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Do you count GC feminists as LGBT?

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AdamRyan · 21/02/2024 14:20

Apparently Kemi Badenoch is a bit confused about the difference, claiming wide consultation with LGBT groups but actually only meeting GC feminist groups.

https://twitter.com/PickardJE/status/1760281735990738972?s=20

It reminds me a bit of when Maria Miller did the consultation on trans rights and didn't consult any feminists.

I would expect MPs to be consulting both sides, but more than that I'm kind of offended to be described as LGBT for my GC stance Confused. Seems unfair to both gay people and feminists and like the old anti-feminist "you are all hairy lesbians" trope

https://twitter.com/PickardJE/status/1760281735990738972?s=20

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PeridotSparkle · 23/02/2024 21:41

BitingtheSkirting · 21/02/2024 14:24

If they're lesbian or bi, yes. If straight, no. I'm assuming trans people are rather less likely to call themselves GC, but frankly who knows what words mean any more.

Or letters! 🙄

LimeViewer · 23/02/2024 21:26

Then next post you berate Kemi when Oenny Mordant and others have just as much power in the party! You flit to whatever argument supports the nasty tory narrative. And look for offence.
Red Tooth Brush is personally affected by this issue yet still speaks with fairness and compassion and you even accuse her of being aggressive on here. But she is not.
You perceive it that way but people here are just responding to your posts. No agenda other than men are always men.

LimeViewer · 23/02/2024 21:22

Again, you contradict yourself.
In one post you demonstrate an understanding of Denton's and that the tra had influence over everyone.
Whilst being disingenuous about what captured means. It's not voluntary membership of stonewall champions. It's withdrawal of all gov and parstatal bodies like lotto funding unless you tie the stonewall way beyond the law line.
How you can say stonewall represents lgbt when most of it's own founders are appaled, when Nancy Kelly called lesbians sexual racists, all the court cases finding their guidance illegal. God knows.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 23/02/2024 15:07

@AdamRyan

If I were to do some reading, I expect I'd still be able to see the nuance in Stonewalls position because I'm naturally a consensus builder. So I doubt any view I'd have on it would be acceptable to you or others on this board, because even without reading i can pretty much say that I'm not going down the line of "Stonewall is a brainwashing death cult...."

The trap for reasonable, rational, consensus building people is to assume others are the same. This, after all, is how we got into this mess...no-one ever thought that the reasonable, well meaning acceptance of trans women as "women" socially would be used as a lever to demand all women-only provisions must be made available to trans-identifying males.

"Meet me in the middle," says the unjust man. You take a step towards him, he takes a step back. "Meet me in the middle," says the unjust man.

To be clear, I'm not telling you Stonewall are a "Stonewall is a brainwashing death cult", I'm telling you even if your starting point is to assume SW (or LGBA or anyone else) are reasonable, you still need to check your assumptions because sometimes, just sometimes, they are not. Or their idea of reasonable is very different to yours.

TathingScinsel · 23/02/2024 14:37

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2024 13:21

It's very sad for those of us who back in the day were involved with Stonewall. More so for Simon Fanshawe, Bev Jackson & Kate Harris who were founder members of Stonewall or the GLF.
Depressing to see the reputation of what was once an ethical organisation destroyed in this way and their complete lack of insight into why..

Yes, it must be utterly depressing to hand over the reigns to a new generation only for them to immediately give the horse, the stable and all the well-stored hay to an adjacent glue factory.

I’m reminded of Helen Joyce’s remarks re: how trans ideology doesn’t just change an existing org a little bit, it makes it do a complete 180, so ‘feminist’ orgs start demanding that men be allowed in women’s shelters and ‘gay rights’ orgs start promoting the castration of gay and lesbian teenagers.

TathingScinsel · 23/02/2024 14:29

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:04

Stonewall puts T above everyone and everything, which is why it’s an identirian org, rather than a policy org.

I'm not sure that's true if you look at their current campaigns. But even if it were, campaigning for policy relating to T issues is still being "a policy org". It would basically be doing the opposite lobbying to Sex Matters.

Anyway look, I'm not a stonewall fan. I just can see the glaring inconsistency and a priori arguments being used to justify why some groups are good and some are bad.

I’m talking specifically about the Stonewall Equality Index and the Stonewall Champions schemes, where Stonewall gave training on EDI policy and then rated the org on how it was implemented, not Stonewall’s surface level PR campaigns, past or current.

It’s the unlawful policy stuff that is where Stonewall shit their own bed (oh, and in their suggestions to government re: Self ID and removing single sex exemptions entirely, which thankfully were rumbled before Penny Mourdant/Theresa May got them into law.

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 14:07

Fair enough inebriati. You also haven't been making personal attacks on me or calling me bad faith/disingenuous so my "cognitive dissonance" comment wasn't aimed at you.

Politicians gonna politick. That's partly why I linked that other clip of them being constructive in another debate. I think the question was asked in PMQs because they know she was exaggerating and they are political point scoring because that's how politics works. See Sunaks quip to Starmer the week before.

