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Does the Transgender community have a problem with well evidenced science? Does the community only ever accept favourable reports, AKA confirmation bias, or is it something deeper?

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HydraDominatus · 14/03/2024 13:25

Every piece of science or news thats not entirely supportive is buried under accusations of transphobia or bias

Why is this a political debate rather than a mental and physical health issue?

Cancer care isn't bias and politicised, trans health care shouldn't be either. Surely it's all about properly designed and researched programmes, with the outcome not predetermined, that we should be entirely standing behind?

Would the community ever stand behind rigorous, transparent, and ethically conducted research into transgender health care that did not align with its previous, deeply held views? If not, isn't that a problem?

tl;dr Is the Transgender community bias to it's own detriment?

(inspired by recent UK changes which do seem to be well researched, evidenced and guided by true support for people with genuine issues, it just does not line up with existing trans community narrative)

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 15/03/2024 17:30

Your sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, do you think it is? How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling?

It is not wholly defined by who you have sex with. It's defined by who you have erotic feelings for, which correlates strongly with who you have sex with, given the choice.

How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling?

It's an embodied feeling. If you're only attracted to images of men and the instant the actual men who are the physical embodiment of those images walk into the room you're turned off, then your internal feeling isn't much of a sexuality at all.

you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

I will listen up to a point but if you say you're a lesbian but you only have sex with men even when you have a more or less free choice of partners, I'll think you're kidding someone (possibly yourself). And I'd advise any female friend who fancies you to steer clear because even if you do manage to have sex with her neither of you are likely to enjoy it much.

Your sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, do you think it is? How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling? Gender identity is also an internal feeling.

That sounds like someone who talks about sex a lot more than they have sex. All theory.

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 17:11

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:37

How about you show your workings here. Because frankly you are not logical.

I don't need to show my workings on that, it's fact. Your sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, do you think it is? How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling? Gender identity is also an internal feeling. People choose to live their lives based on those internal feelings but you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:38

In fact, don't bother. It is pure whataboutery.

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:37

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:34

Someone having sex with people of a particular sex is not the same as sexuality though is it. They're just very strongly linked. A person's actual sexual orientation is in their head.

How about you show your workings here. Because frankly you are not logical.

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:35

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:22

You're assuming WAY more layers to what I'm arguing than what I am. All I said about gender identity is that it's an internal feeling, which I don't think anyone is particularly contesting? And I'm saying that sexuality is also an internal feeling, which was the point of my argument and nobody has contested that either, really.

A gender identity is only, and can only, ever be an identity based on the concept that one person has of how anyone of the 'gender' they identify as. It is not based on material reality but based on philosophical belief of their own interpretation.

No matter how hard you seek to destabilise sexual orientation based on sexed bodied, it involves materially definable sex categories. That is not something that is analogous to gender identity. Because a gender identity is only ever a self conceptualised replicating of the life experiences of what living as that 'gender'. ie. Yes. They have a gender identity. Sure. But they are NOT living their life as a person with the opposite sexed body. They are only ever living as their concept as that but with the sexed body that they were born with.

Therefore, it is not definable and it is not analogous in the way you seek to make it.

Emotionalsupportviper · 15/03/2024 16:35

Naunet · 14/03/2024 15:17

Do these scientists think all genders are innate, like cake gender and peach gender, or just the man and woman genders?

Are we allowed to eat cake gender people?

(Asking for a friend)

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:34

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:27

You are really missing the point that the act of a person who is having sex with one sex or both sexes is an observable fact. Gender is not comparable. However much you wish to destabilise the original definition of sexual orientation. It was always based on the sex categories of people, which is definable and observable.

Gender identity is only based on a philosophical fact and it cannot be defined.

By all means though, keep sparpling away.

Someone having sex with people of a particular sex is not the same as sexuality though is it. They're just very strongly linked. A person's actual sexual orientation is in their head.

Emotionalsupportviper · 15/03/2024 16:28

HipTightOnions · 14/03/2024 14:40

Do you accept that pretty much every reputable scientific, medical and psychological body of any repute in the entire world uses "gender identity" to mean an innate sense a person's innate sense of their own gender

I'll only accept this if someone can define "gender" as used above.

