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Does the Transgender community have a problem with well evidenced science? Does the community only ever accept favourable reports, AKA confirmation bias, or is it something deeper?

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HydraDominatus · 14/03/2024 13:25

Every piece of science or news thats not entirely supportive is buried under accusations of transphobia or bias

Why is this a political debate rather than a mental and physical health issue?

Cancer care isn't bias and politicised, trans health care shouldn't be either. Surely it's all about properly designed and researched programmes, with the outcome not predetermined, that we should be entirely standing behind?

Would the community ever stand behind rigorous, transparent, and ethically conducted research into transgender health care that did not align with its previous, deeply held views? If not, isn't that a problem?

tl;dr Is the Transgender community bias to it's own detriment?

(inspired by recent UK changes which do seem to be well researched, evidenced and guided by true support for people with genuine issues, it just does not line up with existing trans community narrative)

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ditalini · 19/03/2024 00:17

Crouton19 · 18/03/2024 22:03

This article might deserve its own thread but seems relevant here
‘We actually don’t know much’: the scientists trying to close the knowledge gap in trans healthcare

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/mar/18/science-knowledge-gap-trans-healthcare

That's interesting, the contrast between the transman at the beginning of the article confidently asserting that being taken off testosterone when diagnosed with kidney disease was completely unnecessary since hormones don't affect the kidneys; and then the researchers who talk about the research they're doing to look at how hormones affect the kidneys because currently they don't know.

That's trans-science for you. Good luck with the research if it comes up with something the TRAs don't like - instant Transphoooobia.

RogueFemale · 18/03/2024 23:04

SabrinaThwaite · 18/03/2024 22:15

While hormone therapies are today best known for their use in contraception or to manage symptoms of menopause in cisgender women, they have for decades been given to people undergoing gender reassignment.

Just the word women there would do.

Yes, I loathe and resent the term cisgender women. We are biological women, no other term is required beyond woman/women.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 22:36

Scientists admit that we don't know much about how cross-sex hormones affect people, yet clinicians want to give them to kids.

The cynic in me wonders if this story is the start of the Guardian making a very slow reverse ferret after the WPATH leaks.

SabrinaThwaite · 18/03/2024 22:15

While hormone therapies are today best known for their use in contraception or to manage symptoms of menopause in cisgender women, they have for decades been given to people undergoing gender reassignment.

Just the word women there would do.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 19:20

RedToothBrush · 18/03/2024 14:37

It seems the Royal College of Physicians has just had a bit of a data issue. They just had a meeting about various issues (not relating to anything trans) and showed a bunch of slides which didn't show what the data actually showed. Half way through voting on matters they've issued this statement.

Royal college of physicians AT RCphysicians
Following the #RCPEGM on the role and regulation of physician associates (PAs), the RCP has now published the full data from its pre-EGM member survey.

We recognise that there is huge strength of feeling among our fellows and members. We recognise the concerns and we have listened.

We are undertaking a major governance refresh that is being led by Council members and we are committed to modernising the college and its working practices as quickly as possible.

The EGM ballot will remain open for fellow to vote until 7.30pm on Wednesday 20 March. The results of the EGM ballot will be shared on Monday 25 March. We will honour the outcome of the vote and our next steps will be decided by RCP Council and the RCP Board of Trustees.

Physician Twitter is kicking off about how this is dystopian to deliberately mislead and then when caught out totally appalling to admit half way through voting and not restarting voting.

The ever amazing Shaun Lintern who is the journalist responsible for exposing the north staff and several maternity scandals is on the case...

Shaun Lintern AT ShaunLintern
So senior figures within the Royal College of Physicians presented a false picture of what its survey found. What a mess. One resignation so far...

I find this highly disturbing and depressing that there's any kind of whiff on anything like this relating to a medical governing body regardless of the subject matter.

But it does highlight there is a problem which at least a minority in the profession think they can get away with...

Data at https://www.rcp.ac.uk/news/rcp-publishes-pre-egm-member-survey-data

Ingenieur · 18/03/2024 19:03

Thanks @RedToothBrush , that's extraordinary!

RedToothBrush · 18/03/2024 14:37

It seems the Royal College of Physicians has just had a bit of a data issue. They just had a meeting about various issues (not relating to anything trans) and showed a bunch of slides which didn't show what the data actually showed. Half way through voting on matters they've issued this statement.

