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Freda Wallace on now

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 25/09/2023 20:18

Isla Mac is hosting Freda on twitter live now (8pm)

Freda's been on for 5 mins and is already breaking the rules. Sarah Philamore is speaking sense. These two things might be linked.

Good luck, Freda. You might need it.

https://twitter.com/i/spaces/1RDGllEZMBmGL?s=20

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Wimpod · 27/09/2023 23:41

Thanks for deleting all my posts mods. 🙄

*he's still a man though.

BonfireLady · 27/09/2023 18:02

BonfireLady · 27/09/2023 17:59

So moving vulnerable people from hospital to care home/back to their own home.
How... reassuring.

To be fair to Freda, I should balance that out by saying that I'm not aware of any suggestion at all that Freda has done/said anything on a patient transport job. So if MNHQ needs to delete my previous message, fair enough.

BonfireLady · 27/09/2023 17:59

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 16:31

The answer to the job question.

Ambulance Care Assistant
For
Patient Transport Services

So moving vulnerable people from hospital to care home/back to their own home.
How... reassuring.

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 16:31

The answer to the job question.

Ambulance Care Assistant
For
Patient Transport Services

Freda Wallace on now
Freda Wallace on now
Helleofabore · 27/09/2023 16:18

DerekFaker · 27/09/2023 16:09

Why is Freda only saying the photos were staged now?

[Doubt]

Because Derek, Wallace thinks that means that Wallace didn't tag women into 'porn' shots. Just make believe 'porn'. No penis to be seen see.... 'just jokes.'

Yes. It is ridiculous.

Woman2023 · 27/09/2023 16:16

"Surely all porn is staged as that's what porn is... "

I think when it was brought up FW said something like there was nothing explicit in the photo. I believe it showed a person kneeling in front of another so you could see the back of the kneeling person's head obscuring the genital area of the standing person.

So FW had the opportunity to act like a 14 year old saying something like "there's nothing to see, it's your mind that is imagining explicit things, what are you thinking?" FW came across as someone who thinks that was a clever point.

DerekFaker · 27/09/2023 16:09

Why is Freda only saying the photos were staged now?

[Doubt]

BonfireLady · 27/09/2023 15:39

TWETMIRF · 27/09/2023 15:35

Just remember, when you set up your sex dungeon/loft/shed it is for the pleasure of penis, not you. Good women make penises happy whether it's their own or someone else's.

Centre the penis in all of it. Got it 👍

Annoyingly, my substandard womanly mind went straight to having one on the top of the tree and some ball-bles as decorations. I need to work on porning this up a bit. It's sounding almost wholesome ATM.

TWETMIRF · 27/09/2023 15:35

Just remember, when you set up your sex dungeon/loft/shed it is for the pleasure of penis, not you. Good women make penises happy whether it's their own or someone else's.

BonfireLady · 27/09/2023 15:25

Catching up again. I've missed a lot!

On the pronouns stuff, @Helleofabore yep but the thing I found interesting was that on several threads sex-based pronouns haven't been an issue. Like you say, I guess it depends on what gets reported in.

Surely all porn is staged as that's what porn is...

It's also been very enlightening to read about all the ways I can woman (I assume it can be a verb these days?) more effectively. I absolutely love Christmas, so having a festive sex-loft, even a private one while I sort out the licence to go public, sounds perfect for me 👏🎅🎄

AutumnCrow · 27/09/2023 15:23

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 11:26

I think I misunderstood 😕

I thought it would be my own private Christmas themed sex loft*. I didn't realise I had to rent it out! Won't that need licensing, risk assessments, h&s, probably a fixed set of stairs....I have to say I wasn't that keen on the idea in the first place. I'm totally going off it now.

*making teeny tiny blindfolds for all the elves 😎

I have been giving far too much thought to this, because it actually did cross my mind that a small steri-strip would serve as a suitable blindfold for the baby Jesus in my nativity crib. Mary, bless her, who's already up and dressed in her full regalia - what a trooper, really - might need a medium size steri-strip. And the sheep on the left looks sensitive.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/09/2023 15:19

I assume that is why I was deleted too. This is despite Freda saying openly in that podcast that they only say TWAW to be provocative and that when asked in RL if they think they are a woman, they reply ‘ I don’t know’. So even Freda is not asserting they are a woman, but we have to use pronouns as if they are because…..?

