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Artist refuses to bow to demands from men to be let into her exhibition

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CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 21/03/2024 09:14

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/20/world/australia/mona-ladies-lounge-tasmania.html?unlocked_article_code=1.eE0.UrMk.5N8xrORUMVhB&smid=url-share

Some good news from Australia. I was shocked that women weren't let into pubs there until 1965! The article is a share token and worth reading to the end for the immortal line from the artist : "I'm not sorry, and you can't come in."

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Mermoose · 21/03/2024 15:18

Myalternate · 21/03/2024 10:34

😵‍💫 $250 ? I thought he paid much less ….

“I visited MONA, paid 35 Australian dollars,” or about $23, “on the expectation that I would have access to the museum, and I was quite surprised when I was told that I would not be able to see one exhibition, the Ladies Lounge,” Mr. Lau said at the hearing, according to reports in the Australian news media. “Anyone who buys a ticket would expect a fair provision of goods and services.”

The Times article says it's 500 Australian dollars for two (sorry I misremembered it as 250). I take it that it's an extra ticket into that area.
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/the-exhibition-only-admitted-women-so-a-man-sued-qlzdm5nxp

Artist refuses to bow to demands from men to be let into her exhibition
MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 21/03/2024 14:19

I liked the artist’s reasoning that being refused entry was as valid an immersive experience as being admitted, so those refused entry were getting their money’s worth of the experience, just not the same experience as the women being allowed in

It takes 'it's art because I say it is' to a whole new level. I wouldn't like to get into an argument with someone with that level of linguistic dexterity.

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 21/03/2024 13:58

Happyinarcon · 21/03/2024 09:56

There’s already a couple of wars going on, why try to stir up some more pointless division

Men vs. women and the struggle against sexism have been going on since long before Ukraine or Israel-Hamas for example.

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PuttingDownRoots · 21/03/2024 10:56

If they offered a discount of one cent to men, would it still be discrimination?

maltravers · 21/03/2024 10:53

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 21/03/2024 09:14

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/20/world/australia/mona-ladies-lounge-tasmania.html?unlocked_article_code=1.eE0.UrMk.5N8xrORUMVhB&smid=url-share

Some good news from Australia. I was shocked that women weren't let into pubs there until 1965! The article is a share token and worth reading to the end for the immortal line from the artist : "I'm not sorry, and you can't come in."

Man I love this! Experiencing discrimination is the art work blokes - feel our pain! Hats off to that woman and to her “I’m not sorry and you can’t come in” attitude. Shame it’s in Hobart, if it was local to me I would be volunteering for navy suit, pearls and champagne duty.

IcakethereforeIam · 21/03/2024 10:47

I think the higher price includes champagne and nibbles. It's not clear if this is an extra or if paying for that is the only way for women to get in. I'm not sure but I'm inclined to think it's the former.

Myalternate · 21/03/2024 10:34

😵‍💫 $250 ? I thought he paid much less ….

“I visited MONA, paid 35 Australian dollars,” or about $23, “on the expectation that I would have access to the museum, and I was quite surprised when I was told that I would not be able to see one exhibition, the Ladies Lounge,” Mr. Lau said at the hearing, according to reports in the Australian news media. “Anyone who buys a ticket would expect a fair provision of goods and services.”

Snowypeaks · 21/03/2024 10:31

In Tasmania, the protected characteristics of sex and gender identity (which is a PC in law) have been conflated by the courts. That's why it's illegal to exclude men who claim to be women from women-only groups, but legal to exclude men who don't.

Tickle v Giggle in the Federal court will address this. (IANAL or an Aussie so apologies if I have misstated the legal position.)

EasternStandard · 21/03/2024 10:26

Blimey at the price

Mermoose · 21/03/2024 10:24

The entry was $250 for two. Like other disadvantaged groups, women's economic status has always exacerbated or minimised the effect of discrimination. So it seems strange to me to make the point with an exorbitantly priced experience. And in a museum belonging to and paid for by a man whose money comes from gambling, which itself is the cause of misery for those women who had to somehow make ends meet when their husbands had gambled most of the money away.

Snowypeaks · 21/03/2024 10:22

Men (unless they claim to be women) being excluded despite having paid the same is like women not having the same rights as men despite paying the same rates of tax. The unfairness is the point, the experience of injustice and the feelings engendered are part of the installation. So I think she could well win this!

ditalini · 21/03/2024 10:20

starrynight47 · 21/03/2024 09:30

A slight alteration to the comment about women in pubs in Australia. The OP comment that women were not allowed in pubs until 1965, is wrong. Women had always been allowed in pubs, but in 1965 they won the right to drink in the public bar , ie where the men had always imbibed. Previous to 1965 , women drank in the "ladies' lounge" and since I'm a dinosaur who remembers those times, I'd much prefer the ladies' lounge since the bar was the worst possible place to have a civilised drink. Imagine tiled floors awash with spilled beers ( and worse).

However as I've said, it's not at all right to claim that Aussie women couldn't drink in pubs until '65, we certainly could.

