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Does the Transgender community have a problem with well evidenced science? Does the community only ever accept favourable reports, AKA confirmation bias, or is it something deeper?

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HydraDominatus · 14/03/2024 13:25

Every piece of science or news thats not entirely supportive is buried under accusations of transphobia or bias

Why is this a political debate rather than a mental and physical health issue?

Cancer care isn't bias and politicised, trans health care shouldn't be either. Surely it's all about properly designed and researched programmes, with the outcome not predetermined, that we should be entirely standing behind?

Would the community ever stand behind rigorous, transparent, and ethically conducted research into transgender health care that did not align with its previous, deeply held views? If not, isn't that a problem?

tl;dr Is the Transgender community bias to it's own detriment?

(inspired by recent UK changes which do seem to be well researched, evidenced and guided by true support for people with genuine issues, it just does not line up with existing trans community narrative)

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RedToothBrush · 15/03/2024 21:11

Adherence to gender stereotypes is not an innate thing which means that we then have to try and conform to those stereotypes and THEN call it our sex.

Gender and sex are two different concepts.

So why the fuck are people trying to conflate them and then talk about scientifically measuring anything.

You could say that you could measure your willingness to conform to bible scripture, this does not then turn you into an actual frikkin' angel if you are at the more holy end of the scale!

You could say that you could measure your willingness to follow the law, this does not then automatically turn you into a judge if you like rules more!

DecayedStrumpet · 15/03/2024 21:03

Blame the person who said sexuality is measureable.

Uh, that was kinda me?
To be fair the actual thread was/is about science.

Previous poster said "well you can't measure sexuality, and that's not a belief!" so I pointed out that researchers can.

Then I got distracted by this paper when I was looking up examples: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34297214/
(Full text available free)

They used genital arousal and pupil dilation to measure sexual attraction.

They also attempted to quantify gender identity , which was what got me reading it in depth... they got women to pick how 'feminine' they felt, and got observers to rate their femininity from a video. I feel like this might be more than a little culturally variable - they even detail how they had to change the questions from the US version!
Really what they measured was conformity to gender stereotypes, they even flip between using 'gender identity' and 'gender non-conformity'.

They ultimately didn't find what they were looking for, which was a relationship between finger ratio in females and sexuality, which also interested me because I've read about that before... but actually it seems pretty tenuous.

Sorry, I'm not the best at philosophical debate but I don't like being told what scientists can and can't do ta very much, we're an inventive bunch (*only with full REC approval obviously)

Sexual Orientation, Sexual Arousal, and Finger Length Ratios in Women - PubMed

In general, women show physiological sexual arousal to both sexes. However, compared with heterosexual women, homosexual women are more aroused to their preferred sex, a pattern typically found in men. We hypothesized that homosexual women's male-typic...

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34297214

BringBackLilt · 15/03/2024 19:37

Yeah, just another transparent attempt to associate transgenderism with sexuality.
No one cares whether sexuality is measurable or not because it has zero impact on other people's lives. This insistence to arrive at a consensus as to whether it is is measurable is very strange. Who cares if it is or isn't? Does this poster?

It is offensive. I am offended. Please stop it. LGB people do not affect anyone else's existence in any way whatsoever. Stop it.

Transgenderism DOES affect many other people not directly involved. And this is what this thread is about.

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 19:26

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/03/2024 18:33

Blame the person who said sexuality is measureable.

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One persons sexuality has no bearing on another person at all. None whatsoever

I don’t believe anyone said ‘sexuality’ is measurable though. I could be wrong. I think some posters have conflated the very broad term of ‘sexuality’ as being the exact same thing as ‘sexual orientation’. Paraphilias , for example, are an example of sexuality and sexual orientation is is not a paraphilia.

the mind blowing whataboutery on this thread continues, doesn’t it tellme?

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 19:23

BringBackLilt · 15/03/2024 19:20

What? 😂😂😂

Good grief.

It doesn't matter BECAUSE IT'S NOT RELEVANT.

Sexuality has absolutely nothing to do with transgender issues.

Not sure which argument you think you've won 😂

I don’t think that it is a false comparator has sunk in. It doesn’t matter how many times it is said or how many ways it is said, that poster is wedded to their ‘gotcha’.

