Page 3 | Dating as a TERF

TERFisTHEnewTREND · 2023-12-14T19:39:17+00:00

I'm a 34 year old female. I'm currently dating via Tinder. When the gender issue has come up and I've mentioned that I'm a TERF, a lot of men have disengaged from me. I once went on three dates with a man, we got on great, and then when I mentioned my views on gender ideology, he ghosted me after! Do you mention your stance up front or do you wait? I don't want to date anyone who thinks humans can change sex, is it worth stating this on my profile? Any help/ advice/ insights appreciated.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 17/12/2023 20:13

You first @Hii93 What provable things have you done to support women of the actual biological kind to preserve their rights and single sex spaces?

MargotBamborough · 17/12/2023 20:12

Hii93 · 17/12/2023 20:00

I am engaging in good faith but I guess you think that the LGBT community can't call out people who claim to be for them but participate on threads like this.

Trans people are being used as the gateway to the rest of the LGBT community. They attack trans people so that they can go after the LGBT community.

If you can't see that and you are happy to keep on doing this you don't support the LGBT community.

But let's put good faith to the test and give me examples of provable things you have done for the LGBT community

Some of the people you are talking about ARE lesbian or bi.

The reality is that there is no such thing as the "LGBT community".

It's not a community.

There are people who are same sex attracted and people who have gender identities and sometimes their interests are diametrically opposed.

DissidentDaughter · 17/12/2023 20:00

@Waitwhat23 Indeed.

I’m all for freedom of belief/expression, but not when critical thinking is abandoned and cult dogma undermines hard-won rights, distorts the principles of safeguarding etc.

The tide is, albeit slowly, turning.

Hii93 · 17/12/2023 20:00

I am engaging in good faith but I guess you think that the LGBT community can't call out people who claim to be for them but participate on threads like this.

Trans people are being used as the gateway to the rest of the LGBT community. They attack trans people so that they can go after the LGBT community.

If you can't see that and you are happy to keep on doing this you don't support the LGBT community.

But let's put good faith to the test and give me examples of provable things you have done for the LGBT community

Waitwhat23 · 17/12/2023 19:13

DissidentDaughter · 17/12/2023 18:48

It must be exhausting trying to convince women to buy into what is, essentially, unhinged nonsense.

… and always failing 😂

Put simply, it's entitled men (and dick panderers) trying to make others chant their religious dogma.

Froodwithatowel · 17/12/2023 19:11

It isn't the group love, it's the behaviour.

The fuckwitteryphobia and rejection of male supremacism is entirely equal opportunity and applied to all males regardless of sex, gender, race, ability, creed or anything else you care to name.

Catiette · 17/12/2023 19:00

Definition of hatred: “extreme dislike or disgust; ill will or resentment… prejudice.”

PP: “Repulsive.” “Awful.” “Bigotry.” “Disgusting.”

The only post I remember reading that shows the strength of unreasoned dislike that constitutes “hatred” is here.

Riapia · 17/12/2023 18:56

Proud to be a terf.

MargotBamborough · 17/12/2023 18:54

nothingcomestonothing · 17/12/2023 18:51

Privileged white males aren't a minority group, thanks for dropping in though.

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The ones who think they are entitled to be in women's spaces are a minority, thankfully, but not an oppressed one.

nothingcomestonothing · 17/12/2023 18:51

Ronathediva13 · 17/12/2023 17:07

Oh I’ve read the thread. I’m just very glad I don’t share the OP’s repulsive views. There are some equally awful people in the responses. Hatred of a minority group is bigotry. That so many of you are proud of your stance is disgusting.

Privileged white males aren't a minority group, thanks for dropping in though.

DissidentDaughter · 17/12/2023 18:48

It must be exhausting trying to convince women to buy into what is, essentially, unhinged nonsense.

… and always failing 😂

MsRosley · 17/12/2023 18:40

Waitwhat23 · 17/12/2023 12:35

I love a meme.

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Thank you so much! I was going nuts trying to find it.

DialSquare · 17/12/2023 18:40

So it seems Margot.

No virtue in it.

bellinisurge · 17/12/2023 18:34

This is a piss take, right?

MargotBamborough · 17/12/2023 18:23

DialSquare · 17/12/2023 18:00

They always mention minority groups but couldn't give a shit about the women from minority groups that will be excluded from their own single sex spaces once males are in them.

Not those minority groups.

It's not fashionable to care about them.

EmpressaurusOfCats · 17/12/2023 18:22

I’m currently doing weights at the gym 3 mornings a week to build muscle mass. And now I find out I can become more massive just from this thread.

MargotBamborough · 17/12/2023 18:21

Ronathediva13 · 17/12/2023 17:07

Oh I’ve read the thread. I’m just very glad I don’t share the OP’s repulsive views. There are some equally awful people in the responses. Hatred of a minority group is bigotry. That so many of you are proud of your stance is disgusting.

We don't hate trans people, we just recognise the importance and existence of other groups too. Other humans, who are not trans, and also have rights.

That's what trans activists appear to be objecting to.

Helleofabore · 17/12/2023 18:20

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2023 18:15

Do massive MN bigots like massive MN salads?

I’d say they often like word salads, eresh.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/12/2023 18:15

Do massive MN bigots like massive MN salads?

DialSquare · 17/12/2023 18:00

They always mention minority groups but couldn't give a shit about the women from minority groups that will be excluded from their own single sex spaces once males are in them.

Creampies · 17/12/2023 17:57

I’m so glad the TRAs are reading this thread. It might be the start of them peaking. I must say I thought the same as them until I realised the ramifications for women’s rights and safeguarding

ArthurbellaScott · 17/12/2023 17:57

Rona's position is they hates us and we all smell, I believe.

ApocalipstickNow · 17/12/2023 17:53

Please stay and explain your position, eh?

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 17/12/2023 17:52

Ronathediva13 · 17/12/2023 17:07

Oh I’ve read the thread. I’m just very glad I don’t share the OP’s repulsive views. There are some equally awful people in the responses. Hatred of a minority group is bigotry. That so many of you are proud of your stance is disgusting.

Who said they hated anyone? What repulsive views? Come on, at least TRY and make it make sense.

Helleofabore · 17/12/2023 17:49

Ronathediva13 · 17/12/2023 17:07

Oh I’ve read the thread. I’m just very glad I don’t share the OP’s repulsive views. There are some equally awful people in the responses. Hatred of a minority group is bigotry. That so many of you are proud of your stance is disgusting.

Excellent. Another mindless follower of indoctrinated thinking.

Readers, you are getting so many examples in this thread. So many posters just turning up and declaring everyone is haters, bigoted and gosh, disgusting ! All without engaging with what is bigoted and disgusting about what has been posted. Because shaming women is still as acceptable today as it was decades ago. This is what ‘progress’ looks like to some people.

Progress. Wonderful isn’t it?