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NHS nurse on my facebook just changed her profile picture to this

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welcometothepartyyy · 05/10/2023 22:24

Inappropriate, much?

NHS nurse on my facebook just changed her profile picture to this
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Mamma2017 · 06/10/2023 09:22

littleblackcat27 · 06/10/2023 07:56

@Mamma2017

Yeah right.

Which NHS media policy is that? Have you got a reference?

What a load of bs

I refer you to 3.1 principles section of the policy for a start :https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/social-media-policy.pdf

https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/social-media-policy.pdf

MargotBamborough · 06/10/2023 09:21

welcometothepartyyy · 05/10/2023 22:41

I'm not going to report her. She's just some misplaced woman I worked with year ago no doubt all puffed up with Mermaids crap.

But she's totally in breach of NHS social media policy.

Very sad for a senior manager in peadriatic nursing to sink so low and be so unprofessional. I feel sorry for her but I have no intention of getting her into trouble at work.

Just wish she'd exercise some personal discretion.

Why not?

Trans activists have absolutely no problem getting women fired for saying that humans can't change sex.

She won't get fired anyway, but this sort of thing is really inappropriate and we need to start taking a stand against it.

I wouldn't feel safe in a ward staffed by someone like that because she's the type of person who would lie to the police and say I couldn't possibly have been raped on the ward because there were no males present.

MargotBamborough · 06/10/2023 09:19

Karensalright · 05/10/2023 22:30

Nurses are not supposed to post professional issues on social media report it

This.

Mamma2017 · 06/10/2023 09:19

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SaffronSpice · 06/10/2023 09:17

Passepartoute · 06/10/2023 09:14

You do know that nurses have no say on who is admitted where as a patient?

You really want men totally barred from women's wards? That's going to make staffing a bit awkward, to say nothing of visiting times.

Funnily enough, there weren’t visitors on my ward at 3am when staffing ( by disclosure checked staff) was absolutely minimal and I and other patients were asleep.

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Passepartoute · 06/10/2023 09:14

Ofcourseshecan · 06/10/2023 09:08

I would find it intimidating, OP. I would be unsafe in hospital if staff supported male intruders and had a hostile attitude to me for objecting. Very unprofessional.

You do know that nurses have no say on who is admitted where as a patient?

You really want men totally barred from women's wards? That's going to make staffing a bit awkward, to say nothing of visiting times.

Ofcourseshecan · 06/10/2023 09:08

welcometothepartyyy · 05/10/2023 22:24

Inappropriate, much?

I would find it intimidating, OP. I would be unsafe in hospital if staff supported male intruders and had a hostile attitude to me for objecting. Very unprofessional.

RoyalCorgi · 06/10/2023 09:07

I agree with the OP that this is very unprofessional.

It's fine for nurses and doctors and others within the NHS to post political opinions on social media - to say, I think the NHS is underfunded, or I support the doctors' strike or whatever. It's not fine to make this kind of personalised comment because it's your job as a health professional to treat all patients equally regardless of their political opinions, their ethnicity, their sex, their gender identity, whatever.

I imagine different NHS trusts have different NHS guidelines, but it wouldn't surprise me if the post was in breach of those guidelines.

OlizraWiteomQua · 06/10/2023 09:05

I would rather share a hospital room with a transman than a (female) transphobe. (I don't consider being GC to be trabsphobic but some women genuinely are) but that's a matter of preference, not an expression of how much I would worry about my personal safety in that context.

But the point is that "not wanting to be vulnerable/semiconscious with this person sharing my bedroom" is not the same thing as expressing hatred of that person or the group/category the person belongs to.

It is absolutely known and provable that women are more vulnerable and more likely to be assaulted in a mixed sex environment than in a single sex environment. That does not mean that every woman in a mixed sex environment gets attacked or that every male is an attacker, but it's safe to be in a single sex environment.

Sex and gender are not the same thing. A room containing a woman and a transwoman is a mixed sex environment.

wigywhoo · 06/10/2023 08:57

napody · 05/10/2023 22:36

Eh?? Report it?!
Of course nurses are entitled to post political opinions on sm.

It's against NHS Social Media policy

SaffronSpice · 06/10/2023 08:55

Signalbox · 06/10/2023 08:51

Yes.