I've seen this with a lot of these male people. It's basically a power trip.

Villagetoraiseachild · 27/09/2023 15:17

Just done a quick google.... inconclusive......

Villagetoraiseachild · 27/09/2023 15:10

The new Freddo Frog has got jazz hands.....

Scuse my ignorance, but are adjusted pronouns considered compelled speech?
Is there any actual law on this or is it just about preferences and respecting sensitivities?
I would genuinely like to know. Thank you.

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 14:45

I was rather hoping F had claimed to be something that F isn't, in the job sense, not in the 'gender identity' sense, obviously, because we know F's been doing that for some time now. How delicious it would be if F claimed a protected title that F wasn't entitled to. Never mind.

There is online a photo of a person named Freda Wallace, apparently female, in uniform with 'Patient Transfer' on the epaulettes. It looks like this is the person under discussion here. I say 'looks like', but I suspect there's been a bit of photographic magic involved and it's how Freda sees Fredaself, rather than the unvarnished truth.

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 13:00

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 12:57

So Freda is PTS and not a paramedic after all.

I'm sure Freda had said in the past that they are a patient transport ambulance driver.

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 12:57

So Freda is PTS and not a paramedic after all.

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:45

Maybe Freddo identifies as a real frog…

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:44

Could well be…😂

Helleofabore · 27/09/2023 12:36

Is a Freddo Frog a real frog?

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:31

And if Freddo was chocolate, Freddo would eat themselves.

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:29

Freddo is a bawbag

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 12:24

PurpleBugz · 27/09/2023 11:47

From what Freda said they are not suspended. Kept saying Henrietta was out of order for going to Freda employer over it.

Sex pics aside I think Freda should have lost their hob for saying they would update medical records and it would lead to a delay in care in emergency situations. Absolutely disgusting. An obvious threat and no consequences for the disgusting individual

I think Freda has changed what they apparently meant from what they originally stated.

When it was first said I thought Freda was on about the NHS zero tolerance risk marker system.

I'm not saying the following is how the system should work, but it is how it's been proved to work in actual real life...

As a patient transport driver someone in Freda's job is covered under the NHS zero tolerance policy.

If any member of patient transport staff complains to their manger that a patient has given them reason to be afraid for the safety of themself or other staff members then a risk marker can be placed on a patients file. This marker is available to see by various members of NHS staff who may be involved in that patients care.

The patient may be given a warning first, but the risk department can decide the patient is such a threat that they go straight to the risk marker being placed on the patients file.

There are many many reasons for why the NHS may decide to place the marker, so it's not hard for a disgruntled staff member to fabricate a story that means the patient falls into one of the categories covered in the zero tolerance policy of things they will find you guilty of with absolutely no proof whatsoever.

And the first the patient knows about it is when the letter arrives to tell you that they have found you guilty of a crime and will be punishing you accordingly with a risk marker on your patient file.

This system relies on the fact that the staff member is basically believed 100% and can therefore say whatever they like - the system is open to abuse by staff members who use it in bad faith to persecute people they don't like.

The patient has virtually no chance of getting that marker removed. If they can prove they can "behave themselves" for a set period of time then the marker gets removed after about 6 months. (times vary). Having proof that the staff member is the aggressor also doesn't help the patient, as the risk department tends not to give a shiny shit.

So then the patient has to spend time and energy they don't have trying to find out what the hell is going on, and trying to fight a system that takes six weeks to deal with a complaint or a query whilst that patient knows that anyone who looks can see they have been deemed a risk to staff on no evidence whatsoever.

It is yet another of those things that men can use against women where the process is the punishment.

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 11:55

I've read that Freda is a paramedic: do we know this? At least they are registered with oversight of their practice and behaviour. Could it be that Freda works elsewhere in the NHS and Freda's threats are just bluster?