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Eternal reunion collapses after disagreements over playing Pride.

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ArabeIIaScott · 24/09/2023 17:00

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12554597/Louise-Redknapp-pulls-Eternal-reunion-bandmates-REFUSE-play-LGBTQ-festivals-Pride-claims-hijacked-trans-community.html

'Louise Redknapp pulls out of Eternal reunion after her bandmates REFUSE to play LGBTQ+ festivals and Pride over claims they are being 'hijacked' by the trans community'

Louise Redknapp 'pulls out of Eternal reunion LGBT row with bandmates'

Louise Redknapp has pulled out of an Eternal reunion after two members of the band refused to play LGBTQ+ festivals and Pride on the tour.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12554597/Louise-Redknapp-pulls-Eternal-reunion-bandmates-REFUSE-play-LGBTQ-festivals-Pride-claims-hijacked-trans-community.html

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Slothtoes · 27/09/2023 12:16

Back to the Bennett sisters, one half of Eternal having an absolutely reasonable political conscience and making a stand on it which is also entirely reasonable - Louise (and Kellie who seems mysteriously not being quoted to the press?) is coming off like a total shitehawk

Insinuating homophobia is not a good look especially at people who are genuinely trying to comment reasonably and respectfully on the appropriation of the gay and lesbian community by a group of people whose politics IS homophobic.

Genderism denies same sex attraction. I’m really happy the Bennett sisters are standing up for women’s and kids’ rights and hope they will keep carrying on Flowers

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 12:15

Fancy calling two women bigots for stating their views that sex should be prioritised over gender in law and policies! And for supporting views that have now been reviewed by the charity commission as valid and lawful so that they can hold charitable status in organisations such as the LGB Alliance!

I’m saying that I don’t believe them.

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 12:13

* The girls have played numerous LGBTQI venues their entire careers and have been inspired by the love and acceptance they have received'*

They didn’t play any or many as I recall.

Helleofabore · 27/09/2023 12:12

Well, it is perfectly clear that there are posters on this thread who believe that declining to perform at an event based on your support of the people of the lesbian, gay and bisexual sexual orientations who feel that their movement for achieving their own political aims have been overwhelmed by trans activists is bigotry. paranoidnamechanger is just one of them.

Let's face it. The complete lack of symmetry around their decision is also very clear. Fancy calling two women bigots for stating their views that sex should be prioritised over gender in law and policies! And for supporting views that have now been reviewed by the charity commission as valid and lawful so that they can hold charitable status in organisations such as the LGB Alliance!

Do those labelling these women bigots know the meaning of the word?

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 12:12

Slothtoes · 27/09/2023 12:08

Of course Pride isn’t for kids. It’s not meant to be. Any corporate pinkwashing that suggests it’s a nice family day out is completely missing the whole point of it. If men want to simulate sex at Pride have at it. No problem with that. Don’t go if it s not for you.

I do feel offended at the expected and of herb enforced denial of same sex attraction AT PRIDE )and everywhere else) though in order to suit a genderist agenda. That is actually obscene given the history of the struggle for gay rights

Despite the relentless rainbow-washing at school, I have actually had to explain to teenagers what Pride was originally about and why it was necessary. All they have been 'educated' about is a debauched party stuffed with drag queens that relentlessly bangs on about TQ 'identitities'.

There's been nothing about the history of political struggles for same sex attracted people at all. It must be absolutely galling for the people who originally started the movement.

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tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 27/09/2023 12:10

It's more a general question paranoid. That's my concern and I want to know why that makes me a bigot.

Slothtoes · 27/09/2023 12:09

was trying to write ‘expected and often enforced’

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 12:09

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 12:02

'Why base your opinion on what someone has actually said, when you could judge them based on second hand accounts and hearsay'

I'm anticipating some form of 'dogwhistle' accusation.

It's the only way these strawman arguments work.

By carefully ignoring this:

'The girls sent an email to Louise’s camp saying they loved playing Pride, and they loved the ethos of the event. For her camp to go on the record suggesting they are homophobic is utterly outrageous. This is nothing about gay rights. The girls have played numerous LGBTQI venues their entire careers and have been inspired by the love and acceptance they have received'

And insinuating/outright asserting that their refusal to play Pride is due to some vague 'bigotry'.

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Slothtoes · 27/09/2023 12:08

Of course Pride isn’t for kids. It’s not meant to be. Any corporate pinkwashing that suggests it’s a nice family day out is completely missing the whole point of it. If men want to simulate sex at Pride have at it. No problem with that. Don’t go if it s not for you.

I do feel offended at the expected and of herb enforced denial of same sex attraction AT PRIDE )and everywhere else) though in order to suit a genderist agenda. That is actually obscene given the history of the struggle for gay rights

MargotBamborough · 27/09/2023 12:03

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 11:41

Louise’s manager says this:

The fact remains that the duo said they would only do the Eternal reunion if no Pride or LGBTQ+ festivals were included.

