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Work HR: Preferred Pronouns are mandatory

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MoreThanAFeline · 14/09/2023 20:22

Name changed for this. I wanted to update my address on the HR system at work. The instructions on how to do this say that something simple like updating an address can be done easily and that each section can be independently accessed.

When I try to click to the address part of the form, I get the attached error message.
Preferred Pronouns are apparently mandatory. My 'gender identity' is mandatory. My 'trans status' is mandatory. Sex is not asked for anywhere.

My workplace is supposed to be run by grown ups. How depressing.

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Oblomov23 · 24/09/2023 21:09

How are you getting on?

I hate all this. Fortunately my work hasn't insisted. If it did I'd probably write:

"I don't have a gender identity. My biological sex is female".

I like @GreenMonty response:

"I didn't believe in gender identity and only see myself in terms of biological sex."

HughCanoe · 24/09/2023 20:27

Any news on this OP?

GreenMonty · 17/09/2023 13:49

MoreThanAFeline · 17/09/2023 13:12

Well what a depressing rabbit hole this has turned out to be.

So, yes, the Higher Education Statistics Agency does indeed demand a huge amount of data on 'characteristics' - most of which are not EA2010 Protected Characteristics, and some, such as 'Gender Identity' are obviously controversial at best, yet this government agency takes the existence of gender identity as an absolutely given fact.

Here is the list of what Higher Education Institutions (so Universities, basically) must send them every year.
https://www.hesa.ac.uk/collection/c22025/index
If an institution does not do this, they can be prevented from taking on students etc. So this nonsense is coming from government agencies (albeit eagerly followed by HR departments)

Interesting that 'Gender Identity', 'Transgender status', 'Sexual identification' are all listed (but NB the ridiculous framing: sexual identification says 'This field records the sex of the member of staff', so why 'identification'? That's right: because you have to put 'identification' in all these things otherwise gender ideology collapses under its own ridiculousness).

But look: the best practice recommendation is that the 'Transgender' question is asked every year.
But the trans question should be asked alongside the 'sex' question. So this rather raises the question of why my employer does not ask about 'sex' at all.

Preferred pronouns are, of course, nowhere to be found on this list. What on earth could they tell anyone? How can you tell the female "she/her"s from the male "she/her"s?

So yes, I will try to take this further. Showed some of this to a colleague who has not previously paid any of this any real attention, and he was perplexed with lots of pulling faces and head scratching before saying that something seems wrong here and he was going to start finding out about it too.

Not surprisingly they don't require you to state how many motorhomes you own and whether it's parked at your MIL's, @Morethanafeline 😉

GreenMonty · 17/09/2023 13:38

It seems to be everywhere. I recently refused permission for DC to take part in a school survey sent out by the council (Scotland) because it only referenced gender identity. I wrote to the school and told them why.

The only time I'm asked about biological sex is when doing an econsult at my GP.

GreenMonty · 17/09/2023 13:26

Ah so sex could have been included and should have been alongside the trans question.

I'm going to raise this with a trusted colleague in my workplace.

LizaBizza · 17/09/2023 13:26

Make sure not to register for a website.

I have one with GoDaddy and one of the emails I got from tech help has their pronouns in it.

MoreThanAFeline · 17/09/2023 13:12

Well what a depressing rabbit hole this has turned out to be.

So, yes, the Higher Education Statistics Agency does indeed demand a huge amount of data on 'characteristics' - most of which are not EA2010 Protected Characteristics, and some, such as 'Gender Identity' are obviously controversial at best, yet this government agency takes the existence of gender identity as an absolutely given fact.

Here is the list of what Higher Education Institutions (so Universities, basically) must send them every year.
https://www.hesa.ac.uk/collection/c22025/index
If an institution does not do this, they can be prevented from taking on students etc. So this nonsense is coming from government agencies (albeit eagerly followed by HR departments)

Interesting that 'Gender Identity', 'Transgender status', 'Sexual identification' are all listed (but NB the ridiculous framing: sexual identification says 'This field records the sex of the member of staff', so why 'identification'? That's right: because you have to put 'identification' in all these things otherwise gender ideology collapses under its own ridiculousness).

