I don’t know who said what to you.
For my part, I have not ‘had a go’ at you, in the sense that might imply a personal attack, for your saying that people arguing on the subject of sex based rights and gender are only worried about toilets. I know you are wrong and pointed it out.
There are thousands of posts on this board going back several years, with painstaking, backed-up responses by many thoughtful people, about women’s great concerns related to the effects of transactivism and gender legislation or interpretations of it, in schools, the NHS, in the police, in the judiciary, in the news media including the BBC, in language, in sports - and ultimately in women’s and children’s lives.
And in addition, and not least by any means, a grave concern about the authoritarian almost fascistic control over public organisations and public discourse that has crept in supposedly in the name of diversity and equality as it is related to gender.
So if you do think the only point of concern about gender is related to toilets then perhaps you have not been reading the gender related threads about other aspects, regardless of whether or not you have personally been posting on them.
As for the abysmal state we are left with after the conservative government and all that they have done wrong - just because some women here do not believe that a future PM who is so clueless and insensitive to the implications as to bring in self-ID, a future PM who wants to plough on with the present tra trajectory, a future PM whose party shuts up its very own women over their ‘gender ideology’ concerns as though they were guilty of a heinous crime is going to bring about magical transformations in all other aspects where people are being failed - it does not mean these women are not also worried about those other aspects where people are being failed.
We are between the devil and the deep blue sea probably.