Royal college of physicians AT RCphysicians
Following the #RCPEGM on the role and regulation of physician associates (PAs), the RCP has now published the full data from its pre-EGM member survey.

We recognise that there is huge strength of feeling among our fellows and members. We recognise the concerns and we have listened.

We are undertaking a major governance refresh that is being led by Council members and we are committed to modernising the college and its working practices as quickly as possible.

The EGM ballot will remain open for fellow to vote until 7.30pm on Wednesday 20 March. The results of the EGM ballot will be shared on Monday 25 March. We will honour the outcome of the vote and our next steps will be decided by RCP Council and the RCP Board of Trustees.

Physician Twitter is kicking off about how this is dystopian to deliberately mislead and then when caught out totally appalling to admit half way through voting and not restarting voting.

The ever amazing Shaun Lintern who is the journalist responsible for exposing the north staff and several maternity scandals is on the case...

Shaun Lintern AT ShaunLintern
So senior figures within the Royal College of Physicians presented a false picture of what its survey found. What a mess. One resignation so far...

I find this highly disturbing and depressing that there's any kind of whiff on anything like this relating to a medical governing body regardless of the subject matter.

But it does highlight there is a problem which at least a minority in the profession think they can get away with...

IAmAlpharius · 18/03/2024 13:41

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VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 13:07

Saltpepperpaprika · 18/03/2024 12:08

That seven kinds of straightbian link ("essay"??) is misogynistic as fuck so I don't think it's worth arguing with you anymore if that's the kind of thing you agree with.

Re: research into whether sexual orientation is fixed or fluid, it's fine for general intellectual curiosity but how do you imagine the application of it?
Woman: "I'm not attracted to men"
Researcher: "YOUR CLITORAL ENGORGEMENT IN RESPONSE TO THIS VIDEO SAYS YOU ARE"
Just seems dystopian.

You know what I said about research into sexual orientation being heavily politicised? You literally proved my point. You seem scared or at least disapproving of research into this field because of how it might be used. James Caspian encountered similar resistance from people with the power to cancel his project when he wanted to research detransition. I can see that research being used to prove that long-term mate choice isn't just about sexual attraction. I can see that research being used to prove that female-exclusive bisexual females exist, by showing that some women are capable of ruling out male partners despite being attracted to both sexes. You think this is "dystopian"? I don't agree with you.

Re Dirt's essay: I found it an amusing polemic, I recognised the academic stereotype in particular as being manifested in the sociology departments of the universities that I've done estates work for and, more recently, in the phenomenon of straight couples calling themselves queer because one of them decided to be nonbinary, and it helped me understand the need for bisexual women to respect lesbian women's boundaries.

  • I am very aware that lesbians are wary of bisexual women because many have been hurt emotionally by one of us who has later decided to leave that lesbian for a man. I'm not interested in saying "but I'm not like those other bisexual women, I won't do that" for the same reason that I have no time for NAMALT in feminist spaces. To claim to be lesbian, even if I decided to never touch a man again, would be misleading at best and a form of sexual coercion at worst, because in claiming that label I would be concealing my past with men and invalidating a lesbian partner's sexual consent.
  • Dirt discusses in some of her other articles how she believes that butch lesbians sometimes transition to keep a straightbian partner. This is physical harm, never mind emotional harm.
  • I perceive the boundaries about who is and isn't lesbian to be a matter of veto, not majority vote, just as I believe that 100% of women have to agree before we let men into female spaces and even one objector is enough to veto that. As long as there is one "gold star" (as a PP put it) lesbian who believes that prior willing sexual encounters with men preclude a woman from being a lesbian, I will respect that definition.
  • I rightly have no power to police lesbian spaces. What I can do is respect the boundaries set by lesbians, and that means respecting the boundaries of the strictest "gold star" lesbian in the room. This is about my personal morals as much as it is about words having meanings and meanings mattering.

University 'turned down politically incorrect transgender research'

James Caspian says Bath Spa University approved but then rejected his proposed research into gender reassignment reversal

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2017/sep/25/bath-spa-university-transgender-gender-reassignment-reversal-research

Saltpepperpaprika · 18/03/2024 12:08

That seven kinds of straightbian link ("essay"??) is misogynistic as fuck so I don't think it's worth arguing with you anymore if that's the kind of thing you agree with.

