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South Africa's Tyla sparks culture war over racial identity

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BlueBrush · 09/12/2023 09:40

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-67505674#more-menu-button

Apologies if this is too off-topic but I thought it was interesting from a general identity politics point of view.

A South African woman uses the term "coloured" to describe her racial identity, having a specific meaning in South Africa around mixed heritage. But the term "coloured" is a slur in the US, and she is receiving pushback. Another South African woman in the US, who identified herself as "coloured":

It did not go down well with her classmates; her roommate pulled her aside and said she had made the American students feel uncomfortable.
She was forced to defend her own identity, background and culture while trying to assuage the discomfort of others.

I thought it was interesting from the general point of who is and isn't allowed to choose their own identity, who is allowed to decide what is and isn't offensive. I thought of different views of the word "queer", an identity for some and a slur for others, as a contrast.

Tyla

South Africa's Tyla sparks culture war over racial identity

The term "coloured" is a slur in the US, but for millions of South Africans it is part of their identity.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-67505674#more-menu-button

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DarkerMatter · 10/12/2023 21:22

But there is never going to be an agreement by any group (or indeed who forms a part of that group) on what word they want, on which parts of their history or the linguistic journey of their country/culture they value. Many people also don't care and value the diversity of language we use to describe each other.

What most people don't like is prejudice and hate, and it is possible to use all the same words to communicate such attitudes. We absolutely shouldn't tolerate slurs, but so many of these words are not slurs (see the example of "woman" above), but are descriptive words that are capable of being, and sometimes have frequently been, used as slurs (normally against marginalised or oppressed groups) which is not the same thing.

We seem to be in a position that if anyone expresses a view that they find a word to be offensive/problematic/incorrect/historical inaccurate/western/used by someone as a slur, then we must all be on high alert to completely abandon that word on pain of social faux pas (at best) or accusations of racism (at worst)

My own view is that we need to allow people to speak freely using the words that come most naturally to them and, as PP said, allow natural change (including change away from language favoured by dominant voices, academics and charities) aiming to maximise the range of language that "can" be used.

Sometimes using precise, nuanced and thoughtful language is really important (in particular I think that special interest charities and groups do have a role to plan in examining language and word choice in how they represent the people and cultures those groups were founded for), but it shouldn't be an expectation in day to day life. What I want in day to day life is to encourage more interesting cross-cultural conversation, not less.

IwantToRetire · 10/12/2023 18:58

Lots more to think about.

Quite clearly there is an issue not so much of language, but of people (some people) in the US only seeing or knowing about the world through their own cultured. And added to this a concept that somehow the US is always the leader. And this being expressed by teenage tiktokers who are probably just following trends.

But I suspect that in the UK we aren't much better. So if you compare when Ceylon and then Turkey announced how they now wanted their countries to be called, ie Sri Lanka and Türkiye, must news outlets etc., made the effort to do that.

Obviously with the multitude of communities around the world, and the different histories it would be hard to come out with agreed names etc., but was thinking more about how it shouldn't be a particular grouping, or as self elected expert imposing "correct" names.

And just going back to the OP, in fact it wasn't that long ago that in the US and it started to be used here you saw the expression Women of Colour.

But obviously it should be the right of the group itself to say what word they want even if some would say be that is a derogatory word. Reclaiming and making it their own is surely the principle.

In fact, going back a few decades the word "woman" was not commonly used other than in a negative way, interferring old woman or some such. And it was a deliberate decision to call what became the WLM the Women's Liberation Movement to reclaim for our own. (Little knowing what was to come re gender!) So because an oppressing group uses a descriptor that is accurate, in a derogatory way, reclaiming and rejecting their right to do that is very much not allowing a power group to tell us who we are and what our value is.

TempestTost · 10/12/2023 12:20

The whole idea of exoticism as a negative is interesting.

Obviously its a positional attribute, people don't find their own culture exotic. But a culture that seems little known, different in unexpected ways, and interesting - that's likely to be perceived as exotic, i, and this is important, if your orientation to it is basically positive.

If it's not basically positive than what you are likely to see is a denigration or disgust towards the little known culture.

Asian cultures had both of these responses to western culture too, historically, though actually quite a lot of the latter.

