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University gym "womxn only sessions"

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adulthumanfemalemum · 31/07/2023 20:52

Went into local uni sports centre today. Posters everywhere advertising their special gym sessions only for "womxn and non-binary." Lots of blah about how important it is for "womxn" to feel comfortable using the gym. At the bottom in small print an explanation that "womxn is an inclusive term which includes people previously excluded from white feminist discourse, such as women of colour and trans women." FFS. So it's okay to use the word woman to describe trans women but not to describe actual women. And these special sessions are in fact open to anyone who says they are non-binary or a woman. So not remotely a safe single sex space. I'm so cross. I was there with 15 year old DD who is super woke with lots of trans and non binary friends. I really wanted to talk to her about it but didn't want to spoil a rare activity together by arguing.

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Thehonestybox · 01/08/2023 18:15

I thought the main point of women only gym or swim sessions was that muslim women can participate without worrying about covering up?

I'm not sure how hijabi muslim women feel about not covering up around trans women or non-binary? But it seems like the aim of these sessions is just "men are excluded just...because"

FrancescaContini · 01/08/2023 18:04

Not the point but how do you even pronounce that meaningless word?

Joey2323 · 01/08/2023 18:02

Comparing black women to transwomen is vile and racist. Of course black women are included in the term woman 🙄🙄

ArcaneWireless · 01/08/2023 17:52

Womxn.

A term used by twxts.

And as for their attempt at keeping women of colour in their womxnly place?

Get tae fuck.

DarkDayforMN · 01/08/2023 17:41

Tinysoxx · 01/08/2023 10:44

Choice
A. Mixed sessions with men
B. Mixed sessions with men who believe they are women. Men who know they men are excluded.

A. For me anyday. I would feel very uncomfortable with B as the advert is positively promoting and attracting transwomen over women and the black women comment is appalling. I don’t want to be in any group that thought this was good.

At least with Option A the men will mostly be using the men’s changing rooms!

Option B is almost guaranteed to be creepy and uncomfortable. I really wonder how long the initiative will last for - usually when the women stop going, the men do too.

Cismyfatarse · 01/08/2023 17:38

Surely it should be womXYn!

duc748 · 01/08/2023 17:25

The cynicism and dishonesty of these fuckers knows no limit, does it? With an added side-helping of racism too.

Whatwouldscullydo · 01/08/2023 17:08

TheHappyCarrot · 01/08/2023 15:50

Still not sure what non binary is.

Well there seem to be 2 types of non binary. One involves an.orange tutu and demanding and being given permission to enter womens spaces because using the mens is triggering because" they arent a man but using the womens isn't equally triggering 🤔

And one involves removal of breasts or binders...

I'll leave you to work out what the difference is.

TheHappyCarrot · 01/08/2023 15:50

Still not sure what non binary is.

dahliadazed · 01/08/2023 15:40

Womxn is an intersectional term intended to signal the inclusion of those who have traditionally been excluded from white feminist discourse: Black women, women of colour, and trans women.*

The session is for womxn as defined above, are white women allowed ?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/08/2023 15:32

I thought the word womxm had been dropped. I’m sure I read that it upset TW’s because TW are women and as such shouldn’t be described as anything but women and not some made up word.

You are correct. The Twitch gaming platform used it a while back and rapidly found out that it apparently is a "terf invention"

https://twitter.com/twitch/status/1366543370257002496?s=46&t=SPorwN-mokktL467rcZ57g

HopityHope · 01/08/2023 12:18

ZeldaFighter · 31/07/2023 22:06

The racist suggestion that women of colour are not women is shocking. I would struggle not to write a complaint about the implicit racism of that description.

This! How are they possibly saying that anyone other than a white woman was not defined as female before? Just beyond bonkers.

Maireas · 01/08/2023 12:16

So often have I heard the Suffragettes bashed for being middle class. Of course the leadership was! It was the beginning of the 20th C, working class women had no rights and no voice, quite possibly no wherewithal or energy what with their general situation of being society's skivvies. That any of them participated at all is amazing.

