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ArenaDavina · 04/10/2023 14:21

I'm not very well versed in all this, <waves hands> not v brave and work in a large public sector employment context so generally keep my head down but did start reading here when the prison stuff became news.

DC came home from school and was talking with friends about a pshe lesson they'd had in which they'd had to learn about the "gender unicorn" and how it was all really contradictory and also based on stereotypes. I googled it and found a page run by TSER that had things on it like, "it's important we don't use the term sex because of the vagueness of the definition of sex and it's place in transphobia." Wtf?

The gender unicorn diagram is problematic in so many ways and seems completely bamboozling for kids.

I emailed school and asked to see the lesson plans and copy of what DC were shown and asked to do.

It's all been sent to me along with a message to say it's endorsed by Metro and PSHE Association and is compliant with Dept for Education guidance. Also included was a lesson plan about the Stonewall riots and his they were led by TW (I thought that was contested?) and a glossary that is all based on adherence to belief in gender and erases same sex attraction entirely.

The TSER page is full of campaign materials on how to fight single sex colleges in the US (it is mind blowing, truly).

I don't really know what to do now. School clearly feel this is entirely above board and presumably would defend against any complaints. It all makes me so uncomfortable.

DC is fine. Thinks it's all bonkers and has moved on quickly. I've fallen down a rabbit hole ..

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ArenaDavina · 04/10/2023 14:54

Ah interesting, thank you! I wonder why Metro's lesson plans are so clear in the wrong direction?

I've emailed back using SSA bits but feel I'm in a bit deep for my level of understanding.

I'll check out Sex Matters.

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Justme56 · 04/10/2023 14:53

https://www.conservativesforwomen.org/a-new-round-of-funding-for-diversity-role-models

This is quite a good explanation of the issues raised by the unicorn. The RSE guidelines state that RSE should not promote stereotypes and this does. It also suggests ‘intersex’ people don’t have a sex or are other. Imagine now you have a child in that class, possible a young girl with a DSD. An unknown adult comes into your class and starts telling everyone that people like your daughter aren’t really female. They are some sort of inbetweener - some sort of freak of nature. Personally I would be absolutely furious. So yes the gender unicorn can go in the bin where it belongs.

Diversity Role Models promotes gender ideology to school children

Conservatives for Women

https://www.conservativesforwomen.org/a-new-round-of-funding-for-diversity-role-models

Waitwhat23 · 04/10/2023 14:47

I'd suggest you contact Sex Matters.

And the idea that a tranwoman led the Stonewall riots isn't contested, it's just completely incorrect. Fred Sergeant (who was actually there and was one of the group who established Pride) has said many, many times that Storme De Laverie (a lesbian) was person who sparked protests by shouting 'why don't you guys do something?' to the crowd. Marsha P. Johnson (a gay man who was also a drag artist), who is the person who TRA's are referring to, wasn't trans (by his own admission) and wasn't even present at the Stonewall Inn until several hours later.

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