You mean if a woman said they would rather share a ward with another female with different political leanings than with a man when they where very vulnerable?

wigywhoo · 06/10/2023 08:54

FitAt50 · 05/10/2023 22:30

Nothing offensive about it at all. They are just expressing a preference..

So if it said "socialist" "vegan" or "black person" you'd say that?

What if she was describing you?

Signalbox · 06/10/2023 08:51

Desecratedcoconut · 06/10/2023 02:41

I wonder if the people who think that this is a reasonable political statement which is fair game for a nurse who wishes to publicly express these kind of preferences would be such freedom of speech champions if the words tory and transwoman were reversed in that sentence?

Yes.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 06/10/2023 08:48

Alexandra2001 · 06/10/2023 08:39

Of course it is, you are basically telling her to shut up & some folk called an idiot might well do just that, effectively shutting them down.... do call people idiots at work?

No, i doubt you do.

Like i said, you don't even know her.

God you're absolutely right. I'm so sorry. She has almost certainly sensed through the ether or been told by a carrier pigeon that, somewhere on the internet, somebody she has never met is calling her an idiot and it's very probably shutting her down. How clever of you to see that.

Also how clever of you to see that calling someone you don't know an idiot when they can't hear you and will never know is exactly like calling a colleague an idiot to their face. I'm really grateful for your insights.

Mary1234567 · 06/10/2023 08:47

If she lists her profession and employer on social media fine, you have a point, but it might just be her personal social media account and the OP happens to know she’s a nurse

rabbitwoman · 06/10/2023 08:40

Does she know the first openly trans MP is a Tory!??

Does she know that Rosie Duffield and jess Philips both spoke in favour of clarifying the Equality Act at the parliamentary debates? In favour of protecting same sex spaces for women?

Alexandra2001 · 06/10/2023 08:39

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 06/10/2023 08:21

No, calling her an idiot is not an attack on her freedom of speech. HTH.

Of course it is, you are basically telling her to shut up & some folk called an idiot might well do just that, effectively shutting them down.... do call people idiots at work?

No, i doubt you do.

Like i said, you don't even know her.

Grammarnut · 06/10/2023 08:37

FitAt50 · 05/10/2023 22:30

Nothing offensive about it at all. They are just expressing a preference..

It's a political message. Thus it is innappropriate if it is known she is a nurse working for the NHS. As a woman I would rather share a ward with a Tory than a transwoman - less chance of assault, and there won't be anyone lying and telling me there are only women on the ward.

AudreysBoots · 06/10/2023 08:33

Given that GC feminists freminists ridicule non-GC feminists for somehow lacking critical thinking, this thread is hilarious!!! 😂🙄

The sheer confusion over ‘sharing a ward with’ and ‘treating patients’.

And the debate over whether this nurse should be reported, and the desire expressed by some that she should be sacked for expressing an opinion that is…

The hypocrisy (and woolly thinking) is very entertaining this morning. Thank you!

lady69 · 06/10/2023 08:31

So based on this anything centre left to left = anti women . Okaaay! It’s a brave move cotton!

SaffronSpice · 06/10/2023 08:29

Someone up post asked if we would refuse treatment from a paediatrician on the basis that they transed their child. I would absolutely ask for a different clinician if I was presented with one who had so little understanding of evidenced based medicine that they gave their child puberty blockers. I would definitely walk out of the office of a CAMHS psychologist if they had or asked my child what their pronouns were. Just as I would if they suggested I treat them with chakra realignment, or asked what their spirit animal was.

Desecratedcoconut · 06/10/2023 08:29

Of course calling someone an idiot is included within any reasonable understanding of freedom of speech. Obviously more can be achieved when you concentrate on the content and not the speaker but that's not a restrictive bar, as the nurse's post demonstrates.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 06/10/2023 08:21

Alexandra2001 · 06/10/2023 08:18

Maybe re-read my post, in which I explain that I am very GC, yet support the idiot nurse’s right to free speech?

Do you? you don't think calling her an idiot is an attack on her freedom of speech?
You don't even know her or what she does or what she might go onto do... yet she is an idiot for voicing her opinion.

No, calling her an idiot is not an attack on her freedom of speech. HTH.