Re: research into whether sexual orientation is fixed or fluid, it's fine for general intellectual curiosity but how do you imagine the application of it?
Woman: "I'm not attracted to men"
Researcher: "YOUR CLITORAL ENGORGEMENT IN RESPONSE TO THIS VIDEO SAYS YOU ARE"
Just seems dystopian.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 11:42

And, returning to the thread topic: it seems that research into whether sexual orientation is fixed or fluid, and whether the meanings of words should be respected, is also highly politicised.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 11:29

Abeona · 18/03/2024 07:56

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia you seem to be utterly unaware of all the women now and historically who start their early lives under huge pressure from family and society to conform by having relationships/ children with men and gradually work their way out of conformity to autonomy. Until the last 30 years or so, lots of lesbians grew up without any awareness of a word that described their sexual attraction and assumed they were the only woman in the world who fancied other women. This was the experience of several lesbians I know, who knew they were same-sex attracted from a very early age but didn't know there was a word for it, or other women who felt the same way, until they went to university or in one case, encountered an out woman at work in the 80s.

This insistence that the only women who are allowed to call themselves lesbians are the 'gold star' ones, who've never had sex with a man, is regarded as fascist and divisive within the lesbian community. Any lesbian who entered any of the lesbian groups or communities I've known and argued that only 'gold star' lesbians were real lesbians would be shown the door because women understand. It's an argument usually made by TW ('I'm a gold star lesbian, I've only ever had sex with women') and those who don't have any experience of what it's like to grow up as a woman and a lesbian in our society.

you seem to be utterly unaware of all the women now and historically who start their early lives under huge pressure from family and society to conform by having relationships/ children with men

Are you seriously conflating women being treated as property, and women-as-property-adjacent practices such as dowries and arranged or coerced marriages, with grown-ass women who have the freedom to go barhopping choosing repeatedly to have sex with men? In a free country, in which we got rid of Section 28 whilst I was a teen, the "I had no choice but to marry a man" argument doesn't wash unless you grew up in the kind of ethno-religious community that does arranged marriages and "honour" murders.

I'd like to introduce you to Dirt's essay on the seven kinds of straightbian, all of whom Dirt and Mrs Dirt believe to be harmful to lesbians.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 11:12

Saltpepperpaprika · 18/03/2024 07:11

"We end up in the situation where someone with a dick is saying to a lesbian "your mate has slept with men and she says she's a lesbian, so why won't you sleep with me?"."
And in your ideal world, someone who slept with men before but calls herself lesbian now because she considers herself to be one and has zero interest in men, would have to call herself bisexual, to which someone with a dick may respond "youre bisexual, so why won't you sleep with me?"
I mean in both situations they can say no to the man, so whatever, but I think it's problematic to assume that just because a woman was open to relationships with men at one point many years ago, she must remain open to them forever. Sounds like dick pandering to me.

I mean in both situations they can say no to the man

Are you seriously ignoring the decades or more of men telling lesbians "you can't know you don't like men until you've tried one so try me" to get into women's knickers?

just because a woman was open to relationships with men at one point many years ago, she must remain open to them forever.

That's a misreading of what I wrote. What I actually wrote, with bolding on the key bit that you misread:

Even if we accept that sexual orientation can change (and the first study I posted indicates that it doesn't change as much as people tell themselves it does), that person is still arguably bisexual: if they fucked members of the opposite sex and liked it before, they might well revert to liking it again, even if they are currently only shagging same-sex partners.

If sexual orientation is fixed, then someone who fancies men will stay fancying men, even if they decide not to act on it. A straight nun under a vow of chastity remains straight. A female-exclusive bisexual female (aka febfem) doesn't stop being bi, even if she has made a deliberate choice only to have sex with women.

If sexual orientation is fluid, then all bets are off for what any of us might do in ten years' time, in which case the concept of distinct sexual orientations becomes a shared myth. I'm not so keen on this option.

Abeona · 18/03/2024 07:56

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia you seem to be utterly unaware of all the women now and historically who start their early lives under huge pressure from family and society to conform by having relationships/ children with men and gradually work their way out of conformity to autonomy. Until the last 30 years or so, lots of lesbians grew up without any awareness of a word that described their sexual attraction and assumed they were the only woman in the world who fancied other women. This was the experience of several lesbians I know, who knew they were same-sex attracted from a very early age but didn't know there was a word for it, or other women who felt the same way, until they went to university or in one case, encountered an out woman at work in the 80s.