RainWithSunnySpells · 10/12/2023 11:42

My understanding was that the term 'Orient' developed from the use of where the sun rises/where the dawn is (rises in the east, sets in west) to meaning the part of the world that is east of Europe. This is why 'Occident' was used for the West as it is where the sun goes down/sets. The words were a pair of opposites/antonyms that were geographical. It wasn't to do with being 'exotic' and 'non-exotic.'

I do accept that meanings change naturally and slowly over time. I also agree that quick, imposed changes are grating.

Slightly off topic, but I was thinking about Oriental Cats and then I remembered the following:

I was once part of an absolutely insane conversation on the subject of 'is it racist to use the term Gypsy for the breed of horse known as 'Gypsy cobs'?' These horses also often have a patchy coat which is known in general as 'coloured' in the UK which is a shortening of 'broken coloured'. You can give more detail about the specifics of the coat colour (piebald, skewbald, black tobiano, chestnut tobiano etc.) but most people use 'coloured' as a shorthand. Maybe using 'cob' is problematic for body positivity as it refers to a stocky body type?

So there we are... a coloured Gypsy cob. I wonder what they would make of that in a US university?

I don't think anyone would care if you said it at Appley Fair.

Noghtsaving · 10/12/2023 08:54

The crux of the matter for me is that with identity politics it becomes necessary to police the identity of others. Otherwise the whole house of cards falls down

Yes, this.

quantumbutterfly · 10/12/2023 08:53

I love threads like this, you brilliant people.

I thought language was supposed to share ideas within social groups now it's weaponised to divide us. I'm sure I've heard somewhere that social groups have a critical mass, maybe the division is a product of that.

Did anyone see the Dr who recap? Russell Davis(?)was saying that celestial was offensive to the Chinese. He was tying himself in knots trying to be pc. I was a wee bit offended by the heavy handed moralising and amused by the society where everyone was right and basically pretty 'fighty', was Dr who laughing at itself. (Btw love Catherine Tate)

ThomasinaLivesHere · 10/12/2023 08:40

Bobtheamazinggingerdog · 09/12/2023 11:17

I follow an instagrammer who is a dancer. She posted a thing about how dancers using the word 'gypsy' to describe an aesthetic are being racist because gypsy is a racial slur. I don't disagree that 'gypsy' as an aesthetic is problematic but gypsy outside of the US is NOT a racial slur. It's a descriptor word used by gypsies and travellers to describe their ethnicity and culture. She literally hadn't thought that her US perspective might not be the only one.

It’s usually left wing Americans who are so strident in their believes who can’t see they’re coming at things from their own cultural perspective. Surely if you think racism is socially constructed you’d realise that what’s racist in your country isn’t going to be universal. I once made the mistake of trying to point this out to an American about the term gypsy and they just responded by giving me links to American sites and just couldn’t take in what was being said.

Westfacing · 10/12/2023 08:26

In Zanzibar, which is a real melting pot of many cultures, there are people who describe themselves as 'Persians' but Black African in appearance.

In a TV documentary Henry Louis Gates, an African American academic, talking to two young locals said something like:

"In the US you can forget all that Persian shit - you would just be Black"

He sounded sneering when he spoke but not sure if he meant it that way.

ArthurbellaScott · 10/12/2023 08:26

'Orientalism' by Edward Said was 1978, I just looked up the date. That was often cited as groundbreaking in terms of how Western academics viewed other cultures.

CuriousAlien · 10/12/2023 08:23

Lots of great analysis here about the parallels so I won't repeat it. (Also some nice discussions of linguistics, happy days.)

The crux of the matter for me is that with identity politics it becomes necessary to police the identity of others. Otherwise the whole house of cards falls down.

My daughter asked the other day how 2 women have sex. The first thing I said was "well, there's no willy for a start". Later, I was telling someone this and suddenly realised this might be a controversial statement which I could be "re-educated" for. Just as the singer in the article who apparently was simply stating something self-evident.

I don't have any problem with people identifying as trans. I just won't change my definition of myself as a woman which already has a set meaning which for me has nothing to do with declared identity.

DarkerMatter · 10/12/2023 08:15

theduchessofspork · 09/12/2023 11:26

It is not.

It’s an archaic term - because ‘the orient’ was a colonial expression that encompassed Western ideas of the exotic.

People in the west used the term oriental (eastern) to describe people (and culture) from the east. Yes, such people and cultures were exotic to those in the west, just as western people and cultures were to those in the east. A lot less so now.