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Thelnebriati · 23/02/2024 13:58

Thats your perception, but cognitive dissonance is not the only reason people become irritated.

I'm not a 'Badenoch fangirl'. I pointed out the bias in the question directed at her in the HOC because I'm disgusted by the behaviour of many politicians over this issue and concerned about the overall quality of political debate.

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:54

JanesLittleGirl · 23/02/2024 13:48

I'm naturally a consensus builder.

You manage to hide it quite well @AdamRyan .

You can only build consensus with people who also want to do that. People who want to insist their wirld view is the only way are never going to be interested. In fact the cognitive dissonance of having to engage with uncomfortable ideas and questions is likely to make them withdraw or become aggressive.

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JanesLittleGirl · 23/02/2024 13:48

I'm naturally a consensus builder.

You manage to hide it quite well @AdamRyan .

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2024 13:22

Not the actions of a "misogynistic prick"

He is one though. It's not the only thing I base my opinion on.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2024 13:21

Maybe she could get on with delivering the amendment to the EA.

It's not her sole decision, is it. She's not the PM.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2024 13:21

TathingScinsel · 23/02/2024 12:56

Oh and the reason Stonewall’s EDI training scheme is incompatible with UK Equalities legislation is that it fails to acknowledge that the various protected characteristics have competing needs and that clashes are inevitable.
Stonewall puts T above everyone and everything, which is why it’s an identirian org, rather than a policy org.

Sex Matters aren’t campaigning for the removal of the Gender Reassignment protections entirely, they just want the clash with Sex protections acknowledged and both groups catered for in separate provision (or where appropriate, eg sports, for the category that can best accommodate both MtF and FtM-on-performance-enhancing-substances to be renamed ‘Open’)

Speaking of which, I hear a trans and NB domestic violence shelter has just opened in Lancashire, which is exactly the sort of 3rd space provision that can resolve the competing needs of 2 groups (and the sort of segregation Stonewall has been vehemently opposed to, lobbying the Gov to remove Sex based protections entirely).

I became a ‘terf’ when I realised that supposedly pro LGBT orgs were promoting ideas that would harm both LGB & T people in the long term via backlash/over course correction.

Stonewall threw away their years of solid reputation by overreaching aka ‘getting ahead of the law’.

It's very sad for those of us who back in the day were involved with Stonewall. More so for Simon Fanshawe, Bev Jackson & Kate Harris who were founder members of Stonewall or the GLF.
Depressing to see the reputation of what was once an ethical organisation destroyed in this way and their complete lack of insight into why..

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:11

By way of nuance, just looking at Bradshaws twitter to see what people were saying about PMQs when I came across this

https://twitter.com/BenPBradshaw/status/1760656505458565587/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1760656505458565587&currentTweetUser=BenPBradshaw

Not the actions of a "misogynistic prick" and also very nice to see both MPs having a constructive conversation when it's not about an inflamed party political issue, but is about women.

https://twitter.com/BenPBradshaw/status/1760656505458565587/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1760656505458565587&currentTweetUser=BenPBradshaw

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AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:06

I became a TERF when I was kicked out of a parenting group for saying sex was biological and told to "educate myself". Which I did by reading Reddit "peak trans" threads, Gender Trender and Rebecca Reilly Cooper.

Now I'm apparently a covert TRA shilling for Labour/Stonewall, despite still very much identifying as a TERFConfused very strange times.

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AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:04

TathingScinsel · 23/02/2024 12:56

Oh and the reason Stonewall’s EDI training scheme is incompatible with UK Equalities legislation is that it fails to acknowledge that the various protected characteristics have competing needs and that clashes are inevitable.
Stonewall puts T above everyone and everything, which is why it’s an identirian org, rather than a policy org.

Sex Matters aren’t campaigning for the removal of the Gender Reassignment protections entirely, they just want the clash with Sex protections acknowledged and both groups catered for in separate provision (or where appropriate, eg sports, for the category that can best accommodate both MtF and FtM-on-performance-enhancing-substances to be renamed ‘Open’)

Speaking of which, I hear a trans and NB domestic violence shelter has just opened in Lancashire, which is exactly the sort of 3rd space provision that can resolve the competing needs of 2 groups (and the sort of segregation Stonewall has been vehemently opposed to, lobbying the Gov to remove Sex based protections entirely).

I became a ‘terf’ when I realised that supposedly pro LGBT orgs were promoting ideas that would harm both LGB & T people in the long term via backlash/over course correction.

Stonewall threw away their years of solid reputation by overreaching aka ‘getting ahead of the law’.

Stonewall puts T above everyone and everything, which is why it’s an identirian org, rather than a policy org.

I'm not sure that's true if you look at their current campaigns. But even if it were, campaigning for policy relating to T issues is still being "a policy org". It would basically be doing the opposite lobbying to Sex Matters.

Anyway look, I'm not a stonewall fan. I just can see the glaring inconsistency and a priori arguments being used to justify why some groups are good and some are bad.