This insistence that the only women who are allowed to call themselves lesbians are the 'gold star' ones, who've never had sex with a man, is regarded as fascist and divisive within the lesbian community. Any lesbian who entered any of the lesbian groups or communities I've known and argued that only 'gold star' lesbians were real lesbians would be shown the door because women understand. It's an argument usually made by TW ('I'm a gold star lesbian, I've only ever had sex with women') and those who don't have any experience of what it's like to grow up as a woman and a lesbian in our society.

Saltpepperpaprika · 18/03/2024 07:11

"We end up in the situation where someone with a dick is saying to a lesbian "your mate has slept with men and she says she's a lesbian, so why won't you sleep with me?"."
And in your ideal world, someone who slept with men before but calls herself lesbian now because she considers herself to be one and has zero interest in men, would have to call herself bisexual, to which someone with a dick may respond "youre bisexual, so why won't you sleep with me?"
I mean in both situations they can say no to the man, so whatever, but I think it's problematic to assume that just because a woman was open to relationships with men at one point many years ago, she must remain open to them forever. Sounds like dick pandering to me.

WitchyWitcherson · 18/03/2024 07:03

Edit: Removed post as shouldn't have posted before having a coffee... (Content was garbled!)

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 18/03/2024 00:07

Saltpepperpaprika · 17/03/2024 22:26

Bullshit. If my sister and other friends of mine who consider themselves lesbians and have only same-sex relationships these days don't get to use the word lesbian for themselves because they don't meet your purity standards then I don't know why you, not a lesbian yourself, get to arbitrate on that. The word doesn't belong to you either.

It's not a matter of purity standards. It's a matter of words having meanings and those meanings mattering. Otherwise we end up in the situation where someone born with a penis can claim to be a woman and a lesbian, because no one is prepared to stand up and say "'woman (noun): adult human female', so not you, mate". We end up in the situation where someone with a dick is saying to a lesbian "your mate has slept with men and she says she's a lesbian, so why won't you sleep with me?".

You don't need to be a lesbian to stand up for "lesbian (noun): homosexual human female". You just need to be someone who cares about language being clear and words having meanings. You just need to be someone who doesn't want to end up in a world where every conversation resembles Alice's conversation with Humpty Dumpty.

A quote from Through the Looking Glass

When I use a word,’ Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, ‘it means just what I choose it to mean — neither more nor less.’’The question is,’ s...

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/12608-when-i-use-a-word-humpty-dumpty-said-in-rather

Dutchesss · 18/03/2024 00:04

The concepts of man and woman seem to be incredibly important yet utterly indistinguishable.

🙌🏼

IAmAlpharius · 17/03/2024 23:40

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Saltpepperpaprika · 17/03/2024 22:26

Bullshit. If my sister and other friends of mine who consider themselves lesbians and have only same-sex relationships these days don't get to use the word lesbian for themselves because they don't meet your purity standards then I don't know why you, not a lesbian yourself, get to arbitrate on that. The word doesn't belong to you either.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 17/03/2024 21:48

Saltpepperpaprika · 17/03/2024 21:11

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia
All your points there are you making a judgement on what somebody else's sexuality is, like you know their mind better than they do. If you said any one of those things to any one of those people to their face they would absolutely tell you to fuck off. Also in some cases they would say you were being homophobic for telling them they're not real lesbians. I don't know whether your views are mainstream GC or not but I suppose that would track, if they were.

All my points are founded in the well-known phenomenon of people's self-image not always matching reality. An example of this: we all think that we are better-than-average drivers.

It's not homophobic to say that someone who has willingly had sex with someone of the opposite sex on multiple occasions (i.e. not just once "to make sure") is actually bisexual. It's both homophobic and biphobic for them to claim that they are gay or lesbian: homophobic because they are diluting a word that isn't theirs to dilute, and biphobic because of the internalised biphobia driving that behaviour.

Even if we accept that sexual orientation can change (and the first study I posted indicates that it doesn't change as much as people tell themselves it does), that person is still arguably bisexual: if they fucked members of the opposite sex and liked it before, they might well revert to liking it again, even if they are currently only shagging same-sex partners.

There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. I'm bisexual and feel no shame for it. It boils my piss when other bisexual people deny what they are and undermine the meanings of "gay", "lesbian", and "straight" in doing so. Words have meanings and this matters.

