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Ministers finally agree guidance on trans pupils

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WarriorN · 21/11/2023 19:43

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12776337/Schools-discouraged-letting-pupils-change-pronouns-ministers-toughen-long-overdue-transgender-guidance.html

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/11/2023 15:31

TempestTost · 25/11/2023 14:28

I think it's a mistake to think that schools guidance can be what puts the kybosh on all of this.

It's one piece of the puzzle, but there are limits to what it can do and there always will be. The same principle that says that schools can't change kids names without parental permission, also says that parents are the final arbiters of appropriate medical interventions, along with doctors.

So as long as there are doctors spouting gender ideology, and parents, it's not going to be schools that stop that from happening, It's just not their role. To try and undermine parents would just be another

That's going to limit the degree to which they can say they will never allow kids to transition in school.

What should be happening is that schools stop hiding stuff from parents, promoting GI or queer theory in the school itself, and focus on safeguarding elements that are really part of their remit - rules for sports, rules for toilets, and rules for the degree to which other kids need to "respect" kids who change names etc.

Stopping medical and social transition of kids is going to require changing the medical side of things, and the ideology, directly.

I think this is spot on. The guidelines & the consultation process will empower those the transactivists have been so desperate to silence including parents & responsible professionals centring safeguarding children. But change will be gradual, not instantaneous.
And yes to prioritising safeguarding children rather than trans ideology.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/11/2023 15:24

rogdmum · 25/11/2023 09:51

I have a big concern that in the independent sector (and just speaking about the independent sector here), capture is at the very top with those running sector conferences etc. HMC, one of the big associations for independent schools is completely captured. Concerns have been raised time and time again to Simon Hyde their General Secretary but have been fobbed off with condescending, patronising responses.

When Melvyn Roffe (then Chair and Principal of George Watson’s College) had decided to platform Bobbi Pickard at May’s Spring Conference, Simon sent a snotty email to all members defending their choice of speakers. I don’t have permission to share the email but it made it crystal clear that the organisation is captured and determined to push gender ideology from the top.

Obviously there are Heads at independent schools who are not on board but none are speaking out and this silence lets others like Melvyn hold disproportionate influence.

Helen Semple is another good example. Former DH of St Paul’s (Girls) - a school absolutely notorious for gender ideology (in my view, our former school Watson’s comes second only to St Paul’s) was co-founder of Schools Inclusion Alliance which has rapidly become the “go-to” place for independent schools:

https://www.schoolsinclusionalliance.co.uk/about-us

It greatly worries me that it is embedded so deeply at the top of the sector and parents, IME (not only me but others as well both at Watson’s and other independents) are treated atrociously if they have the temerity to raise concerns with the Head or Board of Governors.

So depressing. Individual schools can be very isolated if things go wrong so to be alienated from an important source of support is a problem for them. Again it all raises the question about why these adults are so determined to influence schools in this way?
I know that the Girls' Day Schools Trust is also fairly captured in terms of signing up to gender nonsense BUT have held the line about being single sex schools for girls, refusing to admit boys claiming to be a girl. To date no legal challenge as far as I can see.

TempestTost · 25/11/2023 14:28

I think it's a mistake to think that schools guidance can be what puts the kybosh on all of this.

It's one piece of the puzzle, but there are limits to what it can do and there always will be. The same principle that says that schools can't change kids names without parental permission, also says that parents are the final arbiters of appropriate medical interventions, along with doctors.

So as long as there are doctors spouting gender ideology, and parents, it's not going to be schools that stop that from happening, It's just not their role. To try and undermine parents would just be another

That's going to limit the degree to which they can say they will never allow kids to transition in school.

What should be happening is that schools stop hiding stuff from parents, promoting GI or queer theory in the school itself, and focus on safeguarding elements that are really part of their remit - rules for sports, rules for toilets, and rules for the degree to which other kids need to "respect" kids who change names etc.

Stopping medical and social transition of kids is going to require changing the medical side of things, and the ideology, directly.

rogdmum · 25/11/2023 11:17

WarriorN · 25/11/2023 10:19

See also; universities running teacher training courses.

