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It's started in Irish dancing too. 14 year old trans child wins world qualifying event

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Greyheart1 · 11/12/2023 23:32

https://tennesseestar.com/news/parents-outraged-after-trans-identifying-boy-wins-girls-irish-dancing-competition-heads-to-worlds/admin/2023/12/10/

This means that the girl outside the qualifying spots in the U14 competition has missed out on her chance to dance at the world championships next year.
Devestating. It is an extremely expensive sport.

Parents Outraged After Trans-Identifying Boy Wins Girls' Irish Dancing Competition, Heads to Worlds - Tennessee Star

A teenage boy who identifies as a girl is heading to the Irish Dancing World Championships after placing first in the U14 2023 Southern Region Oireachtas competitions.

https://tennesseestar.com/news/parents-outraged-after-trans-identifying-boy-wins-girls-irish-dancing-competition-heads-to-worlds/admin/2023/12/10

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Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 11:28

Even if you compare your own feet to a mans there's a huge difference. My foot is an average size 5, it's narrow with a nice arch..
Hubbys is size 13 with really long chubby toes, his foot shape is flat & his feet are really wide. We joke his feet are like flippers! He'd end up in a&e if he ever attempted to go en pointe!
My 11 year old son has inherited hubby's feet!

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 13/12/2023 11:26

Things have changed almost beyond recognition. DP's sisters were all champion Irish dancers, one of them won the Worlds 4 times. So a big thing in his family. In the 80's there was a lot of fake tan and nights spent in curlers. DP's dad used to draw Celtic designs on the dress fabric in chalk and his mum embroidered them. This was seen as quite elaborate. By the time his niece started dancing, the girls wore huge Lily Savage wigs, drag style make up and the dresses were professionally made and cost up to £2000. The cost of travelling is insane too.

That change is incredibly sad.

Webex · 13/12/2023 11:09

No it's male foot structure is different to the female one

That's so interesting! I have to admit I have always assumed the reason that men don't do it in ballet is that generally people care less if young women damage themselves in the pursuit of beauty/ elegance. Off to do some reading!

Tessisme · 13/12/2023 11:04

YetAnotherSpartacus · 12/12/2023 09:10

Off-topic but my childhood friend was an Irish dancer (Irish Catholic) and there was minimal make-up, no wigs (!!) and hand-me-down costumes and
a swap-shop. I do remember her being very excited about a fake 70s tan because her pantyhose kept falling down though!

Have things changed?

Things have changed almost beyond recognition. DP's sisters were all champion Irish dancers, one of them won the Worlds 4 times. So a big thing in his family. In the 80's there was a lot of fake tan and nights spent in curlers. DP's dad used to draw Celtic designs on the dress fabric in chalk and his mum embroidered them. This was seen as quite elaborate. By the time his niece started dancing, the girls wore huge Lily Savage wigs, drag style make up and the dresses were professionally made and cost up to £2000. The cost of travelling is insane too.

SabrinaThwaite · 13/12/2023 10:46

Thanks @AlecTrevelyan006 I heard an article on R4 a while ago on this topic - one of the Lionesses was finally getting boots made to fit her feet rather than small men’s off-the-shelf boots.

I think Emma Hayes was also pretty vocal about the difference in women’s physiology when she was on Woman’s Hour back in the summer.

SabrinaThwaite · 13/12/2023 10:38

Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 10:27

@Webex 😂 lamo at the way you phrased that!
No it's male foot structure is different to the female one so how safe are toes for men from a h&s & insurance point of view?

Yes! Yet another case of “women are not just scaled down men”. It has taken the football boot industry a long time to realise that women’s feet are a completely different shape to men’s feet. Women’s ankle joints also tend to have a wider range of motion than men’s.

Add in different pelvic structures and you can see that women move in an entirely different way to men.

Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 10:27

@Webex 😂 lamo at the way you phrased that!
No it's male foot structure is different to the female one so how safe are toes for men from a h&s & insurance point of view?

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Webex · 13/12/2023 10:21

The power & stamina will be an advantage & look impressive in the girls comps. Toework however will be needed which as discussed above could be dangerous for males.

Is it a weight thing you're worried about? Looking at the pictures there look to be girls that weigh more than that lad so I would imagine he can do the pointe stuff as safely as the girls. There are obese dancers who manage.

Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 09:48

@ElaineMBenes Thanks, I didn't know that, that would make sense with the different type of reel shoes the boys have.

