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DoItAgainPlz · 18/09/2023 11:02

For my sins, I've had an account on the Digital Spy forums for years - until this morning.

Last night I responded to a post about "evil gender criticals" and the "transphobic BBC" with the following:

People aren't attacking trans people. But single sex spaces are important to protect the dignity, privacy and safety of millions of women and girls.

Do you think a 12 year old girl should have the right to undress in a space free from males? Do you think medical information should be written clearly in a way that women who don't speak English as a first language can understand? Do you think sports should be segregated by sex? Do you think its right that children (who are likely gay) are led down a pathway of drugs and surgery with irreversible consequences which will follow them into adulthood?

These are important questions, and it's completely necessary to have these discussions.

I made every attempt to be respectful and civil. I don't think I said anything particularly egregious and I certainly bit my tongue.

This morning I woke up to an email telling me "You've been warned" and that I was permanently deleted for "hateful rhetoric". I believe my device has been banned from even accessing the site now, too. I had never received any sort of warning before this.

If they're going to ban me anyway, don't "warn me" in a threatening message. Just ban me. Or if you're going to "warn" me, give me a warning. Not a ban.

My post accrued quite a few likes when I last checked, and at least two messages quoted me expressing their support. They're gone now too.

Using my laptop I've seen the thread is nothing but a trans love in - not a single message dissenting the narrative. I thought it strange when I first commented, but now I know why. Disagree and we'll silence you.

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Certainlyreally · 18/09/2023 11:21

Digital Spy is worse than Reddit in my view

I stopped going some years ago

CyclingSam · 18/09/2023 11:21

As a (cycling) forum addict with multiple bans under my belt I've been running into this for some time now. As you say, it doesn't matter how civil you are.

Your username made me think of this

(My preview has the video as showing twice; perplexing, but appropriate.)
popebishop · 18/09/2023 11:16

That's awful. There are few things worse than someone telling you that you feel something (hate) that you simply do not.

Just shows, they have nothing. They don't have a single sane response which is why they just have to shut you up.

Funny place, the internet - often attempts to shut people up backfire. Maybe someone will be curious as to why the posts disappeared and end up here?

CorruptedCauldron · 18/09/2023 11:13

You’ve not said anything offensive OP. It is ridiculous to ban you. Sadly, there’s no reasonable discussion to be had with people who use dehumanising terms like “evil gender criticals”.

And how is the BBC transphobic?! Did they not notice the cancelling of the perfectly reasonable Roisin Murphy to appease the ducking-stool wielders?

Sounds like they just want to exist in an echo chamber, no debate allowed.

Redshoeblueshoe · 18/09/2023 11:10

I used to go on digital spy years ago. They have been like that for a very long time.