BringBackLilt · 15/03/2024 19:20

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 19:03

I'm going to take all of the responses saying that it doesn't matter if sexuality is measureable or not as an indication that I've won the argument, because nobody can give a good argument that sexuality is measureable but don't want to admit I'm right, so the only response is "it doesn't matter".

What? 😂😂😂

Good grief.

It doesn't matter BECAUSE IT'S NOT RELEVANT.

Sexuality has absolutely nothing to do with transgender issues.

Not sure which argument you think you've won 😂

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 19:03

I'm going to take all of the responses saying that it doesn't matter if sexuality is measureable or not as an indication that I've won the argument, because nobody can give a good argument that sexuality is measureable but don't want to admit I'm right, so the only response is "it doesn't matter".

BringBackLilt · 15/03/2024 18:54

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 18:14

Blame the person who said sexuality is measureable.

The point is, it doesn't matter if sexuality measurable or not.
It is not relevant to this debate in any way.
We may as well whether you can measure who prefers a Chinese or a pizza on a Friday night. NO ONE CARES. Crack on. Have a fabulous time. No one else is affected and everyone is happy.

People with a functioning brain and clarity of thought DO care about gender ideology. For many, very important reasons.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/03/2024 18:34

Please forgive my typos I've on the gin already folks. Has been a rough week

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/03/2024 18:33

Blame the person who said sexuality is measureable.

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One persons sexuality has no bearing on another person at all. None whatsoever

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 15/03/2024 18:31

I'm a bit simple with these things so please forgive my simple musings .

But for me If an inner feeling you have means -

laws must be made/changed,

language must be compelled

Women and young people should be
exposed to a risk not open to any other group,

Sporting opportunity taken away from women and girls,

Young people are cheer-leaded onto a medical pathway which will affect their bone density on layer life and mean they will never experience an orgasm,

You have to be able to physically prove and measure the that feeling. Have to. There is too much at stake and risks for others affected by your feelings are too big an ask.

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 18:14

BringBackLilt · 15/03/2024 18:02

Jesus Christ. Why are we getting sidetracked again? And why is sexuality being brought into this debate yet again?

Someone's sexuality has absolutely no bearing on anyone else's lives other than the people directly and personally involved. So whether or not it is innate, internal, measurable or any other term is completely irrelevant. It doesn't affect anyone else.
To be frank, no one with a functioning brain actually cares because it has no affect on anyone else.

Gender identity and it's associated ideology absolutely DOES affect other people. In very real, concerning ways.

Stop dragging sexuality into this debate. It's lazy and actually very offensive.

Blame the person who said sexuality is measureable.

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 18:13

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 18:04

“I was straight and fancied boys when I was 8 but I didn't have a sexual arousal response at the time. It can't be entirely reduced to that!”

Fuck this is grim.

You have now brought a childhood ‘fancying’ of an 8 year old into it. And you don’t see any problem with that at all.

...
When someone says they knew they were gay when they were a child do you believe them or do you imply that they're a pervert?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/03/2024 18:07

YY. It's unfalsifiable, subjective and perception based.

SaffronSpice · 15/03/2024 18:06

So far, nothing has been raised that shows Gender identity as anything other than a belief. An internal feeling is a belief, that is what a belief is - a feeling that something is true.

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Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 18:04

“I was straight and fancied boys when I was 8 but I didn't have a sexual arousal response at the time. It can't be entirely reduced to that!”

Fuck this is grim.

You have now brought a childhood ‘fancying’ of an 8 year old into it. And you don’t see any problem with that at all.

BringBackLilt · 15/03/2024 18:02

Jesus Christ. Why are we getting sidetracked again? And why is sexuality being brought into this debate yet again?

Someone's sexuality has absolutely no bearing on anyone else's lives other than the people directly and personally involved. So whether or not it is innate, internal, measurable or any other term is completely irrelevant. It doesn't affect anyone else.
To be frank, no one with a functioning brain actually cares because it has no affect on anyone else.

Gender identity and it's associated ideology absolutely DOES affect other people. In very real, concerning ways.

Stop dragging sexuality into this debate. It's lazy and actually very offensive.

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 18:00

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 17:54

You don't have to? You don't have to listen to people talking about their sexuality either if you don't want to? What point are you making?

It was a reply to this, which I quoted:

People choose to live their lives based on those internal feelings but you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

I thought it was obvious that I was replying to the bit I had quoted. You said 'hopefully you do', as though you thought that people should listen to what people said about their internal feelings. I was disputing that I should listen to whatever some random person says about their internal feelings, because it's not that interesting to me.

