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Girls "left at mercy" of grooming gangs in Rochdale, England because of failings by senior police and council bosses, damning report says

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DerekFaker · 15/01/2024 10:22

No surprise to anyone on here, I would guess. Those poor girls.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-67967919

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Police left children at mercy of grooming gangs in Rochdale, report says

A review criticises a series of failed investigations by Greater Manchester Police in Rochdale.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-67967919

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1dayatatime · 15/01/2024 20:08

SidewaysOtter · 15/01/2024 10:52

It’s all very well saying sorry, but WHY did this happen? Were the girls ignored because of their backgrounds (troubled and /or poorer backgrounds), or because they were female? Or did no-one want to point a finger at the perpetrators for fear of being called racist for acknowledging their attitudes to women and girls?

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This is what I came on to ask as well.

These poor girls were ignored by the police and social workers - why?

If we can't answer this question then the problem is / will just continue to be brushed under the carpet.

I don't want to read about another case of child grooming gangs in another city in another 12 months all because it's in the too difficult / too delicate to deal with box.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/01/2024 19:59

pickledandpuzzled · 15/01/2024 19:38

@Naptrappedmummy while I don’t entirely disagree, to say this is the fault of family dysfunction again blames the girls for their vulnerability rather than the predators who spot them.

They have an inadequate shark cage, yes.

Girls coming from a chaotic or dysfunctional family are MORE in need of protection IMO because they don't have the backup, family support or their own sense of what's appropriate and what isn't; what they shouldn't have is their background being used against them.

ScrollingLeaves · 15/01/2024 19:54

I saw it = vouch it was brilliant and could have been the spur for Andy Burnham.
I have not seen ‘Betrayed’ so cannot know.

ScrollingLeaves · 15/01/2024 19:51

JayAlfredPrufrock · 15/01/2024 17:38

And sadly there have already been several tv programmes based on these happenings but they haven’t spurred anyone into action 🤔

I think I heard this morning that Andy Burnham commissioned this report because of age brilliant BBC drama ‘Three Girls’ (I saw it), or perhaps it was because of www.imdb.com/title/tt7120578/ ’Betrayed’.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b08rgd5n#:~:text=Three%2Dpart%20drama%20based%20on,and%20sexual%20abuse%20in%20Rochdale.

www.imdb.com/title/tt7120578/

BBC One - Three Girls

Drama based on the true stories of victims of grooming and sexual abuse in Rochdale.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b08rgd5n#:~:text=Three%2Dpart%20drama%20based%20on,and%20sexual%20abuse%20in%20Rochdale.

pickledandpuzzled · 15/01/2024 19:38

@Naptrappedmummy while I don’t entirely disagree, to say this is the fault of family dysfunction again blames the girls for their vulnerability rather than the predators who spot them.

They have an inadequate shark cage, yes.

Naptrappedmummy · 15/01/2024 19:32

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/01/2024 19:29

Spoken like a victim blamer who has no idea about grooming.Hmm

Sorry how is that ‘victim blaming’? It’s blaming everyone who should be blamed - everyone who had responsibility for these girls who ultimately didn’t stop this from happening.

JanesLittleGirl · 15/01/2024 19:30

Crouton19 · 15/01/2024 19:17

I agree with every comment here. Fury is not a strong enough word, nor is rage. These girls didnt stand a chance. I hope they are able to heel in some small way, bit by bit.

I don't feel fury or rage. I feel a deep, cold anger towards the police and and social workers who happily enabled this.

TooBigForMyBoots · 15/01/2024 19:29

Naptrappedmummy · 15/01/2024 19:20

The root of the problem is very usually dysfunctionality at home. Well adjusted, cared for children don’t tend to end up in situations where this grooming can take place and men twice their age seem like a good choice of company. Very usually they’re sadly trying to escape something and end up in their clutches. It needs to be a root and branch approach, IMO

Spoken like a victim blamer who has no idea about grooming.Hmm

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/01/2024 19:28

Weren't some of these girls from homes where they were cared for and there was was no apparent dysfunction? sure I can recall reading that.

Naptrappedmummy · 15/01/2024 19:20

mommatoone · 15/01/2024 19:18

Unless you know the families of these girls, i suggest you keep your opinions on how they were raised to yourself. And i think you are missing the point of the term 'grooming'.

The root of the problem is very usually dysfunctionality at home. Well adjusted, cared for children don’t tend to end up in situations where this grooming can take place and men twice their age seem like a good choice of company. Very usually they’re sadly trying to escape something and end up in their clutches. It needs to be a root and branch approach, IMO

mommatoone · 15/01/2024 19:18

Naptrappedmummy · 15/01/2024 19:12

I also blame the parents of the girls (if not in the care system). It’s your essential job to protect your children, and they didn’t.

Edit: in addition to the police of course, I just think that parents if present should also be held to account.

Edited

Unless you know the families of these girls, i suggest you keep your opinions on how they were raised to yourself. And i think you are missing the point of the term 'grooming'.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 15/01/2024 19:18

Wheee do we even begin with this?

Crouton19 · 15/01/2024 19:17

I agree with every comment here. Fury is not a strong enough word, nor is rage. These girls didnt stand a chance. I hope they are able to heel in some small way, bit by bit.

RethinkingLife · 15/01/2024 19:16

Tallisker · 15/01/2024 13:25

Yes, CrowBlack, the powers that be had the mindset that the young teenage girls were saucy little madams who knew exactly what they were doing with their feminine wiles leading the men on. They weren't and they didn't. They were CHILDREN.

