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Trans bathroom access - the equality act is 13 years old so why is there such a challenge on it now?

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Snufflebabe05 · 06/10/2023 23:11

Really trying to understand views I’m hearing online, at work, in media.

Anyone who is transitioning, has transitioned, proposing to transition is legally allowed to use the bathroom which is aligned to the gender they see themselves as. No evidence needed, no proof of medical info etc. This has been the case since the Equality Act launched in 2010. Any business who doesn’t allow this is breaking the law. Unless there is a proportionate and reasonable reason (gym changing rooms can be an example). The majority of locations wouldn’t fall into the exemption though.

Toilets are aligned with a relevant Health and Safety legislation, where bathrooms are provided for men and women, so by gender.

So why is the uproar now? Why is it now that we are hearing about “women-only spaces”? Is is the media? What has changed?

Genuine, honest question as keen to understand.

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Waitwhat23 · 07/10/2023 09:19

popebishop · 07/10/2023 09:01

"Hey! If you like derailing women's conversations about building regs, are just about literate, and really muddled about what is sex and what is gender, get on over here! " < that one? They use that one a lot, by the looks of things...

It's like there is an alert for thread titles which have any of the following - toilets pronouns, name badges, email signatures etc etc. They never insert themselves in the legal threads, or the tribunal tweets ones, or the threads of specific examples of women being harmed.

This thread is actually quite an interesting thread of the issues around the meaning of words being changed and how that impacts on the implementation of legislation. As always, it's disrupted with 'but you can't call them men!!!'/'pelvic inspectors'/'moral panic' instead of a discussion about how to balance the existing single sex exemption rights as laid out in the EQA 2010 with the demands for gender neutral provisions.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/10/2023 09:18

Realistically, when you meet someone for the first time, your assumption of their gender comes from their appearance (how they choose to present) instead of their anatomy.

I don't subscribe to the existence of "gender" as anything but a social construct based on sex stereotypes. Only a person's sex is relevant.

IrresponsiblyCertainAboutSexualDimorphism · 07/10/2023 09:14

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:38

Because one person online says that they are concerned because they think trans women are still men and then everyone else blindly repeats the same arguments! There are far bigger issues than this which people could focus on

Hmm…. Lots of women, and lots of men - most, actually - think male bodied people are male, regardless of their personality and preferences.

The transwomen thing is irrelevant really. No people with penises in single sex places.

Toilets, of course, are less important (in general) than open plan changing rooms, prisons, hospital wards and rape crisis centres. But toilets are very important where some women and girls cannot use mixed facilities for religious reasons, or because of history of SA or such like.

Do you think women should have to share single sex places with people with penises?

Helleofabore · 07/10/2023 09:14

“Realistically, when you meet someone for the first time, your assumption of their gender comes from their appearance (how they choose to present) instead of their anatomy”

Please don’t project your own shortcomings onto others. No, I seriously don’t assume from appearances.

Besides, didn’t you tell us we all wait for an omnipresent being to tell us what to think and wouldn’t she just be telling us the truth based on her omnipresent powers?

You really cannot have it both ways.

JacquelinePot · 07/10/2023 09:09

speenmum · 07/10/2023 09:07

Humans are obviously more complex. Do you see horses having a left and right wing political system and a complex economy? Male and female are obviously sex-related words but man and woman can refer to both gender and sex. Realistically, when you meet someone for the first time, your assumption of their gender comes from their appearance (how they choose to present) instead of their anatomy

Realistically, when you meet someone for the first time, your assumption of their gender comes from their appearance (how they choose to present) instead of their anatomy

Really realistically, no it doesn't

MargotBamborough · 07/10/2023 09:09

speenmum · 07/10/2023 09:07

Humans are obviously more complex. Do you see horses having a left and right wing political system and a complex economy? Male and female are obviously sex-related words but man and woman can refer to both gender and sex. Realistically, when you meet someone for the first time, your assumption of their gender comes from their appearance (how they choose to present) instead of their anatomy

No, my assumption about their sex is very much based on their anatomy.

I don't assume anything about their gender because gender isn't real.

SpiderMaam · 07/10/2023 09:08

A gelding is a male, just as a stallion is a male.

speenmum · 07/10/2023 09:07

JacquelinePot · 07/10/2023 09:00

Assuming that you are posting in good faith, op...

Sex = female and male
Human adults = women and men

'Woman' and 'man' aren't 'gender' words, they're 'sex' words. They're the words we use to refer to human adults of each sex.

Woman and man are no more 'gender' words than are mare or stallion. Horses only have a sex, not a gender. Same goes for chickens and roosters, bitches and dogs, ewes and rams and on and on and on...

...as for why now? We've been shouting about all this stuff for YEARS

https://animalcorner.org/animal-names/

Humans are obviously more complex. Do you see horses having a left and right wing political system and a complex economy? Male and female are obviously sex-related words but man and woman can refer to both gender and sex. Realistically, when you meet someone for the first time, your assumption of their gender comes from their appearance (how they choose to present) instead of their anatomy

IrresponsiblyCertainAboutSexualDimorphism · 07/10/2023 09:06

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:51

Sex and gender are not the same thing. Of course a trans man is biologically a woman but that doesn't stop his gender from being male

What is a male gender?

MargotBamborough · 07/10/2023 09:06

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:51

Sex and gender are not the same thing. Of course a trans man is biologically a woman but that doesn't stop his gender from being male

Can you talk us through how someone's gender can be male please?