Saltpepperpaprika · 17/03/2024 21:11

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia
All your points there are you making a judgement on what somebody else's sexuality is, like you know their mind better than they do. If you said any one of those things to any one of those people to their face they would absolutely tell you to fuck off. Also in some cases they would say you were being homophobic for telling them they're not real lesbians. I don't know whether your views are mainstream GC or not but I suppose that would track, if they were.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 17/03/2024 18:42

Saltpepperpaprika · 17/03/2024 18:33

"When someone says they knew they were gay when they were a child do you believe them or do you imply that they're a pervert?"

"Neither."

Yes you said you wouldn't think they are a pervert but also that you wouldn't believe them. So rather a third option that implies they are mistaken about that. That's the judgement I'm saying you've made,

I don't think a prepubescent child can make judgements about their own sexual orientation because they aren't old enough to have one. The adult might look back and carry out some pattern-matching, but the child cannot have known.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 17/03/2024 18:40

Saltpepperpaprika · 17/03/2024 12:53

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia
"Actually, there are scientific tests for sexuality. They involve sensors for temperature and pressure being attached to or inserted into people's genitals and then showing them lots of photos of people. Likewise, you can image people's brain activity whilst showing them photos of people."
Show me a link to a study which shows THAT please because the one you linked to shows something completely different and irrelevant.

"Your sister is not a lesbian. She may be bisexual.

HTH."
Do you not know any lesbians who had sex with men when they were younger? It's pretty common IME. In my sister's particular case she was very troubled and was too nervous to meet other gay people, and spent a lot of her time getting drunk with men in straight places. You don't get to confidently state that she is bisexual because she had situations where a man wanted to have sex with her and she was like 'yeah alright why not, I'm lonely'. I also know two women who were married to men and had children with him but are now divorced and consider themselves lesbians. And I have a friend who always was a lesbian and then had a difficult breakup, and had sex with a man in the immediate aftermath of that just out of upset and confusion and easy access. People have sex with other people for all kinds of reasons not just arousal response and you are not the arbiter of anybody's sexuality.

"The literal definition of "fancying someone" is being sexually aroused by them. You didn't "fancy" boys. You might have mentally rehearsed the responses to boys that you thought you'd be expected to have when you grew up, but you didn't "fancy" them."
Well, I fancied boys. So you're wrong. I don't think you have a leg to stand on here. Attraction to other people can be romantic and/or sexual. Childhood experiences aside, I was very deeply in love with a male friend I had in college, absolutely yearned for him and was very jealous when he started dating someone else. Yet I didn't really have any kind of urge to have sex with him. Curiously it was a romantic attraction and not a very sexual one, and I have never felt anything like that towards a woman. Sexual orientation is complicated and multifaceted and can't just be boiled down to arousal response.

"Neither. That person rejected the assumption that they would date the opposite sex at an early age and coincidentally that matches their adult orientation.

Boys disgusted me when I was young and I was adamant that I would never date one. I discovered my attraction to women years before I realised that I also fancy men, turning out bisexual. It's not a given that a child will grow into what they think they will."
Second paragraph is your personal experience and I don't deny it. Is your first paragraph a judgement on every person who says they knew their sexuality as a child? There's an extraordinary arrogance in that.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2022.2060927 shows that, not only is genital arousal measured to assess sexual orientation, but that people over-report their supposed changes in sexual orientation.

she had situations where a man wanted to have sex with her and she was like 'yeah alright why not, I'm lonely'.

That she could have willing sex with a man indicates some degree of bisexuality. Most of my ONSs have been similarly motivated. I've met gay men who are repelled by female bodies. If they were willing to have sex with women because they were lonely, they would not be gay! "Gay" and "lesbian" refer to exclusive homosexuality. Words have meanings and these meanings should be respected; this matters more than individuals feeling affronted by my, or anyone else's, refusal to accept their inaccurate self-label.

I also know two women who were married to men and had children with him but are now divorced and consider themselves lesbians.

Bisexuality is highly stigmatised. It's far easier for someone to claim a sexual orientation shift than to own and be proud of being bisexual.

Attraction to other people can be romantic and/or sexual.

I'll believe in romantic attraction when someone defines "romance" without relying on Western cultural stereotypes. Many other cultures do not have a concept of romance.

I was very deeply in love with a male friend I had in college, absolutely yearned for him and was very jealous when he started dating someone else.

Replace "dating someone else" with "sitting on someone else's lap" and you've described how I feel about DCat.

And none of this talk of sexual orientation has anything to do with trans people or TRAs rejecting science.