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Lucy Worsley - Ladykillers

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Feckedupbundle · 16/01/2024 13:45

I listen to this podcast whilst I'm working. It's not heavyweight,but entertaining and passes the time.
All of the cases are commented on by professionals either working in the fields associated,or members of the communities affected. For instance,the episode about the death of an indigenous child in Australia,had a member of the modern day community explaining what had and hadn't changed in the intervening years,and the effect that more recent government policies was having. It was really interesting,and have me a lot to think about.
One of the other episodes was about a very young lesbian couple,in the southern US at the end of the 19th century. There were two lesbian commentators and a bit of talk about how historically and contemporarily,lesbians are not given the cultural exposure that they merit. Excellent,thought I,about time this was mentioned.
One of the commentators started talking about who gets to use what bathroom,and the ban on drag queens in public places. Then we get another person popping up. Yes,you guessed it,on a programme bemoaning the visibility of lesbians,the person they chose to talk about their experience,is a drag queen. Quite what a man has to tell us about lesbian invisibility,I don't know,as I skipped forward until I got back to the historical discussion again.
Depressing,but I shouldn't have expected anything else really,as it's a BBC production,and I should have realised where it was going as soon as the word 'queer' started being used.

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HoneyButterPopcorn · 03/02/2024 20:23

Indeedy. Helena Kennedy (pah) and now banging on about LGBTQ community (no just a boring old lesbian, Luce).

I had seen there were lots of new programmes in the series and popped them on in the background (more in hope) but they are just crap.

pronounsbundlebundle · 30/01/2024 09:33

elspethmcgillicudddy · 29/01/2024 18:10

It's a joint production with the open university.

Just saying....

Ah, they have form for trying to silence the lesbian perspective, that explains it

Emotionalsupportviper · 30/01/2024 09:03

elspethmcgillicudddy · 29/01/2024 18:10

It's a joint production with the open university.

Just saying....

You need say no more @elspethmcgillicudddy .

You need say no more . . .

elspethmcgillicudddy · 29/01/2024 18:10

It's a joint production with the open university.

Just saying....

ifIwerenotanandroid · 29/01/2024 17:55

@Str8talkin Was it this one? https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p0c258w1

I just listened to it again & what they're discussing is more whether she'd be convicted today, rather than whether she was actually guilty. And I didn't get the impression anyone was defending her actions, just suggesting possible ways of interpreting them, though it sounded a bit tongue in cheek; but the dead are still dead & depriving them of life was cruel, so some people might find it a bit offensive. Have another listen?

Lady Killers with Lucy Worsley - 7. Mary Ann Cotton - BBC Sounds

Lucy Worsley investigates Britain’s first female serial killer.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p0c258w1

Str8talkin · 29/01/2024 16:20

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 29/01/2024 12:47

HoneyButterPopcorn · 29/01/2024 09:51

Shedunnit went the same way so I have up in that.

Why do they have to ruin every bloody thing that is just for women?

What happened to Shedunnit? I used to skip about in that & I thought I'd heard everything - just noticed there are some new episodes.

RoyalCorgi · 29/01/2024 12:35

IrisVonEverec · 29/01/2024 11:42

@RoyalCorgi re: the abortionist, the women who sought her services would be seeking to end their pregnancy any way they could. She was the closest thing they had available to healthcare - in those circumstances, what would you rather do? Visit an abortionist who has experience of previous procedures, or try and do it yourself with no experience? It was massively dangerous either way and highlights exactly why women need access to safe, legal abortion.

I'm sure they went to the abortionist out of desperation. The key point for me, however, was that she was charging them vast sums for the procedure. If she had been doing it out of the goodness of her heart, she'd have charged a nominal sum. In the 19th century, lots of people were making money out of desperate women by offering dodgy abortion services.

Yesnosorryplease · 29/01/2024 12:07

IrisVonEverec · 29/01/2024 11:44

The lesbian couple episode rubbed me the wrong way when the majority of the discussion centred on how in love the murderer was and how lost she felt, instead of highlighting that this was domestic violence at the hands of an ex-partner. No different or less heinous than if the murderer had been male in my opinion.

Yes, and how they framed it as her carrying out an agreed plan, as if the victim had somehow consented to being murdered. I think they described it as a Romeo and Juliet type plan.....but the murderer, despite ample opportunity did not then kill herself.