Yes, I was sent through to the lounge in a pub in Glasgow in 1992ish. Where I was served by the same barman who had ejected me from the bar a minute previously.

I'd totally forgotten that it was a thing til I saw your post. Not legal in the UK at that point either of course, but common in traditional pubs although mostly enforced by having the men sitting at the bar staring you down rather than outright refusal to serve.

Some would also refuse to serve women pints.

SD1978 · 21/03/2024 10:05

Yeah, it's all people who self ID as women, Not actually restricted to women at all.....

viques · 21/03/2024 10:05

I liked the artist’s reasoning that being refused entry was as valid an immersive experience as being admitted, so those refused entry were getting their money’s worth of the experience, just not the same experience as the women being allowed in.

Love a bit of reverse psychology! And also love the supporters turning up in their suits and lippy, you have to love the creativity and humour.

Flickersy · 21/03/2024 10:03

Optimist1 · 21/03/2024 10:00

It's one thing for him to be excluded from the exhibition (which I think is great), it's another thing for the museum to sell a general entry ticket which implies he has access to the whole of the museum.

If I buy a ticket for the family to visit a theme park, I don't ask for a reduction in price because one of my kids doesn't meet the height requirement for some of the rides. Same applies, surely?

Potentially, but this case is in Australia, not in the UK, most theme parks have graded price tickets (e.g. under 3s free, under 12s cheaper etc), and that is for safety and not for art.

Whether any of that translates into this case, I don't know.

Optimist1 · 21/03/2024 10:00

It's one thing for him to be excluded from the exhibition (which I think is great), it's another thing for the museum to sell a general entry ticket which implies he has access to the whole of the museum.

If I buy a ticket for the family to visit a theme park, I don't ask for a reduction in price because one of my kids doesn't meet the height requirement for some of the rides. Same applies, surely?

Happyinarcon · 21/03/2024 09:56

There’s already a couple of wars going on, why try to stir up some more pointless division

Flickersy · 21/03/2024 09:52

PurpleSparkledPixie · 21/03/2024 09:30

That was an interesting article so thank you for sharing. I do agree with him on one point, and it actually crossed my mind early on. Sure we are financially shafted all the time but I think it would have given a stronger message if it was two tier pricing. A proper FU.

has asked for a formal apology and for men either to be allowed into the Lounge or to pay a discounted ticket price to account for their loss, which Ms. Kaechele has refused. “

Agree with pp, please update if you find out the courts decision.

Yes I think it will hinge on this.

It's one thing for him to be excluded from the exhibition (which I think is great), it's another thing for the museum to sell a general entry ticket which implies he has access to the whole of the museum. On that point I don't know which way it will go.

IcakethereforeIam · 21/03/2024 09:50

The artwork doesn't exclude men, just men who haven't thought to claim ladybrain.

Boiledbeetle · 21/03/2024 09:48

In August, another male visitor filed a complaint of gender discrimination over the work, according to a museum spokeswoman. That led to a dialogue with Ms. Kaechele.

“I said, ‘Well, you did get to experience the artwork, because the exclusion of men is the artwork,’” Ms. Kaechele said. “So he appreciated that, he understood, and he dropped the case.”

NotBadConsidering · 21/03/2024 09:46

What’s remarkable about this story is that it’s in Tasmania, where a state tribunal ruled that men who identified as lesbians could not be excluded from an event for actual lesbians.

So why was this art installation allowed to exclude men but not a group of lesbians?

https://www.womensforumaustralia.org/tribunal_says_men_who_identify_as_lesbians_cannot_be_excluded_from_lesbian_events

Tribunal says men who identify as lesbians cannot be excluded from lesbian events

The “rights” of men who identify as lesbian women take precedence.

https://www.womensforumaustralia.org/tribunal_says_men_who_identify_as_lesbians_cannot_be_excluded_from_lesbian_events

IcakethereforeIam · 21/03/2024 09:40

Erm, it's people who 'identify as women', sorry.

I wouldn't be surprised if at least one of the 'women' who accompanied her to court turned out to be a tw.

I don't know if this will help or harm Mr Lau's case. Probably, knowing how captured Australia seems to be, it'll make not the slightest difference.

MONA defends ladies-only lounge against anti-discrimination case brought by male visitor | ABC News

The 'ladies-only' lounge in Hobart's Museum of Old and New Art (Mona) is a place of quiet contemplation for people who identify as women, set among fine art ...

https://youtu.be/0ZM7i-OkDec?si=OVfUJ5N597TK-jbb

starrynight47 · 21/03/2024 09:30

A slight alteration to the comment about women in pubs in Australia. The OP comment that women were not allowed in pubs until 1965, is wrong. Women had always been allowed in pubs, but in 1965 they won the right to drink in the public bar , ie where the men had always imbibed. Previous to 1965 , women drank in the "ladies' lounge" and since I'm a dinosaur who remembers those times, I'd much prefer the ladies' lounge since the bar was the worst possible place to have a civilised drink. Imagine tiled floors awash with spilled beers ( and worse).

However as I've said, it's not at all right to claim that Aussie women couldn't drink in pubs until '65, we certainly could.

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