Maireas · 01/08/2023 12:13

How interesting. Claiming that feminism is just about white middle class women and everyone else was excluded.
Good ploy to deride the struggles of women, and make sure that we mind how we behave.

adulthumanfemalemum · 01/08/2023 12:10

JasonOsCubanHeels · 01/08/2023 07:56

Canterbury is Rosie Duffield’s constituency

That's a very good point. I have just emailed Rosie about this.

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Tinysoxx · 01/08/2023 10:44

Choice
A. Mixed sessions with men
B. Mixed sessions with men who believe they are women. Men who know they men are excluded.

A. For me anyday. I would feel very uncomfortable with B as the advert is positively promoting and attracting transwomen over women and the black women comment is appalling. I don’t want to be in any group that thought this was good.

ZeldaFighter · 01/08/2023 10:37

Boiledbeetle · 01/08/2023 07:46

I don't even know what to say. I'm appalled and gobsmacked that any organisation thinks this is appropriate. No woman should be made to feel like a second class version of their own sex just because some men would like to pretend they are women.

I'm so sick of this shit and I don't have to contend with the added racism, I can only imagine how fucking wearing this must all feel when this crap is added in as an extra layer of fuck you.
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Yes 😞 I've heard the arguments that traditional feminism has been modelled on the lives of certain women - the suffragettes were mainly middle or upper class, iirc. However, I have never heard any feminist or woman say that women of colour are not women! That's disgraceful.

I also feel for our sisters of colour who face this shit everyday. I try to do what I can.

Whatwouldscullydo · 01/08/2023 09:35

Once again the racism shines through. Usualy theres something about butch lesbians too.

The sooner they get it through their thick skills that no ones afraid of butch black lesbians that have had a hysterectomy amd mastectomy or whatever other crap they throw in attempt to pretend we don't think most women are women either, the better. Its just men that are excluded.and if men want a single sex gym session.go ask for one. Stop.infiltrating ours. Why would black women not be included by the word woman? Why would that need a disclaimer of this sort?

No black women do not confuse the definition of woman so much the next logical.step is men can have it too. Sexism Racism and homophobia seems to get a free pass in trans ideology. Its disgusting. Woman means adult human female. Its not a catch all word that covers everyone who doesn't " man" the right way.

Backstreets · 01/08/2023 09:14

I don’t pretend to know the intimate history of feminism and race issues but othering woc on par with biological men in 2023 is shockingly racist to me. Also a very clumsy bit of cloaking, attempting to equate race discrimination with “transphobia” (protecting single sex spaces).

JasonOsCubanHeels · 01/08/2023 07:56

Canterbury is Rosie Duffield’s constituency

Isthisreasonable · 01/08/2023 07:51

ghislaine · 31/07/2023 21:24

I would have thought that many women of colour will now self-exclude from the gym as they don’t want to be or are prohibited by their religion from exercising or wearing exercise clothing in the presence of males. How very inclusive. Basically a session for white men then.

This. Probably accusing the uni of racism would be more effective than any other complaint.

Boiledbeetle · 01/08/2023 07:46

tt9 · 31/07/2023 21:55

I agree with wholeheartedly. as a woman of colour, it makes me feel that I am somehow a 2nd class woman? just a new form of misogyny and underhand racism

I don't even know what to say. I'm appalled and gobsmacked that any organisation thinks this is appropriate. No woman should be made to feel like a second class version of their own sex just because some men would like to pretend they are women.

I'm so sick of this shit and I don't have to contend with the added racism, I can only imagine how fucking wearing this must all feel when this crap is added in as an extra layer of fuck you.
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Member589500 · 31/07/2023 22:15

I am sure that in the entire annals of ‘white feminism’ I could not find a single inference that women of colour have ever been excluded from the term ‘women’.
Falling over themselves to address imaginary wrongs and bathing in righteousness.

AgathaAllAlong · 31/07/2023 22:08

Wow how breathtakingly racist. Who are these cunts excluding women of colour from the term "woman"? Most women are not white, absurd to suggest that the word woman only applies to white women, to such an extent that we need a new word. And of course, that word also includes men.

ZeldaFighter · 31/07/2023 22:06

The racist suggestion that women of colour are not women is shocking. I would struggle not to write a complaint about the implicit racism of that description.

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