way, many churches preach in their churches that gay sex is always a sin.

They’re not remotely the same. Transwomen are biologically and materially men. Sin is an abstract concept. Saying that a transwoman is a man is a fact. Saying that gay sex is a sin is an opinion based on an unsubstantiated belief.

So tiresome.

Emotionalsupportviper · 02/04/2024 15:02

domineastronomy · 02/04/2024 13:48

I agree with PP - thoroughly sick of seeing this poster on here.
I think we need to make sure he gets no attention - he is enjoying dominating our threads. Can we please try ignoring him ????

Terven - Try envisaging what you think @DadJoke might look like.

Nowadays when I'm tempted to respond to him I call his "image" up in my mind's eye - it's not a flattering picture.

No way am I going to get involved, even online.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 02/04/2024 15:01

@DisappearingGirl we all know that gender critical people think trans women are men, and that they wish to be free to say that. In the same way, many churches preach in their churches that gay sex is always a sin. They can do so, and whether it's hate speech depends on context.

There is a big difference between saying transwomen are men (which is simply a biological fact) and saying that something is a sin (which is a value judgement based on a religious belief in a deity for whose existence there is not a shred of proof).

FrancescaContini · 02/04/2024 15:00

LarkLane · 02/04/2024 10:26

Hmm. Well done FWS!
I'm not happy with the constant references to JKR " misgendering" without any reference to clarifying what she actually said.

Quite. One person’s “misgendering” is another person’s truth.

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