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Mention of dangerous Terf-led lesbian bar

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QuetzalTerfLus · 03/03/2024 11:38

Article here on a new trans-inclusive “lesbian” bar, with nice dig at the horrid old lesbians who may not want men in their spaces.

I guess this is an opinion / review piece but still quite surprising to see “Terf” being used in mainstream press. And I thought the Standard had undertaken to be balanced in its journalism.

https://www.standard.co.uk/going-out/london-lesbian-bar-la-camionera-tiktok-b1142159.html

How can London have only one lesbian bar?

New venue La Camionera was long overdue, says Isobel Van Dyke

https://www.standard.co.uk/going-out/london-lesbian-bar-la-camionera-tiktok-b1142159.html

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drspouse · 18/05/2024 20:06

"It is a trans and non-binary inclusive space that does not tolerate discrimination of any kind."
Except against those annoying lesbians who want a bar for women only and won't sleep with men.
But who cares about them?

HPFA · 18/05/2024 19:57

I can't imagine anything more boring than hanging out in a bar with a load of nonentites droning on endlessly about their incomprehensible "identities".

From what I gather Alex is a female who likes dressing in ways more typically associated with males? OMG that's so radical in twenty-first century Britain.

However it's a private enterprise and they're open about who they're trying to attract - I guess we'll see if there's a viable market or not.

MarieDeGournay · 18/05/2024 18:46

Feck the Gender Recognition Act 2004, can somebody not invoke the Trade Descriptions Act 1968?Grin

AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus · 18/05/2024 18:39

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/05/2024 15:51

Don’t get me wrong, I’m in total agreement with you, transmen and lesbians belong together.

But I’m a total terf, so that makes you at least a cryptoterf, maybe even an actual terf.

Welcome to Terf Club! 🍹🍹

Grin

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YourPithyLilacSheep · 18/05/2024 17:51

Hoppinggreen · 17/05/2024 10:33

I am not a lesbian but I would love to go to a women only bar, as long as it was for people born female only.

Ditto. I used to go to lesbian bars with lesbian friends in the 1980s. It's pretty clear I'm not a lesbian, but the atmosphere at the bars was fun.

However, just like going with my gay male friends to gay (male) bars, there's a point at which I feel I'm intruding into a space & culture that I have no place in. I have a couple of drinks & leave - after all, as a straight woman there are plenty of places for me. Not somuch for lesbians & gay men.

literarybitery · 18/05/2024 17:03

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 10:53

Quite keen to side step the ignorance about who Alex is, eh?

But sure, it's a common statement on here that many of you are 'reluctantly' voting Tory because little Rishi 'at least knows what a woman is'. Given that a few of you claim to be on the left, it's clear you're scrabbling around for justifications and some of you have settled on 'protecting lesbians'.

Again, your argument is based on people wanting to vote for a party, but feeling they need to create a cause to do so. Why do you think people need to manufacture a cause rather than just voting for their preferred party?

Because, taken at face value, that’s an bonkers argument. I’m giving you a chance to explain why it’s not.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/05/2024 15:51

Don’t get me wrong, I’m in total agreement with you, transmen and lesbians belong together.

But I’m a total terf, so that makes you at least a cryptoterf, maybe even an actual terf.

Welcome to Terf Club! 🍹🍹

Grin
AppleBlossomTimeNow · 18/05/2024 15:51

Anita Rani has the critical thinking skills of a wet mop. Women's rights deserve so much more than she is capable of giving.

AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus · 18/05/2024 15:49

FWIW I thought the garden/court yard area looks lovely, based on the instagram behind-the-scenes pics.

Might be hard to generate enough covers in such a small venue to stay afloat financially, but Alex’s food Substack suggests the product could well be very good and I wish them (plural!) well.

London is a massive city so plenty of room for both a Trans owned tapas cafe and the upcoming Lesbian private members club - I suspect A will create an unintended pipeline towards B anyway.

TitusMoan · 18/05/2024 15:48

QTIPOC booking priority??? FFS.

Wouldn’t it be simpler just to say ‘I identify as someone who’s so special that I shouldn’t ever have to wait or queue’ ?

AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus · 18/05/2024 15:39

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 15:32

Only if you have zero connection to lesbian history or community. 🤷‍♂️

Don’t get me wrong, I’m in total agreement with you, transmen and lesbians belong together.

But I’m a total terf, so that makes you at least a cryptoterf, maybe even an actual terf.

