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What does GC gender critical mean?

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Itsholly · 07/01/2024 08:07

What do you determine the definition of this term?

Is it a relatively new term, my understanding is that it means you are critical of gender - so if someone is born male and identifies as a different gender, say a woman, then I would be gender critical if I was critical of this particular circumstance?

Is it against the law or rules at work to openly admit you are gender critical? I mean, I am, but can I outwardly say I am?

Also - is gender critical what a trans person may refer to as a terf? Like, is it the same thing?

Thanks

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Longlazyday · 08/01/2024 12:54

I like to keep definitions simple.

To a trans-man - set a reminder for cervical screening.

To a trans-woman : make sure you check your prostrate.

I’m not gender-critical. I believe in safe spaces for people- sex based, religious. Rather than the binary categories imposed by organisations such as Stonewall.

ChateauMargaux · 08/01/2024 12:46

Terf is a trans exclusionary radical feminist.

From wikipedia:
Radical feminists view society fundamentally as a patriarchy in which men dominate and oppress women. Radical feminists seek to abolish the patriarchy in a struggle to liberate women and girls from a perceivedly unjust society by challenging existing social norms and institutions. This struggle includes opposing the sexual objectification of women, raising public awareness about such issues as rape and other violence against women, challenging the concept of gender roles, and challenging what radical feminists see as a racialized and gendered capitalism that characterizes the United States and many other countries.

Personally, I do not believe that share of voice, money and power between males and females is unequally held because of any gender expression, I believe it is because of sex. Neither do I believe that share of voice, money and power should be determined based on either sex or gender expression.

Every human should be free to dress how they please and not be discriminated against on the basis of how they present themselves. Roles, behaviours and other social expectations should not be categorised based on sex or gender, beyond biologically imposed functions around reproduction and lactation.

Until women have equal representation, share of voice, influence, money and power, I believe we cannot loose sight of the fundamental determining factor that divides those likely to have more power from those who do not and I believe that factor to be sex and not gender expression.

I do not believe that women as a class can opt out of their oppression and instead, as a class we should continue to challenge the structures that continue to entrench the differences between the sexes.

My feminism is not defined by gender but my sex class is impacted by the concept of gender roles, by misogynistic opinions, by patriarchal structures in society, by sexual objectification and sex based violence.

The fact that other people, including men, are the subject of poverty, sexual violence and marginalisation is important but is not relevant to my feminism.

Patriarchy - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patriarchy

honeysuckleweeks · 08/01/2024 01:49

theilltemperedclavecinist · 07/01/2024 14:02

I don't mind trans people. They are what they are, and to the extent they disagree with me (and not all of them do) about the contentious areas, I think they are protecting themselves psychologically.

It's the others that bug me. The public sector, charities, the media. Young people. John Oliver FFS. They are so tenacious and impossible to debate with. Why?

Yeah why is John Oliver so proTRA? Weird. He used to make sense . Now he doesn't

IwantToRetire · 07/01/2024 23:42

I would like to make clear that as a resolute second waver, I also want pockets.

I can endorse that statement!

IwantToRetire · 07/01/2024 23:41

As said up thread the posts in response have set me thinking.

But also might explain that if the shorthand of "gender critical" has effectively cut that term off from its true origins (women as a sex class) it might explain why every now and again someone will say why has this topic been posted on the gender critical forum.

For those of use who subconsciously see GC as being part of women's liberation as a whole it is obvious that an issue specifically for women would be on what is after all the Feminism and Women's Rights forum.

But for others who have come to this after the phrase got separated from its origins, these parallel issues must appear strange because they are presumably seeing gender critical as being some sort of single issue campaign.

Funny they always used to say that the USA and the UK are two countries separated by a common language, and now it would seem that we might be having discussions on feminism where words and phrases dont have a common meaning or source.

Are we going to have to footnote our posts to provide clarification on the words we use and the links we think they have.?!

(For instance on the thread about the lesbian civil servant who got reprimanded it turns out Kool Aid signifies very different things, some say Merry Pranksters, some say Jamestown. Kool Aid being one of the phrases she was reprimanded for.)

NoBinturongsHereMate · 07/01/2024 23:26

FKAT · 07/01/2024 17:38

I only use "gender critical" rarely - when I need a quick short-hand to describe in general individuals, groups and thought that disagree with gender ideology and hold there are 2 sexes but have nothing else in common. So if I was talking about public figures like Ricky Gervais or Piers Morgan I would say 'gc' because obvs neither are feminists or women's rights campaigners.

I don't use it for myself as I find it a bit of a cringe term (like Baby Led Weaning) for individuals. I think 'gc feminist' is redundant but I understand why we use the phrase to distinguises ourselves from the Lib Fem "dresses with pockets" variety.

I would like to make clear that as a resolute second waver, I also want pockets.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 07/01/2024 23:22

at that time it was virtually an insult to say you were a woman (some sort of low life female) whereas you could be a lady or a girl!