I can't see how anyone can define "gender" if they can't define "woman" or "man".

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:27

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:10

Whether or not something "needs" to be proven doesn't affect whether or not it CAN be proven! If it was possible to prove the existence of gender identity you could still argue that gender identity shouldn't determine what spaces a person is allowed into.

You are really missing the point that the act of a person who is having sex with one sex or both sexes is an observable fact. Gender is not comparable. However much you wish to destabilise the original definition of sexual orientation. It was always based on the sex categories of people, which is definable and observable.

Gender identity is only based on a philosophical fact and it cannot be defined.

By all means though, keep sparpling away.

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:25

RinklyRomaine · 15/03/2024 16:21

And actually, I think that's bollocks. Am I right in thinking sexuality is fairly visible in brain scans when tested against images and thoughts? Whereas gender identity is not, except where it correlates with sexuality, which proves nothing?

How could you prove sexuality with a brain scan? If you did that kind of test on someone and told them "this brain scan says you're straight" to which they responded "actually I'm gay" would you believe them or the scan??

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:22

AlisonDonut · 15/03/2024 16:13

What related behaviours are there for 'male gender' and 'female gender'?

If a 'female sex' person behaves in a certain way, should they have their breasts removed and a fake penis made out of their arm skin to match that behaviour?

You're assuming WAY more layers to what I'm arguing than what I am. All I said about gender identity is that it's an internal feeling, which I don't think anyone is particularly contesting? And I'm saying that sexuality is also an internal feeling, which was the point of my argument and nobody has contested that either, really.

RinklyRomaine · 15/03/2024 16:21

And actually, I think that's bollocks. Am I right in thinking sexuality is fairly visible in brain scans when tested against images and thoughts? Whereas gender identity is not, except where it correlates with sexuality, which proves nothing?

RinklyRomaine · 15/03/2024 16:20

Well, yes, @Saltpepperpaprika I would say it has no effect on single sex spaces, BUT some sort of proof or evidence would be enormously useful for those thinking transitioning children is a reasonable idea. It doesn't exist, or they'd be singing it from the rooftops.

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 16:14

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:12

That they have a particular internal feeling.

A particular internal feeling which is irrelevant to everyone else. Good. We can ignore it then.

AlisonDonut · 15/03/2024 16:13

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:03

I can if you want! Here goes: there is no test to determine a person's sexual orientation. There are related behaviours but ultimately you have to trust what a person says about their internal feelings. You could say the same about gender identity. So they're comparable.

What related behaviours are there for 'male gender' and 'female gender'?

If a 'female sex' person behaves in a certain way, should they have their breasts removed and a fake penis made out of their arm skin to match that behaviour?

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:12

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 16:08

So gender identity is just an 'internal feeling'. What does that tell us about that person exactly?

That they have a particular internal feeling.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/03/2024 16:11

viques · 15/03/2024 01:12

I don’t know about the Pope because as far as I know he is expressing a valid opinion not facts, but I do agree with Lord Robert Winston , emeritus professor at Imperial, member of the HOL, respected world wide for his life time of work on fertility - and he is adamant that there are two human sexes, female and male. And that they can’t change.

Team LRW all the way.

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Ahhh but he's probably not "experting" in the right way

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:10

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:05

Gender identity and its definition and the impact of gender identity is what this thread is about. That you 'don't really care about that' does not change the material reality of what this thread is about.

I echo others, if you wish to discuss sexual orientation and whether it is based on material reality of philosophical belief, start your own thread and fill your boots.

The point of my post remains (with a correction as it missed the 'not' previously) :

Laws and policies that protect women and girls are not requiring sexual orientation to be proven because sexual orientation isn’t in conflict with the protections for women and girls.

Hence my point about it being a weak comparator.

Whether or not something "needs" to be proven doesn't affect whether or not it CAN be proven! If it was possible to prove the existence of gender identity you could still argue that gender identity shouldn't determine what spaces a person is allowed into.