So the very top trains the very bottom (as in new teachers not a judgmental description!) leaving the middle experienced layer, who still remember what safeguarding is and understand child development, squashed.

WarriorN · 25/11/2023 10:19

See also; universities running teacher training courses.

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rogdmum · 25/11/2023 09:51

I have a big concern that in the independent sector (and just speaking about the independent sector here), capture is at the very top with those running sector conferences etc. HMC, one of the big associations for independent schools is completely captured. Concerns have been raised time and time again to Simon Hyde their General Secretary but have been fobbed off with condescending, patronising responses.

When Melvyn Roffe (then Chair and Principal of George Watson’s College) had decided to platform Bobbi Pickard at May’s Spring Conference, Simon sent a snotty email to all members defending their choice of speakers. I don’t have permission to share the email but it made it crystal clear that the organisation is captured and determined to push gender ideology from the top.

Obviously there are Heads at independent schools who are not on board but none are speaking out and this silence lets others like Melvyn hold disproportionate influence.

Helen Semple is another good example. Former DH of St Paul’s (Girls) - a school absolutely notorious for gender ideology (in my view, our former school Watson’s comes second only to St Paul’s) was co-founder of Schools Inclusion Alliance which has rapidly become the “go-to” place for independent schools:

https://www.schoolsinclusionalliance.co.uk/about-us

It greatly worries me that it is embedded so deeply at the top of the sector and parents, IME (not only me but others as well both at Watson’s and other independents) are treated atrociously if they have the temerity to raise concerns with the Head or Board of Governors.

About Us — Schools Inclusion Alliance

ABOUT US

https://www.schoolsinclusionalliance.co.uk/about-us

Nicesalad · 25/11/2023 09:45

noblegiraffe · 21/11/2023 21:04

They have to leave room for exceptions otherwise they'd need to change the law and they don't want to have to do that as it would get messy.

As for 'must keep boys and girls toilets separate' that would be interesting as many schools now have unisex toilets and saying that they have to change them back could be an issue. It's more likely, I think, that they will say that there has to be single sex provision as well as any unisex provision.

They'd have to define "boy" and "girl", otherwise the guidance to keep toilets separate is pointless

HipTightOnions · 25/11/2023 09:41

...the older senior staff have outsourced their thinking to these bright young things and are scared of offending them.

That's been exactly my experience too, Valancy, particularly when the bright young things are "LGBTQ" themselves.

WarriorN · 25/11/2023 08:29

From that really helpful thread:

When regulatory capture occurs, the interests of firms or political groups are prioritized over the interests of the public, leading to a net loss for society. Government agencies suffering regulatory capture are called "captured agencies".

This additional issue here is that lobby groups have also, via charities and general online or media networks, also captured the public. And 'captured' members of the public generate their own media on social media.

So it's not just 'top down' any more.

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OldCrone · 25/11/2023 08:09

This is an interesting thread (from a few years ago) on regulatory/institutional capture.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3541908-Regulatory-capture?page=1

OldCrone · 25/11/2023 08:00

Freddder · 24/11/2023 23:58

Yes. Institutional capture.

Institutional capture is a real thing. It’s not a figment of my imagination. It happens when the people high up in society running that institution have a vastly different view to the section of that population they’re meant to serve via the institution itself.

For example does a trade union have a different view on women’s rights than its members and society do? If so that’s the people at the top running the union having a different point of view than the ordinary working people that the union is supposed to represent. That’s the elites having one point of view and general population having another. Is that difficult to understand or do you just disagree that this is a thing?

That's not what I understand by the term "institutional capture". My understanding is that this describes a situation in which an organisation is "captured" by a lobby group outside the organisation, and thus loses its independence and instead becomes an arm of the lobby group. Obviously it's the people running the organisation who are targeted by the lobby group, and those lower down may be unaware of what is going on at the top.