Which I’m inclined to believe. I don’t know why Louise is being vilified on here, it’s the Bennett sisters who’re being bigoted. I wonder if Saint Vernie will publish the email? I won’t be holding my breath.

What part of "she is being vilified for making statements about two women without their consent, disregarding their right to privacy and putting their personal safety in jeopardy by sharing her interpretation of their views with a group of unhinged, violent misogynists" do you not understand?

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 12:02

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 11:57

Come on, are you really that naive? Why do you think Vernie sent that nauseatingly ‘nice’ post in Insta when she could have posted the email instead?

'Why base your opinion on what someone has actually said, when you could judge them based on second hand accounts and hearsay'

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ArcaneWireless · 27/09/2023 12:01

Quite @MargotBamborough

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 12:01

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 11:49

On what I referred to above.

You think it's bigoted to have concerns about women and children's rights?

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MargotBamborough · 27/09/2023 12:00

Maddy70 · 27/09/2023 11:56

Everyone had their own views. No-one is wrong here.

If people had stuck to sharing their own views rather than dropping two people who had chosen to remain silent in it with a group of rabid misogynists then there would be no issue.

ArcaneWireless · 27/09/2023 12:00

Everyone is entitled to their views.

But if you are going to put someone else’s words out there for all to see, you should do them the courtesy of quoting what they actually said - not just a frothy sound bite.

Jimkana · 27/09/2023 12:00

allaroundthelamplight · 24/09/2023 19:47

I think the Bennett sisters are throwing the baby out with the bath water, here.

Pride is still the biggest collective celebration/movement for LGB people and in refusing to attend they are cutting out all of those people. Not to mention actively refusing to perform for anyone who is trans (surely the definition of being transphobic).

I hate the TRA movement, but I take my teen (lesbian) daughter to Pride because she doesn't have that kind of representation anywhere else.

She lives in a family full of straight people, experiencing homophobic comments at school and at one or two Pride festivals a year she gets to be amongst people like her.

Please don't @ me to explain the problems with transactivism - I understand and share them. But I often wondered if any of the people who post in this section of the site have ever attended a Pride event, there is a lot of good in the movement, it really isn't as polarised as people on here like to make out.

I have been to a Pride parade (London) - once - and made a note to NEVER take a child to any of them in the future. The one I attended had men simulating sex on top of a bus. And this wasn't an isolated case. I had expected to see thi gs that would have highlighted LGBTQ+ rights and struggles, which many people are on board with, but that kind of thing, no wonder support is waning.

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 11:57

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 27/09/2023 11:50

Why are you a bigot if you have concerns about Pride being hijacked by a movement which is actively harming women and kids?

I'd love an actual, specific answer to this.

Come on, are you really that naive? Why do you think Vernie sent that nauseatingly ‘nice’ post in Insta when she could have posted the email instead?

Maddy70 · 27/09/2023 11:56

Everyone had their own views. No-one is wrong here.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 27/09/2023 11:50

Why are you a bigot if you have concerns about Pride being hijacked by a movement which is actively harming women and kids?

I'd love an actual, specific answer to this.

ArcaneWireless · 27/09/2023 11:49

The fact remains that the duo said they would only do the Eternal reunion if no Pride or LGBTQ+ festivals were included.

That may well be the case. The actual reason has been conveniently left out though.

Funny that.

paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 11:49

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 11:43

it’s the Bennett sisters who’re being bigoted

You're basing this assertion on what?

On what I referred to above.

ArabeIIaScott · 27/09/2023 11:43

it’s the Bennett sisters who’re being bigoted

You're basing this assertion on what?

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paranoidnamechanger · 27/09/2023 11:41

Louise’s manager says this:

The fact remains that the duo said they would only do the Eternal reunion if no Pride or LGBTQ+ festivals were included.

Which I’m inclined to believe. I don’t know why Louise is being vilified on here, it’s the Bennett sisters who’re being bigoted. I wonder if Saint Vernie will publish the email? I won’t be holding my breath.

ArcaneWireless · 27/09/2023 11:00

Well that made it crystal clear.

How odd that Louise left the pertinent details of the concerns out of her statement.

Nothing self serving and inflammatory about the Bennett/Ingoldsby statements. Louise’s statement however…?

Louise should be thoroughly ashamed of herself.

ResisterRex · 27/09/2023 10:23

This is about the debate about the trans lobby and the erosion of the rights of women and children. Vernie said she had some concerns about the Pride movement being hijacked - and she is not alone - but this has now been weaponized against her, with Louise’s team trying to get her cancelled. The fact that the public statements by Louise’s team conveniently failed to acknowledge these concerns...once again shows how women are being excluded from the conversation.

Very clear.