Sharing as I think all glimmers of sanity are helpful.
My teenage DD is applying for a volunteer role in a charity. She was filling in the application form and asked me to read over it in case she'd made any mistakes.
I noticed that she left the pronouns box blank.
She also didn't fill in the equalities section, except ethnicity as she is passionately anti-racist, and indicated that she is of mixed heritage.
The gender word salad list was ignored.
I checked that she hadn't left anything blank by mistake and got an eye roll and got told she had filled in everything relevant.
That's my girl.
We've never directly had the conversation about my feelings about gender-woo but it seems she has found her own way through.
I'm hopeful that this school-age generation is going to rebel in their own way; by reacting against the crap they are being told by the establishment which has largely swallowed the Stonewall propaganda.