The change from oriental being being a totally fine descriptor to one that must not be used, was recent, sudden and imposed. I believe it arose when an academic suggested it was a colonialist term, not because it was actually offensive or a slur.

Of course all descriptive terms - even though not slurs - can be used in racist ways or to perpetuate racism. Sometimes that use is so extensive that I can see why it tips over onto being a term people would rather not hear or assume is being used in a racist way, and I think for Americans coloured is one of those words. It appears that that wasn't the outcome for that word in SA, however.

Noghtsaving · 10/12/2023 07:52

Queucumber · 09/12/2023 11:39

I thought it was interesting from the general point of who is and isn't allowed to choose their own identity, who is allowed to decide what is and isn't offensive.

Using race to bolster your gender critical position. If you can’t see the problem, you are the problem.

If you only talk in vacuous slogans, you are the problem.

FrancescaContini · 10/12/2023 07:48

I have understood from travelling in SA that this is a common way for people of a particular ethnicity/geographical area of the country to describe themselves. Ethnically it’s a very diverse place.

Ditto “gypsy”: I have met people from Albania, Slovakia and the Czech Republic who call themselves this. Some monitoring forms have it as an ethnicity.

Some Americans need to “educate themselves”.

Noghtsaving · 10/12/2023 07:45

Anyway we all know that identity politics is all about pushing a particular narrow prism of identity on everyone, and is not at all about allowing everyone to decide their own identity or self-understanding at all.

Noghtsaving · 10/12/2023 07:41

RebelliousCow · 09/12/2023 10:14

'Oriental' to describe people of far eastern heritage is another one that really offends people in the U.S, but is normal to use in Britain.

Is it? I have the distinct impression it’s offensive here too now, and that the term is now Asian?

TempestTost · 10/12/2023 00:24

IwantToRetire · 10/12/2023 00:01

Some of the changes though aren't so much about some people not accepting whatever was current.

I probably didn't explain it well, but for instance the attempt by some to say the word Black should be used to cover a wide ranging group, came out of a particular politics, so even though being promoted by people who would identify with that use of the word Black, they didn't allow for those who weren't and never would be part of the leftist anti colonialist political activism.

The problem was that some in the establishment then thought we will accept this and promote it.

Yes, right.

I think that maybe that is necessitated by the theory though.

If you still have some members of the group who use the "old" word, the problem is it undermines the claim that it is problematic in itself.

And also, if some members of the group continue to use the word and it's acknowledged that is ok, it usually becomes very difficult to police the use of it of those outside of the group.

I guess what I am saying is it looks like the point is not to have some people who prefer it use a different word, it's about managing the language of others. And I think right there you can begin to see the links to GI, even though it manifests differerntly.

IwantToRetire · 10/12/2023 00:01

Some of the changes though aren't so much about some people not accepting whatever was current.

I probably didn't explain it well, but for instance the attempt by some to say the word Black should be used to cover a wide ranging group, came out of a particular politics, so even though being promoted by people who would identify with that use of the word Black, they didn't allow for those who weren't and never would be part of the leftist anti colonialist political activism.

The problem was that some in the establishment then thought we will accept this and promote it.

TempestTost · 09/12/2023 23:49

And although not maybe as presumptive as US academic speak, it was not universally accepted, which is how we ended up with BME and then ... (cant remember).

Some of the changes though aren't so much about some people not accepting whatever was current. Nor just normal language change over time, where some words become old-fashioned sounding.

Not just in racial politics, there has for since the 60s been a tendency for people to think that by changing language, they can rid words of any kind of negative connotations. That kind of makes sense when you see certain words used very negatively. "Retard" is a good example, and later, Sped which had the same meaning. In practice it tends not to be that effective though, because as long as people think the same way, the new word acquires the old connotations, often very quickly. So you get a constantly changing technical vocabulary, that seems to be on about a ten year rotation, and it doesn't really seem to achieve anything much.

But what we've also seen is people deciding that some words should be changed just because they are associated with the past, and people in the past were too old-fashioned. These words hadn't become pejorative in themselves, and in every case I know of, they were still currently used by many members of the group. If some people don't want those words, why couldn't they use something else and leave others to use what they like?

I think there is something else going on in those cases. There might be some honest hope that by changing language we will somehow move into a brave new world. But in a lot of cases, I think it's about marking out in and out groups, much like the use of jargon does. The thing is, if you accept that others have different backgrounds, different preferences, and will use different language, you have to accept that people out in the world may not always use the words you yourself prefer, and that is ok.