This has made me think about the difference between 'ladylike' and 'womanly'.

IwantToRetire · 07/01/2024 20:42

In fact the term gender critical is as already said a shortened media friendly way of talking about gender critical feminism.

But in fact "gender critical feminism" is the watered down version of 70s feminism, ie Women's Liberation, because it effectively moves away from, allows people not to talk about the reality of women's oppression / discrimination which is her sex.

In other words feminism or women's liberation is recognising that women are a sex class oppressed by the male sex class. Included in that isof course gender stereo typing. But even if somehow gender stereotypes were got rid of women would still continue to be opressed because of their sex.

Sometimes its worth remembering (and the posts of here have reminded me) that the media helps corrupt and misdirect by it use of words.

So talking about or referring to being "gender critical" is in fact as much part of the deliberate masking of the reality of sex which TRAs (with the help of MRAs) instituted when newspapers stopped reporting someone's sex but started talking about their gender.

So in a sense, using the phrase gender critical is effectively having had our own words taken away from us, to undermine the reality of what we are up against.

ie that women are oppressed because of of their sex. not because of their gender (whether stereotypes or femininity, etc).

So this thread has made me think in using or being swayed into using the phrase "gender critical" have we in fact been captured. ie succumbed to the trans agenda that sex and gender are interchangeable.

Identifying as a "terf" is just a way of taking back what is intended as a slur and wearing it as a badge of honour.

Funny to think that back in the 70s it was radical to reclaim the word "woman" hence women's liberation, because at that time it was virtually an insult to say you were a woman (some sort of low life female) whereas you could be a lady or a girl!

So does this mean to identify as gender critical means we have been subconsciously subverted.

😲

Datun · 07/01/2024 19:36

So if you then think about this on the next level. If it’s ok for men to wear dresses and makeup then maybe they would be happy doing so without feeling the need to say they’re a woman?

Ah, but therein lies the rub. If a man can't use a stereotype to say he's a woman, then he's just a man in dress.

CormorantStrikesBack · 07/01/2024 19:25

In my mind it’s not having gender stereotypes. So thinking women can be train drivers, men can like knitting, women can enjoy DIY, men can wear nail varnish and skirts if they want, boys can play with doll houses, women don’t have to be stereotypically feminine…..just some examples.

So I dislike stuff like “pirate and princess parties”. Because the insinuation is that boys will be pirates and girls will be princesses. Yes of course a girl could go as a pirate but then why not have Prince, princess and pirate parties.

So if you then think about this on the next level. If it’s ok for men to wear dresses and makeup then maybe they would be happy doing so without feeling the need to say they’re a woman? Because anyone can do anything as there are no stereotypes? Because let’s face it someone saying “I feel like a woman” is a gender stereotype. What are women supposed to feel like? Do ALL women feel the same? And this is where gender stereotypes become dangerous. Because if you have someone who doesn’t fit a mainstream stereotype then they feel there is something wrong. We should celebrate individuals rather than trying to categorise the whole human race into two boxes.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/01/2024 19:15

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 18:50

Would it help if the medical professionals didn't or perhaps were forbidden to do anything about people that want to change sex? Except perhaps for some mental health guidance if needed or education that what they are feeling isn't that they are in the wrong body but something else?

I don't know - it does seem there are some genuinely dysphoric people who find relief from the various treatments,

But it should be made clear that there is no such thing as a 'sex change'. A man can't ever become a woman or vice versa. The newer terminology 'gender affirming surgery' is actually less inaccurate.

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 18:50

Would it help if the medical professionals didn't or perhaps were forbidden to do anything about people that want to change sex? Except perhaps for some mental health guidance if needed or education that what they are feeling isn't that they are in the wrong body but something else?

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Datun · 07/01/2024 17:49

Yes lots of people disagree with the ideology on several different fronts.

Sport is one. You've got loads of people who would never consider themself feminist who can easily see the inherent unfairness in men competing as women.

Or sending rapists into women's prisons to access incarcerated women.

There's hardly a person on the planet who would think that was okay. You don't have to be a feminist.

I don't think they would call themselves gender critical, or gender critical feminists.

But they do, quite clearly disagree with the ideology anyway.

I agree with it on that basis too, of course. But also the sexism of deciding that a man could be a woman on any basis other than biology.

it's a biological distinction. The same in any other mammal.

Helen Joyce says that when she says this, people hear something else. They hear therefore, women should be nurturing, supportive, or some other social role. Something that makes them secondary, or inferior.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 07/01/2024 17:45

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 15:42

I think when you say why are we talking about this again it demonstrates how far forward thinking the people on this board are. Unfortunately many, including myself, have taken a while to come around to this way of thinking and to really appreciate the heaviness of this subject. It was the thread about the gym changing rooms and some of the posts identifying all the things wrong with the gym approach that got me thinking more deeply about it.

I browsed this board and saw GC a lot and the presence of terf as a term and was trying to work out what category I fit into based on my own thoughts of the subject matter.