ArthurbellaScott · 25/11/2023 07:56

Boomboom22 · 25/11/2023 00:35

It is true that social change comes from the elites first and comes down the strata. But in this case it is through deliberate manipulation using tactics that have been seen to work before and keeping the unpalatable bits quiet.
What cannot really be explained is the continuance of this even after the facts are becoming clear. But there's so much noise, the guardian is full on twaw and has interpreted this guidance as pro socially transitioning with parents told. Not given permission, just informed. So it seems the harms are not clear.
I don't think banning will work, we need sunlight and over time it will fade away. In 20 or 30 years we might do an inquiry as to how on earth we sterilised a load of teens but not now.
See how vaginal mesh is still used in loads of other ops despite the known risks. See thalidomide. See the blood scandal. Etc.

'What cannot really be explained is the continuance of this even after the facts are becoming clear'

Naively, I had thought that once the harms were exposed, things would change.

We now have Stonewall and Mermaids tropes, distorted and mudleading as they are, taken as the norm.

So called 'gc' beliefs are defined a d protected in law, which is great, but absurdly implies that genderist beliefs are the norm that doesn't require explanation.

We need genderist ideas spelled out clearly in law.

WarriorN · 25/11/2023 07:27

Has the country become more or less liberally progressive since 2010 under a so called conservative government?

Central government does not have half as much power as media driven consumerism.

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WarriorN · 25/11/2023 07:13

Which of these do you dispute and why? Be really interested to hear the arguments, logic and reasoning and what you think is happening and why.

Mainly as points 2 and 3 are not what I'm seeing on the chalk face in education.

You're giving sweeping assumptive statements. It's theoretical. Seemingly based on one idea of how society is structured. It also ignores a wide range of other factors such as upbringing, education level and subjects taken, personal experiences etc. whether someone is gay or straight or has family members who are lgb or t.

I'm a teacher of 22 years and also in send. So I work with a huge range of people with different lengths of experience and also different backgrounds, educational level. Whether someone is 'GC' or not is not dependant on hierarchical status within the setting.

Age and length of experience in education, especially at eyfs level, appears to mean that colleagues have GC views. But some young staff who've had certain backgrounds rooted in science or grew up in farming for example, understand it's all bollocks.

Others don't seem to read news papers and only watch 'happy' tv like drag race and have no view at all but as such naively regurgitate TRA nonsense, especially as it's embedded in twinkle and mermaids is seen as an excellent charity because it gets everywhere. So they think it's all fact.

The overwhelming drive behind the issues we see is due to online sources, social media coupled with the enormous amount of money in charities pushing this stuff. Plus career academics. On top of the decentralisation of education and privatisation of curriculum content.

Who is immune to it all and who is susceptible appears to be more based on personality than anything else.

My senior leadership team are all GC. And most (not all) are over 35. It's the under 35's who seem to be at most risk.

"Higher you go in society" - this is a simplistic view of society which I'm assuming is based on monetary earnings or position? Capitalist? There are many ways to look at society and it's changing enormously due to the internet.

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Freddder · 25/11/2023 01:54

“But there's so much noise, the guardian is full on twaw and has interpreted this guidance as pro socially transitioning with parents told. Not given permission, just informed. So it seems the harms are not clear.”

The Guardian’s interpretation is how it actually is, how it will work in practice. This was the government’s intention, to give the Guardian types what they want whilst deceiving the others that they were getting what they want. Has the country become more or less liberally progressive since 2010 under a so called conservative government?

NotMeekNotObedient · 25/11/2023 01:04

So glad to hear this!

Boomboom22 · 25/11/2023 00:35

It is true that social change comes from the elites first and comes down the strata. But in this case it is through deliberate manipulation using tactics that have been seen to work before and keeping the unpalatable bits quiet.
What cannot really be explained is the continuance of this even after the facts are becoming clear. But there's so much noise, the guardian is full on twaw and has interpreted this guidance as pro socially transitioning with parents told. Not given permission, just informed. So it seems the harms are not clear.
I don't think banning will work, we need sunlight and over time it will fade away. In 20 or 30 years we might do an inquiry as to how on earth we sterilised a load of teens but not now.
See how vaginal mesh is still used in loads of other ops despite the known risks. See thalidomide. See the blood scandal. Etc.