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 16:08

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:03

I can if you want! Here goes: there is no test to determine a person's sexual orientation. There are related behaviours but ultimately you have to trust what a person says about their internal feelings. You could say the same about gender identity. So they're comparable.

So gender identity is just an 'internal feeling'. What does that tell us about that person exactly?

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 16:05

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 15:54

I don't know if "philosophical belief" comes into sexual orientation at all. But anyway. If a woman who says she's a lesbian is actually sexually aroused by men also but identifies as a lesbian, how would you know whether or not she's "really" a lesbian? You don't know what other people are aroused by do you. So forget the gender identity angle/comparison because I don't really care about that. I'm just contesting the idea that sexuality can be observed/measured.

Also "One would hope that they are not having sex with people of the sex when they are not sexually attracted too to simply comply with their philosophical belief." Why do you care if they do this?

Gender identity and its definition and the impact of gender identity is what this thread is about. That you 'don't really care about that' does not change the material reality of what this thread is about.

I echo others, if you wish to discuss sexual orientation and whether it is based on material reality of philosophical belief, start your own thread and fill your boots.

The point of my post remains (with a correction as it missed the 'not' previously) :

Laws and policies that protect women and girls are not requiring sexual orientation to be proven because sexual orientation isn’t in conflict with the protections for women and girls.

Hence my point about it being a weak comparator.

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 16:03

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 15:59

I just reread your post @Saltpepperpaprika and I see that you're not interested in discussing gender identity.

What people normally do if they want to discuss something completely different from the subject of a thread, and aren't interested in the subject of the thread, is to start their own thread. You could do that.

I can if you want! Here goes: there is no test to determine a person's sexual orientation. There are related behaviours but ultimately you have to trust what a person says about their internal feelings. You could say the same about gender identity. So they're comparable.

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 15:59

I just reread your post @Saltpepperpaprika and I see that you're not interested in discussing gender identity.

What people normally do if they want to discuss something completely different from the subject of a thread, and aren't interested in the subject of the thread, is to start their own thread. You could do that.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/03/2024 15:58

... or do believe the pope?

... is a comparison a 10 year old would throw Confused

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 15:57

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 15:54

I don't know if "philosophical belief" comes into sexual orientation at all. But anyway. If a woman who says she's a lesbian is actually sexually aroused by men also but identifies as a lesbian, how would you know whether or not she's "really" a lesbian? You don't know what other people are aroused by do you. So forget the gender identity angle/comparison because I don't really care about that. I'm just contesting the idea that sexuality can be observed/measured.

Also "One would hope that they are not having sex with people of the sex when they are not sexually attracted too to simply comply with their philosophical belief." Why do you care if they do this?

What does this have to do with gender identity?

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 15:54

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 15:39

And yet, I spoke about sexual orientation and not ‘sexuality’.

And people can be sexually aroused by both sexes. If lesbians are fantasizing about having sex with male people, then sure they can describe themselves one way because that is their ‘identity’. Is that identity based on material reality OR on a philosophical belief? And I mean not using watching people having sex in porn to stimulate arousal. I am talking about actively fantasizing about having sex as themselves with a male person when they have described themselves as homosexual and not bisexual.

One would hope that they are not having sex with people of the sex when they are not sexually attracted too to simply comply with their philosophical belief.

The point is that sexual orientation is not comparative to ‘gender identity’. And laws and policies that protect women and girls are requiring sexual orientation to be proven because sexual orientation isn’t in conflict with the protections for women and girls.

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I don't know if "philosophical belief" comes into sexual orientation at all. But anyway. If a woman who says she's a lesbian is actually sexually aroused by men also but identifies as a lesbian, how would you know whether or not she's "really" a lesbian? You don't know what other people are aroused by do you. So forget the gender identity angle/comparison because I don't really care about that. I'm just contesting the idea that sexuality can be observed/measured.

Also "One would hope that they are not having sex with people of the sex when they are not sexually attracted too to simply comply with their philosophical belief." Why do you care if they do this?