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RedToothBrush · 23/02/2024 13:03

I became a ‘terf’ when I realised that supposedly pro LGBT orgs were promoting ideas that would harm both LGB & T people in the long term via backlash/over course correction.

I think this is one of the key things. 'why do you hate trans people?' narratives are there to divert from the harms that lack of robust safeguarding and ethics that affects trans people most.

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:01

RedToothBrush · 23/02/2024 12:56

Kemi is not a super human who can necessarily a) circumnavigative parliamentary process and schedules just because she wants to b) persuade enough of her party to support the issue c) persuade her party masters that it's worth doing before an election rather than use the subject as a traction issue for an election.

I'm not a fan girl by any means but christ understand what individual MPs (Inc minsters) can and can't just 'do'.

Kemi is still trying to win an argument within her party on several levels

This is just another stick to beat with.

Kemi is the minister for women and Equalities and has the backing of "A man is a man and a woman is a woman" Sunak. The party has a huge majority. If they can't get this change through then they are just as "captured" as anyone else and nothing would change if Badenoch was in charge.

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AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 12:58

I dont say all lobby groups are bad and I did say upthread I misunderstood what lobbying could mean.

I think groups that are not transparent about their agenda, are set up by former MPs, are financially donating to the current government and are being used as "starter jobs" for future MPs are shady as fuck and I don't think that's controversial.

If you don't see a problem with that then you are "disingenuous at best".

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RedToothBrush · 23/02/2024 12:56

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 12:44

Good old Kemi eh?
Maybe she could get on with delivering the amendment to the EA. It's been almost a year of mulling which is quite a long time.

Kemi is not a super human who can necessarily a) circumnavigative parliamentary process and schedules just because she wants to b) persuade enough of her party to support the issue c) persuade her party masters that it's worth doing before an election rather than use the subject as a traction issue for an election.

I'm not a fan girl by any means but christ understand what individual MPs (Inc minsters) can and can't just 'do'.

Kemi is still trying to win an argument within her party on several levels

This is just another stick to beat with.

TathingScinsel · 23/02/2024 12:56

Oh and the reason Stonewall’s EDI training scheme is incompatible with UK Equalities legislation is that it fails to acknowledge that the various protected characteristics have competing needs and that clashes are inevitable.
Stonewall puts T above everyone and everything, which is why it’s an identirian org, rather than a policy org.

Sex Matters aren’t campaigning for the removal of the Gender Reassignment protections entirely, they just want the clash with Sex protections acknowledged and both groups catered for in separate provision (or where appropriate, eg sports, for the category that can best accommodate both MtF and FtM-on-performance-enhancing-substances to be renamed ‘Open’)

Speaking of which, I hear a trans and NB domestic violence shelter has just opened in Lancashire, which is exactly the sort of 3rd space provision that can resolve the competing needs of 2 groups (and the sort of segregation Stonewall has been vehemently opposed to, lobbying the Gov to remove Sex based protections entirely).

I became a ‘terf’ when I realised that supposedly pro LGBT orgs were promoting ideas that would harm both LGB & T people in the long term via backlash/over course correction.

Stonewall threw away their years of solid reputation by overreaching aka ‘getting ahead of the law’.

RedToothBrush · 23/02/2024 12:50

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 12:41

You keep calling me stupid, disingenuous and bad faith so what do you expect?

I was on the original westminstenders threads with you and you were really balanced and rational. Why have you moved to a more hostile way of engaging with people? It's not a competition to prove who's most clever or something

To actually understand what you are saying before you say it!

Like the whole concept of why lobby groups can be problematic and the differences between grass roots movement and top down power imposed on and against grassroots movements.

You have THE most superficial understanding but you think because youve hear 'lobby groups bad' that ALL lobbying is bad.

Sometimes lobbying is simply a group of the wider public who have got off their arse and got together to campaign against the odds.

The fact you have totally failed to grasp the difference between that and powerful well funded and well connected organisations and individuals speaks volumes.

Saying you are disengenous is the more diplomatic option.

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 12:44

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2024 12:27

Well why on earth would anyone want to be CEO of stonewall? They are going to get a really hard time.

Perhaps they should stop trying to push unworkable, unfair policies on everyone by stealth then? As Kemi Badenoch made clear, they do not decide the law in this country.

Good old Kemi eh?
Maybe she could get on with delivering the amendment to the EA. It's been almost a year of mulling which is quite a long time.

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AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 12:43

TathingScinsel · 23/02/2024 12:38

Stonewall haven’t acknowledged their wrongdoing tho, so the only way to move on is without them.

I can't comment because I'm not LGB. I assume they must still be doing valuable work because they still exist. Will be interesting to see what happens to them.

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AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 12:41

RedToothBrush · 23/02/2024 12:36

You keep lecturing us with a complete lack of understanding of basic principles and posing questions which are totally disengenous.

What do you expect?

You need to improve your understanding of the basics.

You keep calling me stupid, disingenuous and bad faith so what do you expect?

I was on the original westminstenders threads with you and you were really balanced and rational. Why have you moved to a more hostile way of engaging with people? It's not a competition to prove who's most clever or something

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