You can start by defining both "gender" and "male".

popebishop · 07/10/2023 09:01

Waitwhat23 · 07/10/2023 08:49

Ah, the bat signal has gone out

"Hey! If you like derailing women's conversations about building regs, are just about literate, and really muddled about what is sex and what is gender, get on over here! " < that one? They use that one a lot, by the looks of things...

JacquelinePot · 07/10/2023 09:00

Assuming that you are posting in good faith, op...

Sex = female and male
Human adults = women and men

'Woman' and 'man' aren't 'gender' words, they're 'sex' words. They're the words we use to refer to human adults of each sex.

Woman and man are no more 'gender' words than are mare or stallion. Horses only have a sex, not a gender. Same goes for chickens and roosters, bitches and dogs, ewes and rams and on and on and on...

...as for why now? We've been shouting about all this stuff for YEARS

https://animalcorner.org/animal-names/

List of Animal Names for Male, Female and Groups

A complete list of animal names and the names used for male, female, young and groups.

https://animalcorner.org/animal-names/

Helleofabore · 07/10/2023 08:59

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:49

@ArabellaScott No, she's busy inspecting people's pelvis width to decide if they can come in the bathroom or not

So you are talking about some omnipresent being ? Like a goddess of toilets?

Well that is novel! And great that OP won’t need much further advice then!

ArabellaScott · 07/10/2023 08:57

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:51

Sex and gender are not the same thing. Of course a trans man is biologically a woman but that doesn't stop his gender from being male

Fantastic. Please give the Scottish Courts a call. Ask for Lady Haldane, and set her right.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 07/10/2023 08:57

smilesup · 07/10/2023 08:46

The reason why now is because the Tories realise it's a vote winner. They obviously don't actually give a fuck about women.

Question that should be asked is why is it a vote winner? Could it be because a majority of people believe in reality

popebishop · 07/10/2023 08:57

Sex and gender are not the same thing. Of course a trans man is biologically a woman but that doesn't stop his gender from being male

You've got it mixed up again! Male is a sex, not a gender. Do you think there is something male about a man? Confused

SpiderMaam · 07/10/2023 08:57

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:49

@ArabellaScott No, she's busy inspecting people's pelvis width to decide if they can come in the bathroom or not

Why would Auntie G let a stranger use her bathroom?

Helleofabore · 07/10/2023 08:56

Helleofabore · 07/10/2023 08:49

Ahhh yes… women cannot think about their own needs and experiences and make a decision issues.

Hey women of the world …. Which one of you stated your opinion that we all copied? Come on, hands up!

Sorry I cross posted with Arabella.

Helleofabore · 07/10/2023 08:54

smilesup · 07/10/2023 08:46

The reason why now is because the Tories realise it's a vote winner. They obviously don't actually give a fuck about women.

You do realise the many of the very first women to take the position that single sex spaces need to remain single sex were left wing feminists?

And have been working hard to pull together groups to meet with government committees and make submissions for many years?

I hope it is that you didn’t know this that prompted you to just erase the decade or so of work by these women.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 07/10/2023 08:53

Of course there will need to be some sort of check at toilet doors its not like we can tell a transwoman at 20 paces.

Actually could suggest that to sunak, it could be good for job creation

SpiderMaam · 07/10/2023 08:52

Snufflebabe05 · 07/10/2023 07:35

Yes, I’ve been reading about HSE - however, it consistently refers to providing facilities for “men and women”.

It does go on to saying about female sanitary provision.

So, if I ask my work - are toilets by sex or by gender, what is the correct (in line with the law) response?

For the purposes of The Equality Act a Woman is a Female of any age.

https://questions-statements.parliament.uk/written-questions/detail/2020-03-05/HL2276/#:~:text=In%20the%20Equality%20Act%202010,a%20female%20of%20any%20age%22.

The toilet legislation (1991) long predates the silly muddling of Sex and Gender in the 2004 GRA.
The Equality Act 2010 made cleared up that muddle by providing a legal way to exclude Men with a GRC and and altered birth certificate from female only provision.

Stonewall have been pretending otherwise, which is why they have been dropped by so many of their former Champions/Equality Index Members.

Equality Act is just really hard for individuals to get recourse from because it seems like a decent set of tribunal lawyers costs over a hundred grand (thank goddess for crowdfunding).

literalviolence · 07/10/2023 08:52

Snufflebabe05 · 07/10/2023 07:02

Ok. But not everyone agrees that this is the case? As in, many believe that gender and sex are seperate? Is that where the issue is?

I.E - Sex is Male and Female, Gender is Man and Woman?

OP, for what reason would we need services segregated by gender? Why would women felz and men felz need different sports? Bear in mind the number of TW who do nothing surgically or hormonally when they transition (aka the majority).

If we segregate by gender and there are 100 different genders, why do we not have 100 different toilets?

I am agender. Which toilet should I use when there is no agender option?.

There is no logic in the anti women movement's position.

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:51

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 07/10/2023 08:42

Hate to break it to you but trans women are still men, they are male in every cell in their body and always will be.

Damm it mother nature is being transphobic again

Sex and gender are not the same thing. Of course a trans man is biologically a woman but that doesn't stop his gender from being male

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:49

@ArabellaScott No, she's busy inspecting people's pelvis width to decide if they can come in the bathroom or not

Helleofabore · 07/10/2023 08:49

speenmum · 07/10/2023 08:38

Because one person online says that they are concerned because they think trans women are still men and then everyone else blindly repeats the same arguments! There are far bigger issues than this which people could focus on

Ahhh yes… women cannot think about their own needs and experiences and make a decision issues.

Hey women of the world …. Which one of you stated your opinion that we all copied? Come on, hands up!