I don't care what internal feelings people have about their gender identity, unless they're men who think that having internal feelings of womanliness entitles them to access to women-only spaces, women's sports etc.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/03/2024 17:59

Gender identity is also an internal feeling.

How is it different from "knowing what your sex is"?

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 17:54

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 17:45

Gender identity is also an internal feeling. People choose to live their lives based on those internal feelings but you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

And then what? What's the point of listening to someone talking about their internal feelings of having a particular gender? If it's a friend or family member talking about it, I might listen, just as I'd listen to them talking about anything else, but why would I want to know this about people I don't know? Surely it's only relevant to them and those who are close to them. Nobody else needs to know, and probably doesn't want to know because they're not interested in other people's internal feelings.

You don't have to? You don't have to listen to people talking about their sexuality either if you don't want to? What point are you making?

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 17:51

I have been quite clear. Lmao alright Liz Truss

What part of a gender identity can never be based on material reality of being that 'gender' which is also undefined with a stable and reliable definition are you missing?
That is one hell of a mangled sentence.

I don't really understand much of the rest either because I'm using sexuality and sexual orientation interchangeably, is there a difference in this context?

But yeah, what "sexed bodies" you have an arousal response to is a big part of sexuality but it isn't the only relevant factor there. I was straight and fancied boys when I was 8 but I didn't have a sexual arousal response at the time. It can't be entirely reduced to that!

OldCrone · 15/03/2024 17:45

Gender identity is also an internal feeling. People choose to live their lives based on those internal feelings but you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

And then what? What's the point of listening to someone talking about their internal feelings of having a particular gender? If it's a friend or family member talking about it, I might listen, just as I'd listen to them talking about anything else, but why would I want to know this about people I don't know? Surely it's only relevant to them and those who are close to them. Nobody else needs to know, and probably doesn't want to know because they're not interested in other people's internal feelings.

Helleofabore · 15/03/2024 17:42

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 17:11

I don't need to show my workings on that, it's fact. Your sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, do you think it is? How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling? Gender identity is also an internal feeling. People choose to live their lives based on those internal feelings but you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

I have been quite clear. That sexual orientation relates to the arousal factor that someone feels while having sex with someone of a particular sexed body. You have tried to bring 'sexuality' into it. If you are not aroused by a group of people who have a particular sexed body, that is a material fact.

Someone can reliably work out what sexed bodies they have an arousal response to. It may be just one typed of sexed body or it can be both. Sexuality is a much huger topic than merely 'sexed bodies'. Sexuality would also by definition cover paraphilias. Sexual orientation is not a paraphilia, or are you really trying to say that sexual orientation is a paraphilia?

What part of a gender identity can never be based on material reality of being that 'gender' which is also undefined with a stable and reliable definition are you missing? Your continued doubling down and whataboutery doesn't change the facts and your logic in attempting to force a comparison being flawed.

Saltpepperpaprika · 15/03/2024 17:41

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 15/03/2024 17:30

Your sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, do you think it is? How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling?

It is not wholly defined by who you have sex with. It's defined by who you have erotic feelings for, which correlates strongly with who you have sex with, given the choice.

How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling?

It's an embodied feeling. If you're only attracted to images of men and the instant the actual men who are the physical embodiment of those images walk into the room you're turned off, then your internal feeling isn't much of a sexuality at all.

you can't PROVE what those internal feelings are, you just listen to what the person says about themselves, or hopefully you do.

I will listen up to a point but if you say you're a lesbian but you only have sex with men even when you have a more or less free choice of partners, I'll think you're kidding someone (possibly yourself). And I'd advise any female friend who fancies you to steer clear because even if you do manage to have sex with her neither of you are likely to enjoy it much.

Your sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, do you think it is? How can it be anything OTHER than an internal feeling? Gender identity is also an internal feeling.

That sounds like someone who talks about sex a lot more than they have sex. All theory.

I don't really disagree with any of that but if one argument against the existence of gender identity is that there is no scientific test for it and you can't prove it about a person, then the same absolutely applies to sexuality. None of the stuff you said indicates that you can observe or measure a person's sexual orientation contrary to what they tell you it is. I mean my sister exclusively dated and had sex with boys when she was a teenager and continued to do so for a couple of years even after she told us she was a lesbian. Life is complicated.