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ElaineMBenes · 13/12/2023 09:43

@Greyheart1 Boys reels are very different to a girls reel....boys will include fast spins, stamps, clicks etc.
Once my kids get out of primary the boys and girls are taught very different steps and styles, particularly in light dances.

Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 09:42

ElaineMBenes · 13/12/2023 09:34

@Greyheart1 I saw that. The other U14 places highly at the worlds too so is clearly a better dancer.......

@ElaineMBenes now the school has champions in the U14 boy & girls 🤔 It seems the other U14 boy had been winning since very young going by the schools instagram with the other child always runner up.

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Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 09:39

@ElaineMBenes I don't think they'll need to change their whole style girls do reel, jig, hornpipe. The child will need a slip jig. The set dance will be arranged to highlight the best of the child's abilities & the music used is the same as the girls planxty Davy etc.
The power & stamina will be an advantage & look impressive in the girls comps. Toework however will be needed which as discussed above could be dangerous for males.
The dancers usually dance in twos & threes in front of the judges. It's up to the girls in the comp to decide if they want to share the stage with this competitor or make a stand. At the moment the power is in the hands of the parents, dancers & teachers.

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ElaineMBenes · 13/12/2023 09:34

@Greyheart1 I saw that. The other U14 places highly at the worlds too so is clearly a better dancer.......

Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 09:33

@ElaineMBenes from looking at the schools social media it appears there was two U14 boys in the school, the other boy always won with the child in question runner up to the boy which may also have influenced the decision to infiltrate the girls competition🤷‍♀️

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ElaineMBenes · 13/12/2023 09:29

Alltheprettyseahorses · 13/12/2023 07:51

Did the child win through talent or for being trans? At the risk of sounding harsh, there have been many occasions where being trans has been the major factor in competition success when the girls or women are clearly better, including judges feeling pity, being patronising or fishing for woke cookies.

Really good point and very hard to prove as judging is very subjective in irish dancing and already comes under a lot of scrutiny due to allegations of cheating - which has been going on for YEARS!!! I was competing 30 years ago and everyone knew it was going on then.

The dancer being discussed her is clearly a very good dancer - to come 11th in the world is a pretty big achievement but they just missed out on a world medal and I wonder if that has influenced their decision to try their luck in the girls comp?
However, as already discussed they will need to change their entire style of dancing which won't be easy.

Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 09:19

@Alltheprettyseahorses@Alltheprettyseahorses I'm not sure but I'd imagine it's quite possible that if the judges didn't give a trans competitor top marks & judges as it sees fit the judge could easily be called transphobic so this needs to be looked at too.
The parents & dancing teachers who are taking a stand against a boy competing in the girls category were immediately labelled transphobic.

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Boomboom22 · 13/12/2023 09:02

Reminds me of the trans poster this summer who just could not accept their inner feels didn't make them a woman. Spewing stereotypes and offending everyone whilst maintaining their fixed view.

Boomboom22 · 13/12/2023 09:00

That Australia article is shocking in how selfish the nb woman is. She genuinely believes the world owes her what sound like sexual thrills by seeing her as male, gender euphoria sounds like a paraphilia to me more and more not just Malaga airport but all of it.
Where do they get the idea that 'cis' people are just fine and happy with themselves anyway? They can't see past the end of their own nose that everyone has a personality and their own struggles and issues, this euphoric sense of self and sex they imagine doesn't exist for anyone.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 13/12/2023 07:51

Did the child win through talent or for being trans? At the risk of sounding harsh, there have been many occasions where being trans has been the major factor in competition success when the girls or women are clearly better, including judges feeling pity, being patronising or fishing for woke cookies.

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ResisterRex · 13/12/2023 07:36

@ElaineMBenes thank you for your reply and contributions to this thread, which are quite the insight!! It does sound seriously intense and like it has some major gaps that need filling.

@EtiennePalmiere thanks also for the ballet element. Also the difference in shoes and so on. Loads to think about!

This is why I like FWR. You get a topic which does belong here but you don't know much about it, but then you get to learn so much around the topic, with links and so on to go off looking at.

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Greyheart1 · 13/12/2023 07:04

@Delphinium20 it is awful. A stand needs to be taken against all organisations who allow, enable & encourage this. Bud light, Nike etc are examples on a larger scale. Look at Lia Thomas in America, he's finally backed down as no one wants him on their team..

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Delphinium20 · 13/12/2023 03:18

The sheet entitlement of these parents who think their little princes can stomp on girls' opportunities and erode their boundaries. So many nameless girls who've missed their rightful spots.