Freddder · 24/11/2023 23:58

OldCrone · 24/11/2023 18:58

That the higher you go in society the less gender critical the people occupying these positions are.

Do you have any evidence to support this assertion?

Yes. Institutional capture.

Institutional capture is a real thing. It’s not a figment of my imagination. It happens when the people high up in society running that institution have a vastly different view to the section of that population they’re meant to serve via the institution itself.

For example does a trade union have a different view on women’s rights than its members and society do? If so that’s the people at the top running the union having a different point of view than the ordinary working people that the union is supposed to represent. That’s the elites having one point of view and general population having another. Is that difficult to understand or do you just disagree that this is a thing?

ValancyRedfern · 24/11/2023 20:08

In my experience it is younger, more junior teachers (plus those who've inexplicably been made slt by the age of 25) who are gung-ho for social transition and self-id, and the older senior staff have outsourced their thinking to these bright young things and are scared of offending them. Curmudgeonly middle leaders like myself are more likely to object. But we object to everything and can be safely ignored (as long as we get the gcse results year on year...)

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/11/2023 19:57

@Freddder
Sticking to the subject of the thread which is about the forthcoming schools guidance, the capture of all the unions, the DfE & Ofsted in recent years has resulted in so many senior staff keeping silent about what's happening to children.
Until there is clear evidence that governors, local authorities & Ofsted will support senior staff insisting on safe single sex facilities, sport and removing the countless "born in the wrong body' organisations, their challenge is their career or battling for the welfare of children.
Until these guidelines are finally published (and even then with the activist unions in full battle mode) everyone is risking their careers by speaking out. It's shameful but I hope that well written draft guidelines will enable people to openly speak about this.

OldCrone · 24/11/2023 18:58

That the higher you go in society the less gender critical the people occupying these positions are.

Do you have any evidence to support this assertion?

Freddder · 24/11/2023 18:21

WarriorN · 24/11/2023 06:21

This is why most teachers might be GC but amongst head teachers it will be less GC and near the top of a major educational institution almost nobody will be GC.

That's nonsense.

Ok…. Reason evidence?

I’m arguing three things:

  1. That the majority of people are gender critical.
  2. That the higher you go in society the less gender critical the people occupying these positions are.
  3. That points 1 & 2 explain why despite the population being gender critical the institutions are captured, I.e institutional capture happens from the top down and doesn’t require a majority to do it.

Which of these do you dispute and why? Be really interested to hear the arguments, logic and reasoning and what you think is happening and why. 🙂

WarriorN · 24/11/2023 06:21

This is why most teachers might be GC but amongst head teachers it will be less GC and near the top of a major educational institution almost nobody will be GC.

That's nonsense.

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/11/2023 21:14

Thank you @rogdmum . That Spectator article really nails the extreme levels of "abdication of moral responsibility towards children.”.

As these guidelines will be out for consultation there's an important opportunity for us to respond. And this time there are a number of intelligent child focused organisations who will be able to add their weight. And as said upthread, trans activist educators are going to have to explain very clearly about their levels of "expertise " in transitioning other people's children. Explain why they have abandoned safeguarding children from adults seeking to sell the 'born in the wrong body' lie to young children and why the privacy & safety of girls no longer matters in some schools.

Essentially they'll be forced to say all the quiet bits out loud.

rogdmum · 23/11/2023 18:21

First quote:

“Not only have schools failed to communicate vital information but, worse, some teachers have actually colluded with gender-distressed children to keep their parents in the dark. This represents a breakdown in adult solidarity and, ultimately, an abdication of moral responsibility towards children.”

Second quote:

“Groups like Mermaids have had astonishing success in propagating the idea that it is better to have a happy daughter than a dead son. This manipulative line is fundamentally dishonest: given love and support, gender confused children are no more likely to take their own lives than other children. But few parents are brave enough to take the risk.”