IrisVonEverec · 29/01/2024 11:44

The lesbian couple episode rubbed me the wrong way when the majority of the discussion centred on how in love the murderer was and how lost she felt, instead of highlighting that this was domestic violence at the hands of an ex-partner. No different or less heinous than if the murderer had been male in my opinion.

IrisVonEverec · 29/01/2024 11:42

@RoyalCorgi re: the abortionist, the women who sought her services would be seeking to end their pregnancy any way they could. She was the closest thing they had available to healthcare - in those circumstances, what would you rather do? Visit an abortionist who has experience of previous procedures, or try and do it yourself with no experience? It was massively dangerous either way and highlights exactly why women need access to safe, legal abortion.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 29/01/2024 11:38

Don’t they see that people drop out at specific points?

Emotionalsupportviper · 29/01/2024 11:37

HoneyButterPopcorn · 29/01/2024 09:51

Shedunnit went the same way so I have up in that.

Why do they have to ruin every bloody thing that is just for women?

Yep. I was pissed off about this, too. Shame because I really enjoyed it and have had some brilliant reads from it.

Emotionalsupportviper · 29/01/2024 11:36

I've been really enjoying the podcast - I listen at bedtime and sometimes during the night as I have terrible insomnia - but I got to this point and like you, thought "WHAT!?"

Didn't listen to the rest.

RethinkingLife · 29/01/2024 10:42

I feel like this about exhibitions that are supposed to be about women. Not only are the notes to the side tedious and semi-hectoring rather than educational, they're very rarely actually about women.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 29/01/2024 09:51

Shedunnit went the same way so I have up in that.

Why do they have to ruin every bloody thing that is just for women?

Yesnosorryplease · 28/01/2024 23:41

I had the same reaction. Was out running and actually stopped I was so cross at one point. The usual hyperbole was trotted out with the predictable "gosh, that's SO awful" response...I eye rolled hard.

If felt very jarring and out of step with other episodes. It felt very much like a point was being forcibly made.

Other episodes have been so thoughtful, and nuanced, and compassionate. I really enjoyed the episode with Kate Mosse where they discussed whether women who have done heinous things should be remembered, despite their crimes. KM made an incredibly valid point that history is all typically about remembering men, always, and never limited by whether they were good or socially acceptable. Women are 50% of the population and should be given equal weight in the history books, and that should not mean they are sifted out if they fell short in some way.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 16/01/2024 23:09

I think this was the last series where there was a crime where a lesbian was murdered. Some fool came on and banged on about how she was murdered because of her ‘gender identity’. FFS

redpickle · 16/01/2024 21:29

I skipped that bit too. Apart from anything it really jarred anyway (in terms of sound, ambience and voice) and didn't fit, felt crow-barred in!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 16/01/2024 16:38

#28 Forbidden Love

Overall it's not as interesting as the others because it lacks their depth. Basically two girls were at school together & then one has an obsessive love for the other & kills her. I was listening while doing something else & had difficulty remembering which girl was which!

Milange · 16/01/2024 16:19

Which episode is it? So I know which one to skip!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 16/01/2024 15:47

Quite what a man has to tell us about lesbian invisibility,I don't know,as I skipped forward until I got back to the historical discussion again.

Oh, thank goodness it wasn't just me who did that!😂

This episode was so disappointing. There were interesting things they could've gone into (e.g. the obsessive nature of teenage love, or how lesbians actually coped in those days with the expectation that they'd marry a man).

When it sticks to the topic, this is an excellent programme. I already knew some of the cases, but the background information/wider discussion was always interesting or thought-provoking - or in the case of the escaping enslaved woman, heart-rending & anger-inducing.

I hope there'll be another series, & I hope it gets back on track.

Feckedupbundle · 16/01/2024 15:22

I'm glad that it wasn't just me being over sensitive about it. I just wonder whether Lucy,whom I normally enjoy listening to,didn't spot the obvious issue with a man pretending to be a woman,mansplaining lesbianism to the audience. It really jarred with me.
Royal corgi I remember that Australian one too. Again, I found it incongruous and bizarre that the editors thought that those juxtapositions were suitable. Very odd.

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