But look: the best practice recommendation is that the 'Transgender' question is asked every year.
But the trans question should be asked alongside the 'sex' question. So this rather raises the question of why my employer does not ask about 'sex' at all.

Preferred pronouns are, of course, nowhere to be found on this list. What on earth could they tell anyone? How can you tell the female "she/her"s from the male "she/her"s?

So yes, I will try to take this further. Showed some of this to a colleague who has not previously paid any of this any real attention, and he was perplexed with lots of pulling faces and head scratching before saying that something seems wrong here and he was going to start finding out about it too.

HESA Collections | HESA

HESA is the central source for the collection and dissemination of statistics about publicly funded UK higher education

https://www.hesa.ac.uk/collection/c22025/index

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SaffronSpice · 17/09/2023 12:14

MoreThanAFeline · 15/09/2023 21:46

I think there’s a difference between “prefer not to say” and “I do not believe in the premise of this question”

Which Christian denomination are you?

Catholic
Methodist
Baptist
Church of England
Other
Prefer not to say

If you are a Muslim the option ‘prefer not to say’ actually means you prefer not to say which Christian denomination you are. Even ‘other’ indicates you are declaring you have an ‘other’ Christian denomination.

SaffronSpice · 17/09/2023 12:06

MoreThanAFeline · 15/09/2023 07:12

Well exactly. But up here in Scotland, that wording for the “ethnicity” (!) question has been utterly standard for the last 15 years since the SNP took over.

That was also the wording in “Scotland’s Census”. You know, the one that was delayed by a year just because we have to be special and different from the rest of the UK and was so badly run as to have generated mostly unusable data at huge additional cost.

You’re not allowed to be Scottish and British you see. Well meaning people down south used to see the SNP as a nice, progressive party (pre Isla Bryson and camper vans perhaps).

But nationalists gonna nationalist 🤷‍♀️

I always tick “other” and write British

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 17/09/2023 11:50

The questions about data collection and processing still apply, whether the questions come from HESA or the individual university.

Kerning · 17/09/2023 10:13

Oh, and preferred pronouns is not (yet!) part of the HESA data collection.

Kerning · 17/09/2023 10:11

All UK HE institutions are required to submit a staff data return to HESA each year. This is an individual record for each staff member. The HESA staff data specification includes some special category data such as gender identity, sexuality etc.

There are two separate questions relating to gender identity - one on 'trans' for Scotland which is optional to return, and one on 'gender identity' which is compulsory to return for institutions in England and Wales, optional for Northern Ireland.

The options for gender identity are:

Q: Is the gender you identify with the same as your sex registered at birth?

Yes
No
Prefer not to say
Not available

Definitions:

Prefer not to say – staff member doesn’t want to declare the information.
Not available – the provider is not able to get this data in order to send it to HESA.

Scotland has a separate question about trans:

Q: Do you consider yourself to be trans, or have a trans history?

Yes
No
Prefer not to say
Not available

I'd ask why Prefer not to say isn't presented as an option in your system at the very least.

lapsedbookworm · 17/09/2023 09:04

AvacadoFieldsForever · 14/09/2023 21:55

I agree with going to the DPO and legal or risk team. You should be able to opt out of this at the very least. It’s MUST be freely given and only collected for legitimate purposes or they’re in breach. Ie your address is legitimate and relevant to your payslip but you are not obliged to disclose your sexuality, religion etc.

HR and diversity tend to get a bit overexcited about this stuff but the risk team should be rattled into fixing this and quickly.

Agreed. I'd be asking to see the DPIA.

You would think organisations would be very wary of collecting this data. I can't see why they need it, and it is highly sensitive data so if there was a data breach it would be a serious one

Magenta82 · 17/09/2023 09:01

This is a really bad policy that unfairly impacts women who are often undermined when it is obvious they are women during interactions. This us shown again and again when the same email is sent from a male named account and a female named one.

I would want to push back, but I think you need to be careful. Goid luck @belgiumchocolates

belgiumchocolates · 17/09/2023 08:50

My employer is also now making pronouns on email signatures compulsory. Previously 'encouraged to show support for LGBTQA+ colleagues' but not mandatory.

