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Advice about voting for an MP

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ExpatSchmexpat · 16/01/2024 14:37

I saw today that Brits abroad will be able to vote in UK elections again. Yaayy.

I have a question though. I was relieved to see that "my" MP (we get to vote in the last place we were registered) is GC. But she's a Tory and frankly, the only thing she ever says that i agree with is on the subject of human sex categories (2, immutable)

It puts me on the horns of a dilemma. So i thought I'd ask here and see if anyone else has come to a conclusion how to handle the election.

Do i vote for the sitting Tory MP, with whom i agree on nothing but that one, hugely important to me thing. Or do i vote for the candidate most likely to be able to take her majority, knowing that while i agree with them on several other big points, the one huge thing that has been in my life since i was old enough to realise sexism/misogyny/patriarchy while i was fairly young, is something that i profoundly disagree with all other candidates on.

What would you think the lesser of the 2 evils is: voting against my better interests on schools, the economy, the NHS and possibly the environment - or voting against the very fundamental thing about me: my femaleness?

Or should i look at her record in the actual constituency and see if the MP is any good, or if the potential new ones would be better? Should i vote tactically in the knowledge that any government that gets in from now on is "captured" and is going to continue the TWAW (if because it's not a priority, or if they really believe that is a bit of a moot point)

Or do i spoil my newly won ballot? Anyone else having similar worries? (whether in or outside the UK)

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Kendodd · 16/01/2024 14:52

Previous poster talked about education and healthcare and women’s safety. How's that working out under the Tories? Also see rape convictions. This whole trans shitshow has unfolded under them and there are plenty of TWAW Tories. Personally, I would look at the whole picture.
Do you know what the other candidates think on trans issues?

Dais79 · 16/01/2024 14:41

I'm in exactly the same boat, OP. I want change, but women and girls safety is of the utmost priority as it feeds into everything - safety in education and in healthcare etc. I think people assume it's just a minor issue but it's really not. I think I'm stuck with the Tory candidate as there is no other party willing to defend women's safety and I owe it to my daughter to defend her.

ExpatSchmexpat · 16/01/2024 14:37

meant to say: have nc for this, although if you've seen me around here it's probably quite obvious from what

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