So when you say oh this again or feel like the same old basic question pops up time and time again, please try to have a little patience with us that are just catching up.

Not dissing you for not being up to speed. Frustrated because this has been going on such a long time and it's not fixed yet!

ditalini · 07/01/2024 17:39

This is an example that's similar (from the sadly banned gender critical subreddit).

What does GC gender critical mean?
FKAT · 07/01/2024 17:38

I only use "gender critical" rarely - when I need a quick short-hand to describe in general individuals, groups and thought that disagree with gender ideology and hold there are 2 sexes but have nothing else in common. So if I was talking about public figures like Ricky Gervais or Piers Morgan I would say 'gc' because obvs neither are feminists or women's rights campaigners.

I don't use it for myself as I find it a bit of a cringe term (like Baby Led Weaning) for individuals. I think 'gc feminist' is redundant but I understand why we use the phrase to distinguises ourselves from the Lib Fem "dresses with pockets" variety.

Datun · 07/01/2024 17:36

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 17:05

@Datun

Thank you for your very articulate and logical post. It's really helpful. I feel all of what you have said but I'm not as good at explaining it in words.

Yes, you feel it, because you are living it. You know to be true, but you haven't got the context to describe it.

Nor did I.

I describe it as late onset feminism!

That's how it felt to me. It's highly contagious.

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 17:24

@ditalini your description is spot on.

I was having a conversation with someone whose relative was going through a thing where they were living as a girl, although born as a boy. This is a minor.

I had to ask what does that mean???? I'm still baffled by this.

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ditalini · 07/01/2024 17:17

There used to be a nice infographic using stick figures that articulated my beliefs re: gender critical but I can't find it any more.

Basically it was:

Socially conservative people believe that you should have preferences/personality (gender) based on your body (sex) (ie female = pink and sparkly)

TRAs believe that your preferences/personality determines your body (ie pink and sparkly = female)

GC feminists don't believe that preferences/personality have anything to do with your sexed body. Men and women can both like/hate/be indifferent to pink and sparkly.

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 17:05

@Datun

Thank you for your very articulate and logical post. It's really helpful. I feel all of what you have said but I'm not as good at explaining it in words.

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Datun · 07/01/2024 16:58

@Itsholly The saying is that women are oppressed because of their biology, and gender is the way it's done.

And in feminism, gender did indeed mean damaging stereotypes.

You have to remember that until the 1970s women weren't allowed to have their own mortgages because they were considered financially unreliable. Prior to that they weren't allowed to be educated at university, because education was what men did, while women stay in the kitchen or raise children. Rape within marriage was perfectly legal until 1991, because it's women's role to supply sex on demand, even when they don't want to.

All these things will be considered gender stereotyping. Women must do this, whilst men must do that.

And it's imposed by society.

It's obviously not innate that women can't handle money, responsibility and power, but even now, you will get many men who are quite happy to say they can't.

So of course the term 'gender critical feminist' is almost a tautology. You can't be a feminist without being critical of gender.

Trans ideology cements gender. It says if a man thinks a certain way, he must be a woman, because that's how women think. Or if he feels a certain way, or dresses a certain way.

The entire ideology relies on the sexism of underpinning the stereotype boxes. This is what women do, and this is what men do.

Look at every single child whose parents claim is trans, and you will hear how the boy wants to wear a tutu, or the girl didn't like to wear dresses. All gender stereotyping. And all sexist.

A lot of people think it's just now an all encompassing term for people who disagree with the ideology because it is detrimental to women. But that's the origin of the term.

Women are oppressed because of their biology, and gender is the means by which it's done - don't give them a bank account, don't give them a mortgage, don't educate them, make them have unconsenting sex.

That was then.

Now we've got take all their awards, represent them on shortlists and in businesses, so they are unrepresented, take away their sport, take away their spaces.

And even their name.

Meet the new boss, same as the old boss...

Helleofabore · 07/01/2024 16:54

Why do you need to label yourself?

You could settle for a person who prioritises sex over gender when sex matters for the needs of women and children.

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 16:40

So should I say I'm a second wave feminist?

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ErrolTheDragon · 07/01/2024 16:21

There's a Venn diagram which can be useful for understanding this - the real 'gender critical' position is what's labelled '2nd wave feminism'.

Transactivists either ignorantly or wilfully confuse GC with the conservatives/religious mindset but it's very different.

What does GC gender critical mean?
JanesLittleGirl · 07/01/2024 15:45

Itsholly · 07/01/2024 15:36

This is really helpful history of the term and interesting that you consider it now meaningless.

I feel that terf is also not the correct term to describe my views.

Perhaps a brand new term is needed or maybe there is another term that I am not familiar with which fits my beliefs. (That trans people are more than welcome to go about their own life as they see fit, wearing what they like and being with who they like in a relationship- but absolutely not encroaching into women's spaces or sport - that is where my personal line is drawn.)

There is a term to describe your beliefs: normal.