I'm thinking of asking to join the inclusion champions next meeting as a guest to tell them I don't agree with it and why. But I'm not sure how it would go😬

Kucinghitam · 17/09/2023 05:44

Catabogus · 16/09/2023 21:04

Your employer is a university and they can’t spell Buddhist?? Shock

It's the wrong, unimportant, kind of diversity Wink

Catabogus · 16/09/2023 21:04

Your employer is a university and they can’t spell Buddhist?? Shock

Woman2023 · 16/09/2023 12:06

They do have "prefer not to say" as an option though so I wouldn't mind too much about daft questions if i don't have to answer them. It does bother me if sex is mixed in with gender identity such that they aren't accurately recording sex and if you choose prefer not to say to that question important sex stats are wrong.

AnSolas · 16/09/2023 11:19

VeloVixen · 16/09/2023 10:14

What reporting purposes? Pronouns aren’t a protected characteristic?

and they’re not asking about race or sex from the look of it which are protected characteristics!

Its technical points which HR has totally missed

The employer could collect data on if an employee ever seen a chicken cross a road.
Attaching that to a HR file and insisting that all employees supply the data is one problem.

The employer will say the data is for a third party but is not recognise that collecting and handing over data is a choice that carries obligations and that the responsibilty for having a lawfull reason remains with the employer. So the employer should make a IO complaint on its own behalf and ask for a decision on the lawfullness of the "ask" as well as its obligation to supply what is being asked.

VeloVixen · 16/09/2023 10:14

What reporting purposes? Pronouns aren’t a protected characteristic?

and they’re not asking about race or sex from the look of it which are protected characteristics!

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 16/09/2023 10:03

they do need it for reporting purposes

Collect, yes. Attach to your personal HR record, no.

KnickerlessParsons · 16/09/2023 10:02

Work don't actually need the
Info to know whether you can do your job. But they do need it for reporting purposes, so that they know if eg they have a gender pay gap (though this this should be a sex pay gap), whether they have a good balance of ethnicicity across the organisation, whether working mothers are being penalised etc etc.

The trouble is, as this thread clearly demonstrates, the data isn't accurate and woolly questions mean they can be answered subjectively rather than factually.

A business could claim to have an all female exco board, but if 50% of the board are transwomen, is that really an all female board? Depends on what data is gathered.

Some people might claim to be mixed race with just one g g grandparent of a non white race, others wouldn't. My DCs are technically mixed race, but both the races in their heritage are white, so depends on your interpretation of mixed race, etc.

VeloVixen · 16/09/2023 06:40

Put Eskimo for ethnic origin.

seriously this is so awful, it’s untrue. I work in HE and have to fill out a paper form annually which I take great delight in scrawling all over about how gender is a social construct which I don’t subscribe to and that SEX is what’s covered by the equality act so maybe they need to ask about that as well.

I’ve also complained to HR that their training video on trans matters was legally incorrect. If a female employee complains to her manager about a trans female identifying colleague using the female bathroom the correct answer is not “the female employee needs to be spoken to about being kind”. The answer needs to be that female sex toilets are a legal obligation (that wasn’t an option).

aweegc · 16/09/2023 06:09

• Your personal details: your title, name, gender, marital status and date of birth
• Equalities information: your ethnic origin, religious belief, sexual orientation and any disabilities, impairment or long-term physical or mental health condition

All the info in bold made me shiver.

If the physical or mental health condition is not registered as a disability and/or would not impact my work, why should it be disclosed to work?

Why TF does my work need to know who I feel sexual attraction to?

Same about marital status? Why does work need to actually know whether I'm married, single, etc? I know it's a standard question but why in earth is it relevant?

And the religious belief...well for any people who were born muslim but renounced it, this could actually be a DANGEROUS question for some.

I could pick at more but it just gave me shivers to have all that info collected.

I used to live in a real life dictatorship and even if didn't require all that info to be given to employers!

slore · 16/09/2023 03:35

All of this information they are asking for is wildly intrusive and potentially opens you up to discrimination, however you answer.

Could you complain to HR about this?

Martial status and caring responsibilities opens women in particular up to discrimination as mothers and caregivers, and to misogynist judgements.

Gender ID, trans status and pronouns risks outing trans people, and people with various political or religious beliefs.

None of this is appropriate, it is none of your work place's business.