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Another depressing article from the Guardian

41 replies

jillgreen · 21/01/2024 04:25

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/20/this-is-how-we-do-it-we-dont-play-the-normal-gender-game-and-enjoy-exploring-that

A young straight couple explain their radical, "gender queering" sex life which involves the man putting on tights and "coming really fast" while the woman is "trans masculine" (she cut her hair short) and unable to orgasm because she's on anti-depressants.

What an inspiring story for us all.

This is how we do it: ‘We don’t play the normal gender game, and enjoy exploring that’

Jacob and Kasey like to experiment, and reject the notion that sex has to mean penetration

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/20/this-is-how-we-do-it-we-dont-play-the-normal-gender-game-and-enjoy-exploring-that

OP posts:
AtomicBlondeRose · 21/01/2024 10:32

An awful lot of these much-touted unconventional queer sex lives seem to involve little to no sex. Funny that.

ApocalipstickNow · 21/01/2024 10:31

They are both described as bisexual although I suppose it’s hard to know what that means here.

PonyPatter44 · 21/01/2024 09:31

I did read the article, and it was a lot of words to say, our sex life is exactly like most other heterosexual couples but we're calling it a queered sex life, so we're different!

My DP and I didn't have sex the other night. We kissed and cuddled in bed for about half an hour. Are we queer as well now? He didn't wear my tights though, so maybe not.

Justme56 · 21/01/2024 09:23

The person certainly gives the impression that so called ‘cis’ people have rather unimaginative sex lives. Sounds a little naive. However the thought of a big burly bloke in a pair of tights, is a usual turn on so I will give them that.

WickedSerious · 21/01/2024 09:19

No thanks,I've got an oven to clean.

Changingplace · 21/01/2024 09:01

We will usually start with cuddling on the couch, kissing and then move to oral and grinding.

Wow I hadn’t realised my own sex life was so original massive sarcasm

What is the point of this article?

JanesLittleGirl · 21/01/2024 08:57

How tedious.

AlwaysCrystal · 21/01/2024 08:21

I don't see what the problem with this article is. And the op conflates him putting on tights and having sex. I don't see that in the article.

Wilkolampshade · 21/01/2024 07:54

"More tea, vicar?"

NeverTrustAPoliceman · 21/01/2024 07:47

I'm not going to read that nonsense. Self obsessed people's sex lives are not my thing.

I don't read the Guardian anyway.

theDudesmummy · 21/01/2024 07:27

OFFS what a load of tosh. I guess each new generation really does think they are doing something amazingly new.

LentilFaculties · 21/01/2024 07:17

What exactly has been "queered" here?

Patriarchy, globally, is pretty famous for not giving a shit if the woman comes or not.

TheaBrandt · 21/01/2024 07:04

Not reading that drivel. Sounds like they need to get a hobby

DustyLee123 · 21/01/2024 07:01

I feel sorry for kids these days.

MariaLuna · 21/01/2024 04:28

Each to their own.

I won't be reading the article.

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