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TheGreatATuin · 13/08/2023 08:42

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:19

How do you know they have penises ? Can you tell if someone has a penis or not?
its a lot easier to tell if someone’s a bigot than it is if someone has a penis.

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As per the article, it was the latex covered erection that gave the game away.
Difficult to sport one of those without a penis.
Also, OwningAllMyMistakes if you do intend to live up to your username, you're long past the point that you'd need to admit to being massively homophobic.
Stop trying to shame lesbians and gay men for being gay. It's creepy, rapey and homophobic.

Grammarnut · 13/08/2023 08:42

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:31

Keep feeling yourself that and you’ll think your ok but I’m not sure you are ?but I’ll be my left leg a gay man wouldn’t be put off by a transman.
cya

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That would make said gay man bisexual.

TiredOfCleaning · 13/08/2023 08:41

I identify as tired of cleaning.

But a man with an erection isn't a lesbian.

Grimchmas · 13/08/2023 08:40

I meant Women* only! Although perhaps in reality it was "woken" women only.

Grimchmas · 13/08/2023 08:38

Some gay men are happy to just top with anyone with a bum.

Depressingly, I saw a woman hounded out of a lesbian meet recently because she ASKED if it would be woken only or if TW would be allowed. She got called all the names and kicked out of the group by a group of lesbians, so there are a number of lesbian only groups who have adopted the idea that womanhood is a feeling. This group welcomed people who ID as non-binary too, so I'm a bit confused about it.

AlisonDonut · 13/08/2023 08:38

Summerslimtime · 13/08/2023 04:26

How does transphobia trump homophobia every time? And I didn't realise that had happened in Australia. Terrifying.

Sal Grover is being taken to court by a man because her app which uses facial recognition to allow women to have an app solely for women, wouldn't let him on. She is in the middle of trying to crowd fund half a million, which is what it will take, to defend her app.

His name, of course, is Roxy Tickle. Photo attached. Can you guess which one is him and which one is Sal, the woman who started the app?

In Australia. Where men can be literal women if they say words.

Lesbian speed dating event accused of transphobia for not allowing men
Grammarnut · 13/08/2023 08:37

DiabolicalFinial · 13/08/2023 02:49

In Tasmania, Australia, lesbians are not legally allowed to hold any public events or have groups for women that do not include TW. A case went to the Anti-discrimination commission, and found that TW are W and must not be excluded.

Tasmania and Australia are totally taken. Or do the people making these rules include the one-third who apparently don't realise that a transwoman is a man, and think its a woman wanting to be male?

GrabbyGabby · 13/08/2023 08:36

Oh, and most of the gay men I know are gold star. Aint NO WAY they are going anywhere near a vagina. Coming out of one of them was enough.

GrabbyGabby · 13/08/2023 08:35

About 6/7 years ago, i was out on the razz with a couple of lezzer mates. (this was a bit before i got to the let me break it down for you thread, i was young and naive).

We were talking about our various experiences of on line dating. They chuckled and said it was over for them, over run with lady dick, and saying you didnt want lady dick would get you banned. I didn't believe them, they made me a profile and by 1am of the 20ish responses one third were clearly male and some of the rest could have been.

I was enraged on their behalf, they were much more sanguine. It was an important moment on my road to terfdom.

Ellie1015 · 13/08/2023 08:34

@OwningAllMyMistakes

Even if you do know some gay men who would be fine with a transman, can you not see that some may not be ok with that? And that lesbians are not transphobic if they do not want to have sex including any penis?

Boiledbeetle · 13/08/2023 08:32

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:20

I would add that from little knowledge and experience I have of transmen gay men wouldn’t be put off by a trans man with a vagina.

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?

You need to gain more knowledge then. Obviously that little bit you have is not enough.

HaveYouHeardOfARoadAtlas · 13/08/2023 08:31

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:19

How do you know they have penises ? Can you tell if someone has a penis or not?
its a lot easier to tell if someone’s a bigot than it is if someone has a penis.

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Are you saying someone with a penis shouldn’t declare it before getting into bed with a lesbian? Because that counts as rape/sex by deception and people have gone to prison for that. There was a case of a female pretending to be a man who got 5 years I think.

Hoppinggreen · 13/08/2023 08:30

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:20

I would add that from little knowledge and experience I have of transmen gay men wouldn’t be put off by a trans man with a vagina.

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Well they wouldn’t be gay then would they?

PuttingDownRoots · 13/08/2023 08:28

You can't help who you are attracted to sexually.
Trying to force someone to have a relationship with someone is abuse.
Saying you aren't attracted to someone isn't "phobia".

turbonerd · 13/08/2023 08:27

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:19

How do you know they have penises ? Can you tell if someone has a penis or not?
its a lot easier to tell if someone’s a bigot than it is if someone has a penis.

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Really?
Is it?

Operation Let Them Speak and all, but this is cringe.

ArabeIIaScott · 13/08/2023 08:25

It's almost funny how we get told that nobody is pressurising women to accept penises. Yet any group that sets up for women only seems virtually guaranteed to get abuse

If I was a journalist I'd do some experiments and investigations.

Dontcallmescarface · 13/08/2023 08:23

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:20

I would add that from little knowledge and experience I have of transmen gay men wouldn’t be put off by a trans man with a vagina.

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You may have "little knowledge and experience" of transmen, but you have zero of gay men if you think they won't be put off by a vagina. All the gay men I know would run a mile in the other direction rather than shag a transman.

CrazyArmadilloLady · 13/08/2023 08:20

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 08:13

Yes of course I have have you ?

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Yes. Which is how I know the blindlingly obvious, which is that gay men are not sexually interested in women. Which is what transmen are.

You don’t seem to know that, hence me asking you that question.

ArabeIIaScott · 13/08/2023 08:13

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:31

Keep feeling yourself that and you’ll think your ok but I’m not sure you are ?but I’ll be my left leg a gay man wouldn’t be put off by a transman.
cya

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Okay

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 08:13

CrazyArmadilloLady · 13/08/2023 08:10

Transmen are women.

Have you ever met a gay man……………………………………………? 🧐

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Yes of course I have have you ?

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 08:12

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 13/08/2023 07:39

They can always just identify their leg back though, apparently we do things like that now.
Today I'm going to be 23, NOT a rather haggard 45.

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Enjoy your birthday 🎂 have a great day

CrazyArmadilloLady · 13/08/2023 08:10

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:31

Keep feeling yourself that and you’ll think your ok but I’m not sure you are ?but I’ll be my left leg a gay man wouldn’t be put off by a transman.
cya

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Transmen are women.

Have you ever met a gay man……………………………………………? 🧐

Sprogonthetyne · 13/08/2023 08:05

OwningAllMyMistakes · 13/08/2023 07:19

How do you know they have penises ? Can you tell if someone has a penis or not?
its a lot easier to tell if someone’s a bigot than it is if someone has a penis.

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From the article title posted upthread, I'd say what gave away the penis is that they were wearing latex and had a visible erection.

YouJustDoYou · 13/08/2023 07:44

fortheloveofflowers · 13/08/2023 07:43

Well I know a huge amount of gay men. Not one of them finds a fanny appealing at all. Not one!

Well they sure wouldn't be gay if they were! It's mindboggling these people are so homophobic (stupid?) they cannot accept same-sex attraction.

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