Welcome to Terf Club! 🍹🍹

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 15:32

AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus · 18/05/2024 14:56

You are correct that Alex is female but why would a transman open a lesbian bar? Sounds suspiciously terfy.

Only if you have zero connection to lesbian history or community. 🤷‍♂️

AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus · 18/05/2024 15:04

Also, someone should probably pull KuntaCxnty aside and warn zir that the ‘Indigenous’ bit of ‘Queer, Trans, Indigenous, People of Colour’ doesn’t translate well from US to UK 🙈

Looks like the queer AFABs, transmen and nonbinary folx risk being displaced by an influx of visitors from Malaga Airport and their male admirers anyway? 😬

Mention of dangerous Terf-led lesbian bar
Mention of dangerous Terf-led lesbian bar
Mention of dangerous Terf-led lesbian bar
AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus · 18/05/2024 14:56

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 07:02

You guys are hilarious. Alex is trans masc. According to your beliefs, he's one of the poor, sad lesbians you're all so desperate to leverage so you can justify voting Tory.

You are correct that Alex is female but why would a transman open a lesbian bar? Sounds suspiciously terfy.

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 10:53

Chersfrozenface · 18/05/2024 10:46

I'm not making an argument.

Can't let this first sentence go without comment.

From the FineThemLetsDance's post , quoted by literybitery:
"According to your beliefs, he's one of the poor, sad lesbians you're all so desperate to leverage so you can justify voting Tory."

My bolding.

Quite keen to side step the ignorance about who Alex is, eh?

But sure, it's a common statement on here that many of you are 'reluctantly' voting Tory because little Rishi 'at least knows what a woman is'. Given that a few of you claim to be on the left, it's clear you're scrabbling around for justifications and some of you have settled on 'protecting lesbians'.

Chersfrozenface · 18/05/2024 10:46

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 10:33

I'm not making an argument. I'm watching GCs dunk on a trans masc cos they think he's a cis man in the name of 'protecting lesbians' and pointing out that by your own beliefs, Alex is exactly who should be running a lesbian bar.

I'm not making an argument.

Can't let this first sentence go without comment.

From the FineThemLetsDance's post , quoted by literybitery:
"According to your beliefs, he's one of the poor, sad lesbians you're all so desperate to leverage so you can justify voting Tory."

My bolding.

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 10:33

literarybitery · 18/05/2024 10:25

Confused. Your argument here is based on people needing to create causes to ‘justify’ voting Tory. But why do you think they need to do that? If someone wants to vote Tory, why don’t they just vote Tory? I can’t see the sense in what you are saying?

Do you invent causes to justify voting for whatever party you vote for? Is that why you think others do the same?

I'm not making an argument. I'm watching GCs dunk on a trans masc cos they think he's a cis man in the name of 'protecting lesbians' and pointing out that by your own beliefs, Alex is exactly who should be running a lesbian bar.

literarybitery · 18/05/2024 10:25

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 07:02

You guys are hilarious. Alex is trans masc. According to your beliefs, he's one of the poor, sad lesbians you're all so desperate to leverage so you can justify voting Tory.

Confused. Your argument here is based on people needing to create causes to ‘justify’ voting Tory. But why do you think they need to do that? If someone wants to vote Tory, why don’t they just vote Tory? I can’t see the sense in what you are saying?

Do you invent causes to justify voting for whatever party you vote for? Is that why you think others do the same?

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 10:13

PercyPeg · 18/05/2024 09:50

Do you believe “Clara” is the one with the short hair, or long her?

Alex is the one holding the keys, as I understand it.

PercyPeg · 18/05/2024 09:50

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 09:29

Many trans mascs come from and are very much still part of the lesbian community.

Do you believe “Clara” is the one with the short hair, or long her?

WickedSerious · 18/05/2024 09:38

Sounds like it just identifies as a lesbian bar.

Imagine that.

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 09:29

Many trans mascs come from and are very much still part of the lesbian community.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/05/2024 08:48

Why does a "trans masc" female person want to run a "lesbian" bar?

FineThenLetsDance · 18/05/2024 07:02

JanesLittleGirl · 03/03/2024 14:59

Here is a photo of the founder, Alex Loveless, and their girlfriend, Clara. The sharper eyed among you may be able to see which one is Alex.

You guys are hilarious. Alex is trans masc. According to your beliefs, he's one of the poor, sad lesbians you're all so desperate to leverage so you can justify voting Tory.

duc748 · 17/05/2024 21:59

And "Cara" says Cara is often mistaken for a "cis man"

Oh, the shame! That must be so tough! 😄