From previous discussions, isn't there a common theme of premature adultification for working class and/or Black girls? Like the defence of child prostitution somebody recently quoted ('the little madams know what they're doing and make a good living') as an argument that turned up in the then Hansard-recorded discussions about raising the age of consent in the late C19.

It reflects culturally rooted projections and fantasies of premature sexualisation and even hypersexualisation.

Of course, there are other views that would characterise mine as sex negative.

  • produces a ‘scary futurology’ (Smith, 2010), with an overemphasis on protectionism, victimisation and objectification;
  • neglects girls’ sexual agency, rights and pleasure (including how the eroticisation of innocence features in girls’ own sexual subjectification practices);
  • renews enduring binaries of active, predatory male sexuality versus passive, non-agentic female sexuality (where girls’ sexuality is always risky/at risk);
  • encourages either/or position-taking among stakeholders between sexual empowerment and pleasure versus sexual danger and protectionism;
  • legitimises a heteronormative and linear developmental trajectory of ‘healthy’ female heterosexuality;
  • operates as a white middle class panic over the desire for and loss of a raced and classed sexual innocence, and thus reproduces the othering of working class/racialised cultures as evidence of hyper-sexuality…

Renold, E., & Ringrose, J. (2013). Feminisms re-figuring ‘sexualisation’, sexuality and ‘the girl’. Feminist Theory, 14(3), 247-254. https://doi.org/10.1177/1464700113499531

Naptrappedmummy · 15/01/2024 19:12

CrowBlack · 15/01/2024 10:38

I blame the police because they knew for years and did nothing, thereby emboldening the abusers who did this in plain sight .

I also blame the parents of the girls (if not in the care system). It’s your essential job to protect your children, and they didn’t.

Edit: in addition to the police of course, I just think that parents if present should also be held to account.

okthenwhat · 15/01/2024 19:05

A while ago I heard a quote about this type of thing. I wish I could remember who said it and where but it always comes to mind when I read a news story about CSE in towns and cities in the UK.

A campaigner said they were discussing a grooming gangs with a senior figure for child protection who said:

"We don't have a problem with grooming gangs, we have a problem with child prostitues."

lordloveadog · 15/01/2024 18:57

Sharon that's appalling to read and it must be agony for you.

duc748 · 15/01/2024 18:40

Plenty of coverage on the TV news tonight. Let's hope it reaches a critical mass where things actually start to happen. It's taken long enough.

mommatoone · 15/01/2024 18:16

@Sharontheodopolodous - I am truly sorry to read this about your relative. But i want to say thankyou for sharing your story, and highlighting the depravity that is happening RIGHT NOW. This is real life, with real victims. These girls are passed round from pillar to post by men who are operating right under the nose of the authorities. I don't know what the answer is, other than people in power need to be held accoutable. Like fuck that will happen. In the meantime, lets hope Maggie Oliver continues to do her fantastic work and these young girls have somewhere to turn.

Lalgarh · 15/01/2024 17:55

Sharontheodopolodous · 15/01/2024 16:24

It's disgusting

I tried to phone her sw and was told to 'go away'

They know full well what's going on but don't care

I was told she's 'made her choices' (!), 'knows what she's doing' (!) and is a 'naughty little minx' (so let's blame her for her own abuse and brainwashing-if you ask her,she's just dating her boyfriend and the world is wrong about him)

She's 14/15! (I'm not 100% sure when her birthday is)

At that age I was struggling with my homework,trying (and failing) to find a boyfriend,babysitting for cash and trying to work out what make-up suited me

She's been raped every fucking day,plied with god knows how much booze and drugs and everyone who is paid to protect her,is turning a blind eye and doing nothing as she's a kid who was born on the 'wrong side of the tracks' (not my words)

She deserves so much more-and she is just one girl-it's much deeper than her and a lot more widespread than the police,ss and the media would have you believe

And nobody is doing anything-and what has have been done,is only because of pressure from the public

Believe me,a lot more needs doing

I'm really sorry @Sharontheodopolodous .

By the way this is the Maggie Oliver foundation

https://www.themaggieoliverfoundation.com/

JayAlfredPrufrock · 15/01/2024 17:38

And sadly there have already been several tv programmes based on these happenings but they haven’t spurred anyone into action 🤔

PatatiPatatras · 15/01/2024 16:53

Teenagers being told they have the competence to make full adult decision irrespective of eventual harm. 🙄

This should be a once in a generation story and it should not repeat itself.

For that we'd need to know why it happened and why the shouting nagging puritanical women who didn't understand sex positivity were not listened to.

I feel like we'll never know neither one nor the other.

Big thanks to these women who fought a fight I just can't seem to manage.

"Everything being done now, should have been done then. All it would have taken is the right people actually giving a damn."
.....

"I am angry that not one senior officer or official has ever been held individually responsible for these failures, lies and cover ups."

Blanket601 · 15/01/2024 16:51

And even now, the BBC do not write in their report WHY the failing was so big. Because the police were afraid of being labelled racist. When the fact remained it was ‘certain groups of men’ who were proliferating the hideous crimes.
That situation is even worse today. Women gave fewer rights and less visibility than we did then.

Rainbowshit · 15/01/2024 16:45

I am so angry. The police just do not care about females. It's shameful.

BorgQueen · 15/01/2024 16:41

It was ( probably still is) happening around Stoke when DD started her 1st Teaching job. A stream of Asian Men in cars at hometime picking Girls up. The fact that there was a resident Police officer at the school due to the gangs problem didn’t seem to deter them. One of many reasons why DD left there after 2 years, everyone just shrugged their shoulders.