LadyBird1973 · 09/12/2023 23:47

That phrase 'divided by a common language' springs to mind. I think America sometimes struggles with the idea that other countries have a history and culture that is not the same as America or that common words have different meanings in other places.

It's very rude to tell someone who is describing themselves, that they are doing it wrong. The caveat being that a person shouldn't be able to compel others to accept outright lies either.

IwantToRetire · 09/12/2023 23:34

Back to the main topic, I think it is clear that over time what words are acceptable and what aren't does change. So when I was quite young (this is UK) it was thought rude to call someone "Black" and more polite to call them "Coloured" even though within memory the term "coloured" used in former UK colonies would be a negative or derogatory term.

But certainly by the 70s if not earlier the word Black was part of fighting back against the white establishment deciding what was or wasn't acceptable. ie Southall Black Sisters was named out of those politics (in the early days of its use a list was provided of who was considered Black, which extended to most countries in the southern hemisphere).

And although not maybe as presumptive as US academic speak, it was not universally accepted, which is how we ended up with BME and then ... (cant remember).

So it seems it isn't just the change that happens over time, but what seems to be the totally unthinking acceptance by US politicos and academics that their view of the world is the correct view, and so ironically ending up as being as much part of American cultural imperialism as those they would say they are the opposite of.

In some political groupings in the US the term "Brown People" is now used, and am not sure if that is a term being imposed on a group, or is one of the groups own choosing.

But as said up thread there is a huge difference between someone saying that is their identity to someone from a totally different culture and background imposing that on someone.

Thanks for the article OP.

TempestTost · 09/12/2023 23:34

SavBlancTonight · 09/12/2023 22:42

I don't understand how this issue relates to gender identity politics and is on this board.

A man calling himself a woman is not the same as this. Tyler is using a term that is accurate, albeit offensive to people with a different cultural reference.

In terms of coloured as a phrase in South Africa, it is a uniquely specific culture that came about through generations of people who were descended from a wide variety of races, and is in no way the same as being mixed race in America or the old fashioned, now considered offensive, generic catch all for anyone who is not white.

Because identity politics isn't separate things. It comes out of the same sets of ideological premises. There are differences in how it applies to different things, but if you want to understand gender ideology you have to understand the larger ideology. And frankly, it's toxic whatever you apply it to.

TempestTost · 09/12/2023 23:19

I don't, on the face of it, really accept the whole idea that identity is wholly self defined. It has a significant social element. And I'm not convinced that what is really stupid about this is that some people aren't being "progressive" because they won't accept someone's self-identity.

It's stupid because they are so damn parochial that they can't understand that not every place has the same history and cultural context.

It's stupid because they won't understand that even within one place (like the US) not everyone who is black will have the same views on these things. "Coloured" was even an option on the American census until pretty recently, because it was the "identity" some older black people preferred. That generation has now pretty much all passed away, but only just.

And it's stupid because it constructs a false linguistic history in order to justify why it's supposed to be offensive. It was never a slur, quite the opposite, early in the civil rights movement it was promoted as the new, non-racist word of choice, and it's heavily used in the writings and speeches of civil rights advocates.

If people are offended because someone from a different part of the world uses some words differently, frankly I wonder how real their offence is. It's not about being progressive or not.

IwantToRetire · 09/12/2023 23:17

I don't understand how this issue relates to gender identity politics and is on this board.

As said on many threads on this forum which is actually FWR (look at the web links for this page) ie Feminism and Women's Rights, and for some reason MNHQ took it into its head, that it could separate off the discussion about sex and gender as though somehow it wasn't about feminism and women's rights.

So if a woman writes an article about something impinging on her rights, and someone thinks this is an issue other women interested in feminism and women's rights, why shouldn't it be here?

SavBlancTonight · 09/12/2023 22:42

I don't understand how this issue relates to gender identity politics and is on this board.

A man calling himself a woman is not the same as this. Tyler is using a term that is accurate, albeit offensive to people with a different cultural reference.

In terms of coloured as a phrase in South Africa, it is a uniquely specific culture that came about through generations of people who were descended from a wide variety of races, and is in no way the same as being mixed race in America or the old fashioned, now considered offensive, generic catch all for anyone who is not white.

JanesLittleGirl · 09/12/2023 22:41

The School of Oriental and African Studies now self-identifiying as SOAS.